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Have you noticed people on boards who insist on having the last word? (Original Post) NYC_SKP Feb 2012 OP
............................. Angry Dragon Feb 2012 #1
Yes... and they keep repeating the same tired line--like a chid who keeps asking WHY? hlthe2b Feb 2012 #2
BECAUSE I SAID SO! elleng Feb 2012 #4
Did not. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #12
Yup! elleng Feb 2012 #3
That's so true pokerfan Feb 2012 #6
I'm leaving Las Vegas... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #90
my cat's breath smells like cat food pokerfan Feb 2012 #91
It just might be the other way around.... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #92
I try to limit my responses to 3 on contentious sub-threads. Old and In the Way Feb 2012 #5
Good idea! I'll try to limit mine to 4 JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2012 #10
Ah! Well played! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #49
That's my pipi_k Feb 2012 #13
That's the ONLY way to kill a thread. kentauros Feb 2012 #7
I've noticed that since I first started posting to discussion forums. UnrepentantLiberal Feb 2012 #8
Like...here, for example? pinboy3niner Feb 2012 #9
Classic! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #11
YOU hope they don't have weapons pinboy3niner Feb 2012 #14
OMG...hahahaah!!!! pipi_k Feb 2012 #15
When we crossed swords before, he was deleted... pinboy3niner Feb 2012 #18
I checked and... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #20
Even I didn't know about that little bit of nuttiness! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #53
last word. HopeHoops Feb 2012 #16
This thread is going to last for a long time... snooper2 Feb 2012 #17
Well maybe it will and maybe it won't. Can you back that up? NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #19
See, the problem with a thread like this... snooper2 Feb 2012 #21
That hadn't occured to me... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #22
I find it interesting as well snooper2 Feb 2012 #24
Me, too. GoCubsGo Feb 2012 #25
The possibilities are.... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #32
kick Broderick Feb 2012 #23
I used to think that I tended to kill threads. Nye Bevan Feb 2012 #26
If this thread doesn't stop, I'm going to H&M to start a longer thread, Ptah Feb 2012 #27
He's TOUCHING me!!! nolabear Feb 2012 #28
She was LOOKING at me! Ptah Feb 2012 #29
Hey you two! Don't make me come back there! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #31
Ya what are you gonna do then? Ptah Feb 2012 #35
I will crush your gameboy, take your checkers, and PUT YOU DENTENTION YOUNG MAN!!! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #48
Thanks, that's where all the cool kids are. Ptah Feb 2012 #50
I know it's not me!! LynneSin Feb 2012 #30
Zymurgy! n/t justiceischeap Feb 2012 #33
Well Actually... limpyhobbler Feb 2012 #34
This is a clever dodge to have a thread that lasts forever Capn Sunshine Feb 2012 #36
Maybe it is.... and maybe... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #37
very......... Capn Sunshine Feb 2012 #46
very... Capn Sunshine Feb 2012 #47
'round here they are called admins! whistler162 Feb 2012 #38
Ha! NYC_SKP Feb 2013 #117
Some of us are just threadkillers LiberalEsto Feb 2012 #39
Tell me about it. GoCubsGo Feb 2012 #40
Sometimes, I do that on purpose. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #41
You're invited to do it in this thread... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #94
No I haven't noticed NoGOPZone Feb 2012 #42
Oh, I think you HAVE noticed, I do... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #45
I always want the next to the last word. nolabear Feb 2012 #43
oh jesus christ there's one in every class ok now I'm gonna... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #44
Update for February 14: rawr. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #51
I'm just a gigolo Major Hogwash Feb 2012 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2012 #54
Ha.... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2012 #56
If you'd like we could co-dominate this thread. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #57
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2012 #58
How about we meet in the middle, hat-wise? NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #59
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2012 #60
Word up! nt chiffon Feb 2012 #61
chiffon, I think we've met but I cannot remember where! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #62
NYC...the mystique is THE intrigue! chiffon Feb 2012 #63
That's IT! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #65
Tag, you're it. cliffordu Feb 2012 #64
pfffft. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #66
IS NOT!!!! cliffordu Feb 2012 #67
Come down HERE and say that... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #68
People who think they know everything are very annoying to those of us who do. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2012 #69
I knew that! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #70
No graywarrior Feb 2012 #71
Pifoire! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #72
! graywarrior Feb 2012 #73
tousille! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #82
No graywarrior Feb 2012 #85
Yes. 'Nuff said! Bake Feb 2012 #74
Unlocking! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #75
I almost always have the last word Still Blue in PDX Feb 2012 #76
IGNORED! Incitatus Feb 2012 #77
IRL yes. And he repeats the same thing over and over and over and over. Lil Missy Feb 2012 #78
How ever do you tolerate that? NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #80
I don't tolerate it -When I disagree I push back. He must have the last word so he repeats himself. Lil Missy Feb 2012 #83
He must be one of two types: NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #86
Yes Phentex Feb 2012 #79
You didn't see this. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #81
There are dogs who just have to have the last little woof. undeterred Feb 2012 #84
aaaaaawoof Capn Sunshine Feb 2012 #87
I resemble that remark! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #88
I can't believe that my half-brother in law thrice removed, cliffordu, hasn't chimed in here. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #89
Ikonoklast Feb 2012 #93
NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #95
How'd you do that? Dr. Strange Feb 2012 #104
I had to go to a different browser (Sea Monkey) and select "View Source"... NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #105
I'll take the second to last word. kentauros Feb 2012 #96
I'll give you that last word! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #97
Uh Uh Uh! kentauros Feb 2012 #98
If you OWN it, then you're gonna have to FEED it. NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #99
I just did clean up after it. kentauros Feb 2012 #102
I never notice that kind of thing JonLP24 Feb 2012 #100
No, never Dembearpig Feb 2012 #101
Is this the last word yet? Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #103
Try posting that question in H&M! NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #106
Damn it. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #108
No TheCentepedeShoes Feb 2012 #107
Now go and apologize to your mother. Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #109
NYC_SKP Feb 2012 #110
Well, now that you mention it. Major Hogwash Mar 2012 #111
and they will argue their point by having the last word... Phentex Mar 2012 #114
No. <nt> EvolveOrConvolve Mar 2012 #112
This isn't real life? graywarrior Mar 2012 #113
Uh-Oh... NYC_SKP Mar 2012 #115
No, I haven't noticed that. Does it happen often? Norrin Radd Feb 2013 #116

hlthe2b

(113,956 posts)
2. Yes... and they keep repeating the same tired line--like a chid who keeps asking WHY?
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 02:05 AM
Feb 2012

(over and over and over again)--when their parent says "no."

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
92. It just might be the other way around....
Thu Feb 23, 2012, 11:30 PM
Feb 2012

the food is designed to smell like the cat's breath.

I am NOT going to be the one to test that theory, though.



Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
5. I try to limit my responses to 3 on contentious sub-threads.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 02:25 AM
Feb 2012

Pretty much anything constructive is accomplished in the first 3 and anything more is probably unconstructive.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
13. That's my
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:03 AM
Feb 2012

policy as well.

Three attempts with any one person. After that, I get tired of the crap and give up.

Unless the conversation is relatively constructive. But yeah, most of the time I just move on to other things.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
8. I've noticed that since I first started posting to discussion forums.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 06:45 AM
Feb 2012

La la la, I can't hear you and refuse to acknowledge that I was wrong.

There's a thread in H&M that keeps getting bumped (now because it's funny) that is a monument to this.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
9. Like...here, for example?
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 07:09 AM
Feb 2012

Yes, it even happens here. Even here, we'll get a few who see themselves as master debaters (lol!), and who equate outlasting with "winning."

Most of us here see ourselves as fellow members who have much in common even when we may disagree. But we have a few who may have a different perspective...

One profile in DU2 stated:

More likely than not you are here because I have bested you in some thread debate, and a sense of pitiful frustration at your own shockingly limited intellect in comparison to mine has angered you greatly. You are here hoping to find some "personal" info to attack me with, as is the wont of those on the losing end of internet debates - ridiculing my occupation, my hometown, my marital status, etc. Sucks to be you, huh?


Believe it or not, the member never changed that profile statement. It's still there. Written by someone who now posts on DU3...

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
11. Classic!
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 10:34 AM
Feb 2012

So the next thing to do is to imagine what kind of real life that person has been cursed to live.

I want to be charitable, I don't want to be critical, I would hope for a better life for that person than the one they seem to have.

One in which they fight a fight that doesn't even exist with people who aren't even there.

I hope they aren't in possession of any weapons!

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
14. YOU hope they don't have weapons
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:07 AM
Feb 2012

Hell, I've crossed swords with that idiot in the threads, lol!

In the event of my sudden death, you know where to look for suspects.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
15. OMG...hahahaah!!!!
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:07 AM
Feb 2012

I honestly thought you were kidding, so I googled it and found the person it belongs to.

I am speechless.



pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
18. When we crossed swords before, he was deleted...
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:38 AM
Feb 2012

...which resulted in the whole subthread being deleted.

For some reason, he hasn't addressed me since...

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
20. I checked and...
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:41 AM
Feb 2012

...that member is still a member, but indeed what a ****ish thing to write in one's profile.

Like I said, I feel more compassion for him than anything... sucks to be him.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
21. See, the problem with a thread like this...
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 12:00 PM
Feb 2012

Is that to get the last word is to kick the thread to the top..

In theory a person would want to have been acknowledged as having the last word, but by kicking the thread somebody else is bound to be curious, look, and reply.

Thus, this thread will be around for a long time---


Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
26. I used to think that I tended to kill threads.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 04:06 PM
Feb 2012

But I felt better when I started to think of it as having the last word.

Ptah

(34,122 posts)
27. If this thread doesn't stop, I'm going to H&M to start a longer thread,
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 04:16 PM
Feb 2012

bemoaning the fact that you all won't stop.


 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
31. Hey you two! Don't make me come back there!
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 05:28 PM
Feb 2012

I'll pull this thread over so fast that it'll make your head spin.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
48. I will crush your gameboy, take your checkers, and PUT YOU DENTENTION YOUNG MAN!!!
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 03:52 AM
Feb 2012
"Doris, this is what you call mature, really????"

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
41. Sometimes, I do that on purpose.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 10:06 PM
Feb 2012

Usually it involves someone else who is being an ass, and I just want to entertain myself.

But not often.

NoGOPZone

(2,971 posts)
42. No I haven't noticed
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 10:13 PM
Feb 2012

and if you disagree I will keep posting until you admit I'm correct.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
44. oh jesus christ there's one in every class ok now I'm gonna...
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 03:34 AM
Feb 2012

...did i ever tell you how much i quanderied as regards your handle, nola bear?

AND i was in NOLA proper twice last year in May and in September.

Nicest people anywhere in america, maybe anywhere anywhere!!!!

I love me some bombay club... and marlon jordan!

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
52. I'm just a gigolo
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 05:54 PM
Feb 2012

And everywhere I go
People know the part I'm playin'
Paid for every dance
Sellin' each romance
Ooohh, what they're sayin'

There will come a day
And youth will pass away
What will they say about me
When the end comes I know
There is just a gigolos
Life goes on without me

I'm just a gigolo
Everywhere I go
People know the part I'm playin'
Paid for every dance
Sellin' each romance
Ooohh, what they're sayin'

And there will come a day
And youth will pass away
What will they say about me
When the end comes I know
There is just a gigolos
Life goes on without me

'Cuz, I ain't got nobody
Oh, and there's
Nobody
Cares for me
There's nobody
Cares for me

I'm so sad and lonely
Sad and lonely
Sad and lonely
Won't some sweet mama
Come take a chance with me
'Cuz I ain't so bad

And I'll sing out
Free love songs
All of the time
She will only be
Oh oh only be

I ain't got nobody
Oh, and there's
Nobody
Cares for me
There's nobody
Cares for me
Nobody cares for me
Nobody cares for me

I ain't got nobody
Nobody
Cares for me
There's nobody
Cares for me

I'm so sad and lonely
Oh lonely, oh lonely, lonely
Won't some sweet mama
Come and rescue me
'Cuz I ain't so bad

And I'll sing out
Free love songs
All of the time
She will only be
Only only only only be

Baby
Ham and
Sugar
Dahlin'
Tine

Aint'
Got
Nobody
There's nobody
There's nobody
There's nobody
There's no one
There ain't no one
There ain't no one

Nobody
Nobody
Nobody
Nobody cares for me

Response to NYC_SKP (Original post)

Response to NYC_SKP (Reply #55)

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
57. If you'd like we could co-dominate this thread.
Wed Feb 15, 2012, 10:10 PM
Feb 2012

This board even!

BWAHAHAH HA HA HA... cough cough... I'm rusty....

Response to NYC_SKP (Reply #57)

Response to NYC_SKP (Reply #59)

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
62. chiffon, I think we've met but I cannot remember where!
Wed Feb 15, 2012, 10:29 PM
Feb 2012

I think it might have been the esplanade in Madrid or one the West Side Highway...

In any case,

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
68. Come down HERE and say that...
Wed Feb 15, 2012, 11:15 PM
Feb 2012

if you can find a pinpoint of Fail within a 200 mile square of Misery...

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
69. People who think they know everything are very annoying to those of us who do.
Thu Feb 16, 2012, 02:17 AM
Feb 2012

And That's The Truth!! (Edith Ann voice)

Still Blue in PDX

(1,999 posts)
76. I almost always have the last word
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 01:06 AM
Feb 2012

because, generally speaking, if I post on a thread it meets its demise.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
80. How ever do you tolerate that?
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 04:55 PM
Feb 2012

And others? And does he even have a clue to how annoying it must be to others?

Lil Missy

(17,865 posts)
83. I don't tolerate it -When I disagree I push back. He must have the last word so he repeats himself.
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 05:57 PM
Feb 2012

Now I can't possibly take ANYTHING he has to say seriously. (I willing to tell him so too, if necessary)

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
86. He must be one of two types:
Sat Feb 18, 2012, 06:27 PM
Feb 2012

One type honestly has no idea how annoying they are, some adults haven't developed social skills in this regard and, at some point, probably never will.

The other type is deliberate in their anti-social behavior and just doesn't care and, often, even uses their offensiveness as a disturbing form of entertainment or to reach some end result.

That second type is a particularly evil form of sociopathic behavior, IMO.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
89. I can't believe that my half-brother in law thrice removed, cliffordu, hasn't chimed in here.
Sun Feb 19, 2012, 03:28 PM
Feb 2012

Cuz this kind of thing is like flypaper to someone like him.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
105. I had to go to a different browser (Sea Monkey) and select "View Source"...
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 07:08 PM
Feb 2012

Then looking through all the html code, I copied and pasted something invisible that was part of Ikonoklast's reply, but it was two or three character spaces, so it was something and not just spaces.

Then I pasted it into the reply.

Oh, and it was Ikonoklast that did it first, I copied from their reply, they might be able to tell you wth they did!

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
96. I'll take the second to last word.
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 12:48 PM
Feb 2012

There! Now I have the word "last" and y'all can't use it!

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
98. Uh Uh Uh!
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 01:07 PM
Feb 2012

You just used the word "last". You're not allowed to do that, because I own it now in this thread!

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
99. If you OWN it, then you're gonna have to FEED it.
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 01:34 PM
Feb 2012

And clean up after it, and take it to the vet if it gets sick!

JonLP24

(29,929 posts)
100. I never notice that kind of thing
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 01:41 PM
Feb 2012

I've never cared about having the last word and I generally forfeit it right away(especially in RL). Social anxiety is part of it, I don't know why I don't often challenge things I know are wrong. I do sometimes but without a nearby computer w/ internet or some source to check facts to see who is right it is pointless arguing over facts for a significant amount of time.

Some like to change the subject that is similar to the topic but is more agreeable--which doesn't make the person's original point any more correct. I play along because I don't like to argue much.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
108. Damn it.
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 07:59 PM
Feb 2012

You, then someone else, have foiled me.

This is a lot of work! Oh well, I suppose I am not destined to have the last word-------or am I?

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
111. Well, now that you mention it.
Sat Mar 10, 2012, 05:19 PM
Mar 2012

I think too many people want to have the final say on everything.
But, maybe that's just my perception of the situation as it is.

Phentex

(16,709 posts)
114. and they will argue their point by having the last word...
Sat Mar 10, 2012, 05:39 PM
Mar 2012

they HAVE to be right. They HAVE to prove to all of us reading the board that THEY were right when they posted the misinformation.

(Generic they, not specifically YOU.) Just reading a thread where it's happening.

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