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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat a week... (Update:)
My wife had some bad medical news this week.
Sigh.

Xyzse
(8,217 posts)DU is here to listen, so sending good vibrations your way.
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)She's in her early thirties.
Way too early to have these diagnosis in life.
Thanks for listening...
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)I'm sorry to hear that. I will keep the Earth_First family in my thoughts.
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)I've seen the support DU has offered to others in the past.
Unfortunately we may need it this time...
Thank you.
malthaussen
(16,627 posts)Keep on keeping on.
-- Mal
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)Thanks.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)
May her pathway to good health be gentle and successful.
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)Lovely imagery!
Hopefully our path towards a positive outcome is short.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)I wish you both all the best. Be strong for her.
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)and hoping things turn out for the best for both of you.
Please keep us posted and remember, DU is here for you.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)I hope everything turns out ok.
Best wishes.
840high
(17,196 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Sending her healing vibes and sending you strength vibes.
Earth_First
(14,910 posts)I sat on the couch last night and held my wife as she unloaded her emotions on me last night. It was incredibly difficult.
The most difficult part of our conversation was when she told me that she "is beginning to feel her mortality".
While on the surface we all will meet our mortality eventually, it's difficult to cope with emotionally when you are in your early thirties.
She has a biopsy scheduled next week to determine the full extent of the situation. It could be nothing. If something does show up, the advances in early-stage detection offer fantastic abilities to overcome the disease.
Unfortunately there's little comfort I can offer my wife's anxiety during the waiting period...
Thanks again, everyone. I really appriciated the outlet, compassion and support that I need while providing that outlet for my wife while not adding to her own anxiety with my own.
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Earth_First
(14,910 posts)After a small outpatient proceedure, in addition to the biopsy (which will take about a week to recieve definitive results...) the doctors are nearly confident that no life-threatening situation is present.
There is one more small outpatient proceedure scheduled that should essentially end the matter outside of a followup in a few months.
My wife is sore and recovering on the couch today, relieved.
Thanks for the concern and well-wishes my friends!
Be well...
warrior1
(12,325 posts)Great news. Now kiss her hard on the mouth!
Arugula Latte
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blueamy66
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