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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forumsthis is wierd...wife stuff
we seperated two weeks ago...we both have our own places...I love her and she loves me but we just werent getting along.
She wants us to commute...she will spend one night a week here and me one night a week there.
Basically she wants us to be friends with benefits.
I'm not sure how I feel about this....yeah the friends with benefits is cool....but it just drags it out.
This is complicated
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this is wierd...wife stuff (Original Post)
backwoodsbob
Jul 2014
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seabeyond
(110,159 posts)1. i am sorry for what the two of you are going thru. i do not have any answer.
not even suggestions. it is just one of those things. i couldnt do it. i would need a .... done. and move on.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)2. Just keep reminding her how nice your place is and how crappy hers is. You'll get along fine.
Ptah
(33,455 posts)3. Does she know about your recent
so now I have two female friends....this is getting weird
last night the girl below my stayed most of the night....just now I met the literal girl next door......she wants to come over later
This is interesting....i am getting more action in two days than i got in my last year of marriage
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018635316
last night the girl below my stayed most of the night....just now I met the literal girl next door......she wants to come over later
This is interesting....i am getting more action in two days than i got in my last year of marriage
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018635316
Any thoughts about STD?
Scuba
(53,475 posts)5. Wait for the self-deletes in 3...2....1...
backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)6. she knows ..and I know she has a boyfriend
point?
Edit to add
Hell...we may end up in a threesome ..or a foursome
Do you have a problem with that?
Ptah
(33,455 posts)7. point being, I hope everyone involved gets tested.
backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)8. I hope you get tested
for intelligence
Ptah
(33,455 posts)9. Where would I do that?
backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)10. here seems to be failing you
maybe the local special ed program?
Ptah
(33,455 posts)11. What's so special about Ed?
backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)12. Ed..Edward...and Eddie....could explain
I cant help