so my ex e-mailed me tonight

[backwoodsbob]

she was putting out feelers about how I feel about her.
I'm so confused

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

1. Avoid being felt up by "feelers."

She's jerking your chain and no good can come of it. Don't answer; list her email address in your spam filter.

[edgineered]

2. I was once told

there is no 's' in ex.

We both laughed because we're good friends.

[mackerel]

3. A good friend of mine basically told me the same thing yesterday.

His ex was checking in with him to see how he was doing? She told him she still loved him in her way. LOL

Who does that??????

[840high]

4. Be good to you - put it in spam folder.

[Sherman A1]

8. +1

I would neither read or respond to any emails, phone calls or other messages.

Just let go and move on.

[RandySF]

5. Don't answer her calls anymore.

There are people, male and female, who get kicks out of being missed, even if they are the ones who left.

[Byronic]

6. Run to the hills!

And if she's coming from the hills, run away from the hills!

Little good can come from this development, and healing wounds can be re-opened.

Good luck though,

[blueamy66]

7. Don't know the story, but....

Do you still love her?

Was it a very bad break up?

Is she worth pursuing?