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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Tue May 19, 2015, 01:45 PM May 2015

Cats are as affectionate as dogs, says science. We're just misunderstanding their purrs, blank faces

http://www.stylist.co.uk/life/cats-are-as-affectionate-as-dogs-says-science-were-just-misunderstanding-their-purs-and-blank-faces

If you've ever been in a Cat Vs Dog debate and you take a preference of the former, you'll be familiar with the response: "But, cats are so cold", "They're mean" and "Cats scare me". Dogs are often considered the friendlier, happier and most loyal pet.

But cats and cat lovers alike can now prove their critics wrong, because according to a growing body of scientific research, felines are probably just as expressive as canine companions. It’s just that humans misunderstand or don’t always see what cats are trying to communicate.

Sharon Crowell-Davis, a professor of veterinary behavior at the University of Georgia, says in New York Magazine's blog Science of Us, that compared with dogs, there are likely many cat behaviors that owners are misinterpreting, because so much more research has been done on canine behavior.

"Part of the problem arises when people take their knowledge of dogs and apply it to cats," says Karen Sueda, Diplomate of the American College of Veterinary Behaviorists. She believes feline body language is more nuanced than that of dogs.
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Cats are as affectionate as dogs, says science. We're just misunderstanding their purrs, blank faces (Original Post) KamaAina May 2015 OP
Plus they're cuter, softer, non-barking, and just plain better than dogs. Arugula Latte May 2015 #1
You obviously never met my neighbor's cat Chauncy mythology May 2015 #38
Most of us who have lived with cats and dogs know... TreasonousBastard May 2015 #2
+100 narnian60 May 2015 #20
You've got that right. My Boogie cat is very affectionate. Arkansas Granny May 2015 #33
I have both, and I've always had both. cwydro May 2015 #3
You have a goose? KamaAina May 2015 #4
I have two geese. cwydro May 2015 #9
Also ... "Blank" faces? Arugula Latte May 2015 #5
Oh my gosh, yes they do. cwydro May 2015 #11
My first thought too. hifiguy May 2015 #46
my cat after he was grounded for fighting Skittles May 2015 #52
Anyone who knows cats knows hifiguy May 2015 #54
he knows I go nuts if he sits on my laptop Skittles May 2015 #82
OMG I love him!!! Arugula Latte May 2015 #71
wow he does! Skittles May 2015 #80
Litter boxes... hair balls. Clothes covered in hair... no thanks. underahedgerow May 2015 #6
Walking your dog in the rain or snow. KamaAina May 2015 #7
Garden! And I buy top quality in bulk and have it delivered a couple times a year! underahedgerow May 2015 #10
We all win cwydro May 2015 #12
Don't we just? Well said. underahedgerow May 2015 #15
Now I wanna know who is the top female athlete on the planet? cwydro May 2015 #16
I might go with Tatyana McFadden KamaAina May 2015 #18
Serena is my pick. cwydro May 2015 #27
I would go with Rhonda Rousey mythology May 2015 #39
It's Ronda KamaAina May 2015 #69
And she's cool enough to hang out with The Rock hifiguy May 2015 #75
Scooping up giant poop and carrying it in a bag ... having annoyed neighbors due to barking ... Arugula Latte May 2015 #8
See, now the benefit of dogs is the wide diversity in the species! Large, small, hairless to shaggy, underahedgerow May 2015 #14
I'll never be a dog person ... Arugula Latte May 2015 #17
Thank you. narnian60 May 2015 #21
I love dogs but you are absolutely correct Skittles May 2015 #28
I like dogs a lot. FRIENDS' dogs. hifiguy May 2015 #47
Yeah, I like friends' dogs in small amounts, if they're not too hyper. Arugula Latte May 2015 #51
I have them both. I can't decide who's on top. love them both. ariesgem May 2015 #67
Too dumb to clean themselves or poop and pee in the bathroom. we can do it May 2015 #32
Guess what? My dog uses the bathroom in times of dire emergency... Yup, does his pee & poo underahedgerow May 2015 #42
My husband does the same thing. nt clarice May 2015 #13
Dog or cat, go to a shelter and rescue one today. nt TeamPooka May 2015 #19
+1000 narnian60 May 2015 #22
This. hifiguy May 2015 #48
A dog would sacrifice its own life to rescue you if your house was burning down Sobax May 2015 #23
My cat frantically woke me up one night when my furnace malfunctioned The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #24
Hate is a bit of a strong word Sobax May 2015 #25
That's OK. I'm more of a cat person, but The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #26
Then there was my friend who OD'd on sleeping pills KamaAina May 2015 #29
Riddle me this: Arugula Latte May 2015 #30
people who only see the value of animals that SERVICE them think like that Skittles May 2015 #56
Yes, it pisses a lot of rightwingers off that cats don't "obey." Arugula Latte May 2015 #59
people who only see the value of pets that SERVICE them Skittles May 2015 #55
Cats are clean. Dogs stink. Cats purr. Dogs bite the UPS man. DamnYankeeInHouston May 2015 #31
The UPS man brings scary things to the house. dawg May 2015 #49
Nuh uh. That's a ride. The UPS man is Santa Claus. DamnYankeeInHouston May 2015 #50
my cat detested that thing his whole life, after I bumped into him with it when he was a kitten Skittles May 2015 #57
My ex tried to vacuum our cats once. That didn't work so well. DamnYankeeInHouston May 2015 #65
I'll take my cat over a dog. sakabatou May 2015 #34
cats are SO expressive!! grasswire May 2015 #35
If cats could talk, they wouldn't Major Nikon May 2015 #36
Thread winner. TreasonousBastard May 2015 #37
In reality, cats talk all the time. All. The. Time. Arugula Latte May 2015 #40
I love that little "Brrrp?" trill they make. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #41
Me too! That is similar to a mama kitty talking to kittens. Arugula Latte May 2015 #43
my cat trills when is REALLY buttering me up requesting something Skittles May 2015 #58
A cat person I knew in college called that a "querbl". KamaAina May 2015 #62
I like that. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #64
I have known this for awhile. Behind the Aegis May 2015 #44
I'm bipetual olddots May 2015 #45
hey KamaAina Skittles May 2015 #53
Looks like he wants to kick someone's... KamaAina May 2015 #63
I love both cats and dogs equally. IrishEyes May 2015 #60
I think cats believe you should be giving them the attention you are giving that monitor Skittles May 2015 #61
We've Got Both. I Agree With This ProfessorGAC May 2015 #66
Dogs don't go around killing songbirds. BlueJazz May 2015 #68
The hell they don't. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #70
Just because you hate dogs, you don't have to hit me with facts. It's rather rude and blows my post BlueJazz May 2015 #72
I love dogs. Just wanted to note that they, like cats, The Velveteen Ocelot May 2015 #73
My Golden will even eat rabbit pellets and my chinchilla's droppings. I love him but he does.. BlueJazz May 2015 #74
nevermind. nt La Lioness Priyanka May 2015 #76
You were getting ready to> BlueJazz May 2015 #77
i was pointing out that cats dont kill as many humans, but i realized you were talking about La Lioness Priyanka May 2015 #78
Pardon me if I quote a line from Jurassic Park. :) :) BlueJazz May 2015 #79
That slow blink that kitties do--the blink saying "I love you" or NCarolinawoman May 2015 #81
Big kitties, like in the zoo, will do that back to you too. Arugula Latte May 2015 #83
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
1. Plus they're cuter, softer, non-barking, and just plain better than dogs.
Tue May 19, 2015, 01:53 PM
May 2015


And the people who say "cats scare me" -- uh, which animal is capable of attacking you and ripping out your jugular? Hint: It ain't kitties.
 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
38. You obviously never met my neighbor's cat Chauncy
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:23 PM
May 2015

Granted most people don't have pet leopards, but she was very clearly capable of ripping out one's jugular. I remember once feeding the cat while they were away and she would get a whole frozen chicken and snap it in half with one bite.

Of course she was actually well behaved. She once dragged 7 or 8 year old me around by the hand without breaking the skin. I have no comment on whether I needed fresh underwear afterward.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
2. Most of us who have lived with cats and dogs know...
Tue May 19, 2015, 01:59 PM
May 2015

that cats are every bit affectionate as dogs, but have different ways of showing it.

But cats are not nearly as interested in greeting strangers as dogs are, giving rise to their reputation as cold and standoffish.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
3. I have both, and I've always had both.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:13 PM
May 2015

Cats and dogs are both wee lover fuzz faces.

My goose is pretty affectionate too. He loves to cuddle.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
9. I have two geese.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:31 PM
May 2015

Bogart and Penelope.

Bogart is just a love bug. He likes to be picked up and cuddled.

Lol, he has slept in bed with me. When he lost his first mate, he was inconsolable (they mate for life), and so I let him sleep with me. Such a sweet boy.

If I ever figure out how to post pics here, I will post pics of him.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
5. Also ... "Blank" faces?
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:19 PM
May 2015

Anybody who has spent any time with kitties knows they have many, many expressions.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
11. Oh my gosh, yes they do.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:34 PM
May 2015

When my Skeeter (RIP) was angry with me...it was literally written all over her face.

If I spent the night elsewhere, she wouldn't come near me for days.

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
82. he knows I go nuts if he sits on my laptop
Thu May 21, 2015, 10:26 PM
May 2015

so of course when he is really miffed with me, he sits on it and WAITS for me to notice - then he does this head tip as a I holler before he leaps off and runs....OMG when I hear that cats are unemotional I have to laugh

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
6. Litter boxes... hair balls. Clothes covered in hair... no thanks.
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:21 PM
May 2015

I'll stick with doggies. My dog knows his right foot from his left foot. And he brings me things when I ask him to.

'WINNING'

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
10. Garden! And I buy top quality in bulk and have it delivered a couple times a year!
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:31 PM
May 2015

HUGE completely secure and enclosed garden with bits of bushy woodland. He does his business in private, I never see his poo!

That aside, walking your doggie gets you out and about with excellent exercise, talking to people, visiting shops, meeting other dog owners and socializing. I've met some of my very best friends and the most wonderful people out walking my pooch! In fact I got the most wonderful job in the world because of my (now deceased ) doggie, working for the top female athlete on the planet, 'cause her PA fell in love with my lil pooch and we started chatting in Starbucks!

Still WINNING!!!!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
12. We all win
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:36 PM
May 2015

when we have animals whom we love and who love us.

No matter their breed, species, whether furry or feathered.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
18. I might go with Tatyana McFadden
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:47 PM
May 2015

winner of the women's wheelchair division of both the New York and Boston Marathons.



But then, as a dissability advocate, I'm kind of biased.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
39. I would go with Rhonda Rousey
Tue May 19, 2015, 11:44 PM
May 2015

I don't think there's anybody currently as dominant in any sport as she is in hers.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
8. Scooping up giant poop and carrying it in a bag ... having annoyed neighbors due to barking ...
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:25 PM
May 2015

having a dog blow stinky air in your face ... having to walk them in bad weather ... getting that smelly, greasy dog film on your hand after petting them ... No thanks!

I'll stick with kitties!

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
14. See, now the benefit of dogs is the wide diversity in the species! Large, small, hairless to shaggy,
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:38 PM
May 2015

smelly to not smelly, big poos, little tootsie rolls... long hair, short hair, sporty, lazy, bouncy, calm... Huge, HUGE choice in doggies.

I looked at over a thousand doggies before I found the right fella after my last one died in my arms (heart condition we knew about and coddled and treated, but it was terminal...).

That's the other nice thing about doggies; you can really determine their character while they're still really little... and as for barking, well that's the owner's fault, not the dog! (Cesar Millan ROCKS)

Doggies win!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
17. I'll never be a dog person ...
Tue May 19, 2015, 02:42 PM
May 2015

I've been around both cats and dogs a lot ... cats are clearly superior in my view, but I get that some people don't agree and have their preferences. However, I don't know why so many dog people feel the need to constantly disparage cats. I see it all the time on the Internet. Cats get a bad rap from people who don't understand them. They are awesome, affectionate, smart, funny, entertaining family members. I can't live without them.

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
28. I love dogs but you are absolutely correct
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:01 PM
May 2015

whenever I hear someone trashing cats, or simply saying they are inferior to dogs, I know they have no clue

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
47. I like dogs a lot. FRIENDS' dogs.
Wed May 20, 2015, 03:28 PM
May 2015

I much prefer to live with cats. My own personality is very cat-like, so maybe that's why.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
51. Yeah, I like friends' dogs in small amounts, if they're not too hyper.
Wed May 20, 2015, 04:15 PM
May 2015

I have friends with Labs and Goldens and they get on my nerves quickly -- way too "in your face" for me. But other friends have collies and those dogs are mellow -- like big kitties. I like them.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
42. Guess what? My dog uses the bathroom in times of dire emergency... Yup, does his pee & poo
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:19 AM
May 2015

in the shower or on the bathroom floor.

And he's relatively self cleaning, jumps in the pool. He's kind of the perfect pooch... his name is Kevin!

Ok there are issues with duck & seagull poop... he insists on rolling in it if I don't sound him off.

#dogbragging

 

Sobax

(110 posts)
23. A dog would sacrifice its own life to rescue you if your house was burning down
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:40 PM
May 2015

A cat would jump out of the window, saves its own skin, and then sit on the lawn and watch your house burn down with everyone inside it.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
24. My cat frantically woke me up one night when my furnace malfunctioned
Tue May 19, 2015, 04:49 PM
May 2015

and wouldn't shut down. I'm sure it would have set the place on fire if I hadn't managed to turn it off, and I wouldn't have done that if the cat hadn't yowled in my ear until I woke up. And there's this:

http://mashable.com/2014/07/31/rescue-cat-saves-familys-home-from-massive-fire/

And this: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2739780/A-whisker-away-death-Family-saved-devastating-house-fire-Simba-cat-woke-up.html

And this: http://www.today.com/pets/good-kitty-these-6-hero-cats-saved-humans-they-loved-2D79677090

...Just to mention a few incidents. I don't understand why so many dog owners are so hateful toward cats. Evidently the haters don't know anything about them.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
29. Then there was my friend who OD'd on sleeping pills
Tue May 19, 2015, 05:51 PM
May 2015

and woke up fifteen hours later to the sound of "Meow! Meow!"

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
56. people who only see the value of animals that SERVICE them think like that
Wed May 20, 2015, 08:43 PM
May 2015

Last edited Wed May 20, 2015, 10:17 PM - Edit history (1)

teabaggers, for example

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
59. Yes, it pisses a lot of rightwingers off that cats don't "obey."
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:04 PM
May 2015

That's one reason liberals are more likely to be cat people.

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
57. my cat detested that thing his whole life, after I bumped into him with it when he was a kitten
Wed May 20, 2015, 08:45 PM
May 2015

the kicker is, the vacuum cleaner wasn't even turned ON at the time

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
35. cats are SO expressive!!
Tue May 19, 2015, 08:37 PM
May 2015

It's just dumb to think otherwise. Different from dogs, for sure, but so expressive.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
40. In reality, cats talk all the time. All. The. Time.
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:06 AM
May 2015

Cats don't "meow" to other cats -- that is a communication they save primarily for humans. To other cats (and humans) they chirp, trill, purr, howl, and make many other sounds that are quite distinctive. That's one reason I love them so much -- the many ways they communicate.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
41. I love that little "Brrrp?" trill they make.
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:12 AM
May 2015

One of my cats trills all the time. The other two are just really loud meowers.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
43. Me too! That is similar to a mama kitty talking to kittens.
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:32 AM
May 2015

I have three talker/squawker/trillers. There is A LOT of feline chatting going on in our house all the time!

Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
44. I have known this for awhile.
Wed May 20, 2015, 12:47 AM
May 2015

To me, it is like knowing Spanish and French. Both are similar languages and at times the other can be easily understood if you only know one, but it is much easier when you know both languages. Dogs and cats have many similarities, they just express themselves in different ways and most people are so accustomed to having things on their terms as opposed to understanding differences. So, dogs "speak" Spanish, but often speak "Spanglish" in order to get along with the human world. Cats "speak" French and if you don't know French, C'est dommage!

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
45. I'm bipetual
Wed May 20, 2015, 01:50 AM
May 2015

I love cats and dogs equally but dogs seem to enjoy me more than cats because I smell like a stale donut .

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
53. hey KamaAina
Wed May 20, 2015, 05:35 PM
May 2015

I posted this pic further up but wanted to make sure you saw it - my cat after he did not get what he wanted:

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
60. I love both cats and dogs equally.
Wed May 20, 2015, 09:12 PM
May 2015

Cats can be very affectionate. They will climb on my lap, purr loudly and snuggle. Especially when they know that I will be there for awhile like when I am watching a movie, playing video games or working on my computer.

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
61. I think cats believe you should be giving them the attention you are giving that monitor
Wed May 20, 2015, 10:19 PM
May 2015

yes INDEED

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
66. We've Got Both. I Agree With This
Thu May 21, 2015, 09:34 AM
May 2015

They NEED to sit on laps, and get attention and roll over and have their bellies rubbed.

One of our cats, though, NEEDS the dog. She won't stay in the room if he leaves. We're in the rec room, and he gets up to go drink water. Up she gets and follows him to the utility room. (Garage in the basement, so the rec room is there too. Direct access to the outside.)

If i take him out to do his business, she sits by the half bath door waiting for him to come back in.

So, she obviously fits this description in a multi-species way.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
73. I love dogs. Just wanted to note that they, like cats,
Thu May 21, 2015, 02:39 PM
May 2015

are carnivorous predators and will hunt, catch and eat damn near anything. But unlike cats, they will also eat cat poo out of the litter box.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
74. My Golden will even eat rabbit pellets and my chinchilla's droppings. I love him but he does..
Thu May 21, 2015, 02:52 PM
May 2015

..gross me out. Thanks for the info on the dog-eating-bird stuff. I Learn something every day.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
78. i was pointing out that cats dont kill as many humans, but i realized you were talking about
Thu May 21, 2015, 03:59 PM
May 2015

the controversial lounge thread from years ago.

NCarolinawoman

(2,825 posts)
81. That slow blink that kitties do--the blink saying "I love you" or
Thu May 21, 2015, 10:07 PM
May 2015

"be my friend, please" and you can slow blink right back and they "get it".

Also the silent meow that can melt your heart.

I do like dogs A LOT, but I need the quiet of the kitties when I paint. They seem to like Gregorian chants and Bach. It sends them into a zen mode. I'm painting landscapes and wildlife to the music and they are laying peacefully with half closed eyes.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
83. Big kitties, like in the zoo, will do that back to you too.
Fri May 22, 2015, 03:04 PM
May 2015

Gawd how I love all kitties, big and small.

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