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zanana1

(6,102 posts)
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 06:34 AM Jun 2016

Need good vibes from you guys.

I have to have a second heart bypass surgery in six days. One of my grafts from my first surgery is blocked and giving me chest pain. I've had all the tests.
I'm sure there must be people here who have a "zipper". Maybe someone call tell me if they've had a second surgery and how it went. It's higher risk than the first one. I was 38 then and I'm 64 now. I have alot of scarring.

I haven't let on to anyone that I'm scared, but somehow, I can tell you.

Good vibes and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

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Need good vibes from you guys. (Original Post) zanana1 Jun 2016 OP
I will keep you in my thoughts. I hope you have a speedy recovery. Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #1
We are with you. Warm thoughts. CurtEastPoint Jun 2016 #2
Sending positive energies and hoping japple Jun 2016 #3
Best wishes for your surgery pinboy3niner Jun 2016 #4
Good luck and courage, zanana. You'll do fine. Medicine has made Surya Gayatri Jun 2016 #5
All good vibes! yellerpup Jun 2016 #6
I'm not gonna lie, I'd be scared, too! But,... Ferretherder Jun 2016 #7
Good vibes coming your way, zanana1 Duval Jun 2016 #8
Thanks so much, guys. zanana1 Jun 2016 #9
Sending you good vibes.. gademocrat7 Jun 2016 #10
My dad had two different re-do's that went just fine. Dustlawyer Jun 2016 #11
Good vibes and positive thoughts. My 77 year old aunt had two bypasses (3 years apart). Jitter65 Jun 2016 #12
Wishing you the best. sinkingfeeling Jun 2016 #13
Sending you wishes for strength and a speedy recovery. n/t TonyPDX Jun 2016 #14
Let some of those around you know.. you could use an annabanana Jun 2016 #15
Keeping you in my thoughts. cate94 Jun 2016 #16
Best of luck to you zanana1. lovemydog Jun 2016 #17
Sending good vibes, Paka Jun 2016 #18
Best wishes and pulling for a quick recovery for you... Moostache Jun 2016 #19
I'll definitely come back after. zanana1 Jun 2016 #61
A lot of things have changed surgically over these years... MrMickeysMom Jun 2016 #20
Thanks for that info. zanana1 Jun 2016 #33
Good vibes to you... Phentex Jun 2016 #21
Wishing you the best.. mountain grammy Jun 2016 #22
Good vibes coming your way! denvine Jun 2016 #23
Surround zanana1 with healing light and the greatest vibes. nt LaydeeBug Jun 2016 #24
Best vibes I know: malthaussen Jun 2016 #25
Thanks for that. zanana1 Jun 2016 #35
Wishing you a quick in and out (both the surgery and hospital stay) Babel_17 Jun 2016 #26
Best wishes to you! n/t PoliticAverse Jun 2016 #27
Sending you best vibes and all good thoughts. femmocrat Jun 2016 #28
Good vibes ejbr Jun 2016 #29
Good thoughts mgardener Jun 2016 #30
It's ok to be scared. Being brave is rising above fear, not denying fear. Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2016 #31
Faith can be a very good medicine.. kentuck Jun 2016 #32
Good luck and hang in there. greatlaurel Jun 2016 #34
Sending you healing vibes zanana1 geardaddy Jun 2016 #36
Wishing you all the best! hamsterjill Jun 2016 #37
Good vibes coming your way and cyber hugging also. glinda Jun 2016 #38
You'll be in my thoughts. herding cats Jun 2016 #39
My best vibes to you, my dear zanana! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2016 #40
I'm recovering now from triple bypass HeiressofBickworth Jun 2016 #41
Best wishes for your continued recovery pinboy3niner Jun 2016 #43
Feel better, Heiress! zanana1 Jun 2016 #55
I know it's scary passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #42
Zanana you will come through with flying colors. Fla Dem Jun 2016 #44
Puppy pictures always cheer me up. zanana1 Jun 2016 #56
Good luck to you. Worried senior Jun 2016 #45
Good vibes and a prayer or two if that's ok. redwitch Jun 2016 #46
I'm not religious but... zanana1 Jun 2016 #58
Hugs shenmue Jun 2016 #47
Prayers on the way. 840high Jun 2016 #48
We are with you! BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2016 #49
My husband got his zipper when he was 69 with a quadruple bypass operation. The ancianita Jun 2016 #50
thanks for telling me about your husband's experience. zanana1 Jun 2016 #59
I'm glad, and you have reason to be. ancianita Jun 2016 #64
( ) Jack Rabbit Jun 2016 #51
If this sounds like a good idea felix_numinous Jun 2016 #52
Sorry about the chemo. zanana1 Jun 2016 #60
Five years felix_numinous Jun 2016 #62
Hugs! lunatica Jun 2016 #53
I haven't had that particular surgery pnwmom Jun 2016 #54
Strong waves of good vibes your way.... Tikki Jun 2016 #57
My prayers and good vibes are heading your way. Keeping a positive attitude is half the battle. BigBearJohn Jun 2016 #63
Best wishes for a safe proceedure and a speedy recovery! DrewFlorida Jun 2016 #65
Here's some vibes for you denbot Jun 2016 #66
Sending prayers and good vibes for you and Ilsa Jun 2016 #67
Hugs and healing wishes!!!!! Coventina Jun 2016 #68
Here. Have my very best vibes. I'm sure it will go well. NNadir Jun 2016 #69
Good luck reign88 Jun 2016 #70
zanana1... you're going to get through this. ReRe Jun 2016 #71
lots of good vibes and energies to you. it is okay to be scared, and to admit it. niyad Jun 2016 #72
I completely understand your anxiety and your fears. Loki Jun 2016 #73
Sending you lots of good vibes Zanana. midnight Jun 2016 #74
Stay strong.They can do so much these days compared to the era of your first Person 2713 Jun 2016 #75
I agree faith and your attitude are the most important things. avaistheone1 Jun 2016 #76
Incoming good vibes, healing sunshine, lots of aloha. mahina Jun 2016 #77
Sending you 10000000 tons of good vibes noiretextatique Jun 2016 #78
sending love Pharaoh Jun 2016 #79
I wish you health and love. ZombieHorde Jun 2016 #80
I never thought I'd get 80 replies. zanana1 Jun 2016 #81

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
4. Best wishes for your surgery
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 07:13 AM
Jun 2016

I think it's actually easier to be taken into the hospital with traumatic injuries than to have to voluntarily go in for necessary major surgery. Especially when you have that lead time to worry.

Hang in there, and we'll see you on the other side of the Recovery Room.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
5. Good luck and courage, zanana. You'll do fine. Medicine has made
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 07:14 AM
Jun 2016

enormous strides since you had your first operation 25 years ago.

Meditate on what you'll be able to do afterwards, the joy of living you can look forward to.

Ferretherder

(1,445 posts)
7. I'm not gonna lie, I'd be scared, too! But,...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 07:20 AM
Jun 2016

...you, me, and a bunch of other DU'ers can do this!
We're with you, Z!

Dustlawyer

(10,494 posts)
11. My dad had two different re-do's that went just fine.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 07:35 AM
Jun 2016

You will be ok, the technology is much better than when he had his many years ago.

 

Jitter65

(3,089 posts)
12. Good vibes and positive thoughts. My 77 year old aunt had two bypasses (3 years apart).
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 07:35 AM
Jun 2016

She turned 89 on May 8 this year. She is doing fine just slowing down with walking because of a previous stroke. So, up with the positive thoughts!

Paka

(2,760 posts)
18. Sending good vibes,
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 08:42 AM
Jun 2016

from one who has mostly dealt with traumatic events requiring hospital care. I didn't have time to be scared, but it's okay to be scared.

Wishing you well!

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
19. Best wishes and pulling for a quick recovery for you...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 08:45 AM
Jun 2016

Be sure to come back after and let us know you're doing well...

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
20. A lot of things have changed surgically over these years...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 08:50 AM
Jun 2016

I will think POSITIVELY, but meanwhile, you may or may not know that routes opening up (zipper) for the coronary arteries have become minimally invasive, therefore, less chance to require the re-opening of that same area. Maybe you have had this discussion with the surgeon?

As always, ask questions, and do all they tell you. No doubt, you are a good patient. The cardiac rehab may follow, where you'll be able to strengthen yourself. Procedure-wise, you should be okay.

Let us know how you are and know that we wish you speedy recovery. As a respiratory therapist, be sure you cough and deep breath, even if you don't want to. Again... listen to the team there are your team here cheers you on!

zanana1

(6,102 posts)
33. Thanks for that info.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 10:32 AM
Jun 2016

I did talk to my cardiothoracic surgeon in the hospital. He explained some things to me. I told him I had a DNR, because I don't want to be vegetable. He eased my mind on that score. I have to rescind my DNR for the surgery because they'll be right there if something goes wrong and they'll be able to "revive" me in a short time.
It feels so good to be able to talk about it. My husband is very concerned and I keep telling him all the optimistic things, while leaving out the "risky" part. He worries enough.
Thanks again.

Phentex

(16,330 posts)
21. Good vibes to you...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:03 AM
Jun 2016

I look forward to your update when you are able to post again. Wish you a speedy recovery.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
28. Sending you best vibes and all good thoughts.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:20 AM
Jun 2016

Focus on how great you are going to feel as soon as you recover!

mgardener

(1,812 posts)
30. Good thoughts
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:26 AM
Jun 2016

Have had 6 back surgeries.
Positive thinking and think about the future.
Know it will be tough but you WILL get through it!

kentuck

(111,052 posts)
32. Faith can be a very good medicine..
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 10:10 AM
Jun 2016

And is a good ally to fight the fear and anxiety. Good vibes to you.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
34. Good luck and hang in there.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 10:33 AM
Jun 2016

I know someone who had 4 successful bypass surgeries and have a cousin who had a second bypass which went very well just a year ago.

I also have a close relative who just had a valve replaced and he did great. I think you will be pleased how quickly you will be back on your feet. The techniques to get patients to heal more quickly and out of the hospital have improved immensely since your first surgery.

Looking forward to hearing from you asap after the surgery.

All the best,

great laurel

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
37. Wishing you all the best!
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 10:55 AM
Jun 2016

Sending good vibes and prayers.

It's perfectly normal and natural to be fearful of the unknown. It's going to be okay.

herding cats

(19,558 posts)
39. You'll be in my thoughts.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 02:37 PM
Jun 2016

Please accept my wishes for a successful and uneventful surgery. Followed by a quick recovery and many healthy years to follow!

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
41. I'm recovering now from triple bypass
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 02:47 PM
Jun 2016

Haven't been on DU for a while. Best wishes for your successful surgery. Take all the pain pills offered. It makes even the light exercises they want you to do possible. And especially do the breathing exercises to keep your lungs clear.

We'll be here waiting for you.

zanana1

(6,102 posts)
55. Feel better, Heiress!
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 05:10 PM
Jun 2016

Here I am, feeling sorry for myself when you're recuperating from a 3X!

Thank you for your support and I will take the pain meds.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
42. I know it's scary
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 03:00 PM
Jun 2016

But sometimes we don't have a choice. I wish there was some way to make it easier.

I am pulling for you...wishing you a successful surgery and quick recovery.

Fla Dem

(23,585 posts)
44. Zanana you will come through with flying colors.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 03:11 PM
Jun 2016

64 is not old anymore. Best wishes for a seedy recovery!

redwitch

(14,941 posts)
46. Good vibes and a prayer or two if that's ok.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 03:33 PM
Jun 2016

They will unblock you and you will be so much better soon!

ancianita

(35,932 posts)
50. My husband got his zipper when he was 69 with a quadruple bypass operation. The
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:21 PM
Jun 2016

survival probability is around 90 percent.

Being scared is normal. Being scarred is complicated. Remember that the U.S. is the cardio surgery capital of the world, and if you trust your hospital, you can feel pretty confident.

He spent two days to stabilize in IC, then was moved to a room, walked to the chair and door in another 24 hours and then down the halls in longer and longer times 'til he was released.

If you qualify for Medicare, hospitals give you a visiting nurse at home, with diet help, a chest toy which helps breathing and other good stuff. I can't tell you how this country loves nurses. They are saints.

He had a commonly experienced heart relapse two months later. Taken immediately to the hospital, they double checked his healing, heart strength, etc., installed both a small two-inch combined defibrillator and pacemaker under his skin near his left shoulder, a procedure that took less than an hour.

He's been on an even health keel ever since. Walks regularly and does yoga now.

You can get a long term look at how they'll care for you and how you care for yourself.

Please keep us posted. All best hopes and wishes to you.

felix_numinous

(5,198 posts)
52. If this sounds like a good idea
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:40 PM
Jun 2016

load an ipod with your favorite music and stock up on audio tapes and stories, this is how I got through chemo nights of waking/sleeping. It helped me have good dreams.

pnwmom

(108,955 posts)
54. I haven't had that particular surgery
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:45 PM
Jun 2016

but I had a different one last year. One good thing: medicine has advanced in the decades between your first surgery and now. So even though you're older, they know more now, too.

Good luck!

 

reign88

(64 posts)
70. Good luck
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:34 PM
Jun 2016

Nothing at all to be ashamed of in being scared of something like that. I know I would be, and I can't imagine any human with a working brain wouldn't be.

You've done it once though, what's one more time in the show right?

Keep positive and hang in there, positive vibes coming your way.

niyad

(113,049 posts)
72. lots of good vibes and energies to you. it is okay to be scared, and to admit it.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:43 PM
Jun 2016

just remember that your du family is here for you.

Loki

(3,825 posts)
73. I completely understand your anxiety and your fears.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 09:45 PM
Jun 2016

That is a completely normal reaction to this kind of surgery. Take some comfort in knowing how far cardiology and cardiac surgery has come in the years since you had your first bypass. The surgical techniques, the pre-and post-op care, even the medications and the recovery times have come so far that it's amazing to those of us who have been close to the medical field. You will be in competent hands during your surgery and afterwards during your recovery. There is a lot of positive energy out there, both here and in the people that will be taking care of you. Let that give you some comfort and give us a shout back here to let us know how it went. Expect we will be hearing from you very soon.

 

avaistheone1

(14,626 posts)
76. I agree faith and your attitude are the most important things.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:33 PM
Jun 2016

Keep family and friends close if you can. They can help the healing process.

Prayers and positive wishes for a healthy and speedy recovery.




zanana1

(6,102 posts)
81. I never thought I'd get 80 replies.
Wed Jun 8, 2016, 07:59 AM
Jun 2016

I've never even met any of you, but I'm feeling so comforted by my DU family right now. If I despair during any part of this medical procedure, I'll think of you all and your kind and supportive words.

I can't say "thank you" enough. My heart is full.

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