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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsNeed good vibes from you guys.
I have to have a second heart bypass surgery in six days. One of my grafts from my first surgery is blocked and giving me chest pain. I've had all the tests.
I'm sure there must be people here who have a "zipper". Maybe someone call tell me if they've had a second surgery and how it went. It's higher risk than the first one. I was 38 then and I'm 64 now. I have alot of scarring.
I haven't let on to anyone that I'm scared, but somehow, I can tell you.
Good vibes and advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Arkansas Granny
(31,506 posts)CurtEastPoint
(18,619 posts)japple
(9,806 posts)that your surgery is successful. Blessings and peace to you.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)I think it's actually easier to be taken into the hospital with traumatic injuries than to have to voluntarily go in for necessary major surgery. Especially when you have that lead time to worry.
Hang in there, and we'll see you on the other side of the Recovery Room.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)enormous strides since you had your first operation 25 years ago.
Meditate on what you'll be able to do afterwards, the joy of living you can look forward to.
yellerpup
(12,252 posts)Best wishes for a good surgery and a complete and speedy healing. You are loved.
Ferretherder
(1,445 posts)...you, me, and a bunch of other DU'ers can do this!
We're with you, Z!
Duval
(4,280 posts)You'll be in my heart and prayers, as well as your doctors.
zanana1
(6,102 posts)It makes me feel a little better to know I have your support.
gademocrat7
(10,644 posts)Dustlawyer
(10,494 posts)You will be ok, the technology is much better than when he had his many years ago.
Jitter65
(3,089 posts)She turned 89 on May 8 this year. She is doing fine just slowing down with walking because of a previous stroke. So, up with the positive thoughts!
sinkingfeeling
(51,436 posts)TonyPDX
(962 posts)annabanana
(52,791 posts)"in person" hug.
cate94
(2,808 posts)Good vibes and good luck.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)It's okay to be scared. Maybe tell some loved ones too.
Paka
(2,760 posts)from one who has mostly dealt with traumatic events requiring hospital care. I didn't have time to be scared, but it's okay to be scared.
Wishing you well!
Moostache
(9,895 posts)Be sure to come back after and let us know you're doing well...
zanana1
(6,102 posts)You'll all want to know what your good vibes did!
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)I will think POSITIVELY, but meanwhile, you may or may not know that routes opening up (zipper) for the coronary arteries have become minimally invasive, therefore, less chance to require the re-opening of that same area. Maybe you have had this discussion with the surgeon?
As always, ask questions, and do all they tell you. No doubt, you are a good patient. The cardiac rehab may follow, where you'll be able to strengthen yourself. Procedure-wise, you should be okay.
Let us know how you are and know that we wish you speedy recovery. As a respiratory therapist, be sure you cough and deep breath, even if you don't want to. Again... listen to the team there are your team here cheers you on!
zanana1
(6,102 posts)I did talk to my cardiothoracic surgeon in the hospital. He explained some things to me. I told him I had a DNR, because I don't want to be vegetable. He eased my mind on that score. I have to rescind my DNR for the surgery because they'll be right there if something goes wrong and they'll be able to "revive" me in a short time.
It feels so good to be able to talk about it. My husband is very concerned and I keep telling him all the optimistic things, while leaving out the "risky" part. He worries enough.
Thanks again.
Phentex
(16,330 posts)I look forward to your update when you are able to post again. Wish you a speedy recovery.
mountain grammy
(26,598 posts)My father in law had two, his second when he was 70. He lived to be 91.
denvine
(799 posts)Wishing you a completely successful surgery and a speedy recovery!
LaydeeBug
(10,291 posts)malthaussen
(17,175 posts)-- Mal
zanana1
(6,102 posts)It was great in more ways than one. Great music, great spirit.
Babel_17
(5,400 posts)Good vibes to you!
PoliticAverse
(26,366 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Focus on how great you are going to feel as soon as you recover!
ejbr
(5,856 posts)mgardener
(1,812 posts)Have had 6 back surgeries.
Positive thinking and think about the future.
Know it will be tough but you WILL get through it!
Bernardo de La Paz
(48,955 posts)Heal deeply and heal well.
kentuck
(111,052 posts)And is a good ally to fight the fear and anxiety. Good vibes to you.
greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)I know someone who had 4 successful bypass surgeries and have a cousin who had a second bypass which went very well just a year ago.
I also have a close relative who just had a valve replaced and he did great. I think you will be pleased how quickly you will be back on your feet. The techniques to get patients to heal more quickly and out of the hospital have improved immensely since your first surgery.
Looking forward to hearing from you asap after the surgery.
All the best,
great laurel
geardaddy
(24,926 posts)hamsterjill
(15,220 posts)Sending good vibes and prayers.
It's perfectly normal and natural to be fearful of the unknown. It's going to be okay.
glinda
(14,807 posts)herding cats
(19,558 posts)Please accept my wishes for a successful and uneventful surgery. Followed by a quick recovery and many healthy years to follow!
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,517 posts)It IS scary but I feel strongly that you will be fine!
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HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)Haven't been on DU for a while. Best wishes for your successful surgery. Take all the pain pills offered. It makes even the light exercises they want you to do possible. And especially do the breathing exercises to keep your lungs clear.
We'll be here waiting for you.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)zanana1
(6,102 posts)Here I am, feeling sorry for myself when you're recuperating from a 3X!
Thank you for your support and I will take the pain meds.
passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)But sometimes we don't have a choice. I wish there was some way to make it easier.
I am pulling for you...wishing you a successful surgery and quick recovery.
Fla Dem
(23,585 posts)64 is not old anymore. Best wishes for a seedy recovery!
zanana1
(6,102 posts)Thanks!
Worried senior
(1,328 posts)I think they have come a long way with many surgeries so you should do well.
redwitch
(14,941 posts)They will unblock you and you will be so much better soon!
zanana1
(6,102 posts)I never refuse a prayer. I say "thank you".
840high
(17,196 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)ancianita
(35,932 posts)survival probability is around 90 percent.
Being scared is normal. Being scarred is complicated. Remember that the U.S. is the cardio surgery capital of the world, and if you trust your hospital, you can feel pretty confident.
He spent two days to stabilize in IC, then was moved to a room, walked to the chair and door in another 24 hours and then down the halls in longer and longer times 'til he was released.
If you qualify for Medicare, hospitals give you a visiting nurse at home, with diet help, a chest toy which helps breathing and other good stuff. I can't tell you how this country loves nurses. They are saints.
He had a commonly experienced heart relapse two months later. Taken immediately to the hospital, they double checked his healing, heart strength, etc., installed both a small two-inch combined defibrillator and pacemaker under his skin near his left shoulder, a procedure that took less than an hour.
He's been on an even health keel ever since. Walks regularly and does yoga now.
You can get a long term look at how they'll care for you and how you care for yourself.
Please keep us posted. All best hopes and wishes to you.
zanana1
(6,102 posts)It makes me hopeful.
ancianita
(35,932 posts)Jack Rabbit
(45,984 posts)felix_numinous
(5,198 posts)load an ipod with your favorite music and stock up on audio tapes and stories, this is how I got through chemo nights of waking/sleeping. It helped me have good dreams.
zanana1
(6,102 posts)I hope you're doing much better now.
felix_numinous
(5,198 posts)and counting, thank you. Good luck and good vibes for your big day
lunatica
(53,410 posts)pnwmom
(108,955 posts)but I had a different one last year. One good thing: medicine has advanced in the decades between your first surgery and now. So even though you're older, they know more now, too.
Good luck!
Tikki
(14,549 posts)The Tikkis
BigBearJohn
(11,410 posts)DrewFlorida
(1,096 posts)denbot
(9,898 posts)Best wishes too.
Ilsa
(61,690 posts)Your family and the team.
Coventina
(27,057 posts)NNadir
(33,465 posts)reign88
(64 posts)Nothing at all to be ashamed of in being scared of something like that. I know I would be, and I can't imagine any human with a working brain wouldn't be.
You've done it once though, what's one more time in the show right?
Keep positive and hang in there, positive vibes coming your way.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)niyad
(113,049 posts)just remember that your du family is here for you.
Loki
(3,825 posts)That is a completely normal reaction to this kind of surgery. Take some comfort in knowing how far cardiology and cardiac surgery has come in the years since you had your first bypass. The surgical techniques, the pre-and post-op care, even the medications and the recovery times have come so far that it's amazing to those of us who have been close to the medical field. You will be in competent hands during your surgery and afterwards during your recovery. There is a lot of positive energy out there, both here and in the people that will be taking care of you. Let that give you some comfort and give us a shout back here to let us know how it went. Expect we will be hearing from you very soon.
midnight
(26,624 posts)Person 2713
(3,263 posts)avaistheone1
(14,626 posts)Keep family and friends close if you can. They can help the healing process.
Prayers and positive wishes for a healthy and speedy recovery.
mahina
(17,615 posts)Can do, zanana1! Can do.
noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)Pharaoh
(8,209 posts)go get um zanana1
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)zanana1
(6,102 posts)I've never even met any of you, but I'm feeling so comforted by my DU family right now. If I despair during any part of this medical procedure, I'll think of you all and your kind and supportive words.
I can't say "thank you" enough. My heart is full.