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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsThere's something I've wanted to say here for a long time.
I can walk again.
All the drugs and the surgeries and the therapies have paid off- eight years after sitting down in a wheelchair I am finally able to rise and step away from it.
Oh, I still have a long way to go- my leg muscles were almost completely atrophied due to the severity of my illness, but little by little I got better and I'm getting ready to leave the prison of that damned chair behind me. Trust me when I tell you that the ability to walk to the bathroom or the kitchen is not an ability to take for granted.
I sincerely hope that none of you ever find out first hand what it's like to find yourself limited in such a fundamental way. It's very hard to mentally assimilate all the changes it forces upon a person, and I know it can leave one angry and bitter. Fortunately for me my personal philosophy helped me to stay hopeful and not end up hating life.
The best of luck to all of you who walk the path with a smile on your face. And if you happen to look down and see strange footprints in the dust at your feet, they may just be mine. You never know!

femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Such wonderful news.
redwitch
(15,150 posts)Congratulations! More hard work to come in building back those muscles but I can imagine you are seriously motivated!
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)I'm only 61. I still have too much to do to sit back and just watch it all go by.
petronius
(26,679 posts)
FSogol
(47,275 posts)
brer cat
(26,896 posts)sheshe2
(91,342 posts)
rurallib
(63,606 posts)Can't even imagine what a sense of relief you have.
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)More like victory over my own body.
CaliforniaPeggy
(153,504 posts)I am beyond thrilled to hear your fantastic news!
So much effort. And now it's paying off.
Keep on trucking!
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)
warrprayer
(4,734 posts)
lucca18
(1,384 posts)Very happy for you!
Historic NY
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Downtown Hound
(12,618 posts)Here's to you taking a nice, long victory lap on Tuesday!
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)
annabanana
(52,796 posts)determination.
I have seen first hand what is lost. I have had rooms full of lifts and hoyers and all the accouterments that go with the lack of mobility.
I know the road is long, but i also know you are up to the challenge.
malthaussen
(18,071 posts)I had a minor stroke two years ago and had to learn to walk again. One of those things which we do take for granted, and miss it sorely when we don't have it. My felicitations on the happy event!
-- Mal
longship
(40,416 posts)Awesome news.
Keep on keeping on, my friend.
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)I just hope I don't wake up to see Rover next to me...
longship
(40,416 posts)My best to you.
Ellipsis
(9,279 posts)Congratulations.
FightingIrish
(2,719 posts)He had multiple fractures including a severe vertebral burst fracture. We were told he would never walk again. He wasn't having anything to do with it and went from several wheelchairs, to a walker, to crutches to walking without them. He spent six months Italy and finished his stay hiking in the alps. He just began his teaching career. Once he got on his feet, he returned to the spinal cord rehab center where he was treated to encourage others.
Thanks for sharing your inspirational story. Sharing it can help others.
pnwmom
(109,823 posts)
mountain grammy
(27,697 posts)and thank you for sharing your story. FightingIrish runs in the family.
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)on a platter for all the injustice he's suffered along with the pain and indignity of the crime.
Glad he's so strong. I guess he has to be to not stay there pouring his blood out onto the sidewalk inside his mind.
FightingIrish
(2,719 posts)things you have dealt with even though you didn't mention them. A turning point was when he rebelled against occupational therapists trying to show him how to spend the rest of his life in a chair. I also know that one of the indicators for overcoming a spinal cord injury is intelligence. My son has been an inspiration to me and I applaud and celebrate what you have done.
FightingIrish
(2,719 posts)He was majoring in engineering. He was determined that this horrible event was not going to change his life. My late wife and I learned a lot of medical information and terminology we never thought we would need as we helped him get well enough to even start rehabilitation. While we hovered around the hospital bed that was moved into his room at home, he started studying anatomy and physiology to learn why his body didn't work anymore. He had been an all-state soccer player on a championship team.
He returned to school for spring term and changed his major to physics. We hid behind a tree in the pouring rain to watch him wheel himself to his first class. He dealt with his new circumstances like the athlete he is. I watched him do amazing things in a chair he never wanted to be in. We got to watch him walk up to get his diploma. My wife didn't live to see him get his masters degree and become the teacher he was meant to be.
He lost some things that had been important to him but he gained incredible empathy and understanding. Through all of this, he was never bitter which is more than I can say for his parents.
democrank
(11,410 posts)My best to you and your amazing son.
pnwmom
(109,823 posts)Congratulations!
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)keep up the good work
calimary
(85,855 posts)Little by little! That is terrific news, Prisoner_Number_Six!
Thank you so much for keeping us all posted!!!
DesertRat
(27,995 posts)
nolabear
(43,661 posts)Congratulations. I'm so happy for you. What a great testament to just plain persistence.
Cary
(11,746 posts)They Tai Chi.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(124,235 posts)mountain grammy
(27,697 posts)We can all use some of that these days. I'm very happy for you.
hamsterjill
(15,753 posts)Your grit and your outlook made this happen. Those same qualities will take you the rest of the way.
Congratulations!!!
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)do not take walking for granted; indeed, I have been known to say that it's a good day when one is still ambulatory.
grantcart
(53,061 posts)question everything
(50,040 posts)to keep trying and pushing.
Hope you are not rushing, too. Take your time getting re-acquainted with your legs.
Cheers!
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)I think I'm finally beginning to convince them I'm right after all.
FailureToCommunicate
(14,458 posts)keep a smile on your face.
When we are gone, all that any of us have left behind is footprints - or wheel tracks- in the dust.
May you continue to stride into your brighter future (without Rover!)
-FTC
Rorey
(8,514 posts)I don't know you, but you're an inspiration to me.
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)Perhaps everybody here will join in the fun!
Ms.Lib
(131 posts)& such a heartwarming testament of your struggle.
Best of luck to you in your continued recovery &
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.
Hekate
(97,215 posts)
slipslidingaway
(21,210 posts)your hopeful attitude will serve you, and those around you, well.
hibbing
(10,419 posts)sl8
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BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)YAY!! Seriously HAPPY for you!
I work with Deaf people...many of my friends are Deaf...and I think because we're all separate, we can't know what someone else's path is. Even though I surely do wish I could. Like, full-on empathy.
I can't imagine! WOW! You should write about it--the day to day experience.... ❤️
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)The first three years I was in agony, and that tends to blur the mind. A lot of the chronology is simply not there any more. Once in a while I flash on something that had gone away, but the details are missing.
Such is life when you're flat on your back and stoned to the gills on pain pills 24 hours a day.
I may one day attempt to write about the personal philosophy I've developed over my lifetime. But OTOH who would want to read it?
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I just saw-- you write good. It was good reading.
I *wish* I could write my stuff in a way people could read.
I think everyone wants to somehow *know* another's experience. I guess that's why we like stories in the first place.
lillypaddle
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burrowowl
(18,198 posts)Thanks for post!
Granny M
(1,395 posts)I'm so glad you shared your good news with us! Your strength and your philosophy of hope are truly inspirational. I wish you continued steady improvement and a great future.
The Wielding Truth
(11,428 posts)




So happy for you. I bet it took a lot of work. You really are a DUer.
NBachers
(18,428 posts)We piloted him around in that chair in every state of mind you could imagine- straight, drunk, high, and tripping. His will, his extraordinary attitude, and the love that surrounded him is what kept him going all those years.
I know what it is to dream and long for a day when the miracle of walking will allow you to leave that chair behind.
And, I was a prisoner of a different kind myself, for years. I know the dreams and images of freedom that overtake your mind, your soul, your spirit, and your determination.
Keep walking - keep working - keep being grateful for every small miracle - I've been reading you here for a long time - you are part of the solution, and we need you - Thank you for being on our side, and pulling us along with you.
Solly Mack
(94,768 posts)Truly wonderful news.
LibraLiz1973
(8,197 posts)Your mindset is that of a warrior. You've got this!!
<3
mnhtnbb
(32,432 posts)Good for you!
GreydeeThos
(958 posts)
Fla Dem
(26,505 posts)Ligyron
(7,935 posts)Can't even imagine what it must have been like.
Good advise given in this thread too.
It's weird, while I can't relate to your personal struggle in the particular, one thing I have noticed is that - often when you lose one ability you often gain in another area, sometimes dramatically so.
Loss and the struggle it ignites can often uncover hidden talents.
The trick is keeping the new ability while working to recover the other.
In the end, if you play your cards right, you come out a more powerful person then you ever were.
Best of luck in your recovery!
downeastdaniel
(497 posts)sellitman
(11,703 posts)You are a role model.
By telling us about it you never know who you have helped already.
😗👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
yardwork
(66,170 posts)Turbineguy
(38,958 posts)homegirl
(1,701 posts)Having fought a similar fight, fortunately it took eight months, not eight years, I know what hard work you put into your recovery. Enjoy life and and my deepest wishes for happiness for you.
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,166 posts)heaven05
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SaveOurDemocracy
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Liber toujours
(1 post)Been there.
True_Blue
(3,063 posts)Thank you for this inspiring post!
benld74
(10,087 posts)niyad
(123,229 posts)will be happy to see your footprints alongside mine.
renate
(13,776 posts)It must have been tough to keep hoping and working for eight long years, but you did it!
PatrickforO
(15,204 posts)as you continue your exercises!
Mad_Dem_X
(9,897 posts)I've been away from DU for quite some time, so I am not entirely familiar with your situation, but the news that you can walk again brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations!
ancianita
(40,289 posts)
democrank
(11,410 posts)My best to you. Stay strong.
Scurrilous
(38,687 posts)
Enoki33
(1,605 posts)person. Best wishes for the future. I came for politics and found much more. Thanks.
Prisoner_Number_Six
(15,676 posts)
gademocrat7
(11,411 posts)Best wishes for continued healing.
LeftishBrit
(41,318 posts)denbot
(9,931 posts)I wish you a speedy rehab as well.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)CrispyQ
(39,459 posts)I'm so happy for you!
I spent three months in a wheel chair once, due to an unusual illness. I lived in the second story of an historic home & if it hadn't been for friends who helped me, including many super nice taxi drivers!, it would have been much more difficult than it was.
Congratulations & may you continue to make progress!