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hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
Fri Dec 9, 2016, 08:02 PM Dec 2016

My beloved cat Patches died last night.

I first found Patches outside my grandmother's house a few days after we buried my grandfather in 2007 and for 9 and a half years she gave me great joy. She was top cat among five but was loving and sweet. Her meows sounded like she was saying me all the time and she loved to give kisses. She loved people and was loved by all who knew her.

Her death was sudden and quick. In a matter of hours she went downhill and at 1:30 in the morning died peacefully in my arms. I am so heartbroken over this and I thought I still had several more years before this would happen.

When you lose a pet you lose a part of yourself. My family has been very kind and been coming over to keep me company but it still is a shock and I feel lost without my sweet Patches.

It is so hard and painful to say goodbye.
Goodbye me sweet little girl!

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My beloved cat Patches died last night. (Original Post) hrmjustin Dec 2016 OP
There are no words. rug Dec 2016 #1
RIP, Patches. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2016 #2
I am so sorry, my dear hrmjustin... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2016 #3
Hugs. That is all. Lilyhoney Dec 2016 #4
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #5
Heartbroken for you. Laffy Kat Dec 2016 #6
I'm sorry, hrmjustin Solly Mack Dec 2016 #7
so sorry. nt DesertFlower Dec 2016 #8
Sweet Patches.... Useless in FL Dec 2016 #9
I am so sorry, it hurts so much. irisblue Dec 2016 #10
Oh Justin! Cooley Hurd Dec 2016 #11
My deepest sympathy. You have lost a close friend rurallib Dec 2016 #12
I am so sorry. Wish there was something I could say to help you feel better. Tess49 Dec 2016 #13
My condolences on your loss. IrishEyes Dec 2016 #14
RIP Patches. Condolences to you as she scampers over that Rainbow Bridge too soon... Hekate Dec 2016 #15
I am sorry shenmue Dec 2016 #16
Wishing you comfort. JudyM Dec 2016 #17
sorry Kali Dec 2016 #18
... Skittles Dec 2016 #19
I'm so sorry. we can do it Dec 2016 #20
So sorry for your loss...... a kennedy Dec 2016 #21
Tears and hugs to you. I am so sorry. Fla Dem Dec 2016 #22
So sorry TuxedoKat Dec 2016 #23
Goodbye Dear Patches Wolf Frankula Dec 2016 #24
Thank you all for your condolences! hrmjustin Dec 2016 #25
I am so sorry, hrmjustin. brer cat Dec 2016 #26
Patches had a good life and good Hoomin jpak Dec 2016 #27
Sorry Liberal_in_LA Dec 2016 #28

rurallib

(62,371 posts)
12. My deepest sympathy. You have lost a close friend
Fri Dec 9, 2016, 10:19 PM
Dec 2016

may you be blessed with wonderful memories of Patches.

JudyM

(29,176 posts)
17. Wishing you comfort.
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 01:14 AM
Dec 2016

When my little Bowie passed away it made me feel better to journal all the things I loved about her and some highlight times we'd had, as a keepsake. It made me smile through the tears as I sat and thought of these things.

May she live in the soft space in your heart... ((hugs))

Skittles

(153,095 posts)
19. ...
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 03:55 AM
Dec 2016


Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson

Fla Dem

(23,542 posts)
22. Tears and hugs to you. I am so sorry.
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 11:08 AM
Dec 2016
It is part of life that we lose the ones we love, but knowing that doesn't make it any easier. I know when my girl goes I will be devastated. RIP, Patches.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
23. So sorry
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 11:18 AM
Dec 2016

for the loss of your beloved Patches. She sounds like she was an absolutely wonderful cat, which makes it hurt all the more. I'm glad you and she were together for so many years. It's never long enough though is it? (((HUGS)))

Wolf Frankula

(3,598 posts)
24. Goodbye Dear Patches
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 12:04 PM
Dec 2016

Cats are family members and you have lost a loved one. My thoughts are with you.

Wolf

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
25. Thank you all for your condolences!
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 02:17 PM
Dec 2016

I am cleaning the house to try to keep busy. I have 4 other cats and they are aging so I know the next few years will be about cherishing every moment with them but there will be more heartache.

In the end the love a pet gives you is always worth it to have them.

Thank you all!

brer cat

(24,499 posts)
26. I am so sorry, hrmjustin.
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 06:23 PM
Dec 2016

It is such heartache when we lose a furbaby. RIP sweet Patches. You were greatly loved and will be greatly missed.

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