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Your Cheatin' Heart by Hank Williams
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The Polack MSgt
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(10,598 posts)Docreed2003
(18,714 posts)missingthebigdog
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(1,233 posts)nykym
(3,063 posts)malchickiwick
(1,474 posts)Charles Bukowski
(1,132 posts)Lyrically no song captures the misery that is unrequited love better than this song.
He came from somewhere back in her long ago
The sentimental fool don't see
Trying hard to recreate
What had yet to be created once in her life
She musters a smile
For his nostalgic tale
Never coming near what he wanted to say
Only to realize
It never really was
She had a place in his life
He never made her think twice
As he rises to her apology
Anybody else would surely know
He's watching her go
But what a fool believes he sees
No wise man has the power to reason away
What seems to be
Is always better than nothing
And nothing at all keeps sending him
Somewhere back in her long ago
Where he can still believe there's a place in her life
Someday, somewhere, she will return
She had a place in his life
He never made her think twice
As he rises to her apology
Anybody else would surely know
He's watching her go
But what a fool believes he sees
No wise man has the power to reason away
What seems to be
Is always better than nothing
There's nothing at all.
spooky3
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(10,180 posts)saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)If I might go beyond the obvious, political activisim is an act of love for all humanity.
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emulatorloo
(46,155 posts)"Here With Me"
Wheels are turning
I remember when you were mine
Now just to reach you
Baby, I'd stand in line
But there's another world
We're living in
Tonight
And there's another heart
That's fading in
The light
Don't want your picture
On my cell phone
I want you here with me
Don't want your memory
In my head now
I want you here with me
Spent the summer, just laying out in the sun
Time seems to move so slow
When you're taking it as it comes
Maybe we were just too young
Your body was tanned and your hair was long
You showed me your smile and my cares were gone
Falling in love filled my soul with fright
You said "Come on babe, it'll be alright"
I must have been a fool to the bitter end
Now I hold on to hope to have you back again
I'd bargain and I'd fight
But there's another world
We're living in
Tonight
Don't want your picture
On my cell phone
I want you here with me
I don't want your memory
In my head now
I want you here with me
Well I saw you in a restaurant
The other day
And instead of walking towards you
I ran away
And I'll keep on waiting for you
Till you'll come around
Come around and say
Don't want your picture
On my cell phone
I want you here with me
Don't need those memories
In my head now
I want you here with me
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red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Outstanding song!
emulatorloo
(46,155 posts)The emotion in his voice when he sings "well I saw you in a restaurant the other day" chokes me up every time.
On Edit: Red dog, this thread is killing me! So glad you posted it.
Coventina
(29,731 posts)As a point of trivia: This was the song that eventually broke them up as a band after the "Talk Show" tour.
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Too bad they split up.
Buckeye_Democrat
(15,526 posts)Though I've tried before to tell her
Of the feelings I have for her in my heart
Every time that I come near her
I just lose my nerve as I've done from the start
Every little thing she does is magic
Everything she do just turns me on
Even though my life before was tragic
Now I know my love for her goes on
Do I have to tell the story
Of a thousand rainy days since we first met
It's a big enough umbrella
But it's always me that ends up getting wet
Every little thing she does is magic
Everything she do just turns me on
Even though my life before was tragic
Now I know my love for her goes on
I resolved to call her up
A thousand times a day
And ask her if she'll marry me
In some old fashioned way
But my silent fears have gripped me
Long before I reach the phone
Long before my tongue has tripped me
Must I always be alone?
Every little thing she does is magic
Everything she do just turns me on
Even though my life before was tragic
Now I know my love for her goes on
Every little thing she does is magic
Everything she do just turns me on
Even though my life before was tragic
Now I know my love for her goes on
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh, yeah
Every little thing, every little thing
Every little thing, every little thing
Every li'le, every li'le, every li'le
Every little thing she does
Every little thing, every little thing
Every little thing, every little thing
Every li'le, every li'le, every li'le
Every little thing she does
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Thanks for posting the lyrics
emulatorloo
(46,155 posts)"Have You Ever?"
Pretty poppy but kinda says it all regarding unrequited love
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"Have You Ever"
Chorus:
Have you ever loved somebody so much
It makes you cry
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can't sleep at night
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don't come out right
Have you ever, have you ever
Have you ever been in love
Been in love so bad
You'd do anything to make them understand
Have you ever had someone steal your heart away
You'd give anything to make them feel the same
Have you ever searched for words to get you in their heart
But you don't know what to say
And you don't know where to start
Chorus
Have you ever found the one
You've dreamed of all of your life
You'd do just about anything to look into their eyes
Have you finally found the one you've given your heart to
Only to find that one won't give their heart to you
Have you ever closed your eyes and
Dreamed that they were there
And all you can do is wait for the day when they will care
Chorus
What do I gotta do to get you in my arms baby
What do I gotta say to get to your heart
To make you understand how I need you next to me
Gotta get you in my world
'Cuz baby I can't sleep
Chorus
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Thanks for posting the lyrics
Charles Bukowski
(1,132 posts)JudyM
(29,785 posts)BainsBane
(57,757 posts)"Lies," by Adriana Calcanhotto
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FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)...she made it her own!
Prince
Botany
(77,323 posts)thanx for posting
Doc_Technical
(3,764 posts)Where are you now
Are you in some hotel room
Does it have a view?
Are you caught in a crowd
Or holding some honey
Who came on to you?
Why do you have to be so jive
OK hang up the phone
It hurts
But something survives
Though it's undermined
I'd still like to see you sometime
I'm feeling so good
And my friends all tell me
That I'm looking fine
I run in the woods
I spring from the boulders
Like a mama lion
I'm not ready to
Change my name again
But you know I'm not after
A piece of your fortune
And your fame
'Cause I tasted mine
I'd just like to see you sometime
Pack your suspenders *
I'll come meet your plane
No need to surrender
I just want to see you again
We're in for more rain
I could sure use some sunshine on my apple trees
It seems such a shame
We start out so kind and end so heartlessly
I couldn't take them all on then
With a headful of questions and hypes
So when the hopes got so slim
I just resigned
But I'd still like to see you sometime
I'd sure like to see you
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)I wonder who she wrote this song about?
Skittles
(171,713 posts)You made your choice, now it's up to me
To bow out gracefully
Though you hold the key, but baby
Whenever you call me, I'll be there
LOVE that song
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)blm
(114,658 posts)So THERE! Now get off my porch!
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)Hard to top this.
blm
(114,658 posts); )
Seriously, though
.this is the SUPREME BEING of all unrequited love songs.
missingthebigdog
(1,233 posts)I went to see him just today
Oh, but I didn't see no tears
All dressed up to go away
First time I'd seen him smile in years
blm
(114,658 posts)it has no equal
lpbk2713
(43,273 posts)pressbox69
(2,252 posts)blm
(114,658 posts)and my 8th grade crush
yankeepants
(1,979 posts)Va Lefty
(6,252 posts)LyndaG
(683 posts)NBachers
(19,438 posts)CanonRay
(16,171 posts)Hands down.
NBachers
(19,438 posts)NBachers
(19,438 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)I love that song!
NBachers
(19,438 posts)yankeepants
(1,979 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Written by Carol King and Gerry Goffin, and a huge hit for The Shirelles in 1961.
yankeepants
(1,979 posts)redstateblues
(10,565 posts)FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)JDC
(11,111 posts)Hayabusa
(2,149 posts)Great song.
Botany
(77,323 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Jonathan Edwards is still touring at 70.
If you live near Massachusetts or New Hampshire:
Friday Feb 24 - Rockport, MA
Saturday Feb 25 - Plymouth, NH
Saturday, April 8 - Northampton, MA
Botany
(77,323 posts)Sometimes is an awesome song ..... so sweet it hurts.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)I was fortunate enough to once see Roy Orbison back in the mid 1960s at a very small venue.(In San Francisco)...I was only about 40 feet away from the stage
(He's one of my musical heroes)
blm
(114,658 posts).
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)Roy Orbison was a tremendous talent. I enjoy every song I hear him sing.
blogslut
(39,167 posts)I was going to post this:
But, while playing it, the memory of Mr. Orbison's voice entered my head.
Botany
(77,323 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)From Hall & Oates' 1973 album "Abandoned Luncheonette"
Apparently, the last time they performed together was July 15, 2014 in Dublin, Ireland.
The duo made a cameo appearance in the 2015 Happy Madison film, "Pixels"
Last year, they received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for their work in the music industry.
John Oates still goes on tour as "John Oates and Friends"
(Not to change the subject; but did you see this OP posted earlier today?)
"Lying about illegal voting is cover for election manipulation"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10028529783
(Check out reply # 2...It's outstanding!)
Botany
(77,323 posts)n/t
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)In 1975, David Bowie released his album "Young Americans, a popular blue-eyed soul album which Bowie himself called "plastic soul."
Have you ever seen the very funny Irish film "The Commitments?"
It probably could be described as a "blue-eyed soul" movie.
It's about Dubliners who form a soul band..
(I've probably seen it at least 20 times)
Docreed2003
(18,714 posts)DesertFlower
(11,649 posts)by diana ross.
Zorro
(18,692 posts)Bayard
(29,693 posts)But I'd have a hard time choosing between it and, "I Can't Make You Love Me", Bonnie Raitt, and "Heart Of The Matter", Don Henley.
CRASH
You've got your ball
You've got your chain
Tied to me tight tie me up again
Who's got their claws
In you my friend
Into your heart I'll beat again
Sweet like candy to my soul
Sweet you rock
And sweet you roll
Lost for you I'm so lost for you
You come crash into me
And I come into you,
I come into you
In a boys dream
In a boys dream
Touch your lips just so I know
In your eyes, love, it glows so
I'm bare-boned and crazy for you
When you come crash
Into me, baby
And I come into you
In a boys dream
In a boys dream
If I've gone overboard
Then I'm begging you
To forgive me
In my haste
When I'm holding you so girl
Close to me
Oh and you come crash
Into me, baby
And I come into you
Hike up your skirt a little more
And show the world to me
Hike up your skirt a little more
And show your world to me
In a boy's dream, in a boy's dream
Oh I watch you there
Through the window
And I stare at you
You wear nothing but you
Wear it so well
Tied up and twisted,
The way I'd like to be
For you, for me, come crash
Into me
Baby oh Crash into me
Crash into me
Crash into me
Crash into me
I'm the king of the castle
Your a dirty rascal, crash into me.
Thanks for posting the lyrics
50 Shades Of Blue
(11,391 posts)sl8
(17,110 posts)I hadn't listened to the soundtrack for years, but I did just now, thanks to you.
Thanks for posting.
50 Shades Of Blue
(11,391 posts)missingthebigdog
(1,233 posts)May I add a few?
Kissing a fool- George Michael
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Still so sad.
Darlin' Nikki by Prince- nothing more unrequited than being used and tossed aside:
"Woke up the next morning
Nikki wasn't there,
I looked all over and all I found
Was a phone number on the stairs.
It said thank you for a funky time;
Call me up whenever you want to grind."
I really miss Prince
On a lighter note, Jessie's Girl, by Rick Springfield
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"
"And I'm looking in the mirror all the time
Wondering what she don't see in me
I've been funny, I've been cool with the lines
Ain't that the way love supposed to be?"
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Thanks for posting the lyrics
Mister Ed
(6,927 posts)A reworking of the old Gene Pitney single, with what I feel is one of the greatest vocal performances ever in popular music.
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)True Dough
(26,667 posts)Oceans apart day after day
And I slowly go insane
I hear your voice on the line
But it doesn't stop the pain
If I see you next to never
How can we say forever
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
I took for granted, all the times
That I thought would last somehow
I hear the laughter, I taste the tears
But I can't get near you now
Oh, can't you see it baby
You've got me going crazy
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
I wonder how we can survive
This romance
But in the end if I'm with you
I'll take the chance
Oh, can't you see it baby
You've got me going crazy
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
Waiting for you
True Dough
(26,667 posts)Aw, damn it. I have two favorites. Sue me!
The world was on fire and no one could save me but you
It's strange what desire will make foolish people do
I'd never dreamed that I'd meet somebody like you
And I'd never dreamed that I'd lose somebody like you
No I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
No I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
With you
With you (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
What a wicked game you played to make me feel this way
What a wicked thing to do to let me dream of you
What a wicked thing to say you never felt this way
What a wicked thing to do to make me dream of you
And I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
No I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
With you
The world was on fire and no one could save me but you
It's strange what desire will make foolish people do
I'd never dreamed that I'd love somebody like you
And I'd never dreamed that I'd lose somebody like you
No I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
No I don't want to fall in love (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
With you (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
With you (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
No I (this girl is only gonna break your heart)
(This girl is only gonna break your heart)
Nobody loves no one
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)True Dough
(26,667 posts)I was a teenager when it was released. Nearly wore out the VCR watching that one over and over!
Buckeye_Democrat
(15,526 posts)There was a Roy Orbison quality to his voice.
LisaM
(29,634 posts)Right up there. I also love "You Wear it Well" by Rod Stewart.
rainy
(6,321 posts)Sophiegirl
(2,338 posts)Buckeye_Democrat
(15,526 posts)Sedona
(3,872 posts)(Me thinks there's been more than a few heartbreaks
at DU)
You and me
We used to be together
Everyday together always
I really feel
That I'm losing my best friend
I can't believe
This could be the end
It looks as though you're letting go
And if it's real
Well I don't want to know
Don't speak
I know just what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don't tell me cause it hurts
Don't speak
I know what you're thinking
I don't need your reasons
Don't tell me cause it hurts
Our memories
Well, they can be inviting
But some are altogether
Mighty frightening
As we die, both you and I
With my head in my hands
I sit and cry
Don't speak
I know just what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don't tell me cause it hurts (no, no, no)
Don't speak
I know what you're thinking
I don't need your reasons
Don't tell me cause it hurts
It's all ending
I gotta stop pretending who we are...
You and me I can see us dying...are we?
Don't speak
I know just what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don't tell me cause it hurts (no, no, no)
Don't speak
I know what you're thinking
I don't need your reasons
Don't tell me cause it hurts
Don't tell me cause it hurts!
I know what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don't speak,
don't speak,
don't speak,
oh I know what you're thinking
And I don't need your reasons
I know you're good,
I know you're good,
I know you're real good
Oh, la la la la la la La la la la la la
Don't, Don't, uh-huh Hush, hush darlin'
Hush, hush darlin' Hush, hush
don't tell me tell me cause it hurts
Hush, hush darlin' Hush, hush darlin'
Hush, hush don't tell me tell me cause it hurts
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Thanks for posting the lyrics
Number9Dream
(1,880 posts)In my midnight confessions
When I tell all the world that I love you
In my midnight confessions
When I say all the things that I want to
I love you
Yes a little gold ring you wear on your hand makes me understand
There's another before me, you'll never be mine
I'm wasting my time
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)Thanks for the reminder-
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)"Where Were You When I Needed You?'...a truly great song!
CTyankee
(68,201 posts)I almost cry when I hear it....don't much care for the BST version...
sl8
(17,110 posts)I think it's unrequited - he did finally did get a kiss, but I think he longed for much more.
Out in the West Texas town of El Paso
I fell in love with a Mexican girl
Nighttime would find me in Rosa's cantina
Music would play and Felina would whirl
Blacker than night were the eyes of Felina
Wicked and evil while casting a spell
My love was deep for this Mexican maiden
I was in love, but in vain I could tell
One night a wild young cowboy came in
Wild as the West Texas wind
Dashing and daring, a drink he was sharing
With wicked Felina, the girl that I loved
So in anger I challenged his right for the love of this maiden
Down went his hand for the gun that he wore
My challenge was answered in less than a heartbeat
The handsome young stranger lay dead on the floor
Just for a moment I stood there In silence
Shocked by the foul evil deed I had done
Many thoughts raced through my mind as I stood there
I had but one chance and that was to run
Out through the back door of Rosa's I ran
Out where the horses were tied
I caught a good one, it looked like it could run
Up on its back and away I did ride
Just as fast as I could from the West Texas town of El Paso
Out to the badlands of New Mexico
Back in El Paso my life would be worthless
Everything's gone, in life nothing is left
It's been so long since I've seen the young maiden
My love is stronger than my fear of death
I saddled up and away I did go
Riding alone in the dark
Maybe tomorrow a bullet may find me
Tonight nothing's worse than this pain in my heart
And at last here I am on the hill overlooking El Paso
I can see Rosa's Cantina below
My love is strong and it pushes me onward
Down off the hill to Felina I go
Off to my right I see five mounted cowboys
Off to my left ride a dozen or more
Shouting and shooting, I can't let them catch me
I have to make it to Rosa's back door
Something is dreadfully wrong, for I feel
A deep burning pain in my side
Though I am trying to stay in the saddle
I'm getting weary, unable to ride
But my love for Felina is strong and I rise where I've fallen
Though I am weary, I can't stop to rest
I see the white puff of smoke from the rifle
I feel the bullet go deep in my chest
From out of nowhere Felina has found me
Kissing my cheek as she kneels by my side
Cradled by two loving arms that I'll die for
One little kiss, then Felina good-bye
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)One of my all-time favorites.
I think it qualifies as an "unrequited love song"
What I don't get is why he considers shooting the gunfighter a "foul evil deed"?
After all, the guy did reach for his gun...It seemed to be a fair "gunfight"
sl8
(17,110 posts)Once the cowboy had drawn, it was natural to draw against him.
In hindsight, though, he did end up killing a man over his affection for a woman. Isn't that evil, and foul, to kill your fellow man for havng the same feelings that you have?
😉
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)Mendocino
(8,492 posts)musette_sf
(10,486 posts)Dave Starsky
(5,914 posts)LandrosT
(50 posts)Great song.
spooky3
(38,633 posts)montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)of all time..... Jackie Wilson!
"Lonely Teardrops", "The Tear Of The Year"
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Last edited Thu Jan 26, 2017, 07:33 PM - Edit history (2)
It's a truly great movie, with a superb cast..
Actor-producer "Leon" (Leon Robinson) is outstanding as Jackie Wilson, who is a major part of the film.
(Paula Abdul is also great as the famous Brill Building songwriter, Denise Walton)
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)How can I see it? I'd love to.
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Thank you for asking about it.
I'm on my way to Amazon.com right now to buy 3 copies of it myself.
(2 for gifts & 1 for me)
JustABozoOnThisBus
(24,681 posts)jayschool2013
(2,611 posts)Dulcinea
(10,088 posts)Love will abide, take things in stride
Sounds like good advice but there's no one at my side
And time washes clean love's wounds unseen
That's what someone told me but I don't know what it means.
Cause I've done everything I know to try and make you mine
And I think I'm gonna love you for a long long time
Caught in my fears
Blinking back the tears
I can't say you hurt me when you never let me near
And I never drew one response from you
All the while you fell all over girls you never knew
Cause I've done everything I know to try and make you mine
And I think it's gonna hurt me for a long long time
Wait for the day
You'll go away
Knowing that you warned me of the price I'd have to pay
And life's full of flaws
Who knows the cause?
Living in the memory of a love that never was
Cause I've done everything I know to try and change your mind
and I think I'm gonna miss you for a long long time
Cause I've done everything I know to try and make you mine
And I think I'm gonna love you for a long long time.
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)I love that song, especially Linda Ronstadt's 1970 version, off her Silk Purse album.
It earned her a Grammy nomination (She should have won,imo)
The song was written by Gary White
Shrek
(4,428 posts)Honorable mention: "Centerfold" by J. Geils Band
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)I also like Meat Loaf...mostly as an actor
My favorite Meat Loaf movie is "Leap of Faith" with Steve Martin, Debra Winger and
Liam Neeson....If you haven't yet seen it, you might want to....Great movie!
DFW
(60,186 posts)Leo Kottke's cover of "Learning the Game."
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)Tikki
(15,140 posts)I am trying to wean my granddaughter off Kidz Bop and I know she admires women singers.
This talented Checz Republic singer should catch her attention.
Tikki
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)exboyfil
(18,359 posts)Gorgeous sax work. It is like a duet.
exboyfil
(18,359 posts)Quadrophenia
In particular
5:15 - Depression
Dr. Jimmy and Mr. Jim - Rage
Love, Reign o'er Me - Acceptance
mobeau69
(12,374 posts)randr
(12,648 posts)sagesnow
(2,887 posts)Patsy Cline - Crazy
Lyrics:
Crazy
Crazy for feeling so lonely
I'm crazy
Crazy for feeling so blue
I knew
You'd love me as long as you wanted
And then someday
You leave me for somebody new
Worry
Why do I let myself worry
Wondring
What in the world did I do
Crazy
For thinking that my love could hold you
I'm crazy for trying
I'm crazy for crying
I'm crazy for loving you
Crazy
For thinking that my love could hold you
I'm crazy for trying
I'm crazy for crying
I'm crazy for loving you
red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Great unrequited love song written by Willie Nelson & recorded by many; but Patsy Cline's version is by far the best.
She probably recorded more great country songs in only 8 years than anyone else.
What a shame she died so young (plane crash at 30)
sagesnow
(2,887 posts)LuckyLib
(7,052 posts)red dog 1
(33,063 posts)Well, since she put me down I've been out doin' in my head
Come in late at night and in the mornin' I just lay in bed
Well, Rhonda, you look so fine
And I know it wouldn't take much time
For you to..help me Rhonda
Help me get her out of my heart
Help me, Rhonda
Help, help me Rhonda
Help me, Rhonda
Help, help me Rhonda
Help me Rhonda, yeah
Get her out of my heart
She was gonna be my wife
And I was gonna be her man
But she let another guy come between us
And it ruined our plan
Well, Rhonda you caught my eye
And I can give you lots of reasons why
You gotta help me Rhonda
Help me get her out of my heart
Help me Rhonda
Help, help me Rhonda
Help me Rhonda
Help, help me Rhonda
Help me Rhonda, yeah
Get her out of my heart.
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)annabanana
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(52,804 posts)Fuck You
FrankfurtCat
(1,215 posts)red dog 1
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