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steve2470

(37,457 posts)
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 08:58 AM Apr 2017

What are you MOST grateful for in your life ?

If you have a hard time choosing, that's wonderful, sincerely I'd have to say my health. As that old saying goes, you're as young as you feel, and most of the time I feel pretty young. I'm "only" 58 so hopefully that will continue for a long time. If your health is not good, my sincerest sympathies to you If you are in chronic pain, my sincerest sympathies

What about you ?

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What are you MOST grateful for in your life ? (Original Post) steve2470 Apr 2017 OP
sobriety A-Schwarzenegger Apr 2017 #1
Buddhist dharma vlyons Apr 2017 #2
That's way up there for me as well, vylons. Tools for dealing make everything better. JudyM Apr 2017 #15
That and .... yuiyoshida Apr 2017 #45
My wonderful family. femmocrat Apr 2017 #3
Breathing Tommy_Carcetti Apr 2017 #4
I'd have to echo that...thanks! Heartstrings Apr 2017 #27
Being alive. n/t malthaussen Apr 2017 #5
It has to be health for me as well True Dough Apr 2017 #6
Grand kids nt duncang Apr 2017 #7
My son, his wife and Lola....and my dogs. :-) Raven Apr 2017 #8
Family NobodyHere Apr 2017 #9
Music. Doc_Technical Apr 2017 #10
Family benld74 Apr 2017 #11
I'd go with basic good health, too. sarge43 Apr 2017 #12
My incredibly kind, loving, patient and always curious husband... Tikki Apr 2017 #13
Wow, you are lucky! JudyM Apr 2017 #14
Thank you JudyM...Yes I am...our grown sons and our grandchildren are the loves of our lives, too. Tikki Apr 2017 #16
Adorable! JudyM Apr 2017 #17
He was raised by a truly fine set of parents. I adored them both. Tikki Apr 2017 #19
Ha! As you should! JudyM Apr 2017 #20
Awesome cilla4progress Apr 2017 #30
My spread-out, yet very intact family DFW Apr 2017 #18
how is your wife doing ? steve2470 Apr 2017 #21
Tough one, so many things. Yonnie3 Apr 2017 #22
My dog. Texasgal Apr 2017 #23
I'm so sorry for Your recent losses. furtheradu Apr 2017 #32
............. steve2470 Apr 2017 #35
My dogs have been my rocks thru hard times... Duppers Apr 2017 #39
... Kali Apr 2017 #42
My wife and daughters n/t Still In Wisconsin Apr 2017 #24
My wife Generic Brad Apr 2017 #25
My wife. My kids. Their kids. Family. dchill Apr 2017 #26
My only "child" Home from Iraq, & OUT. furtheradu Apr 2017 #28
Family. applegrove Apr 2017 #29
My husband and our wonderful cilla4progress Apr 2017 #31
My boyfriend. He vexes me daily, but I can't imagine life without him, or pnwest Apr 2017 #33
My wife and my health Best_man23 Apr 2017 #34
My animals Bayard Apr 2017 #36
My family: Husband, kids, grandbaby LeftInTX Apr 2017 #37
My husband Corgigal Apr 2017 #38
Family and friends Hula Popper Apr 2017 #40
My family - both the two leggers and the four leggers. hamsterjill Apr 2017 #41
My relationship with my parents Va Lefty Apr 2017 #43
Flush toilets Major Nikon Apr 2017 #44
once read a book... oldcynic Apr 2017 #48
Music..... fNord Apr 2017 #46
My wife and fur babies retrowire Apr 2017 #47

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
2. Buddhist dharma
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 09:00 AM
Apr 2017

Has enabled me to not get hijacked by my negative emotions, and given me the confidence to deal with whatever comes my way.

True Dough

(17,313 posts)
6. It has to be health for me as well
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 09:25 AM
Apr 2017

I'm 44 and even though most people at my age are healthy, at this stage more people in your life are aging and losing their independence due to health issues (parents, in-laws, aunts, uncles, a few older friends). You become more aware of how quickly things can go south.

Being prudent in your choices can help stave off some conditions but it often seems to random when a person's health takes a turn for the worse. I mean, you can anticipate some things, i.e. both parents were diabetic and you get diabetes as well, but you can never know for sure when it will strike. Then sometimes a person gets some disease right out of the blue that didn't run in the family. It's just misfortune.

At least we live in a day and age when many conditions that were once fatal or reduced quality of life to a minimum can be treated to a much greater degree due to medical advances, but there's still some awfully shitty cards that people are dealt.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
12. I'd go with basic good health, too.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 02:10 PM
Apr 2017

Also, I had the good fortune to have a mother who really wanted children and was good at the job.

Tikki

(14,559 posts)
16. Thank you JudyM...Yes I am...our grown sons and our grandchildren are the loves of our lives, too.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 06:43 PM
Apr 2017

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Here we are 50 some years ago.

The Tikkis

Tikki

(14,559 posts)
19. He was raised by a truly fine set of parents. I adored them both.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 06:53 PM
Apr 2017

I pat myself on the back constantly for recognizing that the nice boy with the beat up
car..the one he fixed himself...was the coolest kid I would ever know.

Tikki

DFW

(54,420 posts)
18. My spread-out, yet very intact family
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 06:53 PM
Apr 2017

My amazing wife and our bi-lingual, bi-cultural daughters. Brains, beauty and common sense (them, not me).

My wife and I have had to deal with some serious health issues (2 rounds of cancer for her, a cardiac near-miss or two for me), but nothing so far that we haven't been able to bounce back from. It'll come, but we're in no rush. In the meantime, we've had quite a run, as well you know, Steve
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1018940906

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
21. how is your wife doing ?
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 07:23 PM
Apr 2017

If memory serves, she was recuperating well ? Best wishes to her, you and your entire lovely family, my friend!

Yonnie3

(17,451 posts)
22. Tough one, so many things.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 08:31 PM
Apr 2017

Although it seems trite, life itself and life in those around me, but that is not really an answer to your specific question.

So, what I am MOST grateful for is intellect. The ability to think of abstract things and reason and so forth. Without that ability life would be meaningless.

Texasgal

(17,046 posts)
23. My dog.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 08:41 PM
Apr 2017

I know it sounds crazy, but I lost my husband in november and our dogs ( Minus one i had to put down last week ) has been the only thing that has helped my grief and pain.

furtheradu

(1,865 posts)
32. I'm so sorry for Your recent losses.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 10:17 PM
Apr 2017

It doesn't sound "crazy ", at all. I HOPE (!) You have some Love & support. You probably know there's a DU bereavement group? Please be patient, kind & loving to YourSelf.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
25. My wife
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 09:53 PM
Apr 2017

She has been my reason for living for more than 30 years. She is my partner. My best friend. The only person I can be myself with. You should all be so lucky as to have a trusted, loving partner like I have had.

furtheradu

(1,865 posts)
28. My only "child" Home from Iraq, & OUT.
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 10:10 PM
Apr 2017

Mind, Body & Spirit.. whole, healthy, & strong. I AM truly lucky & Blessed. Every day, my morning prayer is thanking Spirit for THIS. Some days I am exhausted, depressed, or down to my last $.. & then I remember. MY Son is HOME, & OUT. Thank YOU for the question.. I needed to remember, tonight. 💖

cilla4progress

(24,756 posts)
31. My husband and our wonderful
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 10:17 PM
Apr 2017

Daughter. And everything in the NATURAL world! Just love it! 🦋🌲🌹🌎

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
33. My boyfriend. He vexes me daily, but I can't imagine life without him, or
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 10:20 PM
Apr 2017

the wonderful life we have together. Thank you for reminding me to BE grateful!

Best_man23

(4,900 posts)
34. My wife and my health
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 10:26 PM
Apr 2017

My bride of 10 years is much of my life.

In terms of my health, I do my best, but know I could always do better.

Bayard

(22,119 posts)
36. My animals
Mon Apr 24, 2017, 11:54 PM
Apr 2017

They've always given me a reason to get out of bed in the morning, even when it was the last thing I wanted to do. I know they are waiting for breakfast. Horses, mini-donkeys, goats, dogs, cats, and various poultry.

AND, finally finding the right man that loves the animals as much as I do. Oh--and me too!

LeftInTX

(25,464 posts)
37. My family: Husband, kids, grandbaby
Tue Apr 25, 2017, 01:19 AM
Apr 2017

My health is OK...Got arthritis, fibromyalgia etc, have had it for years, but I'm grateful that I am able to exercise and I do OK. I'm just have a messy house and am sometimes limited in my social activities.

I'm grateful for hair dye because it keeps me looking younger. I'm also grateful for music. I'm grateful for good weather when we have it (usually Nov-May) I'm grateful that we have parks near my house. The parks are new and they have miles of hiking trails...they aren't the most scenic, but they are a form of exercise in the most obese city in the USA. I'm also grateful that I am not obese.

I have a lot to be grateful for.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
38. My husband
Tue Apr 25, 2017, 01:30 AM
Apr 2017

Who after 28 years thinks I'm a princess.

Also, the ability to move out of South Carolina and closer to my youngest son who just graduated from Berea college. He has some medical issues and I'm thankful that we had enough equity in the house to allowed us to start anew. I'm happy that I'm closer to him and help him if he needs it.

Va Lefty

(6,252 posts)
43. My relationship with my parents
Tue Apr 25, 2017, 02:48 PM
Apr 2017

Had some rough patches when I was in my teens, but really close to them now. Difficult to watch them get old (78 & 77) grateful for many good memories.

fNord

(1,756 posts)
46. Music.....
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 01:49 AM
Apr 2017

From Wolfgang Amadeus to the Wu Tang Clan to the guy on the corner with two sticks and a turned up trash can.....music never ceases to amaze, inspire, or excite me.

https://m.


retrowire

(10,345 posts)
47. My wife and fur babies
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 11:54 AM
Apr 2017

My wife saves my life more than we know.

And the fur babies are my best friend's and adorable kids all at the same time!

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