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Some people seem to think "pin" and "pen" are pronounced differently. (Original Post) raccoon May 2017 OP
Pinnsylvania? Iggo May 2017 #1
my mother insists that mary, marry, and merry all sound different. unblock May 2017 #2
Marry sounds different. The other two are the same. brush May 2017 #27
We'll all be making merry when I marry Mary Mack. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2017 #32
Delightful to be sure. 3catwoman3 Jun 2017 #37
I absolutely love it. PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2017 #40
Homonym HopeAgain May 2017 #3
doesn't apply to pin and pen Phentex May 2017 #6
Not homonyms. zanana1 Jun 2017 #65
Same here - totally different. smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #66
That's what I was saying... Phentex Jun 2017 #67
yes, regional differences demigoddess Jun 2017 #84
Some people in the south think set and sit sound the same... Phentex Jun 2017 #85
Homophones. eppur_se_muova Jun 2017 #73
exactly Phentex Jun 2017 #86
Nope. Homonyms. nt zanana1 Jun 2017 #88
The definitions I posted (courtesy of Google) say "both". nt eppur_se_muova Jun 2017 #90
It depends on your dialect. raging moderate May 2017 #4
Right, like there's a difference between Mme. Defarge May 2017 #5
You're from Western PA, Aren't You? Leith May 2017 #24
Portland, OR Mme. Defarge May 2017 #25
Never Mind Leith May 2017 #30
I have a friend who's from western PA. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2017 #33
I grew up out west, and pen and pin are pronounced differently Drahthaardogs Jun 2017 #72
I pronounce "caught" and "cot" the same. Dulcinea Jun 2017 #92
Larry the Cable Guy had a bit on this citood May 2017 #7
Classy zanana1 Jun 2017 #89
That's why there are inkpens C_U_L8R May 2017 #8
Pronouncing "winch" and "wench" the same can get you in trouble. alarimer May 2017 #9
You just brought back a small Army memory... jmowreader May 2017 #28
Important point. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2017 #34
And then some say wrinch when they mean wrench. Take a wrinch to that wench I say. yellowcanine Jun 2017 #76
Some people think "bury" and "berry" are pronounced differently. yellowcanine Jun 2017 #77
I picked some blueburries down by the crik. yellowcanine Jun 2017 #78
Pronounciation can be dangerous-- I once saw a guy almost get his ass kicked in a diner... TreasonousBastard May 2017 #10
In this case, "lazily" was probably correct, Spanish-wise! WinkyDink May 2017 #21
What dialect zipplewrath May 2017 #11
No difference Tiggeroshii May 2017 #12
What do you think of "cot" and "caught"? GBizzle May 2017 #13
Me too. Caught to me is said "cawt." Nt raccoon May 2017 #16
All the supposed homonyms mentioned in this thread sound different when I say them. Ron Obvious May 2017 #14
Totally different pronunciation. sinkingfeeling May 2017 #15
Yep, as alike as "covfefe" and "santorum" JustABozoOnThisBus May 2017 #17
Lol...pretty sure I interpreted that much dirtier than you intended.... Docreed2003 May 2017 #26
Both terms are wide open to interpretation. nt JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2017 #45
It was the sounds alike part that got me...lol Docreed2003 Jun 2017 #47
The educated say "get", in Texas we say "git." LanternWaste May 2017 #18
Never mind ruining the Iambic Pentameter. ;-) WinkyDink May 2017 #22
my first week in Texas Skittles May 2017 #19
you found one that could write? bluecollar2 Jun 2017 #55
now now Skittles Jun 2017 #56
I know... bluecollar2 Jun 2017 #57
I do hear you Skittles Jun 2017 #60
Abbott bluecollar2 Jun 2017 #61
"Pin" is not pronounced as the writing utensil "pen." Not correctly, anyway. WinkyDink May 2017 #20
I don't hear a difference. Explain pls. brush May 2017 #31
Do you go... 3catwoman3 Jun 2017 #36
Sorry, still don't hear a difference. brush Jun 2017 #42
Me either. nt raccoon Jun 2017 #48
Ben went to the store. He found a good deal in the thrift shop bargain bin. MiltonBrown Jun 2017 #58
Must be genetic. nt raccoon Jun 2017 #62
Were you a terrible spiller in school? Did your teacher throw your book out the wendow? Phentex Jun 2017 #68
No, I never spilled anything. Lol nt raccoon Jun 2017 #69
Some math for you, Doc_Technical May 2017 #23
Um not around hear, I mean here........:) lunasun May 2017 #29
This thread is exactly why it's not remotely feasible to PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2017 #35
I always thought it was odd when my grandmother would call Washington Warshington Doreen Jun 2017 #38
Ahhh. Again I first heard that pronunciation PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2017 #39
oh I saw an episode on Matlock about that lol Was she from Arkansas? luvMIdog Jun 2017 #52
Pronounced correctly they are different rainy Jun 2017 #41
Still don't hear a difference. It's in the mind of the speaker I guess. brush Jun 2017 #43
try saying in then etch rainy Jun 2017 #44
Nah, any difference is in the mind of the speaker brush Jun 2017 #46
Wait; you seriously don't hear the difference Codeine Jun 2017 #50
OK -- how about flower and flour? NCjack Jun 2017 #53
living in ohio skippercollector Jun 2017 #49
Don Dawn- Con Yawn MiltonBrown Jun 2017 #59
What is your point? guillaumeb Jun 2017 #51
i make pin a little more nasaly.(is that a word?) samnsara Jun 2017 #54
"...I can't hear it." You can hear one of them drop. n/t retread Jun 2017 #63
What an interesting thread...thanks for starting it, raccoon. Glorfindel Jun 2017 #64
I definitely pronounce them differently ailsagirl Jun 2017 #70
My son came home from Georgia preschool one day with a new saying. aikoaiko Jun 2017 #71
If you think a pin is mightier than a sword IronLionZion Jun 2017 #74
How many angels can fit on the head of a pig pin? yellowcanine Jun 2017 #81
My Canadian husband greymattermom Jun 2017 #75
And some say that "roof" rhymes with "woof." But maybe they are spoofin. yellowcanine Jun 2017 #79
So do they pronounce penthouse as pinthouse? yellowcanine Jun 2017 #80
There does not seem to be a difference in hearing the sounds Phentex Jun 2017 #82
Witch and Which get a lot of people. yellowcanine Jun 2017 #83
A stickin' pin or a writin' pin? Brother Buzz Jun 2017 #87
Good friend of mine from GA would always differentiate by saying. NCTraveler Jun 2017 #91

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
32. We'll all be making merry when I marry Mary Mack.
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:44 PM
May 2017

I likewise tend to pronounce all three words the same, but please listen to this and hear the difference. Plus, it's a delightful song.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
40. I absolutely love it.
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 03:45 AM
Jun 2017

What I like best is that it helps me to distinguish those three words. I can hear the differences with no problem, but I don't pronounce them that distinctively.

I can recall many years ago hearing people pronounce a relative's name "Mary" with that distinctive sound. I was fascinated because it was sufficiently different from what I was used to -- Mary, merry, marry -- all sounding alike. I know that context is almost always sufficient, but I'm thrilled to preserve the different pronunciations.

Another example. Many years ago I had an anthropology teacher who talked about having to friends, one with the first name Barry, another with the last name Berry. She could never tell which one her other friends were talking about, and they were always befuddled that she could not distinguish between them. In her case, she could not hear the difference, which when I say those two names in my head, I can clearly hear.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
3. Homonym
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:31 AM
May 2017

"each of two words having the same pronunciation but different meanings, origins, or spelling (e.g., to, too, and two); a homophone."

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
66. Same here - totally different.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 05:15 PM
Jun 2017

I took a swing at a pinata in Pennsylvania? Would they say penata in Pennsylvania or pinata in Pinnsylvania?

demigoddess

(6,640 posts)
84. yes, regional differences
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 11:19 AM
Jun 2017

I learned them differently. Yet, I have heard people pronounce pen as pin. Kind of like when my husband say exscape for escape. He's from NY. drives me crazy.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
85. Some people in the south think set and sit sound the same...
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 12:53 PM
Jun 2017

not all but I have heard people use them the same way. Set down in that chair and set your drink on the table.

eppur_se_muova

(36,257 posts)
73. Homophones.
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 01:36 AM
Jun 2017

ho·mo·phone
ˈhäməˌfōn,ˈhōməˌfōn/
noun
noun: homophone; plural noun: homophones

each of two or more words having the same pronunciation but different meanings, origins, or spelling, e.g., new and knew.
each of a set of symbols denoting the same sound or group of sounds.




hom·o·nym
ˈhäməˌnim,ˈhōməˌnim/
noun
noun: homonym; plural noun: homonyms

each of two or more words having the same spelling but different meanings and origins (e.g., pole1 and pole2); a homograph.
each of two words having the same pronunciation but different meanings, origins, or spelling (e.g., to, too, and two); a homophone.

raging moderate

(4,296 posts)
4. It depends on your dialect.
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:35 AM
May 2017

These two words are very distinct in some American dialects, but not in others. The same is true of Mary, merry, and marry.

Leith

(7,808 posts)
24. You're from Western PA, Aren't You?
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:16 PM
May 2017

Just like my husband and his family. It gives me a little smile when he talks about his uncle "Dawnie."

He still can't tell the difference between "caught" and "cot."

Leith

(7,808 posts)
30. Never Mind
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:30 PM
May 2017

I don't know anything about that.

It can be a real time for me with the in-laws, but it's getting better.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
33. I have a friend who's from western PA.
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:53 PM
May 2017

His name is Don, and sometimes when he calls me he announces himself as Dawn.

I try not to tease him too much.

I spent the first fourteen years of my life in upstate NY (Utica and nearby), then moved to Tucson, AZ. I joke that for the first two years there I had no friends because no one could understand me when I spoke, even my French teacher, no matter which language I used.

It was there that I first heard people pronounce pen and pin exactly the same.

The up side of moving to Tucson was that almost all of my NY accent was done away with in a couple of years. Every so often, but very rarely any more, someone with a good ear will correctly guess where I'm originally from.

I am fascinated by accents. I don't have a very good ear myself, and I'll confuse accents that are actually quite distinctive, but the entire topic of language, linguistics, accents, and the likes completely captivate me.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
72. I grew up out west, and pen and pin are pronounced differently
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 10:18 PM
Jun 2017

Pen, sounds like enter

Pin, sounds like in.

Same in Santa Fe, Phoenix, Omaha, and Cheyenne. I have no idea why this would not be true in Tuscon

Dulcinea

(6,616 posts)
92. I pronounce "caught" and "cot" the same.
Sat Jun 10, 2017, 02:22 PM
Jun 2017

Yes, I'm originally from Pittsburgh, but have lived in Atlanta for 28 years. My pronunciation has modified a bit over time, but I haven't acquired a drawl. When I go back to visit, I pick up my old dialect all over again!

I also had an Uncle Donny, pronounced Dawny. It's all the same.

"Pin" & "pen" have different vowel sounds to me, but not to my Georgia-bred friends!

citood

(550 posts)
7. Larry the Cable Guy had a bit on this
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:37 AM
May 2017

It dealt with how he would pronounce the name Peg...the punch line was that it depends on what she looks like.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
9. Pronouncing "winch" and "wench" the same can get you in trouble.
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:47 AM
May 2017

Especially if, in a written document, you use "wench" when you mean "winch." Not the same thing. At all.

jmowreader

(50,552 posts)
28. You just brought back a small Army memory...
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:29 PM
May 2017

After Berlin I went to Fort Drum and was made a "squad leader" in a 44-soldier company. I had three subordinates and one Humvee shelter carrier with a winch because that's what you drive in a place that gets four feet of snow a day.

First Monday there, we went to the motor pool for that grandest of Army Traditions, Motor Stables...where you inspect your truck very thoroughly and fill out an equipment inspection report, DA Form 2404. There's a place for equipment nomenclature, and the troop writing the 2404 wrote, "Shelter Carrier, w/Wench, M1042."

I handed the form back. "This vehicle does not have a wench."
"Oh yes! It has a wench!"
"No it doesn't."
"It has a wench! Want me to show it to you?"
"No, it has a WINCH. A wench is something else entirely."

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
10. Pronounciation can be dangerous-- I once saw a guy almost get his ass kicked in a diner...
Wed May 31, 2017, 11:52 AM
May 2017

by a black waitress when he lazily pronounced "Nicaragua".

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
11. What dialect
Wed May 31, 2017, 12:01 PM
May 2017

There is a distinct difference in "Walter Cronkite" english. Not sure in eastern Tennessee.

 

Tiggeroshii

(11,088 posts)
12. No difference
Wed May 31, 2017, 12:18 PM
May 2017

Depending on where you are from and how you get up saying it

Linguists call it a penpin

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
14. All the supposed homonyms mentioned in this thread sound different when I say them.
Wed May 31, 2017, 12:52 PM
May 2017

Bloody pack of Visigoths in here today.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. The educated say "get", in Texas we say "git."
Wed May 31, 2017, 04:23 PM
May 2017

The educated say "get", but in Texas we say "git."

Then again, we also pronounce Montague as "MON-tayg," which made for some odd-sounding high school read-alongs in Lit class; "Thou villain MON-tayg,—Hold me not, let me go..."

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
19. my first week in Texas
Wed May 31, 2017, 05:24 PM
May 2017

Last edited Wed May 31, 2017, 07:02 PM - Edit history (1)

someone asked me if I had a pin - I was like, er, a what? a PIN? they kept saying yes.......took me way too long to figure out they were TRYING to say "PEN"

bluecollar2

(3,622 posts)
57. I know...
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:37 PM
Jun 2017

I lived there for almost 25 years.

But the level of corruption and incompetence soured me.

After Ann Richards and Molly Ivins passed the decline became complete.

bluecollar2

(3,622 posts)
61. Abbott
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:55 PM
Jun 2017

Paxton, Cornyn, Cruz, the texas Supreme Court, The Court of Appeals...

The whole place has become a cesspool.

Texas Democrats are some of the best but if I had to go back the only place I'd go would be down to the border..

3catwoman3

(23,968 posts)
36. Do you go...
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 12:23 AM
Jun 2017

..."in" the house, or "en" the house?

For those of us who do pronounce these differently and hear them differently, the writing implements is pronounced like "pending" without the -ing ending, or like in 'tent' or 'rent' or 'sent' or 'bent.'

The fastening device would be like "inn," as in "no room at the inn," or 'sin,' or 'win.'

MiltonBrown

(322 posts)
58. Ben went to the store. He found a good deal in the thrift shop bargain bin.
Sat Jun 3, 2017, 11:37 PM
Jun 2017

Ben, bin don't sound the same to me.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
35. This thread is exactly why it's not remotely feasible to
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 12:03 AM
Jun 2017

try to go to spelling English phonetically.

Even those here who pronounce pin and pen exactly the same, will recognize the difference in writing. Or the marry, merry, Mary example. There are lots of other such examples, where the spelling preserves the original differences in pronunciation, which are sometimes preserved in certain populations.

English is a very peculiar language, and some of our spellings preserve the language of origin, some of them preserve an older pronunciation, and some help preserve an older meaning. Okay, some some of our spellings could be simplified, but if we attempted to go to a purely phonetic system, something an Aussie would write would be totally incomprehensible to someone from the Deep South, just for one example.

I used to think that things like TV and movies were eliding differences in pronunciation of our language, and I've realized recently that that's not very true. Certain extreme accents seem to have been lost, but other differences have not only become entrenched but seem to have deepened.

The nature of language is continual change. Modern technology has slowed it down somewhat, but not completely.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
38. I always thought it was odd when my grandmother would call Washington Warshington
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 03:31 AM
Jun 2017

or say she needed to wash warsh something.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
39. Ahhh. Again I first heard that pronunciation
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 03:39 AM
Jun 2017

(warsh for wash) when I moved to Tucson from upstate New York. Naturally, to me, it sounded wrong.

rainy

(6,089 posts)
44. try saying in then etch
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 06:32 AM
Jun 2017

Try saying in then etch. Notice the difference in the i and e sound now? You are just saying pen wrong that's why it sounds like pin😀 We pretty much all pronounce it wrong.

skippercollector

(206 posts)
49. living in ohio
Thu Jun 1, 2017, 08:52 AM
Jun 2017

I've lived in Cincinnati all my life. Everyone I know, including me, pronounces pin and pen differently, as they do than and then.
However, no one I know who is a native has ever pronounced Mary/merry/marry differently, nor have I ever heard anyone say cot/caught or Don/dawn differently. Even if I heard someone with a different accent try to teach me how to differentiate between them, I doubt I'd be physically able to do so.
I remember I once heard on TV shows where Bette Davis said "May-ry" and Ray Bolger said "Say-rah."

Glorfindel

(9,726 posts)
64. What an interesting thread...thanks for starting it, raccoon.
Sun Jun 4, 2017, 08:14 AM
Jun 2017

I'm from the southern Appalachians and pronounce "pin" and "pen" the same. However, I don't pronounce "pet" and "pit" or "peg" and "pig" the same.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
71. My son came home from Georgia preschool one day with a new saying.
Tue Jun 6, 2017, 08:42 PM
Jun 2017


"You git what you git and don't have a fit"

My southern wife applauded him for learning a rhyme.

I had to tell her that the saying only rhymes in the south.

IronLionZion

(45,410 posts)
74. If you think a pin is mightier than a sword
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 09:04 AM
Jun 2017

you might be in for a bloody mess.

Do farm animals live in a pig pin?

Does the president pen medals onto soldiers?

greymattermom

(5,754 posts)
75. My Canadian husband
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 09:11 AM
Jun 2017

teased this Kentucky girl into saying "pen" and "pin" differently. It took awhile, but I learned. I had never heard "feh". I thought he made it up.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
82. There does not seem to be a difference in hearing the sounds
Thu Jun 8, 2017, 09:55 AM
Jun 2017

according to the OP. May as well be the same letter... which would make pronouncing other words very difficult as well. Like well and will.

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