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DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
Thu May 23, 2013, 03:43 PM May 2013

Waiting out a Big Notice at my current job is driving me nutts

I recently got my dream job, and now I'm sitting here through my notice, which normally would be 2 weeks, but I got my offer in the middle of the week, so it's 2 weeks and 2.5 days total, PLUS another week because my wife insisted I take our planned Memorial week vacation since it would be my last chance to take a vacation for a long time.......

So now, I'm nervous my new employer's going to forget about me. I have the job verified via email (not writing) and it definitely is a done deal. I'm probably worrying too much.

I already wrote them all thank you emails. I was thinking I'll just call them next week, to remind them, but I'm not sure what to say. Is there anything else I can do so I feel comfortable they won't forget I'm coming?

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Waiting out a Big Notice at my current job is driving me nutts (Original Post) DaveJ May 2013 OP
If you have a contact person at the new place dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #1
Ok, thanks, I'll do that DaveJ May 2013 #2
The email exchange, which of course you saved, is proof of job. dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #4
That makes me feel much better DaveJ May 2013 #5
As long as you trust the recruiter and company you're going to... discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2013 #3
Yes, I trust everyone involved. DaveJ May 2013 #6
As a contractor... discntnt_irny_srcsm May 2013 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author durbin Jun 2013 #8

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
1. If you have a contact person at the new place
Thu May 23, 2013, 03:59 PM
May 2013

it would not hurt to call, even if it ends up as a voice message, and ask something along the lines of
" Looking forward to startig work on ________ and was wondering if there was anything I should bear in mind for the first day"

Even Human Resources could be an effective place to call...

DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
2. Ok, thanks, I'll do that
Thu May 23, 2013, 04:10 PM
May 2013

It's a small business, sort of a startup, and there is a Controller who seems to run the office so I was planning on calling her again.

We already had a nice email exchange last week, so I'll call her again next week. I don't start until June 10th!

When I wrote them all my thank emails, I did mentioned they could contact me for any reason in the meantime, but no word from my actual bosses. I guess they aren't going to bother talking to me until I show up.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
4. The email exchange, which of course you saved, is proof of job.
Thu May 23, 2013, 04:28 PM
May 2013

So if you do feel need to call, I would be very low key about it, keep it short.

I got hired years ago in face to face interview, salary was agreed upon, I went to work, payday came 2 weeks later, my check was short, so I asked the director who hired me about the "mistake" and she looked me in the eye and said "I decided the position was not worth the price we agreed upon. You can quit, if you want to".
I could not quit, I needed the job.
But I DID end up using my considerable talents to make my self indispensable, got put in charge of a new grant funded program, and looked around for a better job, which I got within a year, using the current job on my resume.
New job hired me, I asked for a confirmation in writing, they were a large corp. and a bit put out that I asked, but sent me the letter, which included the agreement to move my household from Fla. to Mobile,Ala. for the new job. and confirmed the
salary offer, ( which was 6,000 a year increase over my old job.)
Then I waited until a full staff meeting, stood up and announced my resignation, then handed the written resignation to the director who had lied to me.
She spluttered and then blurted out " I don't like people who quit when we need them"
and I replied " I don't like people who lie about hiring salaries" and walked out.
( the whole staff hated her and knew about the salary trick)

You gotta take care of yourself esp. in these times, and the email exchanges seem to have done that, esp. if they quoted a starting date.
Make a good impression and show up 20 minutes early.





DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
5. That makes me feel much better
Thu May 23, 2013, 04:44 PM
May 2013

Actually, this job is contract to hire, so after 60 days I find out what my real salary is. All I can do is trust that it's in the same range as the initial rate. I guess it depends on how good I am the first 60 days. My field doing great now, recruiters calling me all the time, so I wouldn't have trouble getting another job if necessary (besides explaining why I left so soon). I doubt it will come to that. Your story is inspiring and gives me courage.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,475 posts)
3. As long as you trust the recruiter and company you're going to...
Thu May 23, 2013, 04:24 PM
May 2013

...it shouldn't be a problem. If you have concerns, check-in with their HR mid-week and ask about anything they may need from you on your first day and what time to show up. Check with the recruiter whether they need a drug test, background check or other preliminaries. It may expedite your first day if you ask about any required agreements (IPA, pubs & patents...). Make sure your ID is current and your SS card is readable.

Have some good time off next week.

DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
6. Yes, I trust everyone involved.
Thu May 23, 2013, 04:48 PM
May 2013

Since the recruiter gets paid for the referral I'm sure the company wouldn't want to waste that money they spent. I will contact them midweek, like you said, it's what I was planning. Weird they haven't asked for any info, drivers license or anything. It's a small business but they are in the city and I think they are very reputable, just really casual I guess.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,475 posts)
7. As a contractor...
Thu May 23, 2013, 07:00 PM
May 2013

...you will be an employee of the recruiter's shop. In January they will send you a W-2 or a 1099 depending on your arrangement. Since the client company won't be your employer for a few months, the ID and I-9 burden is on the recruiter's shop. The client may need intellectual property agreements. If they're a small business, they may not have concerns with those issues.

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