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Mon Jul 22, 2019, 01:50 PM Jul 2019

Mom Throws Out Her Gay Son After His Coming Out ...

Mom Throws Out Her Gay Son After His Coming Out, Grandpa Disowns Her With Powerful Letter

Sometimes it’s the older, wiser generation who are more capable of showing tolerance and acceptance than their own children. This handwritten letter, which originally went viral in 2013, is from a grandpa who eloquently showed his heartless daughter the meaning of unconditional love.

Having made the brave decision to tell his mum, Christine, that he was gay, Chad was cruelly rejected by her and called an ‘abomination’ and ‘against nature.’

Could you imagine anything worse than being disowned by your own mum? Absolutely heartbreaking. However, Chad found the most amazing ally in his awesome grandpa, who stood up for him like a champion and cleverly held up a mirror to Christine’s appalling behavior.

“Dear Christine: I’m disappointed in you as a daughter. You’re correct that we have shame in the family, but mistaken about what it is,” he wrote. “Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real ‘abomination’ here. A parent disowning her child is what goes ‘against nature’.”

“The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that ‘you didn’t raise your son to be gay’. Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You, however, have made the choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward.”

“So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise and I don’t have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.”

“If you find your heart, give us a call.”


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Mom Throws Out Her Gay Son After His Coming Out ... (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Jul 2019 OP
Wow. What a great Grandpa. 👏 Funtatlaguy Jul 2019 #1
Gramps to the rescue. Calling an ace an ace and a joker a joker. magicarpet Jul 2019 #2
Good grandpa! Karadeniz Jul 2019 #3
Kudos to the grandpa. I've always wondered at folk that say we are all God's creations yet many of alwaysinasnit Jul 2019 #4
What an amazing Grandpa this kid has... sdfernando Jul 2019 #5
love it! LeftTurn3623 Jul 2019 #6
this, from the article is alarming Hamlette Jul 2019 #7
I find that really hard to believe dhol82 Jul 2019 #10
grandfather was insightful. made me smile at the end . AllaN01Bear Jul 2019 #8
That is an excellent grandfather IronLionZion Jul 2019 #9
... lambchopp59 Jul 2019 #11

alwaysinasnit

(5,064 posts)
4. Kudos to the grandpa. I've always wondered at folk that say we are all God's creations yet many of
Mon Jul 22, 2019, 04:10 PM
Jul 2019

these same folks reject/condemn some of these very same God's creations. I will never understand.

sdfernando

(4,930 posts)
5. What an amazing Grandpa this kid has...
Mon Jul 22, 2019, 04:11 PM
Jul 2019

and Grandpa is going to find out how much fun, amazing, and FABULOUS, his life will be from now on!

Hamlette

(15,411 posts)
7. this, from the article is alarming
Mon Jul 22, 2019, 04:40 PM
Jul 2019

According to GLAAD‘s annual Accelerating Acceptance report, the number of Americans 18 to 34 who are comfortable interacting with LGBTQ people declined from 63% in 2016 to 45% in 2018, an alarming shift considering that the younger generation are traditionally thought to be more open-minded than their parents.

What the hell?

IronLionZion

(45,427 posts)
9. That is an excellent grandfather
Mon Jul 22, 2019, 04:42 PM
Jul 2019

it's good to know there are still some great people in this world across generations.

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