Women Get Ripped Off Because People Lie to Them

[Gormy Cuss]

Monday, Aug 4, 2014 09:44 AM PST

Women get ripped off because people lie to them

A new study finds that women are perceived as being easier to mislead during negotiations
Jenny Kutner

People lie. They especially lie to women, because women are easily deceived in negotiations — or, at least, they’re perceived as being easily deceived in negotiations, which is exactly why people lie to them. According to a new study published in the journal Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, women are more likely to be lied to than men, as negotiators opportunistically deceive them to get ahead.

For the first portion of the study, researchers Laura J. Kraya and Alex B. Van Zanta from the University of California, Berkeley and Jessica A. Kennedy from the University of Pennsylvania had participants perform a role-playing exercise: in pairs, one participant acted as a prospective seller of a real estate property while the other acted as a prospective buyer. The buyer was clearly male, female or gender neutral. Male buyers were rated as less easily misled than female buyers, and women were considered to be less competent, but also to exhibit more warmth. Warmth? What a consolation....


(T)he researchers examined negotiations between business school students who … were put in pairs where one acted as an agent selling a piece of real estate property on behalf of a client who only wanted it used for “tasteful” and preferably residential purposes, while the other acted as an agent for a buyer who planned to build a commercial high-rise hotel catered to tourists and convention visitors, “a use inconsistent with the seller’s interests,” the authors note. That meant the buyer’s agent could either tell the truth, endangering the deal, misrepresent the client’s plans, or just tell an outright lie.

They found that the women playing a seller’s agent “were deceived to a greater degree than male sellers.” And buyers were more likely to admit that they had deceived women — 22 percent of them did — than to men — 5 percent. It didn’t matter whether a man or a woman was representing the buyer; they both deceived women at the same rate. To add insult to injury, buyers were more likely to be blatantly deceptive with women than with men, but they were more likely to be outright truthful with men.

http://www.salon.com/2014/08/04/women_get_ripped_off_because_people_lie_to_them/


Interesting side effect of being perceived as nice. Of course, when women are perceived as not nice, we're labeled with the B-word.

[LeftyMom]

1. A few years ago I was interested in a certain car

that a dealership in Oregon had that had a particular option package I really wanted. So I called and they WOULD NOT tell me the price over the phone. "Come look at it, it's so nice, you'll love it!" Well that's great but obviously I'm not driving ten hours to go see a car unless I know what they're asking. "Sorry, no quotes on the phone, policy."

I know gendered bullshit when I hear it. So I hung up and called my boyfriend. "Call XYZ Ford in BlahBlah, OR and ask what the price is for stock #12345, they won't tell me but I'm sure they'll tell a guy."

He called back less than five minutes later with the price.

Needless to say I'll never buy a car from them.

[F4lconF16]

2. Which dealership in Oregon?

I ask because my parents are looking for a new car after their old one died, and it would be good information for my mother to be aware of if it's a local dealership that they're considering and she is visiting.

[LeftyMom]

3. I think I remember but I want to look at my email and double check

since it was several years ago. I'll PM you if I can find the name for sure.