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60 days sober (Original Post) RainCaster Sep 2021 OP
That's a strong start. Cracklin Charlie Sep 2021 #1
... LastLiberal in PalmSprings Sep 2021 #34
Bravo Champp Sep 2021 #2
Best wishes thucythucy Sep 2021 #3
+1. One day at a time.. Thats all we have.. mitch96 Sep 2021 #12
It is a very large step compared to those who have not been able to do it. Irish_Dem Sep 2021 #4
It's a huge accomplishment. captain queeg Sep 2021 #5
congrats!!! bonzotex Sep 2021 #6
RainCaster - one day is the goal. It's all u can control. NoMoreRepugs Sep 2021 #7
Good on you!. I bet you feel relief at no longer eff-ing up. Plus soon you'll realize being applegrove Sep 2021 #8
Good job! jmbar2 Sep 2021 #9
Excellent. 60 days is 59 more than most people with our affliction get to enjoy. Eliot Rosewater Sep 2021 #10
Congratulations on your commitment to serenity Ponietz Sep 2021 #11
Excellent! Keep on keeping on! nt Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #13
Great job. efilon Sep 2021 #14
Well done! Ellipsis Sep 2021 #15
A day at a time. PatrickforB Sep 2021 #16
Right on! jlerollblues Sep 2021 #17
Congratulations. niyad Sep 2021 #18
I found it is quite something to hold that chip with the clean & sober days on it irisblue Sep 2021 #19
Hell yeah baby! gay texan Sep 2021 #20
The first 90 days are the hardest. BlueIdaho Sep 2021 #21
Good news. Keep up the good work. justhanginon Sep 2021 #22
Congrats. c-rational Sep 2021 #23
Here's to you...congrats Moostache Sep 2021 #24
That is big. Congratulations rurallib Sep 2021 #25
the newcomer is the most important person in the room New Haven Sep 2021 #26
didn't know this. )) Tetrachloride Sep 2021 #27
... markie Sep 2021 #28
That's not a small accomplishment at all lillypaddle Sep 2021 #29
Congrats. NurseJackie Sep 2021 #30
Congratulations! dlk Sep 2021 #31
Not small RainCaster! magicksmom Sep 2021 #32
Congratulations! wendyb-NC Sep 2021 #33
Kudos! That's huge! bif Sep 2021 #35
Congratulations! Sanity Claws Sep 2021 #36
not small AT ALL Skittles Sep 2021 #37
Huge accomplishment.. Permanut Sep 2021 #38
Congratulations! Rhiannon12866 Sep 2021 #39
Congrats MichaelSoE Sep 2021 #40
Congrats! 60 days is a long time. Don't sell yourself short Bristlecone Sep 2021 #41

mitch96

(13,870 posts)
12. +1. One day at a time.. Thats all we have..
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 11:28 AM
Sep 2021

I hated all those platitudes... One day at a time.. do the next right thing, You can't get drunk if you don't have the first one.. Keep it simple KISS...
The interesting thing for me was that it worked and I use it to this day.. YMMV
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captain queeg

(10,094 posts)
5. It's a huge accomplishment.
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 10:50 AM
Sep 2021

Don’t compare yourself to others, just look at your own life. It takes time, that’s for sure. But it will keep getting better. As opposed to drinking when it always gets worse over the long run. Find a group where you can feel at home and keep coming back.

bonzotex

(865 posts)
6. congrats!!!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 10:52 AM
Sep 2021

Keep going, it gets easier. Just do the next right thing a day at a time. Sometimes just one day is a great beginning. 60 is awesome!

NoMoreRepugs

(9,371 posts)
7. RainCaster - one day is the goal. It's all u can control.
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 10:55 AM
Sep 2021

You are winning the lottery on an everyday basis. The last 60 days is your history, be proud.

applegrove

(118,492 posts)
8. Good on you!. I bet you feel relief at no longer eff-ing up. Plus soon you'll realize being
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 10:55 AM
Sep 2021

sober while others have had a drink or two can be fun too... They get so sweet. Keep it up!!!!

PatrickforB

(14,558 posts)
16. A day at a time.
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:01 PM
Sep 2021

I'm a recovering cigarette addict, and I can never have them again. My health won't permit it.

After a decade without them, I have whole weeks when I don't think about them at all.

You'll get there too. A day at a time!

Good luck to you and very best wishes.

jlerollblues

(34 posts)
17. Right on!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:01 PM
Sep 2021

I nearly died from the shit, woke up after 5 days in a coma after a BP of 60/40. Working on day 273 now. Keep it rolling, my Karma is with you!

irisblue

(32,929 posts)
19. I found it is quite something to hold that chip with the clean & sober days on it
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:09 PM
Sep 2021

Well done Raincaster, well done

gay texan

(2,435 posts)
20. Hell yeah baby!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:15 PM
Sep 2021

Keep hitting those meetings, and lean on your sponsors when you have a bad day.

60 days is gonna turn into 365, and 365 is going to turn into years.

Dont know you from a can of chartreuse paint, but I'm very proud of you. Keep it up!!!!

BlueIdaho

(13,582 posts)
21. The first 90 days are the hardest.
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:17 PM
Sep 2021

Just think - your two thirds of your way through the toughest part of getting and staying sober! Congratulations and keep coming back!

By the way - the person that got up earliest today has the most sobriety.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
24. Here's to you...congrats
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:23 PM
Sep 2021

Hope today is 61 ... match Roger Maris (sad baseball reference...but great job to you)

rurallib

(62,379 posts)
25. That is big. Congratulations
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:26 PM
Sep 2021

days stretch to weeks to months and then years in a hurry.

Christmas Day it will be something like 152 days!

New Haven

(1,059 posts)
26. the newcomer is the most important person in the room
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:39 PM
Sep 2021

you are an inspiration to the others with more time because it shows them------and you-----that the program works ----nothing will so insure your sobriety as much as helping others --get an assignment---be a door greeter --greet the new people----

as far as climbing the seniority ladder AA is the only organization that gives the newcomer the title of "Chairman" -----setting them up and putting them away----good luck to you

dlk

(11,513 posts)
31. Congratulations!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 12:58 PM
Sep 2021

What you’ve accomplished is very difficult and comparing yourself to others can be a slippery slope. Your path is unique and every day is an opportunity for additional success. Good luck!

magicksmom

(47 posts)
32. Not small RainCaster!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 01:03 PM
Sep 2021

Getting here is one of the hardest things to do. It is so healing to share my deepest & darkest moments surrounded by people who nod in understanding rather than clutch pearls and gasp. Welcome to the club & 👏 congrats.

bif

(22,685 posts)
35. Kudos! That's huge!
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 02:45 PM
Sep 2021

The phrase that kept me going was: Don't focus on who you were, but who you want to be.

Skittles

(153,113 posts)
37. not small AT ALL
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 08:56 PM
Sep 2021

it's a wonderful achievement, RainCaster

do this: if you ever feel the extreme urge to falter, POST HERE ON DU FIRST and get our feedback......we are here for you

Permanut

(5,561 posts)
38. Huge accomplishment..
Sat Sep 25, 2021, 09:30 PM
Sep 2021

I've put 27 years of days together, and it was the hardest, and best, thing I ever did.

Congratulations.

Rhiannon12866

(204,773 posts)
39. Congratulations!
Sun Sep 26, 2021, 04:21 AM
Sep 2021

I know what it's like, I've been there, too, so I know what it takes. I'd see people get coins for months of sobriety and didn't think I could do it myself. The milestone that sticks in my mind was when my friend ran the meeting and she asked me to pass out the coins - I gave out only one that night, I was able to give myself a coin for six months.

Hang in there, as the others have said, you have a great start. And I went from wishing I could get a coin to being the one who orders the coins for my group. And you deserve one from me. If I can do it, anyone can - I just kept coming back and celebrated 12 years last April.

Well done!




Bristlecone

(10,114 posts)
41. Congrats! 60 days is a long time. Don't sell yourself short
Sun Sep 26, 2021, 06:20 PM
Sep 2021

And don’t feel like you need to compare yourself to others in the rooms. They all had 60 days. Then 90, then 6 mos, then a year, etc. Keep moving forward ODAT.

Knowing you just got 60 helped me today. Congrats again.




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