Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:31 PM
murielm99 (30,238 posts)
My scan was good.
The oncologist is now scheduling scans every six months instead of every three months.
This is about the only good thing in my life right now, other than a supportive husband. (That means a lot). Social Security is still threatening my benefits. We are getting a guardian ad litem for my mother, who has dementia. I have her health care and durable powers of attorney. However, she beat up on me and ripped my clothes the last time I was there. That is enough...someone else can put up with the crazy. And if you think this is all due to dementia, think again. She has spent a lifetime beating me and telling me she hates me. I don't know why I try to help her. Anyway, I am doing well in the cancer department. I am thankful for that, and for the support I get here. I am going to shut up now, rather than overshare any more.
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murielm99 | Monday | OP |
sinkingfeeling | Monday | #1 | |
brer cat | Monday | #2 | |
MLAA | Monday | #3 | |
Staph | Monday | #4 | |
LoisB | Monday | #5 | |
walkingman | Monday | #6 | |
ailsagirl | Tuesday | #13 | |
sheshe2 | Monday | #7 | |
niyad | Tuesday | #8 | |
Fla Dem | Tuesday | #9 | |
irisblue | Tuesday | #10 | |
William769 | Tuesday | #11 | |
ailsagirl | Tuesday | #12 | |
DarthDem | Tuesday | #14 | |
PortTack | Tuesday | #15 | |
calimary | Tuesday | #16 | |
mercuryblues | Tuesday | #17 | |
alfredo | Tuesday | #18 |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:33 PM
sinkingfeeling (49,408 posts)
1. Excellent news.
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:34 PM
brer cat (22,870 posts)
2. Wonderful news about your scan and also a guardian for your mother.
You need some stress reduction in your life, and those are two big ones.
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:34 PM
MLAA (15,869 posts)
3. Good for you on both fronts!
Hurray on the good scan and for stepping away from a lifetime of abuse from your mother.
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:38 PM
Staph (6,182 posts)
4. The time between the scan and the results is close to an eternity.
Isn't it lovely to only have to go through that process twice a year, instead of quarterly?
I'm on the every six months schedule. Every little step forward is a victory! |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:43 PM
LoisB (6,182 posts)
5. That is really good news. I am glad for you. Enjoy the good news and put your mother in the
back of your mind (at least for now).
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:44 PM
walkingman (6,598 posts)
6. Excellent news!!
I am on a 6 month schedule with my oncologist also and now after 5 years he tells me next visit I will graduate......don't have to come back unless have a symptom in the future!!
I'm keeping my port so will be going for flushes but it doesn't bother me and so will keep for a few years more. I only get flushed now every three months. |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Mon Sep 18, 2023, 11:58 PM
sheshe2 (80,772 posts)
7. Great news about the scan, muriel.
What a relief for you.
I am sorry about the mom issue, just hang in there the best you can. The important thing is you and your well being. ![]() |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 12:06 AM
niyad (105,521 posts)
8. continuing vibes for healing and strength.
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 12:19 AM
Fla Dem (22,108 posts)
9. So glad for your health progress.
Step away from your mother as much as you can.
At this point in your life put yourself and your husband first. Focus on living your best life. ![]() |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 12:25 AM
William769 (53,720 posts)
11. Great news!
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 01:01 AM
ailsagirl (22,255 posts)
12. Good to hear!!
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 01:02 AM
DarthDem (5,203 posts)
14. Great News!!!!!
All my best wishes to you.
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 01:39 AM
PortTack (30,728 posts)
15. Be well!
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 01:48 AM
calimary (78,018 posts)
16. Oh gosh, that's terrific news!
Thanks for letting us know, murielm99! And please keep us posted on how you’re doing.
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Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 07:54 AM
mercuryblues (14,059 posts)
17. Wonderful news
After everything is settled with your mom, take yourself and hubby on a nice quiet vacation.
Reset yourself. Knowing you won't have to deal with the hate and abuse anymore, Will free you up emotionally. Embrace it. |
Response to murielm99 (Original post)
Tue Sep 19, 2023, 12:04 PM
alfredo (59,926 posts)
18. The effects of treatment will stay with you, but it's better than dying
It’s good that you are walking away from abusive people. You have greater priorities than being a punching bag for others.
I severed ties with my parents a long time ago. One of my best moves. Their passing brought relief. |