Tue May 10, 2022, 07:51 PM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
FRAK!!
Well, I am not doing well at all. I had an appointment to do a followup with a cardiologist. I had a complete brain fart last Wed. as my brain had decided that the appointment was on that day. I drove over there and had the desk person tell me that I was wrong. So, the appointment was today. I decided to grab a nap around 1:30... and slept through the entire thing. I was supposed to be getting my atorvastin and my metoprolol renewed. They keep going back and forth as to whom is supposed to be prescribing them. Typical bureaucratic shit over things that should not be this difficult. I am slowly becoming such a burden to my spouse. This is untenable.
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OldBaldy1701E | May 10 | OP |
Skittles | May 10 | #1 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 10 | #3 | |
Skittles | May 10 | #5 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 10 | #6 | |
Hoyt | May 10 | #8 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 11 | #13 | |
XanaDUer2 | May 10 | #2 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 10 | #4 | |
Skittles | May 10 | #7 | |
KarenS | May 10 | #9 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 11 | #11 | |
KarenS | May 11 | #14 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 11 | #16 | |
multigraincracker | May 10 | #10 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 11 | #12 | |
multigraincracker | May 11 | #15 | |
OldBaldy1701E | May 11 | #17 |
Response to OldBaldy1701E (Original post)
Tue May 10, 2022, 07:54 PM
Skittles (143,923 posts)
1. hey
couldn't your spouse help keep you on track with your appointments? I get appts confused a lot because I am a night worker, but it really helps when they send phone reminders.....
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Response to Skittles (Reply #1)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:04 PM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
3. My spouse is dealing with enough issues as it is.
Plus, I am supposed to be taking care of him. He works nights so he is usually unaware of what day it is. They did not send a phone reminder, which is a bit odd. I am just too freaked out to deal with any of this at the moment. I am getting so much worse and my hubby does not deserve this. Right now I am freaking out over the fact that I will be out of heart meds in two days. This last appointment was made three months in advance because that was the available opening. If it is going to take three months to see her again, I am betting I won't make it... assuming those meds are that important.
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Response to OldBaldy1701E (Reply #3)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:08 PM
Skittles (143,923 posts)
5. OK do this
make it a habit of calling a day or two ahead of an appointment to verify - that may help.....I'm truly sorry you are having to deal with so much stress......
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Response to Skittles (Reply #5)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:14 PM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
6. Thank you. (n/t)
Response to OldBaldy1701E (Reply #3)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:38 PM
Hoyt (54,770 posts)
8. Short-term, you can probably get any doc -- even an urgent care doc -- to refill
those two meds if you can’t get in to see cardiologist soon.
Not better than seeing your regular doc, but better than waiting months. Good luck. |
Response to Hoyt (Reply #8)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:19 AM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
13. I may have to pursue that line of action. (n/t)
Response to OldBaldy1701E (Original post)
Tue May 10, 2022, 07:59 PM
XanaDUer2 (5,247 posts)
2. My docs phone and text
I showed up once when I didn't have an appointment. Didn't show up twice. Got charged once.
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Response to XanaDUer2 (Reply #2)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:07 PM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
4. Although they usually do so, they did not this time.
I am just done. Hell, I cannot even hold a cup today without almost dropping it from the arthritis pain in my forearm. I should be out walking but I am just not there. I just want all this crap to end.
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Response to OldBaldy1701E (Reply #4)
Tue May 10, 2022, 08:21 PM
Skittles (143,923 posts)
7. hang in there OldBaldy
venting here helps, we care
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Response to OldBaldy1701E (Original post)
Tue May 10, 2022, 09:35 PM
KarenS (2,642 posts)
9. I agree with Hoyt
I'll bet the pharmacy can call your Doc for refills while you are waiting to get in.
Plus, call the Doctor's office to let them know you are out of those meds and ask if they will approve said refills. AND see if they have a 'call if there's a cancellation list' you can get on. I take Metoprolol and it would cause me a lot of stress if I ran out. plus I get being a burden to your spouse,,,, I have emphysema and heart issues,,,,, I am useless by afternoon. ![]() on edit: also we share a calendar ~ everything goes on it,,,, part of the daily routine here is to check it. |
Response to KarenS (Reply #9)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:14 AM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
11. Here in Minnesota
The pharmacy contacts the doctor and gets refills. I do not have to be involved in it. The issue (so it seems) is that the cardiologist wants my PO to handle the scripts now and I guess there is a problem with that. I do not know, and I am not going to try and pursue it. (Bureaucracy puts me in worse shape than all the other issues combined. Please remember that bureaucracy was invented to shield layers from the public. They employ it on purpose to make sure 'regular' people cannot get to the offices they require. It is designed that way. I do not handle this smoke and mirrors very well. And, considering what my current state of mind would dictate as a reaction, it is best to avoid all that.) I will be calling to reschedule the appointment. If they want me to live so damned much, they can get me the freaking pills.
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Response to OldBaldy1701E (Reply #11)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:20 AM
KarenS (2,642 posts)
14. Hugs,,,, just Hugs,,,,
I understand about not pursuing stressful things too,,,, bureaucracy makes me shiver with disgust,,,,
just wishing you the best ![]() |
Response to KarenS (Reply #14)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:52 AM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
16. Thank you. (n/t)
Response to OldBaldy1701E (Original post)
Tue May 10, 2022, 09:52 PM
multigraincracker (27,586 posts)
10. My regular doctor is a DO. the best and super reasonable.
Then my Better Half is a RN and has saved my life several times. Tape my appointments on my computer screen at the bottom. Got to have a plan A and B.
Best of luck. I have fired lots of doctors in the last 10 years. If they are the problem, they are gone. |
Response to multigraincracker (Reply #10)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:18 AM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
12. I am just about there with my current PO.
She is a freaking rubber stamper and not much more. Every time I go in about an issue, her response is to refer me to some specialist that my insurance does not cover. (How convenient. And predictable. To be honest, I have been wondering how in the hell she got her degree since she seems unwilling or unable to address my issues outside of just filling the scripts I already had when I moved up here. Again, this is all such bullshit and such bureaucratic thinking that I am about done with it. This constant desire to obfuscate and misdirect in our society is too much for someone who just wants to be treated as he treats others. I guess that time has gone.
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Response to OldBaldy1701E (Reply #12)
Wed May 11, 2022, 08:40 AM
multigraincracker (27,586 posts)
15. I had the same problem with MDs.
Gatekeepers. Just send me to specialist. DOs are more hands and fix it in their office.
I'd make the switch. Go on line and check the ratings for local DOs. Several sites thank rank doctor. You pay them, they work for you. |
Response to OldBaldy1701E (Original post)
Wed May 11, 2022, 05:28 PM
OldBaldy1701E (2,535 posts)
17. Update...
I may have mentioned something about bureaucracy and how much I love it
![]() I know I do... (Thanks again to everyone for letting me vent and freak on here.) |