SO can't go a day wo a health complaint

[XanaDUer2]

My partner can't go one day without talking about a pain , ache. I have jaw problems, now he does. His mouth was open too long for tooth removal. Or, its his constant back problems. Spasms. Insomnia. I've been hearing this for 25 yrs.
I asked if we can go one day without him talking about his health. He can't. He does have problems.

I have health anxity and this is severly affecting my mental health. I asked him can we go one day. He said not if his tooth hurts. I try to tune it out. If he dies, he dies. He smokes and has barrett esophagus and drinks booze.

[Aussie105]

1. Sympathy goes your way. It IS hard work.

My wife of 36 years now aged 80 has sunk away into the world of self-pity with aches and pain by the score.
Plus fast approaching senility/dementia.
Treats me like servant/slave, not a spouse. Needs constant attention.

But yes, 'If he dies, he dies' . . . you get to that stage.

Bear with it, try to remember the good times.
Try to find time and space to keep yourself sane and maintain a balanced view. Not easy.

[XanaDUer2]

2. Its tiresome

He pays rent and bills. Id be in trouble if he died. But I'm still sick of it. You have my sympathies. I sometimes think he does it on purpose. He also abuses prescriptions

[MotownPgh]

3. 25 years?

That's a long time. Couldn't be me

[XanaDUer2]

4. I told him he'll be very sick

One day and I'll blow it off after hearing about it 100 yrs

[Timewas]

5. Tell him

He can find sympathy between Shit and Syphilis in the dictionary