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Neoma

(10,039 posts)
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 03:54 PM Jan 2012

If you want to debate on abortion vs. adoption...

The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrended Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade by Ann Fessler

Is a good book to read. Rather heartbreaking though, so keep tissues on hand.

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If you want to debate on abortion vs. adoption... (Original Post) Neoma Jan 2012 OP
I can dig up those studies again about the negative sequelae to the mental health REP Jan 2012 #1
When were those studies made? Neoma Jan 2012 #3
I think they cover 30 years REP Jan 2012 #4
k and r niyad Jan 2012 #2
Lets just keep in mind that not all babies who the parent or parent does not want Marnie Jan 2012 #5
Black male infants are the hardest to place across the board REP Jan 2012 #6
I went to a reading by Fessler MountainLaurel Jan 2012 #7
As a birth mother myself chloes1 Jan 2012 #8

REP

(21,691 posts)
1. I can dig up those studies again about the negative sequelae to the mental health
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 04:35 PM
Jan 2012

of surrendering mothers, if anyone wants them. In a nutshell: peer-reviewed studies have found that abortion doesn't effect a woman's mental well-being, but surrendering an infant to adoption does (and for a very long time).

The studies were on neonatal adoptions, not children taken from dangerous/abusive/otherwise unfit parents.

REP

(21,691 posts)
4. I think they cover 30 years
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 05:17 PM
Jan 2012


Some studies on the long-term psychological sequelae to adoption:

J Obstet Gynecol Neonatal Nurs. 1999 Jul-Aug;28(4):395-400.
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Postadoptive reactions of the relinquishing mother: a review.

Askren HA, Bloom KC.

Deer Valley OB/GYN, Mesa, AZ, USA.

OBJECTIVE: To review the literature addressing the process of relinquishment as it relates to the birth mother. DATA SOURCES: Computerized searches in CINAHL; Article 1 st, PsycFIRST, and SocioAbs databases, using the keywords adoption and relinquishment; and ancestral bibliographies. STUDY SELECTION: Articles from indexed journals in the English language relevant to the keywords were evaluated. No studies were located before 1978. Studies that sampled only an adolescent population were excluded. Twelve studies met the inclusion criteria and were included in the analysis. DATA EXTRACTION: Data were extracted and information was organized under the following headings: grief reaction, long-term effects, efforts to resolve, and influences on the relinquishment experience. DATA SYNTHESIS: A grief reaction unique to the relinquishing mother was identified. Although this reaction consists of features characteristic of the normal grief reaction, these features persist and often lead to chronic, unresolved grief. CONCLUSIONS: The relinquishing mother is at risk for long-term physical, psychologic, and social repercussions. Although interventions have been proposed, little is known about their effectiveness in preventing or alleviating these repercussions.

Med J Aust. 1986 Feb 3;144(3):117-9.
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Psychological disability in women who relinquish a baby for adoption.

Condon JT.

During 1986, approximately 2000 women in Australia are likely to relinquish a baby for adoption. A study is presented of 20 relinquishing mothers that demonstrates a very high incidence of pathological grief reactions which have failed to resolve although many years have elapsed since the relinquishment. This group had abnormally high scores for depression and psychosomatic symptoms on the Middlesex Hospital questionnaire. Factors that militate against the resolution of grief after relinquishment are discussed. Guidelines for the medical profession that are aimed at preventing psychological disability in relinquishing mothers are outlined.

Community Health Stud. 1990;14(2):180-9.
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Erratum in:
• Community Health Stud 1990;14(3):314.

Social factors associated with the decision to relinquish a baby for adoption.

Najman JM, Morrison J, Keeping JD, Andersen MJ, Williams GM.

Department of Social and Preventive Medicine, University of Queensland.

Little is known about the characteristics, social circumstances and mental health of women who give a child up for adoption. This paper reports data from a longitudinal study of 8556 women interviewed initially at their first obstetrical visit. In total, 7668 proceeded to give birth to a live singleton baby, of which 64 then relinquished the baby for adoption. Relinquishing mothers were predominantly 18 years of age or younger, in the lowest family income group, single, having an unplanned and/or unwanted baby and reported that they were not living with a partner. These women were somewhat more likely to manifest symptoms of anxiety and depression both prior, and subsequent to, the adoption, but the majority of relinquishing mothers were of 'normal' mental health. The decision to relinquish a baby appears to be a consequence of an unwanted pregnancy experienced by an economically deprived single mother rather than the result of emotional or psychological/psychiatric considerations. These findings document a particular dimension of the impact of poverty on health.
 

Marnie

(844 posts)
5. Lets just keep in mind that not all babies who the parent or parent does not want
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 05:31 PM
Jan 2012

are being accepted by adaptation agencies.

Most states have safe haven laws allowing the parent to leave the child at a police station, fire station or hospital, but it cannot be done anonymously.

I suspect that can cause problems in parental notification states when the parent is a minor.
The baby then becomes a ward of the government and not necessarily an adoption agency.

There is also the reality that by and large perfect, white babies are the ones most likely to be adopted.

And of course the mother has to deal with the costs, emotions, health risks of a full term pregnancy and how that effects her schooling, employment, and relations with family friends etc..

People like Santorum never think about who pays for the prenatal care or for complication during pregnancy or deliver.

REP

(21,691 posts)
6. Black male infants are the hardest to place across the board
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 09:02 PM
Jan 2012

True, many of these infants are not voluntarily relinquished, either, but taken from their mothers as part of the War on Poor People Drugs. The mother and infant both become prisoners of the state.

MountainLaurel

(10,271 posts)
7. I went to a reading by Fessler
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 10:17 PM
Jan 2012

When the book first came out. At least one or two of the women she wrote about in the book were in attendance. It was brutal to hear from their own lips what happened to them.

chloes1

(88 posts)
8. As a birth mother myself
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 02:22 AM
Jan 2012

who later went one and gave birth to the child I am raising I can assure you (though it should be pretty obvious) that abortion and adoption are NOT equal choices. I made that choice at 27, and let me tell you it was BRUTAL putting that behind me. Possibly the single hardest choice I've ever made! The two choices are apples and oranges.

Amazing at how many people fail to see that.

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