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crosinski

(696 posts)
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 04:27 PM Mar 28

We adopted a cat today!

We’re both in our seventies, so we adopted a six year old female named Munchkin. Right now she’s hiding in the laundry room. We hope she comes out eventually!

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We adopted a cat today! (Original Post) crosinski Mar 28 OP
When she does, please share a photo The Blue Flower Mar 28 #1
Yes, I'll take some photos as soon as she does. crosinski Mar 28 #4
Poor kitty does not know how lucky they are, yet! applegrove Mar 28 #2
We're really looking forward to her joining the family! crosinski Mar 28 #5
Congratulations ! Nigrum Cattus Mar 28 #3
Thanks crosinski Mar 28 #6
Good for you - and her! biophile Mar 28 #7
In my eyes you are a hero crosinski Mar 28 #15
Thank you- it's so hard to give them up! 😢 biophile Mar 28 #18
Hey You..... IcyPeas Mar 28 #8
I don't know about awesome crosinski Mar 28 #14
Congrats! The Cat Distribution System has smiled upon you. SheltieLover Mar 28 #9
Yes, the distribution system is a mysterious thing! crosinski Mar 28 #13
It most assuredly is! SheltieLover Mar 28 #16
Congratulations to you and to Munchkin! MIButterfly Mar 28 #10
Thank you and oh my ... crosinski Mar 28 #12
Two meows for the smell of frying hamburger... crosinski Mar 28 #11
Wait till she figures out you folks have opposable thumbs SheltieLover Mar 28 #17
❤️😻❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 28 #19
My cat did that when I first brought him home, I panicked because I couldn't find him! Rhiannon12866 Mar 28 #20
I have a cat sanctuary in South Texas. hamsterjill Mar 28 #21
She was in a very crowded and noisy shelter, so having all this new space to explore must seem very strange. crosinski Mar 28 #29
She's probably too stressed to let her guard down much. hamsterjill Mar 28 #33
They didn't mention her history ... crosinski Mar 28 #35
🎉 congratulations!! debsy Mar 28 #22
Happy Day for you and Munchkin! Bayard Mar 28 #23
She came out for a while! crosinski Mar 28 #24
Sweet!💗💗💗😊 Hope22 Mar 28 #26
Congratulations! AltairIV Mar 28 #25
Awwww! She will come out when she learns she's safe. CousinIT Mar 28 #27
She went off to explore the house again, and now she's come back to be with us. crosinski Mar 28 #30
That's just great crosinski! CountAllVotes Mar 28 #28
I don't think I would have the patience to take in feral cats ... crosinski Mar 28 #32
It was not difficult at all! CountAllVotes Sunday #38
I'm so glad you found her! crosinski Monday #45
This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes Wednesday #46
How did you know she was "the one"? 3catwoman3 Mar 28 #31
We took the first cat we met! crosinski Mar 28 #34
How did Munchkin do overnight? irisblue Sunday #36
She did alright, but she's back to hiding again today. crosinski Sunday #37
One on my cats liked sleeping in my closet so I made a cozy spot for him irisblue Sunday #39
How is the new baby doing today? niyad Monday #40
She's still hiding for most of the day. crosinski Monday #41
Please continue to give her time and space. The fact that she is coming out at all, niyad Monday #42
She's sitting near me right now, and she seems calm. crosinski Monday #43
My furbaby and I send loving wishes for her full acceptance of her niyad Monday #44

biophile

(1,428 posts)
7. Good for you - and her!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:03 PM
Mar 28

I had three foster kittens who went this week to the local Petsmart for visibility. I’m hoping that they all find great homes!

biophile

(1,428 posts)
18. Thank you- it's so hard to give them up! 😢
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 06:23 PM
Mar 28

But I’m old and I don’t want my animals to outlive me; don’t want my daughter to have to rehome a number of pets. So for any young ones who come my way, I try to get them into a rescue that will find them good homes.

crosinski

(696 posts)
14. I don't know about awesome
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:58 PM
Mar 28

… but they were awfully pleased when we said we were looking for a older cat.

MIButterfly

(2,729 posts)
10. Congratulations to you and to Munchkin!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:23 PM
Mar 28

You probably already know this, but be sure to give her time to get accustomed to her new surroundings and to you. Each cat is different. My previous cat, Boots, hid for 10 days when I first got her. The only way I even knew I had a cat was I had to refill the food and water bowls and scoop out the litter box every day. After the 10 days, she was my constant companion.

As for my current cats, Holly and Martini, it took years for Holly to warm up to me and I'm not exaggerating, whereas Martini adjusted immediately. She made herself right at home from day one, as if she had lived here her entire life.

I am so excited for you and I hope you and Munchkin have many, many happy years together!

crosinski

(696 posts)
12. Thank you and oh my ...
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 05:50 PM
Mar 28

She has a vet appointment to be spayed in a few days … hope she comes out before then or we might have to reschedule!

SheltieLover

(80,640 posts)
17. Wait till she figures out you folks have opposable thumbs
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 06:05 PM
Mar 28

For cooking & can opener manipulation.



Enjoy!

Rhiannon12866

(255,843 posts)
20. My cat did that when I first brought him home, I panicked because I couldn't find him!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 06:50 PM
Mar 28

But today he likes to know where everyone is, he's become a lap cat - and I'm sure that your Munchkin will too when she realizes how lucky she is!

hamsterjill

(17,587 posts)
21. I have a cat sanctuary in South Texas.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 06:52 PM
Mar 28

First, thanks SO much for adopting and giving one a good and loving home. That makes me SO happy to know that one is in good hands!!!

It can take them a good thirty days to decompress, particularly if they've been in a noisy, crowded shelter. Please give her plenty of patience and I'm certain she will warm up soon. Please just let her go at her own pace as they are all (just like us!!!) individuals. Make sure she has a space that is just hers. A room (sounds like that's the laundry room, and that's terrific!!!), or a crate with the door left open. Some quiet with good food and water. She is getting used to a new life and new people.

crosinski

(696 posts)
29. She was in a very crowded and noisy shelter, so having all this new space to explore must seem very strange.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 08:17 PM
Mar 28

I’m trying not to be too much in her way as she explores the house, and she is exploring everything now. I didn’t know cats could take so long to adjust, or needed a place of their own so thank you for mentioning those things.

hamsterjill

(17,587 posts)
33. She's probably too stressed to let her guard down much.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 10:26 PM
Mar 28

As she realizes she is safe, she will unwind. When you see her in her first absolutely peaceful and deep sleep, you will understand what I'm talking about. It's not a cat nap. It's an "I'm safe and I'm finally home and I can relax and rest" kind of sleep.

Were they able to tell you anything about her history? You don't have to share that here. But if she's six years old, she's had a history obviously.

Again, I cannot stress enough how grateful I am that you adopted. We have a HORRIBLE overpopulation issue in Texas. Cats can be TNR'd ("Trap, Neutered and Returned&quot , at least, which is better than being euthanized. Dogs cannot be. I see SO MANY idiots who don't have a pot to piss in that are posting somewhere that they want to buy a dog or cat from a breeder when so many at the shelters and rescues have no homes. So for the people who adopt, I wish them only good things. Thank you for being responsible and kind. May you and your new family member have many happy years together.

crosinski

(696 posts)
35. They didn't mention her history ...
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 11:23 PM
Mar 28

They were extremely busy. There was a troop of Girl Scouts visiting the cat room and spilling out into the reception area. Actually, they don’t usually do adoptions on Saturday, but the supervisor was there and approved us. I’m glad we brought our cat carrier just in case.

crosinski

(696 posts)
24. She came out for a while!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 07:14 PM
Mar 28

I think it was the sound of me scraping our plates after dinner that did it. She circled around the living room once, let us pet her, and now she’s hiding in here with us under a … oh she’s out of hiding now and coming to each of us for pets! She is just adorable!

CousinIT

(12,549 posts)
27. Awwww! She will come out when she learns she's safe.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 07:37 PM
Mar 28

Would love a photo when she feels brave. Good on you for adopting an older kitty! I can imagine she will be feeling cozy and very loved with you!

crosinski

(696 posts)
30. She went off to explore the house again, and now she's come back to be with us.
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 10:05 PM
Mar 28

She’s a very friendly cat when she’s not afraid! I’ll try to post a picture tomorrow.

CountAllVotes

(22,216 posts)
28. That's just great crosinski!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 07:48 PM
Mar 28

So happy for you and the family!

I adopted a pair of ferals in July. They are now about one year old and have settled in nicely.

Glad to read to saved a kitty!



crosinski

(696 posts)
32. I don't think I would have the patience to take in feral cats ...
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 10:20 PM
Mar 28

Good on you for taking them in!

CountAllVotes

(22,216 posts)
38. It was not difficult at all!
Sun Mar 29, 2026, 08:53 PM
Sunday

They are both SO happy to have a home. It makes your heart bleed.

They never do anything wrong. They don't ever want to end up in a situation like they were from.

I didn't know what to expect either BUT I have had cats my entire life and the one that was already here was a shelter rescue, very sick and was to be put down the next day. Then I found her in the nick of time. She gave me bump on the cheek and said, "I"LL TAKE HER!".



Response to crosinski (Reply #45)

3catwoman3

(29,435 posts)
31. How did you know she was "the one"?
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 10:07 PM
Mar 28

And until you can get a picture of her, please tell us what color eyes and fur she has.

crosinski

(696 posts)
34. We took the first cat we met!
Sat Mar 28, 2026, 10:57 PM
Mar 28

I didn’t think about it too much. I just went with my instinct … and it felt right. My husband went with my lead. She’s a dark tiger cat with yellow eyes. I’ll try to get a picture of her tomorrow.

crosinski

(696 posts)
37. She did alright, but she's back to hiding again today.
Sun Mar 29, 2026, 08:03 PM
Sunday

She can get to her food, water, and box without being seen from where we sit in the living room. I’ve heard her sneeze a few times, but she’s always out of sight. I think she’s okay. She’s hiding under our bed, by the way.

irisblue

(37,532 posts)
39. One on my cats liked sleeping in my closet so I made a cozy spot for him
Sun Mar 29, 2026, 10:09 PM
Sunday

One late night he got a case of the sneezes, it was a bit odd having the closet sneeze at me.😸

crosinski

(696 posts)
41. She's still hiding for most of the day.
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 07:01 PM
Monday

But she does come out in the evening for pets and love. I’ve lived with and loved many cats through the years, but this hiding is new to me. I feel as though I should be doing more to help her adjust, but don’t want to scare her!

niyad

(132,563 posts)
42. Please continue to give her time and space. The fact that she is coming out at all,
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 07:08 PM
Monday

however briefly, is a very good sign. Talk to her as you go about your day, carry on normally. Given the situation from which you rescued her, think about her behaviour as you would any kind of shock. Keep reassuring her that she is safe, not going anywhere. I don't think it will be all that long now.

crosinski

(696 posts)
43. She's sitting near me right now, and she seems calm.
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 08:13 PM
Monday

And she loves to be brushed … she’s been in the living room with us for at least twenty minutes … so maybe we are turning a corner with her. I will take it slowly though.

niyad

(132,563 posts)
44. My furbaby and I send loving wishes for her full acceptance of her
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 08:20 PM
Monday

new and wonderful family.

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