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dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 05:44 PM Jan 2018

Our marvelous, handsome and giant hearted guy crossed over yesterday.

Galen was 12.5 years old this month, we knew he was dying, and after a bad 3 days this week, we managed to get thru the bitter cold, snow and ice to the vet's. He slipped away, looking me in the eye as I held him.

I know all of you guys understand why it is so damn hard to do the right thing. My heart is shattered.


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Our marvelous, handsome and giant hearted guy crossed over yesterday. (Original Post) dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 OP
So sorry... NRaleighLiberal Jan 2018 #1
BIG Paw-prints......... lastlib Jan 2018 #67
Peace and wonderful memories forever in your hearts lunasun Jan 2018 #2
so sorry for your loss FirstLight Jan 2018 #3
I second those sentiments. Scarsdale Jan 2018 #75
So very sorry... Freedomofspeech Jan 2018 #4
My heart breaks for you montanacowboy Jan 2018 #5
My heart goes out to you. He looks just like our Chester before his grey came in. dem4decades Jan 2018 #6
I do understand completely... Useless in FL Jan 2018 #7
So sorry atreides1 Jan 2018 #8
Oh my goodness. MontanaMama Jan 2018 #9
So sorry! What a beautiful buddy. Ohiogal Jan 2018 #10
I get it. My buddy is getting up there. Very sorry. He sure looks like a good pal. Hoyt Jan 2018 #11
Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. May all of the livetohike Jan 2018 #12
............ Angry Dragon Jan 2018 #13
Why do they have to leave us so soon? Motley13 Jan 2018 #14
I'm so very sorry for your loss. TeapotInATempest Jan 2018 #15
... Skittles Jan 2018 #16
ahh, man, that is perfect. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #26
Jeez. That just made me cry for my long-gone buddies. Nay Jan 2018 #103
So very sorry. skylucy Jan 2018 #17
... RKP5637 Jan 2018 #18
I'm glad you had him. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Maraya1969 Jan 2018 #19
so sorry shanny Jan 2018 #20
Beautiful boy. redwitch Jan 2018 #21
What a beautiful fellow, he'll be well remembered. nt procon Jan 2018 #22
Dang. murielm99 Jan 2018 #23
You gave him the best gift you could and Galen no longer hurts Botany Jan 2018 #24
My first guy was that color, I like it too. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #48
As a geek kid in N.W. PA I had a big chestnut red golden, a canoe, a small lake, and a woods .... Botany Jan 2018 #58
Deepest sympathy on your loss. 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2018 #25
Im sorry about your beautiful boy. onecaliberal Jan 2018 #27
Beautiful dog, beautiful picture. Will always be looking at you with those soulful, loving eyes. Fla Dem Jan 2018 #28
So sorry SammyWinstonJack Jan 2018 #29
My deepest condolences... DonaldsRump Jan 2018 #30
You can't ask much better MFM008 Jan 2018 #31
Your final act of love RiverStone Jan 2018 #32
I'm so sorry. sweetroxie Jan 2018 #33
Heartfelt condolences kanda Jan 2018 #34
I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. onecent Jan 2018 #35
Beauty. cilla4progress Jan 2018 #36
I'm so sorry. They break our hearts and then help us to give more love. sinkingfeeling Jan 2018 #37
A very ineffectual cyber hug, but with the most sincere and deep empathy. Guilded Lilly Jan 2018 #38
Truly gorgeous RandomAccess Jan 2018 #39
Beautiful dog. My heart goes out to you. Its always hard cpamomfromtexas Jan 2018 #40
He is a beautiful boy. Sending you 💕❤️ MLAA Jan 2018 #41
🕯 sprinkleeninow Jan 2018 #42
I am deeply sorry for your loss ((hugs))❤ dewsgirl Jan 2018 #43
Amidst all the sturm und drang around the primates and their stupid arguments erronis Jan 2018 #44
You spoke my mind on several points. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #57
What a magnificent dog. 40RatRod Jan 2018 #45
Oh no!!! So sorry he had to go. It is such a shame that our pets' lives are japple Jan 2018 #46
He's waiting there for you. pazzyanne Jan 2018 #47
Good boy, Galen. Good boy. nolabear Jan 2018 #49
So sorry for the loss of this giant heart, peacebuzzard Jan 2018 #50
So sorry... Phentex Jan 2018 #51
I'm so sorry. So so sorry. What a beauty he was. 12.5 yrs is a long time for a big dog. Honeycombe8 Jan 2018 #52
Funny thing...i was thinking of what you said, this morning. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #59
+1. nt Honeycombe8 Jan 2018 #63
me too! There is a Rainbow Bridge Tribute site....its got wonderful resources. samnsara Jan 2018 #83
+1. nt Honeycombe8 Jan 2018 #95
It's the hardest thing in the world to do, even if you know it's right. {hugs} AvidReader Jan 2018 #53
What a beautiful dog. LisaM Jan 2018 #54
so sorry for your loss. barbtries Jan 2018 #55
So sorry. Duppers Jan 2018 #56
I'm sorry for your loss ... what beautiful boy nt Greywing Jan 2018 #60
He looks exactly like our old golden who passed suddenly, Liberty Belle Jan 2018 #61
Sorry for your loss marlakay Jan 2018 #62
What a beautiful boy. So sorry for how hard it is to say goodbye. flygal Jan 2018 #64
So sorry ms liberty Jan 2018 #65
So very sorry Moral Compass Jan 2018 #66
He will rest in peace and in your heart. PatrickforO Jan 2018 #68
Galen gave you everything he had, you gave Him peace benld74 Jan 2018 #69
Pretty boy. Vibes to you and your family. applegrove Jan 2018 #70
I absolutely DREAD the day we lose our Cairn. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2018 #71
dixiegirl marieo1 Jan 2018 #72
He was a beauty. So sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Jan 2018 #73
OK , I'm crying now. BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #74
Oh, dixiegrrrrl. I'm so very sorry. What a beautiful boy. I'm in tears right along with you. catbyte Jan 2018 #76
Rest in peace shenmue Jan 2018 #77
RIP Galen KT2000 Jan 2018 #78
I am so sorry Lunabell Jan 2018 #79
What a beautiful boy.... CatMor Jan 2018 #80
I'm so sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Jan 2018 #81
before i even scrolled down to see his picture I knew he was a Golden... samnsara Jan 2018 #82
did yours sing to you? dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #84
Galen a very very good boye voteearlyvoteoften Jan 2018 #85
I know exactly how you feel gopiscrap Jan 2018 #86
So sorry. He was a beauty. Old Terp Jan 2018 #87
I'm sorry, dixiegrrrrl Solly Mack Jan 2018 #88
Sorry seta1950 Jan 2018 #89
so very sad for you orleans Jan 2018 #90
Bye beautiful big heart Galen. mahina Jan 2018 #91
What a gorgeous fellow lillypaddle Jan 2018 #92
dixxiegirl, I'm SO very sorry to hear about your precious Upthevibe Jan 2018 #94
... lunamagica Jan 2018 #93
Oh man, he's a beautiful guy. Is, not was. Still In Wisconsin Jan 2018 #96
so very very sorry diva77 Jan 2018 #97
So very sorry samplegirl Jan 2018 #98
I am so sorry to hear about Galen mnhtnbb Jan 2018 #99
I'm so sorry, Dixie. Nt raccoon Jan 2018 #100
What a beautiful boy... my heart breaks for you. Raster Jan 2018 #101
Joy for the time we get to share with them. bullimiami Jan 2018 #102
That is one beautiful dog and his expression melts my heart Rhiannon12866 Jan 2018 #104
Condolences Sparkly Jan 2018 #105
He's beautiful. My condolences. Kolesar Jan 2018 #106
I am so sorry for your loss. irisblue Jan 2018 #107
I'm so sorry dixiegrrrrl AllyCat Jan 2018 #108
Sorry for your loss. My heart goes to you. Doreen Jan 2018 #109
I'm so sorry for you loss. MelissaB Jan 2018 #110
Goldens.....best dogs imo! Heartstrings Jan 2018 #111
The first one stole my heart completely in 1980. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #112
Other than a 1/2 Siberian Husky, 1/2 wolf pup Heartstrings Jan 2018 #115
Heartbreaking.. Permanut Jan 2018 #113
One of the things about my life is that lost dogs and cats have always shown up on the porch. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #116
Very sorry n/t lordsummerisle Jan 2018 #114
i am so sorry fizzgig Jan 2018 #117
Uncommonly wonderful looking. So much warmth, goodness. You were lucky to know him, dixiegrrrrl. Judi Lynn Jan 2018 #118

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
3. so sorry for your loss
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 05:48 PM
Jan 2018

My heart aches for you. Our furbabies have a way of just curling up inside our Hearts. He was beautiful.
So glad you got to hold him and send him over the Rainbow Bridge with love.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
75. I second those sentiments.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:28 PM
Jan 2018

They show nothing but love, and they DO leave paw prints on our hearts. The ONLY bad part of having a pet, is having to love them enough to let them go when their time comes. He was a handsome guy. So sorry.

montanacowboy

(6,085 posts)
5. My heart breaks for you
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 05:49 PM
Jan 2018

it's so hard to say goodbye

We have a 12 yr old Aussie Boy with diabetes and as a result is going blind. I dread the day will come.
We lost his brother when he was 8, he left very unexpectedly from a bursted slpeen that we didn't even know about

Bless their hearts, they are truly the best of us

livetohike

(22,140 posts)
12. Im so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. May all of the
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 05:54 PM
Jan 2018

sweet memories you have live in your heart and help ease the sadness. RIP Galen

TeapotInATempest

(804 posts)
15. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 05:59 PM
Jan 2018

I'm glad for both of you that you were able to be together for the end.

RIP Galen, you handsome boy.

Skittles

(153,159 posts)
16. ...
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:00 PM
Jan 2018

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you -

I loved you so -
'twas Heaven here with you

~Isla Paschal Richardson

Botany

(70,501 posts)
24. You gave him the best gift you could and Galen no longer hurts
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:24 PM
Jan 2018

Although, you do hurt but remember that hurt lets you know how much
you loved each other.

BTW I love those chestnut red Golden Retrievers .... I had one as a boy.

I just gave my black lab a pat for you.

Botany

(70,501 posts)
58. As a geek kid in N.W. PA I had a big chestnut red golden, a canoe, a small lake, and a woods ....
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:27 PM
Jan 2018

.... behind my house sometimes the older boys would ask me to go hunting
w/them and then say BTW can you bring you dog too? He was a spectacular
dog. If and when you get a new best buddy I am sure Galen has made sure that
he made sure that you have room in your heart for a new best buddy.


I bet your boy could make you pat him by just flipping your hand on his head.

BTW my lab is like your Galen .... he thinks he can control me w/his eyes. "OK
you can come with me today."

Fla Dem

(23,656 posts)
28. Beautiful dog, beautiful picture. Will always be looking at you with those soulful, loving eyes.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:29 PM
Jan 2018

RIP Galen. You had a good life with those who loved you.

RiverStone

(7,228 posts)
32. Your final act of love
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:34 PM
Jan 2018

That's what my vet told me when I had to put my beloved cat down last year. She was 20.5 years old and had stage 4 lymphoma and decided she was done eating/drinking. Also at 3 days.

My heart felt empathy your way, and Galen had a wonderful life and knew he was loved!

sweetroxie

(776 posts)
33. I'm so sorry.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:35 PM
Jan 2018

I can really understand your pain. Galen was a beautiful boy who loved you with everything he had. I'm sure it was mutual. Take good care.

kanda

(175 posts)
34. Heartfelt condolences
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:36 PM
Jan 2018

I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful dog. May he rest in peace and may you cherish happy memories.

 

RandomAccess

(5,210 posts)
39. Truly gorgeous
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:46 PM
Jan 2018

My heart is broken FOR you. So hard to lose them.

I don't understand death. I don't understand that suddenly there's nothing there, nothing left but memories and some photos (if we're lucky).

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Brighter days ahead --

erronis

(15,241 posts)
44. Amidst all the sturm und drang around the primates and their stupid arguments
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:54 PM
Jan 2018

There is the utter truth and love that our real friends give us, and that we give them.

I don't want to count the number of these friends that have passed but I can remember each of their names and their special (and some not so special) qualities.

As I'm aging I'll probably stop subjecting my friends to my debilities but I will always love them, and others, and yours - dixiegrrrrl.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
57. You spoke my mind on several points.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:25 PM
Jan 2018

the saddest one being we have to take the future years into consideration. Sigh.

japple

(9,823 posts)
46. Oh no!!! So sorry he had to go. It is such a shame that our pets' lives are
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 06:59 PM
Jan 2018

so short. Galen is lucky to have lived his life with you. Bless you for giving him such a happy existence. He is a beautiful, gorgeous soul.

pazzyanne

(6,551 posts)
47. He's waiting there for you.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:02 PM
Jan 2018

When Galen crossed the Rainbow Bridge
Your life starts over fresh and new,
But something here is missing,
Galen waits there for you.

So sorry for your loss.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
52. I'm so sorry. So so sorry. What a beauty he was. 12.5 yrs is a long time for a big dog.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:18 PM
Jan 2018

I'm hoping there's a Rainbow Bridge. Really. There are stranger things in the universe than that. He passed away in a way that I hope I will one day. He was a lucky doggie.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
59. Funny thing...i was thinking of what you said, this morning.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:28 PM
Jan 2018

Our lives are no more or less valuable and important...or should be....than animals.
We should have options for us, too.

And yes, we will meet them again. I could tell you stories.....

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
83. me too! There is a Rainbow Bridge Tribute site....its got wonderful resources.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:29 PM
Jan 2018

..I believe there is a bereavement forum as well as a chat room.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
56. So sorry.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:18 PM
Jan 2018

He was a magnificent boy.

Hardest days of our lives is when we must release our babies from their pain.

Heartfelt sympathy here.

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
61. He looks exactly like our old golden who passed suddenly,
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:40 PM
Jan 2018

She had been moving slowly, sick for a day and then fell on stairs and came up lame as we were on the way to the vet. They found,a ruptured tendon but also cancer in all of her organs. I held her when they had to put her down, hardest thing I've ever done and cried like a baby.

A few months later we adopted a rescue golden who looks much the same, and it helped to heal our hearts. Each dog is different, but filling that gaping void with love for a new animal really is the best medicine.

Actually we now have two dogs, having since adopted a rescue husky, too, and they are now the best of friends (after a someone rocky start).

((Hugs))

marlakay

(11,457 posts)
62. Sorry for your loss
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 07:42 PM
Jan 2018

I have a golden too, Robbie. He turns 1 this week. I am so in love with him don’t know what I will do.

Peace!

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
71. I absolutely DREAD the day we lose our Cairn.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:08 PM
Jan 2018

A funny little guy, and true to his breed, not overly affectionate, but you can tell...

I feel SO badly for you, but I'm heartened to see that he was so well looked after and cared about. 12.5 is a nice long life for the breed, and speaks highly of your care.

marieo1

(1,402 posts)
72. dixiegirl
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:14 PM
Jan 2018

Oh, how hard that must have been for you. We have 2 furry family members that will break my heart when it is time to say goodbye. My sympathies go to you!!

BigmanPigman

(51,590 posts)
74. OK , I'm crying now.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:26 PM
Jan 2018

I know the pain you feel. Two days ago Chelsea Handler lost her best friend too. I have been hearing about so many losses in the past few months and it seems odd to me. I remember when Fran Dresher's dogs and Mickey Rourke's dogs passed away and how I felt knowing someone understands how I feel too. It is such severe pain to experience and I have 100% empathy with you. My best friend is almost 15 and I dread it but I appreciate that I will live long enough to take care of her and provide the best life until it happens. That is a good thing. She wouldn't be able to live without me.

catbyte

(34,376 posts)
76. Oh, dixiegrrrrl. I'm so very sorry. What a beautiful boy. I'm in tears right along with you.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 08:35 PM
Jan 2018

The only time our furry family members are capable of breaking our hearts is when it's time for them to leave use. Again, you have my deepest condolences.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,599 posts)
81. I'm so sorry for your loss
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:00 PM
Jan 2018

We had to make this decision for our precious Schatzie in August of 2016 the day before her 11th birthday. She had cancer. The pain of her passing hasn't entirely gone away, but it has gotten better. Just try to remember the good times you shared with him. Time does heal.

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
82. before i even scrolled down to see his picture I knew he was a Golden...
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:23 PM
Jan 2018

...I am owned and have been owned by many over the years. I know your pain...many times over the years as well. My oldest is 12.5... he is also a gentle giant. Every day is a gift.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your best friend and fur child. Your hearts must be breaking into a million tiny pieces. Please know I am holding you close to my heart during this profound time of sadness.

Godspeed sweet Galen...what a GOOD boy you are!


(((hugs)))

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
84. did yours sing to you?
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 09:41 PM
Jan 2018

At night he would be dozing near me while I was on the puter, and let out a moan-ish sound, we called his whale music. I would repeat the sound back to him, he would reply, we would create different pitches, vary the length, back and forth for minutes at a time. He would end the game by breaking into a long howl, head up, then stop and look at me , and GRIN., tail wagging, happy as hell. You know how Goldies smile.....

orleans

(34,051 posts)
90. so very sad for you
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 11:20 PM
Jan 2018

brings up emotions that swirl around thoughts of my fur companions of years gone by

you loved and were loved
and that is so important
it's really all that matters in the end

this is a striking picture. he is so beautiful.

i'm so deeply sorry



mahina

(17,649 posts)
91. Bye beautiful big heart Galen.
Fri Jan 19, 2018, 11:23 PM
Jan 2018

Tell my Molly and Beau love from me. Be happy and run like the wind again. Your Mom knows you love her.

Hugs Dixiegrrl.

Upthevibe

(8,042 posts)
94. dixxiegirl, I'm SO very sorry to hear about your precious
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 01:45 AM
Jan 2018

Galen....How wonderful that you were in each others' lives for 12 years....I know when you think of him your heart will hurt but I also know you will smile when you think of all the joy he brought to you and you brought to him.....

mnhtnbb

(31,384 posts)
99. I am so sorry to hear about Galen
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 07:18 AM
Jan 2018

What a beautiful photo of him! Goldens are the sweetest dogs. And it is so hard to say goodbye to our fur babies. I truly hope there is a Rainbow Bridge because I'd much rather be reunited with my fur babies than with most people I've known.

Hugs.

Rhiannon12866

(205,288 posts)
104. That is one beautiful dog and his expression melts my heart
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 10:24 AM
Jan 2018

I am so very sorry, I've been there and felt those helpless feelings. But it's a blessing that in this life you found each other.

AllyCat

(16,184 posts)
108. I'm so sorry dixiegrrrrl
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 01:45 PM
Jan 2018

What a beautiful friend you were to him and he to you. Losing our furry family is never easy. May you find comfort in your memories and peace in time.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
109. Sorry for your loss. My heart goes to you.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 03:10 PM
Jan 2018

My Rusty who I had when I was a child looked just like Galen. I am tearing up.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
112. The first one stole my heart completely in 1980.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 04:04 PM
Jan 2018

Was the only breed I wanted after that, and you know they are so people bonded. I waited till I retired to get Galen, so that I would be home for him.
He made it worth the wait.

Permanut

(5,602 posts)
113. Heartbreaking..
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 04:44 PM
Jan 2018

I swore I would never get another dog after losing Murphy in 2013. That oath lasted all of two days, until I went to the Oregon Humane Society shelter, and met Joey the Jack Russell Terrier. Joey is laying at my feet as I type this. Just lucky to be able to share my life with these little guys, and to make their lives as fine as possible. Good on ya for taking care of magificent Galen, dixiegrrrrl.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
116. One of the things about my life is that lost dogs and cats have always shown up on the porch.
Sat Jan 20, 2018, 09:13 PM
Jan 2018

No matter where I have lived.
( so did a small herd of Holsteins, but that was not common... )

I always had to take them down the road to the shelter, because Galen was not tolerant of other dogs.Cats, yes. Dogs no.

So I am curious to see if the parade continues now.

Judi Lynn

(160,527 posts)
118. Uncommonly wonderful looking. So much warmth, goodness. You were lucky to know him, dixiegrrrrl.
Fri Jan 26, 2018, 05:09 PM
Jan 2018

Very best wishes as you make your way through the grief.

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