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spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 06:58 PM Jan 2021

Figuring out how to round up my feral

This comfortable looking fellow came in through the cat door a couple of years ago and has been living here ever since. He’s completely feral—I’m permitted to look at him from a distance, but he has a strict no-touch policy. Someone had him neutered and ear tipped at one time and he may actually have another home somewhere, although I’ve never found out where. But he knows we’re always good for a meal and a warm bed, so he’s settled in here for the winter. But now he has some kind of scabby-looking wound on his tipped ear and it’s probably best he see a vet, both for the ear and because he should have shots, even assuming he was vaccinated when he was neutered. I just can’t figure out how to do it. Last year when he was limping, I trapped him for a trip to the emergency vet—a traumatic experience all around and it took months for him to trust me at all. I’m really at a loss of what to do.


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Walleye

(31,008 posts)
2. That is a problem. I always worry that my feral will need medical attention. Don't know what I'd do
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:03 PM
Jan 2021

Been taking care of him for 10 years got him neutered as a kitten. He comes to my second floor deck Back door for dinner every night. He lets me pet him and he has come a few steps inside but he freaks out when I shut the door. I really love that cat though he’s very sweet

Phoenix61

(17,000 posts)
3. I'm with Mr Bill, drug him.
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:07 PM
Jan 2021

I’m sure your vet can help you with that. If not, find one that participates in a TNR program as they are used to dealing with feral cats.

Lunabell

(6,078 posts)
4. Do you have a TNR group who will help trap him?
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:10 PM
Jan 2021

I work with It's Meow or Never in Tallahassee Fl. Where are you? Maybe we can help or find someone who can.

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
10. I volunteer with a TNR group
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:23 PM
Jan 2021

Two problems with that plan: they don’t have wellness clinics until March and also I will never get this cat to walk into a trap ever again. I’m going to have a chat with my regular vet to see about a sedative. We’ve dosed him with Capstar in his food before, so a sedative might work.

Bayard

(22,056 posts)
6. If you can't touch him to treat him yourself,
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:12 PM
Jan 2021

I don't see any other way other than to trap him. Maybe when you get him home, you can spend some time taming him instead of just cutting him loose. Do you have a bathroom you can close him in? Then just go in and sit with him regularly for a few days, without trying to touch him. Bring food and treats.

He already trusts you to a degree if he's coming in your house and sleeping.

crud

(617 posts)
8. We got a vet housecall
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:13 PM
Jan 2021

I trapped her in our bathroom before the vet arrived and the two of us held her down with a towel, while he gave her a shot. She wasn't too happy about it, but it was much less stressful than a car trip in a crate. She stayed away only a day or two. Stayed out of the bathroom for a year after that!

Merlot

(9,696 posts)
9. I have the same situation at my house
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:15 PM
Jan 2021

I'd been feeding this fella for years, strictly outdoors...last summer he found the cat door and little by little he's made himself at home. Not quite as comfortable as your cat looks but it's just a matter of time I'm sure. He had a close call with a coyote this summer and had a big scratch on his neck. Luckily it wasn't deep and healed on it's own.

He has health issues, really itchy dry skin and somewhat hard abdomen. I'd love to get him to the vet but don't want that trauma and loss of trust that you mention. So I'll be as interested as you to see what replies are. It took SO long just for him to be comfortable, he's finally ok with being in the house with the door closed and not dashing out the cat door.

One thing I have learned from having a "hands off" cat is that a lot of the issues that would have called for a vet visit with my other cats just have to be left alone and so far they've healed or at least gotten slightly better. I give him all kinds of good food and kind words and provide a safe haven...that has to be enough.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
15. This is the compromise I've reached with our ferals.
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 11:02 PM
Jan 2021

I provide the best food and shelter support that I can and otherwise I leave them alone. They find being touched or trapped so traumatic that I'm just not willing to put them through that unless it's a life-and-death matter.

fierywoman

(7,683 posts)
11. Do you know "Tiny Kittens" on youtube?
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 07:32 PM
Jan 2021

They deal only with ferals and have a wealth of info ( and sympathy).

IcyPeas

(21,857 posts)
13. TinyKittens often uses gabapentin to calm ferals
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 08:05 PM
Jan 2021

so I agree with others above about trying to sedate.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,463 posts)
14. I take gabapentin..lol
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 09:47 PM
Jan 2021

I tend to be feral...lol
My cat Othello who is not feral,he loves the smell of my gabapentin. When I pack my meds for the week he finds the gabapentin bottle,rolls it to me. I hold the bottle take off the lid,and he puts his little nose into the bottle to sniff it. Bottle opening is too small for him to take any pills out.

I couldn't help remembering this when you mentioned gabapentin.

Merlot

(9,696 posts)
16. My Luna cat did the same thing with the calmsforte
Mon Jan 25, 2021, 11:39 PM
Jan 2021

just the sound of the bottle would bring him right over and he'd get pretty assertive about trying to get to them.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
17. Just want to thank you for caring for him.
Fri Jan 29, 2021, 09:21 AM
Jan 2021

I do rescue and TNR in Texas. I am always grateful when I see kindness extended to one of the kiddos.

Thank you.

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