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In the cats-versus-dogs debate, pop culture tends to skew in one direction. Many animated movies portray cats as manipulative and nefarious, and dogs as the (less canny) embodiments of loyalty and love. Cats also have a long association with the witchy and supernatural, underscoring their folkloric legacy as otherworldly beings. While some recent works have broadened depictions of felines, a new series from Netflix does the same for the humans who love them.
Released this month, the delightful six-part documentary Cat People introduces us to individuals in different parts of the world who have built a life around cats; more important, the show pulls back the layers of judgment and cliché that these people contend with. The six subjects come from an array of backgrounds and cultures, but what they all shareapart from their love of catsis the experience of being perceived as oddballs by other people. What the cats make of them, we can only guess.
The show both explodes the narrow definition of a cat person and reclaims the label. The docuseries is a defense of the sort of person who should need no defending and yet often does, because of misguided assumptions about gender, race, and even labor and art. In the popular imagination, a cat person is usually a woman who lives alone and is devoted to animals that many observers dismiss as aloof or unfeeling. Sometimes known as the crazy cat lady, shes pathologized and pitied. The presumption is that her feelings are silly because they could never be returned, that she dotes on her pets to the exclusion of caring for human children.
https://www.theatlantic.com/culture/archive/2021/07/netflix-cat-people/619514/
Mrs. Claw
(74 posts)Tadpole Raisin
(972 posts)for many years I can tell you with certainty that there is a certain number of cats one generally has beyond the norm for which the label cat person (have to say it was usually cat lady) applies.
It was a whole nother universe. To tell you stories would be too difficult and bizarre. Still I was quite fond of them for the most part.
Thanks. I bookmarked the article.
2naSalit
(86,926 posts)I am currently grieving because I was forced to move recently and leave behind my landlord's cat, who is attached to me. He was my buddy and he lived at my end of the house more than at his human's next door. I went to visit him this morning and bring him a treat. We hung around for a couple hours in the garden while I picked berries and did some watering.
His human tells me that he misses me and will sit on my doorstep for hours and get up and yell at the door sometimes. He lays under my car so I can't leave when I am ready to go. When I pick him up, he clings to me like he never did before. It breaks my heart to have to leave but he lives there and would not be happy at my new place. They care, you just have to know their language.
wnylib
(21,774 posts)love them both. Cats do not show affection and caring in the same way as dogs because ... well, because they are not dogs.
Cats are more self motivated than dogs, but they are not anti social or totally selfish. If you learn to understand their body language and vocalizations, and make an effort to meet them half way, always respecting their "felineness," you will have a loyal, equal companion.
They show their affection and happiness to be with you in so many ways:
Rubbing their scent on you to claim you as theirs.
Meowing in sadness when you leave.
Greeting you when you return.
Snuggling in your lap or next to you when you sleep.
Purring when they see you or feel your touch.
Including you in their play.
Defending their people against other animals or people.
Bringing you their catch to share.
Blinking at you to show "No hostility, we're friends "
When a cat befriends you, it is because they want to.
Random Boomer
(4,170 posts)Just sayin'....
-- Crazy Cat Lady
Ziggysmom
(3,432 posts)Random Boomer
(4,170 posts)Thanks for a chuckle this morning.