Pets
Related: About this forumLook what just happened with Madoc and Gryff! (It's GREAT)
A first time, peaceful co-habitation of my lap. I think today is going to be a really good day.

Freddie
(10,075 posts)I have 2 brothers who get along fine but do NOT share me. If Charlies on my lap and Andy jumps up, Charlie leaves. They sometimes cuddle together but not on me.
Walleye
(44,039 posts)2naSalit
(100,945 posts)Happened faster than I predicted but this is great!! A very good sign.
niyad
(130,439 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,628 posts)PatrickforB
(15,383 posts)I know our cats have brought us so much joy and love. Great little animals.
Here's hoping they will both grow strong and healthy in their forever home. Madoc is looking really good.
NJCher
(42,745 posts)eom
johnnyplankton
(616 posts)Wouldn't this be more appropriate on Cat Fancy or another site?
usaf-vet
(7,768 posts)Siwsan
(27,823 posts)I understand some people aren't interested in updates about my journey, but quite a few are. I'm not interested in anything to do with sports but I just don't click on the posts.
avebury
(11,189 posts)I enjoy hearing about their progress and seeing your pictures.
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)I love sharing this adventure, along with getting input, advice and reassurance I'm on the right track.
diane in sf
(4,226 posts)Siwsan
(27,823 posts)Since those who are complaining don't frequent the Pets forum they wouldn't know the back story and why it touched so many. Maybe that info would make a difference, maybe not, but honestly, I can't control who and/or how many recommend one of my posts. They should voice their complaints to those people if they are so bothered.
The kittens are REALLY having fun playing, tonight, so photos are impossible. But I'm going to work on getting some more posted, tomorrow.
ShazzieB
(22,333 posts)Some of us here live for these updates, not to mention the pics!
If you don't like 'em, don't read 'em. You have no right to try to take away something others love!
Unwind Your Mind
(2,329 posts)We enjoy these. You can scroll on by
johnnyplankton
(616 posts)MontanaMama
(24,644 posts)Its trending because the OP has so many recs. DUers are pet lovers in general and we all welcome a diversion from the shit storm we are living through.
Ocelot II
(129,720 posts)and then the posts won't show up for you at all.
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)A lot of people have expressed great interest in my journey but I definitely understand it's not to everyone's taste. Kind of how I feel about sports. I have zero interest so I just pass on opening the posts.
usaf-vet
(7,768 posts)If...IF they were in a Pets or Cat Forum you would never have heard from me. They show up in Trending Now.
Sorry, I do not dislike cats but I try and stay in touch with the assault on or Democracy.
Signed from a family with four generations who served in uniform to protect or Constitution. WW I to Gulf Wars
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)I don't begrudge that it's there.
I come from a family that has served, constantly, pretty much since the founding of the nation. Including me. I'm still able to enjoy recreational posts. I love the diversity of topics on DU, but that's just me, I guess.
usaf-vet
(7,768 posts)Apparently, there must be a workaround. I have blocked several of them from those that take a news clip showing it then comment on it THEN advertise for you to support them thru Patreon.
I have never entered the Pets group. The cat posts we speak of are in the Trending Now.
ShazzieB
(22,333 posts)Trending now is NOT a "group." It's an aggregation of items from any and all groups all over DU items that are getting lots of activity and recs. Siwsan's cat posts are showing up there BECAUSE they are very popular and greatly loved by lots of DUers.
Again: Siwsan is posting these in the Pets Group. If you're reading this, you ARE reading in the Pets group--surprsise, surprise!
JudyM
(29,665 posts)and are most rapidly gaining interest. Trending Now is not actually a forum folks can choose to post to, if thats what you may be thinking. Siwsan is actually posting in the Pets group.
usaf-vet
(7,768 posts)I don't dislike cats, but I also am not interested in blow-by-blow descriptions about any pet. Just like my relatives are not interested in re-seeing pictures from my last vacation. Or the first, second, third....12th version of the newest fly I am tying with my hobbies.
I have never intentionally gone to the Cat or Pets forum.
I have tried to block posters (usually) those that post a news clip, comment on it, then ask for financial support. It seems to work for a while, then somehow they find a workaround, and those posts start showing up in the video forum. You will likely know some of those.
flying rabbit
(4,942 posts)It's that easy. Plenty of other posts will be to your liking. It's a welcome diversion for others.
ShazzieB
(22,333 posts)1. Find one of Siwsan's posts and click on her name to bring up her profile.
2. You will see a row of tabs across the top.
3. Find the tab labeled "Ignore" and click on that.
4. On the next screen, click "full ignore" (on the right hand side of the screen.
After you do this, you will never see anything Siwsan posts, about cats or anything else. You can do this with anyone on DU.
Hope this helps.
diane in sf
(4,226 posts)After reading about huge amounts of assaults, I need my cat time to help maintain some joy.
brer cat
(27,435 posts)Also, we have been on this journey with Siwsan and want to know the updates. If you are not into pets, I suggest that you stay out of this group...and be careful in the lounge because pet stuff is there too.
Rebl2
(17,525 posts)cats and people are interested plus like another person said, its in the pets group.
zuul
(14,704 posts)And we at DU especially love Siwsan's updates on her feline family.
wnylib
(25,355 posts)That's because a LOT of us enjoy these updates.
Ocelot II
(129,720 posts)but a lot of us enjoy them.
tblue37
(68,340 posts)I_UndergroundPanther
(13,351 posts)Im a big fan of Madoc. I like seeing adorable cats everyday.
If you dont like her posts dont click on them.
Polly Hennessey
(8,658 posts)journey. Feel free to ignore us and we will feel free to ignore you.
ShazzieB
(22,333 posts)They show up in Trending now because they are VERY POPULAR. If you don't want to read them, don't click on them! Easy-Peasy!
The ironic thing is that, although you didn't seem to realize it, when you clicked on Siwsan's post, you were taken to the Pets Group. So you actually posted a comment in the Pets Group telling someone not to post about her Pets! That's why you got such a negative reaction.
niyad
(130,439 posts)Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)I'm trapped under a cat!!!
Glad to see the kittehs snuggle up like that.
Such a great story, Siwsan!!
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CaptainTruth
(8,075 posts)LastDemocratInSC
(4,224 posts)when they learn that they can keep each other warm. Shared comfort becomes more important than silly arguments.
Fla Dem
(27,480 posts)wnylib
(25,355 posts)Keep on posting updates. We like to see them.
geardaddy
(25,392 posts)And what great Welsh names!
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)My heart pumps Red Dragon blood!
MiHale
(12,750 posts)calimary
(89,289 posts)Little sweeties! Eventually they get it. Our kitties are four months old now and theyre starting to - well - I guess you could say - civilize.
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)the paperwork on Gryff shows a birth date of 7/9. I found the Madoc and his siblings on 8/8 and they were a month old.
Gryff is a little bigger, but not by much. Madoc most definitely wins first place in the feisty category.
calimary
(89,289 posts)The paperwork on our new two says July 1.
Ziggysmom
(4,085 posts)loving family time now, the three of you ❤️ I love seeing the updates and pics.
Be Well.
I_UndergroundPanther
(13,351 posts)They look so sweet.💗💓💖
Texaswitchy
(2,962 posts)Cats should be in twos.
3catwoman3
(28,873 posts)You must be thrilled.
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jfz9580m
(16,657 posts)I feel optimistic too and for the first time in a looong time
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Maybe I am picking up on Madoc and Gryff's peaceful coexistence
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ShazzieB
(22,333 posts)I'm sure these boys are going to be great friends.
I got a little sidetracked for a while by the people who were complaining about all the cat posts, not realizing they were doing it in the Pets Group!
It made my blood boil at first, until I realized they were just confused. Now I can relax and enjoy the sweet kitty pics. *sigh of contentment*
Siwsan
(27,823 posts)Maybe I'm too pragmatic, but complaining takes so much more energy than just ignoring. And if someone has been a member of DU for even a few months, the way the trending category is populated - well, it isn't rocket science. Something else was going on there, but I'm not going to waste any more time trying to figure it out.
I can't see the kittens, right now, but I can hear them. I suspect there's another kitten 'battle royale' going on. Madoc LOVES to wrestle so I'm sure he's thrilled he's got a new opponent. In a few minutes they will be back on the bed, competing for my attention.
3catwoman3
(28,873 posts)When I open a thread that I either dont like or dont find interesting, I just exit from it. No big deal.
Much ado about nothing.
I would read about Maddox and Gryff all day long.
MacKasey
(1,501 posts)I am always looking for new ones!
Thank you!
I am living vicariously through posts about kittens. My cat is very old and doesn't play anymore.
