Little Zoey is no more. She hung on for longer than expected but it was ultimately her time.
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She had been eating poorly lately and getting very weak. Her health really collapsed in just a few days. I took her to the vet today and she could not even stand up when we got home. Her kidneys are failing fast and there is not much we can do. She has not eaten at all today, and can barely move now. If I had gotten her to the vet even a few hours sooner I might have decided to put her to sleep today, she has so little life left, but I had taken her home and the vet had closed for the day by the time I fully realized just how frail she is. She was still walking around under her own power yesterday, and jumping up on the counter a few days before that. Now she falls over when she tries to stand. I doubt very much if she'll survive the night.
Her human mama has not been able to able to hold her on her lap lately due to her own health problems and now Zoey is leaving this world without even her favorite human cuddling her. I wish I could do more for her but she is strictly a mama's cat.
ETA: Zoey, to our amazement, survived the night, but she will not eat or drink. I am starting to regret not leaving her at the vet's over the weekend. I just had to make a decision in too little time and didn't want to do anything drastic without talking to Mother. Now it may be too late. I'm just hoping she can survive one more day, so we can get her to the vet's on Monday.
There are emergency vets around here, but they charge $$$$ and Mother and I cannot afford it -- her SSI is our only income. 
I may contact one anyway and see if there's not *something* we can do tomorrow.
Thanks to all for continued good vibes and hope. There is no good time to deal with something like this, but it suddenly happened while Mother is getting medical treatment 3-4 times a week and I am just exhausted. And then the crisis came to a head on a Friday afternoon, which just made it worse. I know worse things have happened (and are happening) to others but I feel just awful seeing how helpless little Zoey is, and I can't seem to do anything to help. If she is still alive Monday we will have to decide whether to attempt treatment (Dr. is not encouraging on this) or put her to sleep.
ETA: I was torn between hoping she would survive until I could get her back to the vet and hoping she would die peacefully without more suffering. She hung on until late Sunday evening, raising our hopes that she would make it to Monday, but passed away in her sleep overnight. She slept in Mother's room, tucked under her bed so she wouldn't try to crawl away and hide again, as close to her favorite human as we could arrange. From midday Friday she hadn't eaten a thing, or drunk any water, or used her litter box. She wasn't even incontinent -- I think she just had nothing left. She scarcely moved a muscle Sat or Sun, and seemed to be almost catatonic. Here eyes were open but I never saw her blink. Only a few times did she ever move a paw or her head. She might well have been unconscious the whole time.
RIP, Zoey. She was loved by her humans, and she loved her human momma like no cat I've ever seen. She spent most of her waking hours over the last years of her life in Mother's lap, or resting on her shoulder. She wasn't even my own cat, but I miss her terribly already.
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I'm so very sorry.
Sending good vibes to her & you folks!
It is so hard losing a family member,,,, we are never ready.
Sometimes in that very early morning sleep/wake time I feel and hear him.
I will ask him to meet little Zoey when her time comes. Hugs and love to all the fur babies and us people who really love them. 
She was 14. I couldn't hold her when she passed because she wouldn't go! As long as I was holding her she was happy, but I knew she was suffering. I had to say goodbye and put her in the garage ( in her blanket).
I'm so sorry, it's hard to lose those special fur babies.
