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uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 02:24 AM Dec 2011

I am getting a puppy, almost 4 weeks old. Yes, 4 WEEKS! Aieeee!!!1111

Acquaintance has puppies and I said I'd take one. Got a phone call that the mom dog wants nothing to do with pups so they started feeding them wet dog food mixed with baby formula, like a slurry. That the puppies are eating and pooping ok but they want them picked up.

I've a large carrier, crate, thing to let her sleep in and restrain her when she's not out and about with us. But I am feeling overwhelmed.

I'd hoped to wait 'til 8 weeks but it won't be. Time to pick up the multivax, the puppy, bring them home and combine them.

I am excited but overwhelmed with picking up a baby to coddle. And my cats, oh dear. At least the pup will be smaller than they are, for a bit. Pictures will be forthcoming.

thanks for listening.

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I am getting a puppy, almost 4 weeks old. Yes, 4 WEEKS! Aieeee!!!1111 (Original Post) uppityperson Dec 2011 OP
4 weeks! That's young! elleng Dec 2011 #1
I ended up with a puppy earlier then I wanted. Parents were moving. So my son had a pet southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #60
That's really something, elleng Jan 2012 #61
It really was. That dog never cried. It didn't no the difference. It was so cute. southernyankeebelle Jan 2012 #62
Please talk to a vet about taking a puppy that young home rox63 Dec 2011 #2
My mastiff was about that age when I got her. Chemisse Dec 2011 #3
You have received great advice Irishonly Dec 2011 #4
don't do it TorchTheWitch Dec 2011 #5
TTW.. 99Forever Dec 2011 #7
I've spent years researching every aspect of dog breeding TorchTheWitch Jan 2012 #28
We'll just have to agree to disagree. 99Forever Jan 2012 #32
This is excellent info. I've been involved in breed rescue for over 10 years now. REACTIVATED IN CT Jan 2012 #33
Yes.. 99Forever Jan 2012 #34
It may be "preaching" to you, to others it is REACTIVATED IN CT Jan 2012 #36
Another person with which I'll.. 99Forever Jan 2012 #37
I hope you had a nice holiday, too. REACTIVATED IN CT Jan 2012 #44
You seem to have misunderstood what .. 99Forever Jan 2012 #45
I am sorry that you took my post that way. REACTIVATED IN CT Jan 2012 #47
No harm, no foul. 99Forever Jan 2012 #48
I in no way wanted a puppy this young, tried talking the owners into 8 weeks since they uppityperson Jan 2012 #50
What do you suggest doing about the fact that the mother dog in rejecting her pups? That is not jwirr Jan 2012 #40
Feed them but keep the pups together. REACTIVATED IN CT Jan 2012 #43
This I understand. jwirr Jan 2012 #46
I agree. Unfortunately this wouldn't happen in this situation. uppityperson Jan 2012 #51
Message self deleted by author dixiegrrrrl May 2012 #91
thank you for your concern. Maybe you missed "multivax" in my OP. I'd rather rescue one than uppityperson Dec 2011 #12
rescue??? TorchTheWitch Jan 2012 #29
Witch, it does nothing positive to assume so much. Not a breed, not "adament about getting pups so uppityperson Jan 2012 #38
Don't be intimidated... 99Forever Dec 2011 #6
Picture proof :^) 99Forever Dec 2011 #8
What a beautiful dog! nt Walk away Dec 2011 #9
Sadie is beautiful Irishonly Dec 2011 #13
Neat idea... 99Forever Dec 2011 #14
I just love this picture. Chemisse Dec 2011 #18
What a fuzzy puppy/long dog. She is gorgeous. uppityperson Dec 2011 #15
Sadie is a purebred.. 99Forever Dec 2011 #16
Such a beauty! n/t Chemisse Dec 2011 #17
She is STUNNING! get the red out Jan 2012 #57
Thanks.. 99Forever Jan 2012 #58
You'll be fine. Just get him to your Vet ASAP and make sure that diet is adequate and ... Walk away Dec 2011 #10
thank you for your thoughts and advice. uppityperson Dec 2011 #11
What does your vet say about taking a puppy this young ? REACTIVATED IN CT Dec 2011 #19
Rather than having her "put down", I brought her home. She ate puppy formula mixed with canned uppityperson Dec 2011 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author uppityperson Dec 2011 #20
Baby! Walk away Jan 2012 #27
What a cutie, have you named him (her) yet? 99Forever Jan 2012 #35
She is adorable Irishonly Jan 2012 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author uppityperson Jan 2012 #49
Best of luck to you and the little one. Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #22
She'll probably turn out thinking she's a cat. Socializing her as soon as can start vaccines will be uppityperson Dec 2011 #23
And please spent tons of time with her until the cats take over Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #24
She was on my lap and wanted down, barked, so I laid on the floor on a blanket uppityperson Dec 2011 #25
We need video! nt Walk away Jan 2012 #26
no contact with other animals until AFTER TorchTheWitch Jan 2012 #30
Again, it does nothing positive to jump to all those conclusions, to assume all that. Not a breeder, uppityperson Jan 2012 #39
You'll do fine with your puppy. yellerpup Jan 2012 #31
We took in a pup once that was less than a week old Coyote_Bandit Jan 2012 #41
I rescued my child at Texasgal Jan 2012 #52
awwwwwwww uppityperson Jan 2012 #53
how's it going? Texasgal Jan 2012 #54
The cats have been watching and sniffing her. Today for the 1st time SHE approached a cat uppityperson Jan 2012 #55
Oh yes! Loss of sleep Texasgal Jan 2012 #56
Update. She went from 3.5 to 4.5 lbs in the last weeks, is eating canned puppyfood without mixing uppityperson Jan 2012 #59
Another pound gained in a week, 6 week vx gotten and this is so much fun & tiring uppityperson Jan 2012 #63
Thanks for the updates Irishonly Jan 2012 #64
I've not had a puppy for 30+ yrs. this is something. I remind myself of when I had my baby uppityperson Jan 2012 #65
Lucky Duers Irishonly Jan 2012 #66
I don't think there is any one in thsi group who doesn't want to see pictures. Stinky The Clown Jan 2012 #67
This message was self-deleted by its author uppityperson Feb 2012 #68
Arrow is getting big Irishonly Feb 2012 #69
I researched raw yams and it said to grate & put in her food. She does the grating so far with those uppityperson Feb 2012 #72
My husband wants a puppy Irishonly Feb 2012 #73
dehydrated yams make great chewie toys. mopinko May 2012 #81
Thank you, that is a great idea. I was given a dehydrator and will try that. Do you need to blanche uppityperson May 2012 #82
i just dry them. mopinko May 2012 #83
She looks like she's hugging the yammie! Stinky The Clown Feb 2012 #70
It is something. I made the edges of the can smooth, was going to be for a toddler, set of stacking uppityperson Feb 2012 #71
Well she's cute as can be Stinky The Clown Feb 2012 #74
This message was self-deleted by its author uppityperson May 2012 #75
She's gotten so big! ceile May 2012 #76
Hah. Many people have asked that but no, she is a 5 month old golden retriever/lab-chow mix uppityperson May 2012 #77
From puppy to dog . . . . . . Stinky The Clown May 2012 #78
Wow Irishonly May 2012 #79
She's gorgeous livetohike May 2012 #80
Awwww! What a pretty dog! Rhiannon12866 May 2012 #84
Gorgeous MadrasT May 2012 #85
She's beautiful! kas125 May 2012 #86
Aireau has grown to be a drop dead, make your heart go pitter patter, young lady Irishonly May 2012 #87
Thank you. I was 2nd person up today and missed the bounce in circles I'm so excited to see you bit. uppityperson May 2012 #88
She is beautiful! MuseRider May 2012 #89
That is one beautiful dog get the red out May 2012 #90

elleng

(141,926 posts)
1. 4 weeks! That's young!
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:46 AM
Dec 2011

Get extra stuff for pup to cuddle with, stuffed toys, ticking clock for heart beat. Check with vet about best food at this age; may still need milk for a while.

Breed?

Will love to see pics, but pup's well-being more important.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
60. I ended up with a puppy earlier then I wanted. Parents were moving. So my son had a pet
Fri Jan 13, 2012, 10:03 AM
Jan 2012

seal about the same color as the mother. He would cuddle right up to that seal and sleep. I also had a clock in the box. I feed him warm milk. He took to it very well.

rox63

(9,464 posts)
2. Please talk to a vet about taking a puppy that young home
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:53 AM
Dec 2011

Usually, 8 weeks is the minimum age recommended.

Chemisse

(31,346 posts)
3. My mastiff was about that age when I got her.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 09:51 AM
Dec 2011

We were led to believe she was older and realized her age later when we checked back through the paperwork. (We were afraid she was blind, but it turned out she was just incredibly young).

It's important to keep her warm when you are not cuddling her. You might also want to get her socialized with other puppies as soon as it's feasible.

On edit - the bonding you do with a pup this age is rapid and deep, since you are taking the place of the mother dog.

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
4. You have received great advice
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:16 AM
Dec 2011

I think getting the puppy to the vet immediately should be top on your list. You will be the prime example of a pet parent. Can't wait to see the pictures.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
5. don't do it
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:31 AM
Dec 2011

Four weeks is WAY too young. The pup still needs to be with it's mother and siblings until at least eight weeks of age. At four weeks they shouldn't even be handled much or outside or in contact with other animals as they haven't even gotten the age-appropriate shots yet.

This acquaintance has no idea what they're doing and the very idea of giving the pups away at a mere four weeks is nuts.

Without having been able to nurse within the first hour of birth and not having even gotten it's age-appropriate shots yet makes this pup EXTREMELY vulnerable and high risk for health problems down the road.

Just don't do it. If you want a puppy then get one that at least has good potential for good health.


99Forever

(14,524 posts)
7. TTW..
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 12:56 PM
Dec 2011

... with all due respect, I don't see your response as productive. I'm not sure where you got your information, but some of it just plain isn't so. Yes, 4 weeks is somewhat younger than ideal, but not as traumatic as you might think. From my research, the consensus that is most common for the "ideal" age to separate pups from litters is at 7 weeks. Some say sooner, some say later. But what's really important is what happens in their new environment. With proper veterinary care, love and socializing interaction there is no reason in the world to think a pup doesn't "at least has good potential for good health." Maybe you didn't your reply to be quite so over the top, but if I had little to no knowledge of pups, it would have frightened me and that isn't helpful to anyone.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
28. I've spent years researching every aspect of dog breeding
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 06:48 AM
Jan 2012

and know what I'm talking about.

It SHOULD frighten people. People are constantly getting dogs they have no idea about their breeding and/or upbringing and then can't figure out why the dog has so many illnesses or dies. If people knew what is necessary in proper breeding and upbringing then the people doing the careless breeding and improper upbringing wouldn't find it so easy and we wouldn't be so unindated with so many unwanted health compromised dogs. I wish to God that I had known any of this before getting my first one who was improperly bred, taken from its mother at far too young an age and had a long list of health problems all his life because of it.

I don't know why you think my post was "over the top". The truth is never over the top, and the most decent thing anyone could do in this instance is warn the OP what they're getting into and why so they can make an informed decision whether or not to take on this pup or give them the chance to convince the acquaintence breeder to properly care for the pup until it is old enough to go to a new environment. And the truth is this pup still needs to stay in a confined and clean area with its siblings properly cared for until it is old enough to be sent to a new home REGARDLESS of the fact that the mother dog is rejecting the pups. Bad enough that they aren't getting the very necessary immunities through nursing, but to even further compromise them be sending them off into another home with new people and new animals before they're even old enough to have their second round of shots is just begging for trouble. The very least this breeder could do is make sure that the pups are properly cared for until they are old enough to be sold or given away. Any vet will tell you that before the THIRD round of shots a pup still has to be limited in it's contact with other people and animals because they aren't protected sufficiently. At four weeks this pup who is already immune compromised because of not being able to nurse would not yet even have had its SECOND round of shots.

And that's just the physical health. Behaviorally, it is necessary that the pups remain with each other until at least eight weeks of age. Bad enough that they aren't being cared for by their mother dog, but even worse to deprive them of each other as pups NEED to be with their litter mates until old enough to leave them.


99Forever

(14,524 posts)
32. We'll just have to agree to disagree.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 10:55 AM
Jan 2012

Last edited Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:56 AM - Edit history (1)

I have little interest in having a debate with you over this. I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with your rescues or adoptions, but I see little value visiting such harsh criticisms on a good person trying hard to make a home for a pup in need. That's just how I see it and understand you view it differently.

Peace in the New Year.

REACTIVATED IN CT

(2,965 posts)
33. This is excellent info. I've been involved in breed rescue for over 10 years now.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 11:17 AM
Jan 2012

I have learned a lot from reputable breeders and from other rescuers. What TTW is saying should give one pause.

The behavioral issues that can result from taking pups away from their littermates too soon are the hardest to compensate for. One can keep them warm, keep them fed, keep them away from sources of infection - but how does one teach them how to be a dog that knows how to interact with other dogs ?? Those skills also transfer to how they interact with the leader of their pack - their person and other people.




99Forever

(14,524 posts)
34. Yes..
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 12:21 PM
Jan 2012

.. and in an ideal world, there wouldn't be any need for rescue because all pet owners would be responsible and have their dogs (and cats) spayed and neutered and every pup (or kitten) would find a perfect home at exactly the "correct age" with every one of their needs met.

Unfortunately we live in the real world and sometimes we have to do the best we can with situations as they actually are, not as we wished they would be. I commend your 10 years in breed rescue, been rescuing and fostering ourselves for as far back as I can remember, several decades, at least. Some of the very best dogs we've known have come from the most dire of circumstances. Some aren't so fortunate, but one thing I for sure, it's NEVER the pup or dog's fault that they are in a tough place and they ALL deserve a chance to have a decent life.

It sounds to me as if Uppity has a good handle on the challenges she'll be facing. That's just my take and I prefer giving helpful support to preaching about "how things should happen."

REACTIVATED IN CT

(2,965 posts)
36. It may be "preaching" to you, to others it is
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 12:42 PM
Jan 2012

"educating".

Uppity is not the only one who will read these posts. Someone may learn something here that will be helpful in another situation and may prevent problems that may cause a dog to find itself in a shelter. So many are there because they are "biters" and many rescue groups can't take them. Their mothers and their littermates were supposed to teach them about bite inhibition and didn't - for a variety of reasons.

Unfortunately,their numbers are so high that many do not get a second chance - as I am sure you know, but others may not.

I'm sure that uppity is doing what she thinks is the right thing under the circumstances and I do wish her and the pup well. I hope the other pups are going to knowledgeable people, too. And that the owner's of the bitch will get her spayed.


Here are some articles to add to your research results and for others to learn from:

http://www.bestfriendcompaniondogtraining.com/images/Prevent%20Future%20Shelter%20Dogs.pdf

http://www.diamondsintheruff.com/DevelopmentalStages.html

http://flyingdogpress.com/content/view/51/97/

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
37. Another person with which I'll..
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 01:22 PM
Jan 2012

.. just have to agree to disagree with.

Have a nice holiday.

REACTIVATED IN CT

(2,965 posts)
44. I hope you had a nice holiday, too.
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 10:15 AM
Jan 2012

Mine was spent quietly with my dogs, me catching up on my newspaper reading and crossword puzzle solving.

If you have results of your research that it is OK to separate pups from their littermates before 8-12 weeks of age, please share. I don't see anything on the internets or in any of the books on my dog bookshelf

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
45. You seem to have misunderstood what ..
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 11:50 AM
Jan 2012

.. I was saying. Maybe I wasn't clear. I agree that it's not good to separate pups at too early an age, if you had read the entirety of my posts you would have seen that. I'm NOT going to "debate" a position I have never taken, OK?

Where I don't agree with you, is in your preachy, talking down to, lecturing of the the person who started this thread. The people who really need to hear that, neither come to a forum such as this or listen when you do it. As Uppity pointed out SEVERAL times, this pup NEEDED a home NOW, and she is providing it. Multiple INCORRECT assumptions were made about the situation, which she tried, apparently in vain to correct. Yet it fell upon deaf ears. Quite frankly, it strikes me as quite rude and insensitive.

It's not a perfect world, especially for animals that NEED rescued. Getting up on your soapbox and reading the riot act to those of us willing to open up our hearts and homes to do it, is just plain counter-productive.

REACTIVATED IN CT

(2,965 posts)
47. I am sorry that you took my post that way.
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 06:16 PM
Jan 2012

That was not my intention at all. Maybe I read your posts too quickly.

Uppity did what was best in this situation. I just wanted to make it clear that taking pups away too soon is not best practice.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
48. No harm, no foul.
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 07:06 PM
Jan 2012

I think we're all on the same side here. Sometimes it gets goobered up when trying to get our thoughts across on this medium is all.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
50. I in no way wanted a puppy this young, tried talking the owners into 8 weeks since they
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 09:50 PM
Jan 2012

wanted to have them go at 6 weeks. Getting the phone call at 4 weeks made my heart sink since there are many of this litter that probably will not make it or not be good dogs due to health and socializing issues.

The pregnancy was unexpected in an inherited dog that was supposed to have been spayed.

I am tired from being up every few hours all night dealing with her needs and smiling because it is so cute when she sleeps flat on her back with arms/legs straight at sides, or when she shakes her "sibling" stuffed toy and falls over. Ferocious puppy! When she wakes during the night she whines or barks, I carry her outside where she pees and/or poops, then carry her back inside for a quick cuddle, then tuck back in with jars of hot water and stuffed toys and snooze. Unless she decides she wants to play a bit, then the bear, the hand, the puppy have epic battles and chase around. Then I try and get back to sleep, hoping that she will also.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
40. What do you suggest doing about the fact that the mother dog in rejecting her pups? That is not
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 05:13 PM
Jan 2012

good for them either.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
51. I agree. Unfortunately this wouldn't happen in this situation.
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 09:55 PM
Jan 2012

I guess I could have take 4 puppies home instead of one. The puppies are now all gone from the place they were. I'm not sure if the unspoken for ones were supermarketed free puppies or not, but they are gone. Shit, now I'll feel bad at not taking the last 4 of them also.

I can do what I can do and can do 1. Ideally they should have all stayed together for at least 6 weeks if not 8 or 12. Second would be feeding them all together. I can do what I can do.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
12. thank you for your concern. Maybe you missed "multivax" in my OP. I'd rather rescue one than
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:35 PM
Dec 2011

have her killed outright.

I am not sure why you thing she couldn't nurse within the first hour of her birth, and vaccines aren't age appropriate yet but rest assured I will vx her when it is.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
29. rescue???
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 07:09 AM
Jan 2012

You said nothing about rescuing this pup and you most certainly didn't indicate that the pup would be killed outright. Why in the world would anyone get a pup from a breeder that is so horrible that they'd kill the pups outright???? WTF???

Pups need the immunities provided by their own mother's milk. Since the mother of the pups has rejected them obviously they haven't been nursing. REGARDLESS of the mother rejecting the pups they STILL need to stay in a confined sanitary environment with their litter mates ESPECIALLY because their mother rejected them. Exposing these pups to a different environment before they've had AT LEAST their first two rounds of age-appropriate shots is detrimental to their health and ESPECIALLY because their immune systems have already been hugely compromised because of their not nursing.

Since you seem so adament about getting the pup so young, it's vital to know what you're getting into. I would absolutely urge you to talk to the acquaintence and try to convince them how important it is that the pups remain together and in their accustomed controlled and sanitary environment until they are at least eight weeks old. Just why is it that this person is unwilling to do this, and why in the world would you need to be worried that they'd actually go so far as to kill the pups outright???


uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
38. Witch, it does nothing positive to assume so much. Not a breed, not "adament about getting pups so
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:29 PM
Jan 2012

young" but an acquaintance with pups who said "take them now". Again, thank you for your concern.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
6. Don't be intimidated...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:31 AM
Dec 2011

.. you can do just fine and your puppy can thrive.

Since Spring we've got an education on young pup rearing. For starters, we got Sadie May, a White German Shepard at age 5 weeks. A previous pup from the same place had Parvo and it's a very awful and often fatal disease that hits both pups that haven't been vaccinated and older dogs with compromised immune systems. It's CRITICAL to get your pup in for it's vaccinations when they are due. Normally the first should be at 6 weeks, second at 10 weeks, final at 16 weeks. Check with your vet to be certain, because without mommy's milk and it's antibodies, it might be different.

We did add 2% milk to Sadie's food for about a week, then gradually changed to water, then to just dry, our vet said the extra fat was helpful. He recommends Purina Puppy Chow because of it's balance. Says the pricier feeds aren't necessarily better and some aren't as good. Sadie May is now 7 months old and is a long legged beauty filled with energy and love.

Then our 1/2 French Bulldog/ 1/2 Boston, Lolah had a litter of 6 pups. When they reached about 4 weeks, Lolah couldn't keep up with their appetite, so we supplemented by feeding them a "slurry" of whole milk and Puppy Chow mixed in a blender for a week or two, changing over to water. Lolah weaned them completely at 5 weeks. At about 6 weeks we began to to see some diarrhea in them, the vet suggested it might be from the wet food, so we gradually reduced the water over a couple of days. Worked like a charm.

Anyway, congrats on your new family member and just have fun and patience with him(her). Pups are my most favorite thing in this world, besides grandbabies, that is. We're lucky enough to have both.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
8. Picture proof :^)
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:27 PM
Dec 2011

<a href="" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt="Sadie May at 5 weeks"></a>

Sadie May at 5 weeks.


<a href="" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt="Sadie at 6 months"></a>

Sadie May now.

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
13. Sadie is beautiful
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:43 PM
Dec 2011

She would be a great candidate for a dog calander. Maybe we should do one.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
14. Neat idea...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 05:51 PM
Dec 2011

... and thank you, Sadie is my sunshine. Here's a shot of 4 of Lolah's pups at about 10 weeks:

<a href="" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt="Tuffy, Long Tail, Leo, and Pookie"></a>


I might be a little biased, but I think they are poster worthy too!

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
15. What a fuzzy puppy/long dog. She is gorgeous.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 06:51 PM
Dec 2011

Do you know her heritage? Very interesting.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
16. Sadie is a purebred..
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 07:13 PM
Dec 2011

... 100% White German Shepard. Very intelligent, and very active. Her parents are both owned by a decades long friend of my wife's.

get the red out

(14,031 posts)
57. She is STUNNING!
Wed Jan 4, 2012, 01:57 PM
Jan 2012

What a beautiful dog!

I am glad you have done such a great job with her. She certainly deserves love and care, they all do.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
58. Thanks..
Wed Jan 4, 2012, 03:39 PM
Jan 2012

.. she's the light of my life. Tomorrow we go to have her spayed and like any time they use anesthesia, there's some (not a lot,but some) risk. Please think happy thoughts that it goes routine.

Walk away

(9,494 posts)
10. You'll be fine. Just get him to your Vet ASAP and make sure that diet is adequate and ...
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:46 PM
Dec 2011

he doesn't have any mild infections that need the anti-bs that he can't get from his mom. There are premixed formulas but home made mush is fine if they can digest it.

Enjoy staying up all night with a needy puppy. Just like a baby, it's exhausting but fun!

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
11. thank you for your thoughts and advice.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 03:33 PM
Dec 2011

I've had several dogs, many cats, a human baby, and wanted to be a vet when I grew up but ended up in nursing. It is going to be something, glad my work schedule is slow for the next couple weeks.

REACTIVATED IN CT

(2,965 posts)
19. What does your vet say about taking a puppy this young ?
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:47 PM
Dec 2011

Healthwise, it might be OK, but removing them from their littermates before 6 weeks (and after 12 weeks) can lead to behavioral problems, specifically the lack of bite inhibition.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
21. Rather than having her "put down", I brought her home. She ate puppy formula mixed with canned
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:07 PM
Dec 2011

puppy food, had a drink, is napping. I didn't want her until she was at least 6 weeks, better at 8, but took her rather than have her killed. I am following my vet's advice for food, vaccines, keeping warm, wearing her between my shirts, etc.

We rescued a young kitten from a supermarket give away since a couple guys were talking about taking her home and feeding her alcohol. Yrs later she still likes to be shoulder kitty but is ok.

I've worked not just with people and health but as a vet assistant for a while. It is a lot, and a bit overwhelming, but puppy's needs will be met. Have a sib who works with a wildlife animal rescue place feeding infant squirrels. Sounds like quite the experience.

Response to uppityperson (Original post)

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
42. She is adorable
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 02:33 AM
Jan 2012

I have skimmed the thread and it sounds like you are doing everything right. Have you named her yet or did I miss it?

Response to Irishonly (Reply #42)

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
22. Best of luck to you and the little one.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:18 PM
Dec 2011

I have to agree with the people who say that this is too young, and socialization with littermates at this age would be crucial.

I don't know about where you live, but in PA, it is illegal to offer dogs for adoption before they are 8 weeks old. What this person who is offering this pup is doing may not be legal. And there is a reason for this law, and it is the well-being of the dog as well as the adopter.

I hope all works out----it still can. I have raised kittens who lost their mother when they were 1 week old, and they turned out fine.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
23. She'll probably turn out thinking she's a cat. Socializing her as soon as can start vaccines will be
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:33 PM
Dec 2011

very important.

I am getting many good ideas here, it will be a challenge.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
24. And please spent tons of time with her until the cats take over
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:35 PM
Dec 2011

(that is IF the cats take over---you know cats!). Dogs are so social, and a puppy will need lots of time sleeping on laps and playing with others---people will have to do.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
25. She was on my lap and wanted down, barked, so I laid on the floor on a blanket
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:58 PM
Dec 2011

she walked around the edge of the blanket, not going off it. We played with a little stuffed toy that was her size, pretending it was one of her sibs. She grabbed my pants, I found it her muzzle is touched just right she yawns. Then she crawled her front part onto my arm, laid her head down and fell asleep.

It will take time and energy and time, holding, playing with her, etc but dang that was cute. snooze

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
30. no contact with other animals until AFTER
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 07:32 AM
Jan 2012

the third round of shots. This is VERY important. These pups are already enormously compromised because of their lack of getting immunities from their mother's milk. This is one of the reasons that the pup MUST be kept in a controlled and sanitary environment until after the second round of shots, and until after the final third round of shots the pup still must have no contact with other animals and minimal contact with people.

In PA it is illegal to sell or adopt out a puppy before the age of eight weeks, and their health is the biggest reason. I'd check the laws where you live and see if it is even legal for you to getting this pup so young, and if not then report the breeder. You should be reporting them anyway if you're seriously conserned that this person is actually going to kill them if they can't get rid of them right away. That's sick and fucked up in every way.

Getting the shots at the correct times is also vital because if you wait too long the previous shots are worthless.

Between 4 weeks and the third and final round of shots it is imperative that there be no socialization. The pup needs to be in a controlled environment until they are old enough and their health protected for socialization.


uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
39. Again, it does nothing positive to jump to all those conclusions, to assume all that. Not a breeder,
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 02:31 PM
Jan 2012

for instance. Thank you for your concern but I am taking my vet's advice which differs greatly from yours. Him I know and trust for knowing what is best in my situation.

yellerpup

(12,263 posts)
31. You'll do fine with your puppy.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 10:37 AM
Jan 2012

I've raised kittens from 2 days old by hand (mother was shot the first time she went out to potty) and they were the nicest, best socialized kitties ever. You will be that puppy's mommy forever and have probably the best relationship you've ever experienced with an animal. My heart swells when I think of the good deed you are doing.

Coyote_Bandit

(6,783 posts)
41. We took in a pup once that was less than a week old
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 01:49 AM
Jan 2012

Half cocker and half lab. Her Mom dug out of the yard and was hit and killed by a car. All of her pups were orphaned. We bottle fed her, got her shots, socialized her with our other dogs and had her neutered at the appropriate age. She was a wonderful family dog and lived a long, active, healthy life. She was put down at the age of 18 after a suspected stroke. I miss that dog.

If the mom wants nothing to do with the pup then you need to take the pup to the vet for a thorough examination. Sometimes that kind of behavior is an early indication of health problems. I personally would condition taking the pup on the results of that exam and the veterinarian's recommendation.

You also need to seek veterinary advice ragardng the appropriate care of this young life should you take this pup in.

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
52. I rescued my child at
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 10:40 PM
Jan 2012

six weeks.

She came from a backyard breeder who was later fined and had many dogs and cats taken away from the site.

She was very sick, had giardia and worms. We took her to the vet, loved on her and she is now a seven month old love snuggler! I agree that pets in general need to stay with the moms until they are atleast eight weeks. Our situation was different and I am glad that we were able to take her and nurse her to health and a vital part of our family.

I am excited for you UP! Just know that you will be up and down all night!!! No rest for you with a new baby in the house!!!

Here's the baby at seven weeks:

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uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
55. The cats have been watching and sniffing her. Today for the 1st time SHE approached a cat
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 11:08 PM
Jan 2012

of course the cat's ears went back but they sniffed noses, then pup tried to lick the cat and cat went away rather quickly.

She has learned where her bed is. If she's out playing on the floor, when she gets tired she goes into the kennel and snuggles down in the stuffed toys (and water bottles). This morning she was barking while in her kennel with the door shut (for the night to restrain her and keep the cats out) so I took her out and on the way to the door she was squealing "don't wal, RUN! I've gotta go!!" When I put her on the ground she didn't take her typical 4 steps but just squatted.

She's eating the puppy formula/puppy food mixture well. Has no clue what to do with a bowl of water, but I am sure that will come in time as her formula/food becomes less liquidy and more solid.

And she loves her little teddy bear, fights with it growling and shaking her head, then drags it around and flops down with her head on it. Of course I play with her with it also, playing the role of sibs pulling on ears, knocking her down, etc.

I am tired though. Too many night wakings for this old person. Oh well, it'll pass soon enough, and then they become teenagers and parents become stupid....wait, that is kids.

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
56. Oh yes! Loss of sleep
Mon Jan 2, 2012, 11:36 PM
Jan 2012

is the worst!

Beaulah mae kept us up for for days on end and our other dog ( Quincy also a Boston ) was just ticked off. My 14 year old cat diva wasn't so happy either! LOL!

It get's better... She has been slowly learning how to potty outside. She eats her own food now, instead of Quincy's or the Kitty's. She sleeps through the night now, in our bed cuddled up to my pillow. The eating of cat turds and running off are still big issues though we are working on it!!

Good luck, the lil' baby looks like a charm!

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
59. Update. She went from 3.5 to 4.5 lbs in the last weeks, is eating canned puppyfood without mixing
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 09:23 PM
Jan 2012

with formula. I gave her formula in a dish and she lapped it up also, am hoping she will learn to drink water this way. She has her vet exam/vaccine appointment for her 6 week birthday. She no longer falls over when she shakes her head and has almost outgrown her first teddy bear, has moved on to LambChop with squeakers in its feet.

Sleeping from 11 pm-6 am and doesn't pee/poop in her kennel when the door is shut (at night). I carry her out, put her down and she pees, though now takes 5 min to poop since there is A PIECE OF GRASS!!!!

I've had to grab her by her scruff a couple times when she decided to attack my hand beyond comfort and not get distracted by the stuffed toy. She yells, then settles down and we cuddle, then back to the toys.

Puppies sleep a lot. After the first couple days, she is sleeping a lot, rather like puppies do. When she wakes up she likes to play for 15 to 30 min the sits down, that's it. Time to nap again.

So far so good. Oh, the cats? They still can't figure out what she is.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
63. Another pound gained in a week, 6 week vx gotten and this is so much fun & tiring
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 04:32 PM
Jan 2012

Realizing there is a reason people my age aren't fertile. Am tired but all is well and very fun.

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
64. Thanks for the updates
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 04:51 PM
Jan 2012

You and the new baby are doing well. My DH wants to get a puppy. He is getting the look from me. I would love to have a puppy but also know so many need to be rescued.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
65. I've not had a puppy for 30+ yrs. this is something. I remind myself of when I had my baby
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 05:01 PM
Jan 2012

updates and pictures to family all the time....

Poor family. Poor Pets group Duers.

Stinky The Clown

(68,952 posts)
67. I don't think there is any one in thsi group who doesn't want to see pictures.
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 05:19 PM
Jan 2012

Please post a picture of your puppy in our pinned picture thread, here: http://www.democraticunderground.com/11611046

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Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
69. Arrow is getting big
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 12:21 AM
Feb 2012

She is a beautiful girl. Yams look like they are a good substitute for teething rings. Having a fur baby makes you feel young, doesn't it? When I walk my two I forget about all of my aches and pains for a bit. The last half mile we get to stop and sniff the roses, grass, trees, ect..

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
72. I researched raw yams and it said to grate & put in her food. She does the grating so far with those
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 12:48 AM
Feb 2012

sharp puppy teeth. Having a walk with her is very fun, some activity and ....SQUIRREL!!!! more walk and....RAINDROP!!!! She's started carrying cones and small bits of wood as we walk. Very fun.

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
73. My husband wants a puppy
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 12:56 AM
Feb 2012

I am starting to lean towards it and seeing Arrow and all of the puppies in this group makes the yearning grow. She sounds absolutely perfect.

mopinko

(73,726 posts)
81. dehydrated yams make great chewie toys.
Tue May 8, 2012, 11:15 PM
May 2012

i have sliced them fairly thick on my mandolin and dehydrated them. but i think i will cut them with the fry cutter next time.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
82. Thank you, that is a great idea. I was given a dehydrator and will try that. Do you need to blanche
Tue May 8, 2012, 11:30 PM
May 2012

them first, like when you dehydrate other veggies for eating, or are they fine just sliced/dried? Thank you for the idea, inexpensive chew toys.

Stinky The Clown

(68,952 posts)
70. She looks like she's hugging the yammie!
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 12:35 AM
Feb 2012

Quite a trip from a 4 week old puppy, huh?

Sparkly lets our three maniacs lick the cat food cans. The little Shih-Tzu, who is not a whole lot bigger than your puppy, loves to play with them. Problem is, she chews right through the metal. It worries me that the sharp metal could cut her gums. I think tomato paste is in a steel can, not aluminum like the cat food cans, so you may be okay.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
71. It is something. I made the edges of the can smooth, was going to be for a toddler, set of stacking
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 12:46 AM
Feb 2012

cans. We are being very watchful so she doesn't chew through it. It is quite a change from a 4 week pup. I have to keep reminding myself that just because she's lived with us for a month+ doesn't mean she is older than she is. She's the age where she might be coming home with me, if all had gone well.

So, play a bit then down for a nap, even if she fusses. We tried letting her nap on a bed out in the livingroom but it is too exciting so she got really cranky. Back in her room, all is quiet and time to snoose.

She doesn't like airplanes or cars, too noisy and tries to climb up me for a snuggle when a plane flies over. Fuzzy baby still.

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uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
77. Hah. Many people have asked that but no, she is a 5 month old golden retriever/lab-chow mix
Mon May 7, 2012, 09:06 PM
May 2012

She is the right size for a border collie right now and we get that a lot. Then funny stares when I tell them she's a golden mix, 5 months old. She just lost a couple pre-molars and has bloody stuffed toys today.

We're figuring she'll be 60-70 lbs when full grown, is 35 now. She is very fun and different work now but it is great she finally got above coyote-snatch size.

Rhiannon12866

(255,525 posts)
84. Awwww! What a pretty dog!
Tue May 8, 2012, 11:46 PM
May 2012

I love the markings and she has the sweetest face, looks like a very intelligent pup...

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
87. Aireau has grown to be a drop dead, make your heart go pitter patter, young lady
Fri May 18, 2012, 10:34 AM
May 2012

You have done an outstanding job of raising her. I am always so happy to see pictures of her.

uppityperson

(116,020 posts)
88. Thank you. I was 2nd person up today and missed the bounce in circles I'm so excited to see you bit.
Fri May 18, 2012, 12:48 PM
May 2012

Instead I got the "I'm going to sit at your feet with my head in your lap to gaze adoringly at you while my tail beats the floor" bit. Both are fun situations but usually I am 1st up so very much appreciate the head in lap.

MuseRider

(35,176 posts)
89. She is beautiful!
Fri May 18, 2012, 06:14 PM
May 2012

Simply beautiful! I have pruned couches too Also the base boards are a bit gnarly in a few spots. Oh well. You fix them when you can but until then you have a great dog who is learning.

You did very well growing that little thing up. She looks happy and content.

Adding: I love the strip up the side of her face, very cute.

get the red out

(14,031 posts)
90. That is one beautiful dog
Wed May 23, 2012, 03:59 PM
May 2012

She has grown up so beautifully with your loving care! She is on her way to being an incredible.

I thought she looked like a BC too, but I had just read the post where she was 12 lbs at 2 months and that would be a bit big, LOL.

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