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raccoon

(31,110 posts)
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 06:24 AM Apr 2021

Anybody else have dreams where they're working, often at their last job,

And then remember, “I’m not supposed to be working here. I’m retired.”

I had one last night.

At least it beats the heck out of the exam dream! You know, the one where you have an exam and you haven’t cracked the book or done any work at all?

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Anybody else have dreams where they're working, often at their last job, (Original Post) raccoon Apr 2021 OP
Never had the work dream. ShazzieB Apr 2021 #1
Many times snowybirdie Apr 2021 #2
Yes, every couple of weeks it seems Sherman A1 Apr 2021 #3
Yes, for a period last year True Blue American Apr 2021 #4
I had the same dream, gab13by13 Apr 2021 #5
Dodge truck? True Blue American Apr 2021 #7
Real. gab13by13 Apr 2021 #13
I retired before yo, but True Blue American Apr 2021 #16
Yes, I frequently dream I'm working lillypaddle Apr 2021 #6
Yes, but the frequency is slowing. JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2021 #8
Yes! Especially soon after I retired. SilverDawg Apr 2021 #9
I have. It was a hard physical labor job too. I wake up and it's a great relief when I realize brewens Apr 2021 #10
I dream about going back to high school occasionally captain queeg Apr 2021 #11
Yes, it bothers you. True Blue American Apr 2021 #18
I've had the exam nightmares several times. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #12
Oh lord I've had that one a lot too. Nt raccoon Apr 2021 #20
I have Nurse Nightmares. Horrible, impossible situations that I'm put in. Very disturbing. Cousin Dupree Apr 2021 #14
I think I have had that one once or twice. -misanthroptimist Apr 2021 #15
My sister in law works for a global company. Cracklin Charlie Apr 2021 #17
Sad! True Blue American Apr 2021 #19
Maybe suffering from dementia? Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #21
Your reply is why she just keeps taking the calls. Cracklin Charlie Apr 2021 #23
That's very sweet and caring of her! Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2021 #24
I've been retired for 9 years and still have nightmare dreams about work several times a month. Shrike47 Apr 2021 #22
MUCH BETTER than the Tax final, elleng Apr 2021 #25
For years I would occasionally dream I was back at PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2021 #26
I did for the first few years after I retired, but they have faded away over time. Midnight Writer Apr 2021 #27
I have dreams i'm working in old jobs. I think to normalize them which applegrove Apr 2021 #28
I have dreams i'm working in old jobs. I think to normalize them which applegrove Apr 2021 #29
Oh hell yes. The Work Dream. trof Apr 2021 #30
I have dreams where I can't find a bathroom too. Must be raccoon Apr 2021 #31
I'm almost 80 and have an enlarged prostate. trof Apr 2021 #32

ShazzieB

(16,357 posts)
1. Never had the work dream.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 06:37 AM
Apr 2021

I have had the exam dream many times though, and in multiple variations. In one, I was ready to take the exam but couldn't find the room. Wandered through what must have been miles of corridors searching for it. It was a relief to wake up and realize it wasn't real!

snowybirdie

(5,222 posts)
2. Many times
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 06:38 AM
Apr 2021

Usually can't find my building and am late. Wonder what it means lol. Sleep soundly fellow DUr.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
3. Yes, every couple of weeks it seems
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 06:40 AM
Apr 2021

The scenario varies some but they seem to be a regular feature of my sleep. I think I should get some overtime for all this work.

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
4. Yes, for a period last year
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 06:53 AM
Apr 2021

I was always the last one to leave in a big, once exclusive building.

I could not get out, when I finally did, could not find my car. That was actually funny because I was the last to leave. That happened at the beginning of the Pandemic. Not sure what is signified.
The building was torn down.

gab13by13

(21,292 posts)
5. I had the same dream,
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:31 AM
Apr 2021

I traveled a lot and there were times I almost missed my flight home so of course I dreamt about not finding my car to go home.

I have a theory with my work dreams and car dreams. I dealt with A-Fib for 9 years and having it was OK but it made me more or less uneasy. I wouldn't sleep on my left side because I could feel my heart out of time. Jan. 23rd 2020 I had a successful ablation for my A-Fib and now my dreams are less frequent and when I have the dreams there is someone in my dream, maybe a former co-worker who helps find our car.

My old dreams were quite frustrating. I even dreamt about one place in particular where I worked on the road, Zanesville. I don't know why but the place I worked was quite different than how it looked in my dreams, but I knew it was Zanesville. I mean the people were quite friendly in Zanesville. I even joked with them that a brother and sister from West Virginia founded their town in the 1800's. I mean everyone in Zanesville owned a Dodge truck.

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
7. Dodge truck?
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:41 AM
Apr 2021

In the dream or real?

My Son was an Engineer for Chrysler. Refused to drive anything else. Then the CEO sold Chrysler to a German company. The CEO made a fortune. They immediately drained it of cash money, sold it back.

He now has a Malibu and GMC. His Dad worked at GM!

gab13by13

(21,292 posts)
13. Real.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:59 AM
Apr 2021

I am exaggerating of course, but the people in Zanesville loved Dodge trucks. Remember now that I retired in 2010 so my work was years prior to that.

True Blue American

(17,982 posts)
16. I retired before yo, but
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 09:21 AM
Apr 2021

Have to listen to the anger of those who lost their jobs because of companies moving over seas or taking lower wages to keep them from moving with tax breaks the Republicans put in.

As an Official of the only Union for Engineers in the auto industry, listening to the threats of moving to frighten the people who worked for him into cutting wages. The Union did not stand a chance against Reagan and Republicans.

Joe Biden is aware of losing your job. His Father did. That is the reason he brought the Unions in to his campaign. Love them or hate them they created the middle class.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
6. Yes, I frequently dream I'm working
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:40 AM
Apr 2021

not only at my last job, but one from years ago. I also dream about missing my exam in college.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,336 posts)
8. Yes, but the frequency is slowing.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:43 AM
Apr 2021

Worse are the dreams where I light up a cigarette. It takes a while to get over the feeling that I (once again) have failed to quit. Those are also fading, as it's been about twenty years since I smoked.

SilverDawg

(797 posts)
9. Yes! Especially soon after I retired.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:46 AM
Apr 2021

Drove me nuts. I dreamed many times I was working with the old team and understanding the whole time I had retired. Thought it was just me.

brewens

(13,566 posts)
10. I have. It was a hard physical labor job too. I wake up and it's a great relief when I realize
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:49 AM
Apr 2021

I don't work there any more. I never dream about the blood center I'm retired from. I actually loved that job most of the time and it was a cakewalk compared to every other job I had.

captain queeg

(10,157 posts)
11. I dream about going back to high school occasionally
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:50 AM
Apr 2021

To finish my senior year. I dropped out after the first couple months but I only needed a half credit to graduate so I went to summer school to finish up. But I missed my senior year, didn’t bother me at the time but I guess at some level it must have. In the dream I always acknowledge that I already graduated from college so it’s pretty weird.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
12. I've had the exam nightmares several times.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 07:52 AM
Apr 2021

No dreams about former workplaces, though, at least not the kind that are upsetting enough to remember very long.

I've had some nightmares about working at a new job and not knowing what the hell I'm even supposed to do, though.

-misanthroptimist

(808 posts)
15. I think I have had that one once or twice.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 08:46 AM
Apr 2021

More common for me is to dream I'm back in the Army. Kinda ridiculous since I did one hitch over forty years ago. Add to that that the Army and I weren't really compatible.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
17. My sister in law works for a global company.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 09:22 AM
Apr 2021

Her job is to take calls from people that are calling in sick from around the world.

There is a man who retired from the company five years ago, who calls in sick a couple times every month. She thinks he is lonely, so she just talks to him for a bit, and then says she will note his file.

Maybe he just had a work dream.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
21. Maybe suffering from dementia?
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 10:29 AM
Apr 2021

Or perhaps a long-time employee who became institutionalized by it, like Brooks in "The Shawshank Redemption".



I worked for a temp agency when I was young, and I was sent to an absolute hellhole one time that would happily work you to death. I left after a few months.

Years later, I mentioned that place to a coworker and it turned out that he worked there for several years before the place went out of business. He asked me if I remembered a particular guy who worked there, but I didn't. Then he explained that guy had worked there for many years, and it was the only job he ever had. And that he often worked 7 days a week, double-shifts, etc. Anyway, that guy committed suicide over that place shutting down! He killed himself over that shithole company... managed by sociopaths as far as I could tell!

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
23. Your reply is why she just keeps taking the calls.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 11:38 AM
Apr 2021

She thinks he may just be a lonely guy. She’s also very friendly, with a sweet, southern drawl. He was a mechanic for the company for a long time, with an exemplary attendance record.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
22. I've been retired for 9 years and still have nightmare dreams about work several times a month.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 11:24 AM
Apr 2021

I was an attorney for the state, taxed with handling multiple small hearings and trials in various counties. (Some weeks I drove hundreds of miles). In the dreams, I am usually appearing for trial on a case I know nothing about, sometimes on a subject I know little about. If the court has a brief recess, I go outside and walk around, getting lost.

Disturbing dreams.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
26. For years I would occasionally dream I was back at
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 12:23 PM
Apr 2021

the airport, working the ticket counter. I did that for ten years, the longest job I ever had. In my dreams I was always having trouble booking the flights, or printing the tickets. Eventually those dreams stopped.

When I was in high school I would have a recurring dream about taking a math test that I apparently hadn't studied for, or even attended the classes when the material was being covered. I always thought it was more of an overall anxiety dream. Then, some thirty years later, I was taking math again at my local junior college, and I started having that dream again. Clearly it was a specific math anxiety dream.

applegrove

(118,600 posts)
28. I have dreams i'm working in old jobs. I think to normalize them which
Mon Apr 19, 2021, 12:35 AM
Apr 2021

my body must be doing to distance me from trauma.

applegrove

(118,600 posts)
29. I have dreams i'm working in old jobs. I think to normalize them which
Mon Apr 19, 2021, 12:36 AM
Apr 2021

my body must be doing to distance me from trauma.

trof

(54,256 posts)
30. Oh hell yes. The Work Dream.
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 08:01 PM
Apr 2021

I was an airline pilot.
I come to work and I'm not in uniform.
Or I don't have my passport.
Or my ID badge.
Or my nav kit.(The rectangular black bag we used to carry with all our route maps, approach charts, aircraft manual, etc., etc. before it all became digital.)

I had them a lot right after I retired and for several years.
That was 22 years ago.
Not so much now.

Now I dream I can't find a men's room.

raccoon

(31,110 posts)
31. I have dreams where I can't find a bathroom too. Must be
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 05:41 AM
Apr 2021

A dream a lot of mature people have. 😊

trof

(54,256 posts)
32. I'm almost 80 and have an enlarged prostate.
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 06:45 PM
Apr 2021

I get up 2-5 times a night and usually have this dream beforehand.

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