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Today is the first Sunday in lent. (Original Post) hrmjustin Mar 2014 OP
Fish every Friday at the restaurant until Easter pipoman Mar 2014 #1
That is a traditional lenten discipline. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #2
Some of the fast food joints put fish on their menu just during the Lenton season goldent Mar 2014 #7
Re fast food fish - this is the story I've heard- No Vested Interest Mar 2014 #11
I think this story is true goldent Mar 2014 #16
As transportation has made good, fresh fish available everywhere, at least No Vested Interest Mar 2014 #9
I agree that abstaining from meat is not a sacrifice goldent Mar 2014 #18
You could always eat a capybara Act_of_Reparation Mar 2014 #39
reminds me of the parochial school days rurallib Mar 2014 #3
I don't give up anything. I take on something. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #4
Yes. Yes. pangaia Mar 2014 #29
That.was the fallback position. okasha Mar 2014 #14
true, but those nuns had those rulers .............. rurallib Mar 2014 #15
Not the Ursulines at my school. okasha Mar 2014 #32
We Lutherans don't "have to" give something up Freddie Mar 2014 #5
Eremember Sundays don't count in lent. You can cheat today. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #6
I just learned about the Sunday thing in the last year or so. goldent Mar 2014 #8
Lol! it does sem like cheating. That is why most denominations that use lenten devotions hrmjustin Mar 2014 #10
I think it is the same thing for Catholics goldent Mar 2014 #17
This is the time of the year where I enjoy a 3/4 pound hamburger on Fridays Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #12
Lol! hrmjustin Mar 2014 #13
So you are giving up eating what is good for you and sticking to your budget? cbayer Mar 2014 #19
That's not what I meant... Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #20
Oh! My bad. cbayer Mar 2014 #21
To offend and to show how silly their beliefs are. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #28
That's some funny stuff right there. cbayer Mar 2014 #35
You seem to care. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #37
Oh, yes. I am very deeply concerned. cbayer Mar 2014 #38
How could it POSSIBLY offend someone if someone else eats meat on Fridays? xfundy Mar 2014 #33
It couldn't. That is what makes this so hilarious. cbayer Mar 2014 #36
I hope the season brings you joy, peace and an opportunity for reflection. cbayer Mar 2014 #22
It was always my leaast favorite season. I skipped church today so I did not have to hear hrmjustin Mar 2014 #23
Sorry to hear that. cbayer Mar 2014 #24
I love Easter but Holy Week is so grueling at my church that by Easter I am ready to drop. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #25
Ah, I forgot that it is a lot of work for some people cbayer Mar 2014 #26
Lol yes they are. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #27
This is nice. oldandhappy Mar 2014 #30
My parish sings it but I stayed home today. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #31
I lent out my chainsaw last fall. xfundy Mar 2014 #34
How do you plan to address the person who borrowed it? cbayer Mar 2014 #40

goldent

(1,582 posts)
7. Some of the fast food joints put fish on their menu just during the Lenton season
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 02:22 PM
Mar 2014

I don't know when this started - I've seen it for a few years now at Wendys and Arbys. I'm waiting for the some Atheist group to start a boycott.

No Vested Interest

(5,300 posts)
11. Re fast food fish - this is the story I've heard-
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 03:43 PM
Mar 2014

A McDonald's franchisee in the western part of Cincinnati - traditionally very Catholic- saw his sales of typical McDonald's hamburgers drop precipitously during Lent. He came up with the idea of a fish sandwich to keep his customers coming during the Lenten season.
This would have been many years ago.

When I have more time, I'll look for a source for this story.

goldent

(1,582 posts)
16. I think this story is true
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 07:12 PM
Mar 2014

and what I heard is that there was disagreement between the local franchisee and Ray Kroc, the founder of McDonalds. One wanted the fish sandwich, and the other wanted something else (maybe some kind of cheese sandwich?). Well, they did a market test and the first sandwich won, and that is the Fillet-O-Fish.

Personally, I don't like the Fillet-O-Fish so much. Around here, Arby's have a Lenten fish sandwich (Alaska pollock) that I like - Wendy's also have one they just started to offer, but I haven't tried it this year.

No Vested Interest

(5,300 posts)
9. As transportation has made good, fresh fish available everywhere, at least
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 02:32 PM
Mar 2014

in my world, I sort of have to question "what is the sacrifice in abstaining from meat on Fridays in Lent?"
More often than not, when dining out throughout the year, my choice of entrée is seafood. I'm crazy about rainbow trout,
and when in Florida, nothing beats a good serving of grouper.

Yes, meat is more readily available, and easier to prepare, in most cases, so there is sometimes a certain inconvenience in abstinence, especially for one who feels a need for some protein at most meals.

So, I abstain, even while wondering if there isn't a better way to observe the preparation for Easter.

goldent

(1,582 posts)
18. I agree that abstaining from meat is not a sacrifice
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 07:21 PM
Mar 2014

although it is for some people. I usually go vegetarian which is not really a sacrifice either, but headed in that direction . My big problem is remembering

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
39. You could always eat a capybara
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:35 AM
Mar 2014


Despite being a rodent, the Catholic Church maintains it is not "meat" and can be consumed guilt-free during the Lenten season.

rurallib

(64,833 posts)
3. reminds me of the parochial school days
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 11:53 AM
Mar 2014

and how all the good little boys and girls would give up candy under the approving eyes of the nuns and priests.
So glad those days are gone.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
14. That.was the fallback position.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 06:08 PM
Mar 2014

We always tried to give up homework first, even if we wrten't Catholic.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
32. Not the Ursulines at my school.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 12:16 AM
Mar 2014

We just got 20 extra math problems or a few more verb conjugations, since we loved homework so much that less would be a sacrifice.

Freddie

(10,143 posts)
5. We Lutherans don't "have to" give something up
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 12:21 PM
Mar 2014

But we are encouraged to do so, to remind us of the sacrifices made.
I've been dieting/exercising since last fall, lost 23 lbs. (lots more to go) but I've been allowing myself too many "off days" lately. For Lent I will get myself back in track, at least until coconut-cream egg season.

goldent

(1,582 posts)
8. I just learned about the Sunday thing in the last year or so.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 02:24 PM
Mar 2014

I guess it is my well developed Catholic guilt, that I can't take advantage of it.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
10. Lol! it does sem like cheating. That is why most denominations that use lenten devotions
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 02:36 PM
Mar 2014

keep that hush hush.

goldent

(1,582 posts)
17. I think it is the same thing for Catholics
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 07:17 PM
Mar 2014

in that you don't "have to" give up anything for Lent. Although you are supposed to abstain from meat on Fridays and fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. To me, abstaining from meat is not a sacrifice - the fasting I notice. Of course, even fasting is not that bad -- I think the rule is one full/regular meal, and two smallish meals.

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
12. This is the time of the year where I enjoy a 3/4 pound hamburger on Fridays
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 03:44 PM
Mar 2014

in public restaurants.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
19. So you are giving up eating what is good for you and sticking to your budget?
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 07:25 PM
Mar 2014

That is just super cool!!

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
21. Oh! My bad.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:42 PM
Mar 2014

Did you mean you were going to purposefully go out of your way to offend other people?

Too bad you have to eat a boatload of food that is bad for you and spend money doing it.

Somehow I think you are on the losing end of this deal, but whatever makes you happy~ I don't think anyone else will really notice.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
35. That's some funny stuff right there.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 10:59 AM
Mar 2014

I think you should wear a big sign that lets them know that you are eating a giant sized hamburger in order to show them how silly their beliefs are.

Seriously, though, do you think anyone on earth really cares if you eat a hamburger on friday during lent? Anyone?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
38. Oh, yes. I am very deeply concerned.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:17 AM
Mar 2014

Please, please, please do not eat a hamburger on fridays for the next 4 weeks. Your soul is at stake.

And if you eat a ¾ pound hamburger you will go to super hell, not just regular hell.

Seriously, don't do it!!!

xfundy

(5,105 posts)
33. How could it POSSIBLY offend someone if someone else eats meat on Fridays?
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 02:42 AM
Mar 2014

Oh, wait, is it like how marriage equality "offends" those who are incredibly unlikely to get married to someone of the same sex, but can't help being all Mrs. Kravitz about making a fuss out of it?

I think I'm starting to see the "logic" behind that mindset.

Personally, I love fish and eat is as often as possible, as long as it's not from the Gulf of Mexico, which will remain poisoned for the rest of my lifetime. If eating out, which I can't afford, it's mainly available on Fridays.

Keep on looking for things to be offended about. You'll always find something

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
36. It couldn't. That is what makes this so hilarious.
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:03 AM
Mar 2014

No one cares if someone else eats a giant sized hamburger in a public place on a Friday in lent. The idea that anyone would care is an extension of the gross misconceptions that some people hold about religious people that constitutes overt prejudice.

I'm not offended at all. I found the post really humorous.

I like fish, too, but generally only raw. I'm not sure if there are any religious proscriptions about whether it has to be cooked on fridays during lent, though.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
22. I hope the season brings you joy, peace and an opportunity for reflection.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:46 PM
Mar 2014

I wasn't raised to give up anything for lent, though I grew up with a lot of catholic kids who did.

But lent was a time when we heard more of the Easter stories. We (the kids) used to make big banners in preparation for the Easter march after the service that sunday. And I liked the palms on palm sunday.

It was a fun season to be in the church.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
23. It was always my leaast favorite season. I skipped church today so I did not have to hear
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:49 PM
Mar 2014

the great litany that never ends.


But I do make an effort of bettering myself. Looks like I did not do so well today but that is a different story.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
24. Sorry to hear that.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:53 PM
Mar 2014

I always liked both the religious and secular aspects of it.

And even though I did not bring my kids up with any religion at all, we still carried on with all the secular aspects of Easter, which they loved.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
25. I love Easter but Holy Week is so grueling at my church that by Easter I am ready to drop.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:56 PM
Mar 2014

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
26. Ah, I forgot that it is a lot of work for some people
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 08:58 PM
Mar 2014

which I should have known as my father worked particularly hard during the season.

Well, your chocolate covered reward is just a few weeks away!

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
30. This is nice.
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 09:37 PM
Mar 2014

We do not have this lovely music, just said the ritual and that was good, also.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
40. How do you plan to address the person who borrowed it?
Mon Mar 10, 2014, 11:43 AM
Mar 2014

I guess that would determine the answer to your question.

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