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LostOne4Ever

(9,286 posts)
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:13 PM Mar 2014

NJ bank won’t notarize American Atheist documents for ‘personal reasons’

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In a post on Facebook, Amanda Knief wrote, “I was just refused service — because I am an atheist. It was embarrassing, humiliating, and it pissed me off.”

According to Knief, she and American Atheists president David Silverman were in the process of getting documents notarized by one of the bank’s notaries public when the woman asked them what the documents were for.

“The documents were charitable organizations registrations for American Atheists in several states,” wrote Knief. “So I told her what AA is about. She looked down, then looked at me and Dave Silverman and said she couldn’t sign the documents because of ‘personal reasons’ and went to find another notary who was eating his lunch to come do the authentications.”

More at link:

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/03/26/nj-bank-wont-notarize-american-atheist-documents-for-personal-reasons/

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NJ bank won’t notarize American Atheist documents for ‘personal reasons’ (Original Post) LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 OP
She needs to have her commission pulled Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #1
I can't believe what she did is completely legal LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #3
It isn't. I am a notary, and she should have her commission pulled. When Nay Mar 2014 #12
I agree LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #14
That's interesting -- VA has a long code of conduct that I haven't read in years, Nay Mar 2014 #17
Pure discrimination. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #2
I am going to remain skeptical about this until there is more information. cbayer Mar 2014 #4
Always a good strategy LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #8
I'm very glad you posted it and hope that more information becomes available. cbayer Mar 2014 #9
Looks like there are two other stories right now el_bryanto Mar 2014 #16
I saw that, but they are all sourcing there information from the same place. cbayer Mar 2014 #18
Help Help I'm being oppressed! prommie Mar 2014 #5
Welcome to DU LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #6
Welcome to DU and to the religion group, prommie. cbayer Mar 2014 #7
Pretty early in your career to come in here with the snark. Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #11
Why would the Atheist be embarrassed Politicalboi Mar 2014 #10
Well it was in a public place - i don't think she was embarrassed to be an atheist el_bryanto Mar 2014 #15
Here's the NJ Notary Public Manual: struggle4progress Mar 2014 #13
Interesting. There's nothing in there that specifically gives a notary the right to Nay Mar 2014 #19
I don't know the case law. Some states explicitly require notaries to perform their duties struggle4progress Mar 2014 #20
You can't understand? Seriously? skepticscott Mar 2014 #23
Lots of folk say and do stuff I don't understand. Take trolling on the internet, for example. struggle4progress Mar 2014 #26
They do it because they're bigots skepticscott Mar 2014 #34
As a representative of a state and given powers by a state, I would assume Nay Mar 2014 #29
If you read the post with the statement from the bank below, cbayer Mar 2014 #30
Oh, I agree. I'm just discussing what-ifs. I've had to consult with other notaries myself as a Nay Mar 2014 #31
Thanks for the insight on this. cbayer Mar 2014 #32
After SCOTUS rules edhopper Mar 2014 #21
I call bullshit. rug Mar 2014 #22
Statement from the bank: cbayer Mar 2014 #24
I call BS Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #25
The NJ manual lists several different forms of documents to notarize, indicating struggle4progress Mar 2014 #28
Confusion is not "personal reasons" skepticscott Mar 2014 #36
We now have two quite different accounts. I don't have ESP so can't reconcile them struggle4progress Mar 2014 #37
The only one saying that is Amanda Knief. rug Mar 2014 #40
Well the only one saying "Personal Reasons" wasn't part of the discussion is the Bank. el_bryanto Mar 2014 #45
And Knief has a political motive for claiming it. rug Mar 2014 #47
Does she? How much hay are they really going to be able to make over this. el_bryanto Mar 2014 #48
I didn't say she was any good at it. rug Mar 2014 #49
Yeah. Fine. Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #39
See the statement from the bank in #24 struggle4progress Mar 2014 #41
See the OP Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #43
We now have two quite different accounts. I don't have ESP so can't reconcile them struggle4progress Mar 2014 #53
I missed that declaration on the private school "not girly enough" thread. Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #54
Yes, that is my general impression of the "inerrant infallible Bible" folk struggle4progress Mar 2014 #55
Occam's razor is not bullshit. rug Mar 2014 #33
Occam's razor is not bullshit. AlbertCat Mar 2014 #62
Given that William of Ockham was a Franciscan friar and that he postulated his razor as a means rug Mar 2014 #63
So you suspect Silverman of phonying up the incident skepticscott Mar 2014 #35
She didn't say that. I will. rug Mar 2014 #38
according to the article Niceguy1 Mar 2014 #27
Not at all important if you prefer to argue... TreasonousBastard Mar 2014 #42
So if an atheist notary had said the same thing Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #44
You have to prove discrimination... TreasonousBastard Mar 2014 #46
So if a black person sits down in a restaurant skepticscott Mar 2014 #50
We're back to the first question of just what happened... TreasonousBastard Mar 2014 #51
"We really don't know it happened that way." Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #52
THe school's bad attitude is on the record, unlike the bank's, and... TreasonousBastard Mar 2014 #57
No, we're not skepticscott Mar 2014 #56
So, in said hypothetical situation my first reaction should be... TreasonousBastard Mar 2014 #58
Um...yeah skepticscott Mar 2014 #59
hmmm struggle4progress Mar 2014 #60
Since you're spreading this crap here, too. Let me explain for the readers here Goblinmonger Mar 2014 #61
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
1. She needs to have her commission pulled
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:14 PM
Mar 2014

She can't verify that those are their signatures because they are atheist. For fuck's sake.

LostOne4Ever

(9,286 posts)
3. I can't believe what she did is completely legal
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:19 PM
Mar 2014

Oh well, her religious liberty to be a bigot is being protected

Nay

(12,051 posts)
12. It isn't. I am a notary, and she should have her commission pulled. When
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 02:47 PM
Mar 2014

a notary notarizes, it is solely to guarantee that the people signing the documents IDed themselves reliably and signed in the notary's presence. Notarization has NOTHING to do with what the papers are about.

This notary is a dumb, fundie loon.

LostOne4Ever

(9,286 posts)
14. I agree
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 02:54 PM
Mar 2014

But according to the article, which could be wrong, in the state of NJ this is completely legal:

“In New Jersey, notaries are not required to abide by any code of conduct or ethics that prevents them from refusing service to people based on ‘personal reasons,’” explained Knief. “Even though we had a valid, legal document and valid, legal identification — she was legally able to refuse me service.”


Is the article and Ms. Knief in error, or does NJ get an exemption?

Nay

(12,051 posts)
17. That's interesting -- VA has a long code of conduct that I haven't read in years,
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 03:27 PM
Mar 2014

but I'd be surprised if it said you could refuse service if you felt like it. I refused service when, for example, the dummies signed the frickin' papers at home and brought them to me to be notarized. Nope, nope, nope. It was so common that I told people on the phone to not sign the papers, I had to watch them sign or I would go to jail.

Her employer may, and should, have a lot to say about her idiocy. I'm assuming it's one of her duties, and her employer hopefully will fire her dumb ass. Anybody this dumb needs to be fired anyway. What's next, she can't serve that same lady at the teller's booth because that lady is an atheist????

And this case, IMHO, falls under refusing service for one of the reasons (religion, or lack thereof) that is federally regulated, not state regulated. One reason I wonder if that paragraph is correct is that it refers to a 'valid, legal' document. Whether a document is valid, legal, written on toilet paper, or is a total lie has nothing to do with notarization. Notarization has to do only with the validity of the signatures applied. The signers have to properly ID themselves, and they have to sign in the presence of the notary. Period. End of notarization. Notaries shouldn't even read the documents; they are none of the notary's business. You just look for the places that people need to sign, watch them sign, and apply your seal and signature.

You know, if this country gets so crazy that a notary won't notarize signatures on a document that she isn't even required to read, then it's all over. I'm leaving.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
4. I am going to remain skeptical about this until there is more information.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:23 PM
Mar 2014

That's what we do as rational thinkers, right?

This guy's recent MO has been all about getting publicity and creating outrageous and provocative positions.

If it did happen as they describe, then it's unquestionably wrong.

But there are always two sides to any story like this, and I would like to hear the other.

LostOne4Ever

(9,286 posts)
8. Always a good strategy
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:35 PM
Mar 2014

Though I am more of a responder than a thread creator, I do like to post things like this when I see them. Usually someone has beat me to the punch.

Also, I want to point out that its not Silverman making the accusation but rather Amanda Knief.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
9. I'm very glad you posted it and hope that more information becomes available.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:37 PM
Mar 2014

I'm just really wary of Mr. Silverman right now. His recent antics have been, er, interesting. He apparently was sitting at the desk with Ms. Knief, if her report is accurate.

So that makes it even more interesting.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
16. Looks like there are two other stories right now
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 03:24 PM
Mar 2014

One from the Washington Times - which is traditionally a conservative paper, and the other from the Examiner, which is more of an editorial. These articles are all just a couple of hours old.

Nothing on the local paper's website that I can see - the Cranford Chronicle hosted as part of NJ.Com. They do have a lot of articles about Atheist Billboards which they are apparently riled up, but I think that's more NJ.Com than specific to Cranford.

Bank Contact information is here.

Bryant

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
18. I saw that, but they are all sourcing there information from the same place.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 03:28 PM
Mar 2014

I'm interested to see if anyone interviews someone from the bank or if the bank releases a statement.

Thanks for the info. We shall see.

 

prommie

(12 posts)
5. Help Help I'm being oppressed!
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:26 PM
Mar 2014

Come look at the oppression inherent in the system! This is what I've been going on about!

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
7. Welcome to DU and to the religion group, prommie.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 01:35 PM
Mar 2014

I'm not sure I understand what you are saying here and haven't seen you going on about anything, but look forward to your further input.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
11. Pretty early in your career to come in here with the snark.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 02:31 PM
Mar 2014

That said, props for a Monty Python reference.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
10. Why would the Atheist be embarrassed
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 02:11 PM
Mar 2014

I'm an Atheist, and I would be pissed not embarrassed at all. I would be embarrassed for the "believers" that bring their shit religion to work with them.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
15. Well it was in a public place - i don't think she was embarrassed to be an atheist
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 03:13 PM
Mar 2014

but more that she was singled out for this kind of treatment. Which depending on your personality could be pretty embarrassing; some people don't like being the center of attention in that way.

And, of course, she shouldn't have been singled out in this way - the person who did it should be fired.

Bryant

Nay

(12,051 posts)
19. Interesting. There's nothing in there that specifically gives a notary the right to
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 03:39 PM
Mar 2014

refuse service for personal reasons; it does allow you to refuse service to people who have no or inadequate ID, or to the dummies who bring the docs in already signed, because you, the notary, would be breaking the law if you notarized in such a situation.

Theoretically, I suppose any of us could refuse service to anyone in the performance of our jobs, and our employers would have to make the determination if we had a rational reason to do so. In this case, it seems that the employee wants the freedom to reject anyone not to her religious liking, which is NOT what is meant legally by freedom of religion. The atheist lady, though, could have a case for federal religious discrimination against the bank for treating her like this.

Can you imagine the uproar if she refused service because she didn't like black people? Or she didn't want to deal with a gay couple buying a house together? It's ridiculous.

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
20. I don't know the case law. Some states explicitly require notaries to perform their duties
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 04:19 PM
Mar 2014

without partiality; and I should expect such impartial performance would generally be expected of public officials in any state; the standards of national organizations might carry some weight, were this matter to land in court, and perhaps someone interested in the matter will find impartiality listed as an expected standard by some national notary organization, though I myself am too lazy to scan such documents in search of it

If one can demonstrate impartiality as an expected legal standard for notaries (as I strongly suspect one can), it is still not absolutely clear to me how the matter would resolve in court, since (for example) the notary in question might make some argument as "I was unable to maintain impartiality here and so sought another notary" -- and that may not always be a specious argument: notaries are sometimes advised, say, not to notarize documents of family members, on the grounds that their impartiality might be questionable; and one can imagine other circumstances in which a notary might question his/her own ability to perform the act impartially and hence might appropriately direct the requester to another notary

I've never discussed document contents with a notary: the notary just adds (by stamp) legally-required boiler-plate for the notarization, embosses the document with a notary seal, then signs the stamp. But I don't know what NJ law requires

I can't really understand why a notary would act as reported here, and it seems silly to me. But the details are sketchy, and so far the only ordinary media source is the Washington Times, which just reports the AA version, without further investigative effort, so I won't pretend to know much about the story, other than what AA says happened

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
23. You can't understand? Seriously?
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:58 PM
Mar 2014

You can't understand why a bakery wouldn't want to make a wedding cake for a same-sex couple? Why a restaurant wouldn't want to serve blacks? Why a club wouldn't accept Jews as members?

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
26. Lots of folk say and do stuff I don't understand. Take trolling on the internet, for example.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:10 PM
Mar 2014

I don't understand why anyone would do that, since it seems a pointless waste of time to me -- but folk seem to do it anyway

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
34. They do it because they're bigots
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:00 PM
Mar 2014

There now...was that so hard to get your brain around? Doesn't even require a Google search.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
29. As a representative of a state and given powers by a state, I would assume
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:45 PM
Mar 2014

also that notaries, as quasi-govt officials, must follow federal laws pertaining to discrimination. I could be wrong, of course, since I'm not a lawyer.

As far as 'impartiality,' notaries don't advise or make decisions for or about those whose signatures she is witnessing. It's a mechanical act, bound by certain requirements (signers must ID themselves properly, they must sign in front of the notary) and, as you noted, the notary herself cannot notarize any document in which she has an interest (she can't notarize her own signature; can't notarize docs in which she has a financial or other direct interest, etc.) but AFAIK, none of these apply. It looks like the notary just didn't want to help an atheist. Lawsuit time.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
30. If you read the post with the statement from the bank below,
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:48 PM
Mar 2014

she is saying that she was unfamiliar with what had to be done with these particular documents and had told them she was going to get someone else who was familiar with it.

Which she did.

I don't know who is telling the truth here or whether it was just a general misunderstanding, but I think jumping to "lawsuit time" might not be the right conclusion.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
31. Oh, I agree. I'm just discussing what-ifs. I've had to consult with other notaries myself as a
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:56 PM
Mar 2014

notary.

The bank's managers sound on the ball, if what you say is true. No one wants a discrimination suit, that's for sure. Either the notary did not object to the atheist customer, or the bank took her aside and told her to straighten the f**k up if she wanted to keep her job. And another notary 'helped' her through the process. Either way, notice was served that there would be no deciding which customers get service and which don't -- all are welcome.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
32. Thanks for the insight on this.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 08:04 PM
Mar 2014

The truth may or may not come it, but Mr. Silverman has been generating a lot of publicity for himself lately, and this makes me a bit skeptical.

edhopper

(33,487 posts)
21. After SCOTUS rules
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:47 PM
Mar 2014

in favor of Hobbie Lobby, this will be par for the course. religious objection will be acceptable reason for denial of service.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
22. I call bullshit.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:56 PM
Mar 2014
The Notary shall, as a government officer and public servant, serve all of the public in an honest, fair and unbiased manner.

- snip -

I-A-3: Undue Cause for Refusal

The Notary shall not refuse to perform a lawful and proper notarial act because of the signer’s race, nationality, ethnicity, citizenship, religion, politics, lifestyle, age, disability, gender or sexual orientation, or because of disagreement with the statements or purpose of a lawful document.

Illustration: The Notary is asked by a stranger to notarize that person’s signature on a document. While identifying the stranger, the Notary notes that this person is a member of an ethnic minority group. The Notary has heard that most persons in this ethnic group are untrustworthy, through stories that family and friends have told over the years. The Notary hesitates to perform the notarization.

The Ethical Imperative: The Notary notarizes the stranger’s document, if no improprieties are requested or detected. Ethnicity here is irrelevant and, by refusing, the Notary may become liable for violating the stranger’s civil rights.


http://cdn.nationalnotary.org/resources_for_notaries/Notary_Code.pdf

The bank won't risk a lawsuit over this.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
24. Statement from the bank:
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 05:58 PM
Mar 2014
Rebecca Acevedo, TD Bank's vice president for public affairs, said: “Valuing diversity and building an inclusive environment is a fundamental part of TD’s culture. We treat all consumers fairly and with respect, and this instance was no different.”

The entire issue was a misunderstanding that arose from the notary not knowing how to handle certain government documents, Acevedo said.

“Our employee did not understand how to process this particular paperwork and needed help that, unfortunately, led to the miscommunication,” Acevedo said.

The employee has not been disciplined, she said.


http://www.nj.com/union/index.ssf/2014/03/atheist_group_says_it_was_denied_by_td_bank_notary_because_of_religion.html
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
25. I call BS
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 06:20 PM
Mar 2014

I've been a notary.

1. Notarizing a signature is notarizing a signature. You don't need to know Jack about the paperwork.

2. If that really were the case why didn't she say that? Why the "personal reasons"?

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
28. The NJ manual lists several different forms of documents to notarize, indicating
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 07:26 PM
Mar 2014

the list is not exhaustive, so the notary might have had to examine more than one part of the document: if the notary had little experience, confusion might be possible

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
45. Well the only one saying "Personal Reasons" wasn't part of the discussion is the Bank.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:14 AM
Mar 2014

The bank does have a financial motive for not admitting that part of the conversation. Given that one side has a financial motive for shading the truth and the other has less of one, I guess I tend to think that Knief's story seems more plausible.

But absent a third party coming forward we'll likely never know.

Bryant

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
48. Does she? How much hay are they really going to be able to make over this.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:03 PM
Mar 2014

I just don't see it.

Bryant

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
49. I didn't say she was any good at it.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:10 PM
Mar 2014

I'm sure she and Silverman thought going to CPAC was a good political move as well.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
39. Yeah. Fine.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 11:09 PM
Mar 2014

If that is the case, why wouldn't she simply say "I am not familiar with this type of document. Let me get someone who can do this for you"? That would be so hard? No, instead, she said "I can't for personal reasons." Which makes NO sense if it was just confusion over the documents. Or did she mean "I'm stupid" by "personal reasons"?

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
43. See the OP
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:54 AM
Mar 2014

She said she wouldn't do it for "personal reasons." That isn't even denied by the bank. Why would she say "personal reasons" when she meant "I don't know what I'm supposed to do with documents of this type."

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
54. I missed that declaration on the private school "not girly enough" thread.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 02:53 PM
Mar 2014

I believe you just declared them "authoritarian fundamentalists" even though there are conflicting stories.

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
55. Yes, that is my general impression of the "inerrant infallible Bible" folk
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 04:14 PM
Mar 2014

You are certainly free to argue against that impression of mine if you so choose

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
63. Given that William of Ockham was a Franciscan friar and that he postulated his razor as a means
Mon Mar 31, 2014, 10:43 AM
Mar 2014

of weighing natural occurrences, I'd say that was a pretty ignorant statement.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
35. So you suspect Silverman of phonying up the incident
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:04 PM
Mar 2014

but you believe the bank's PR boilerplate can't possibly be nothing more than ass-covering? Critical thinking apparently only runs one way in your family.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
38. She didn't say that. I will.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:14 PM
Mar 2014

The guy's M.O. is professional martyr. For recreation, though, he attends CPAC.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
42. Not at all important if you prefer to argue...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 02:58 AM
Mar 2014

than look for the truth of the matter.

Even if true that she said she had "personal reasons" (and only one person claims that) we don't know what those personal reasons may have been and no one was seriously inconvenienced or embarrassed.

Once again-- if you have no case, make enough noise and no one will notice.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
44. So if an atheist notary had said the same thing
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:01 AM
Mar 2014

after finding out it was a Catholic organization, or a Jewish organization, or a women's rights organization, that would be posted here and people wouldn't say that the atheist notary was out of line?

Yeah, sell that somewhere else.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
46. You have to prove discrimination...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:37 AM
Mar 2014

which hasn't been done here.

And even if one employee excuses him- or herself for "discriminatory reasons" (if you can prove that) but the organization doesn't discriminate and just does its job-- why make a big deal over it when no one is hurt?

Now, if an employee stands on the desk and loudly proclaims that evil sits before him and must be expunged-- you have a case. But only if the employer does nothing about it.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
50. So if a black person sits down in a restaurant
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:12 PM
Mar 2014

And their waitress says " I'm sorry, I don't serve blacks, but if you'll wait a minute, I'll get you another server who does", is that "no harm, no foul" to you? Nothing wrong with her or the restaurant, since no one was hurt?

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
51. We're back to the first question of just what happened...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:21 PM
Mar 2014

and what was said. We really don't know it happened that way. And if she had a problem, we have no evidence it had anything to do with atheism.

As far as your example goes, more likely nothing would be said, but a new waitress would magically appear. Still wrong, but what's the recourse? Fire here? Have long talk with her? We're back to what responsibility does a business have for an employee's behavior.

More likely, and perhaps more troubling, would be a customer with a disability or other problem that the first waitress can't deal with. Should she grit her teeth or get another waitress?

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
52. "We really don't know it happened that way."
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 12:30 PM
Mar 2014

Why aren't you taking that attitude with the private school and the little girl? Double standard? That can't be it, can it?

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
57. THe school's bad attitude is on the record, unlike the bank's, and...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:04 PM
Mar 2014

it's school policy, not a random employee's bad attitude.

So, no, it's not a double standard.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
56. No, we're not
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 07:59 PM
Mar 2014

This is not about what actually happened, it's about your hypothetical:

even if one employee excuses him- or herself for "discriminatory reasons" (if you can prove that) but the organization doesn't discriminate and just does its job-- why make a big deal over it when no one is hurt?

And it's clear from your response that if you owned the restaurant, you would wonder about what to do with an employee who was refusing to wait on tables with black people at them, instead of just firing them. And that you're unable to put yourself in the position of the people being discriminated against. And that you have no clue about the responsibility of a business for how its employees behave and treat customers. Which makes me wonder what you're doing on a progressive web site in the first place.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
58. So, in said hypothetical situation my first reaction should be...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:12 PM
Mar 2014

to fire someone?

My first duty would be to defuse the situation and make it right. Exactly how to do that would depend on many factors not mentioned.

And you think you would do better, even though you have no idea what the reaction of the customers was? You don't know if the customers are my in-laws or otherwise regular customers, came in for the first time, whether the waitress was attacked by a black person the night before, or any other marginal condition that would affect the situation.

One problem with atheists is that they have little practical experience preaching.


 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
59. Um...yeah
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:40 PM
Mar 2014

if you're running a restaurant and one of your waitresses was refusing to serve black people, and was telling them that she was refusing to serve them because they were black, she should be fired. Period. Regardless of how the customers reacted, and regardless of whether they're related to you. Aside for the fact that she'd be putting you in violation of federal law, why would you want such a person representing your business to the public in any way? If I saw such a thing going on in a restaurant I was in, I'd leave and never come back, tell all my friends never to go there, and post about exactly what happened on every review site I could find.

But you go right on being an apologist for that kind of behavior, if it makes you feel superior.

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
60. hmmm
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 07:02 PM
Mar 2014
... “In New Jersey, notaries are not required to abide by any code of conduct or ethics that prevents them from refusing service to people based on ‘personal reasons,’” explained Knief ... The organization’s legal team is drafting proposed legislation to keep this kind of discrimination from happening again. Update, 9:17 p.m. EST, March 27: ... American Atheists spokesperson Dave Muscato .. said that while Knief is preparing legislation regarding discrimination by notary publics, she is not doing so on behalf of American Atheists. He also noted that the Notary Public’s Code of Professional Responsibility, while not legally binding, forbids notaries from discriminating based on religious beliefs ...
from the article linked by the OP

... New Jersey has an extremely strong law against discrimination, according to ACLU-NJ Legal Director Ed Barocas, which not only protects against discrimination toward someone who follows a certain religion, but also someone who does not follow one. “This person’s job is to notarize documents. If she denied providing that service because she personally disliked the fact that this group did not ascribe to her religion, or religion in general, that would be against the law,” Barocas said ...
TD Bank notary in Cranford accused of denying service to atheist organization
By Tom Wright-Piersanti / The Star-Ledger
March 26, 2014 at 5:10 PM
updated March 27, 2014 at 11:15 AM
 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
61. Since you're spreading this crap here, too. Let me explain for the readers here
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 09:22 PM
Mar 2014

Kneif says that the notary claimed she could do it for "personal reasons." Kneif DID NOT claim that she said she couldn't do it because it was for an atheist organization but the fact that the "personal reasons" declaration came right after she learned it was an atheist organization makes it pretty clear.

Your second article only says that they can't discriminate for religious reasons. Which DOES NOT provide tension with what Kneif said. Kneif said that they can decline for "personal reasons" which, since it is really vague, could include unstated religious reasons. They want to eliminate that so people can't hide their bigotry.

And, hey, nice job victim shaming, though. That's some classy shit.

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