Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:17 PM
exboyfil (17,658 posts)
Why a Marine dad was banned from his daughter's school for objecting to Islam essay
http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/USA-Update/2014/1030/Why-a-Marine-dad-was-banned-from-his-daughter-s-school-for-objecting-to-Islam-essay
http://www.somdnews.com/article/20141029/NEWS/141029042/1074/la-plata-hs-student-x2019-s-dad-banned-from-school&template=southernMaryland The studies included worksheets that ask the students to know The Five Pillars, the details about the early caliphate, that Islam was typically tolerant of other faiths (but no mention of the tax that non-believers were expected to pay) I would argue that a comparable knowledge should be expected of the students of The Ten Commandments, The Great Commandment/Great Commission, Jesus, Paul, the early Christian church, Abraham, Moses, the early Jewish church along with other similar knowledge of other major religions.
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exboyfil | Oct 2014 | OP |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #1 | |
exboyfil | Oct 2014 | #4 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #9 | |
exboyfil | Oct 2014 | #10 | |
elehhhhna | Oct 2014 | #30 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #59 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #2 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #3 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #6 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #7 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #8 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #12 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #13 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #15 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #17 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #18 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #22 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #25 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #26 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #28 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #61 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #65 | |
cbayer | Nov 2014 | #66 | |
notrightatall | Nov 2014 | #67 | |
cbayer | Nov 2014 | #68 | |
notrightatall | Nov 2014 | #69 | |
cbayer | Nov 2014 | #70 | |
Post removed | Oct 2014 | #35 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #38 | |
Name removed | Oct 2014 | #40 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #45 | |
randys1 | Oct 2014 | #33 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #62 | |
rug | Oct 2014 | #14 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #16 | |
rug | Oct 2014 | #19 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #21 | |
notrightatall | Oct 2014 | #29 | |
exboyfil | Oct 2014 | #5 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #11 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #24 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #27 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #34 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #37 | |
peace13 | Oct 2014 | #42 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #44 | |
Goblinmonger | Oct 2014 | #20 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #36 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #39 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #43 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #46 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #47 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #48 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #51 | |
elehhhhna | Oct 2014 | #31 | |
riqster | Oct 2014 | #50 | |
NutmegYankee | Oct 2014 | #52 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #53 | |
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upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #55 | |
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upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #57 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #60 | |
upaloopa | Oct 2014 | #63 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #64 | |
Maedhros | Oct 2014 | #23 | |
F4lconF16 | Oct 2014 | #32 | |
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riqster | Oct 2014 | #49 | |
cbayer | Oct 2014 | #58 |
Response to exboyfil (Original post)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:20 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
1. The subject of his disdain is irrevevant...
He conducted himself like an asshole, and threatened school staff. This stupid X marine should be prosecuted. His ban from the school should be the least of his knuckle-draggin' worries.
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #1)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:24 PM
exboyfil (17,658 posts)
4. I agree totally if he threatened to cause a disruption
He should at the very least be barred from the school and charged if he made specific threats. My point is whether the worksheets and study are appropriate, and in fairness should not the other religions be covered in the same fashion. I cannot find out whether the school does or not.
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Response to exboyfil (Reply #4)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:42 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
9. specific enough??
"...you can take that Muslim-loving piece of paper and shove it up your white ass...."
Some "marine" This guy is just a POS. He should be locked up. He is unfit to raise children. |
Response to notrightatall (Reply #9)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:44 PM
exboyfil (17,658 posts)
10. That does not sound like a specific threat
A threat would be, "If you teach this to my daughter, then I will come over and shove it up your ..."
The school district did act appropriately by restraining him from school grounds after that utterance, but there is nothing to charge him with. |
Response to exboyfil (Reply #4)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:16 PM
elehhhhna (32,076 posts)
30. they are all covered within the context of
Their impact in history/ civilization. Duh.
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #1)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:05 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
59. Agree, he is a major jerk and a bigot to boot.
I think they have cause to press charges against him.
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Response to exboyfil (Original post)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:22 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
2. Why? I don't think kids need to be taught what religions
believe at all unless you are a church sponsored school. If they, out of curiosity, want to learn about religions they should be free to research them. I think we put religion on too high of a pedestal in this country.
Non belief is as valid as belief but we don't spend time teaching our kids the reason for non belief. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:23 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
3. Ignorance is bliss.
Response to notrightatall (Reply #3)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:27 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
6. Did you read my post? I said they should be free
to research what they want. But in your blissful state it didn't register!
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #6)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:30 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
7. The more they are taught, the better decisions they can make.
I do not trust that most parents would do the leg work to teach such things.
The more people know about "other" religions, the more likely they are to reject them all as fantasy. And, that, is a GOOD thing. |
Response to notrightatall (Reply #7)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:38 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
8. It is not up to you to decide what most parents
do or do not teach their kids!
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #8)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:46 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
12. Bullshit.
As a citizen of this country , what children are taught or not taught IS MY BUSINESS. That is why we have public schools. Leaving those decisions up to parents is a bad bad policy. In fact, I would make the argument that parents who force their children into any religion maybe a form of abuse, it is at least counter productive to humanity.
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #12)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:48 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
13. A citizenship does not give you the right to teach
other people's kids anything! Your arrogance is unbelievable!
That's why we have private schools. I did not go to public school and I am no threat to you! |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #13)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:50 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
15. Teaching children the fantasies of religion as fact is child abuse.
Response to notrightatall (Reply #15)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:52 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
17. Glad you don't rule the rest of us.
I may agree with you but still you don't get to take the place of a parent because you disagree with them.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #17)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:54 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
18. Parents do not "own" their children.
Response to notrightatall (Reply #18)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:03 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
22. Neither do you but they do have a responsibility
that you don't
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #22)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:09 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
25. Wrong. That responsibility for those children is a shared responsibility.
Shared by all of society. Parental control of schools and curriculum is poor policy at best. Parents DO NOT ALWAYS KNOW BEST. In fact to leave it up to parents is in it self irresponsible.
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #25)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:13 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
26. You will have a hard time convincing the courts
you are right.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #26)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:15 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
28. THAT does not make me "WRONG", now does it?
Response to notrightatall (Reply #15)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:10 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
61. Child abuse? Are you suggesting that people that raise their children in a religious household
should be charged, tried and punished for this?
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Response to cbayer (Reply #61)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 06:47 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
65. I would say that society is punished for that.
Response to notrightatall (Reply #65)
Sat Nov 1, 2014, 12:42 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
66. But what you said is that parents that raise their children in religious households are guilty
of child abuse.
So do you think they should be charged, tried and punished for this? |
Response to cbayer (Reply #66)
Sat Nov 1, 2014, 12:57 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
67. They are punished, we all are.
Response to notrightatall (Reply #67)
Sat Nov 1, 2014, 01:16 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
68. Again, you don't answer the question but just reply with some hollow rhetoric.
You are accusing people of a very serious crime here. Do you think they should be charged with such, or is this just snark on your part?
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #69)
Sat Nov 1, 2014, 02:04 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
70. So your answer is an oblique angle? That makes about as much sense as you other non-answers,
I guess.
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Response to Post removed (Reply #35)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:27 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
38. Great, that means another generation of knuckle-dragging idiots. Thanks!
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Response to notrightatall (Reply #7)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:19 PM
randys1 (16,286 posts)
33. Agreed, from a scientific approach, children should be taught about the various religions
and how they do NOT promote hatred of Gays or killing non believers.
That all religion is an opiate for the masses is something the parent can explain, but the school absolutely better start teaching kids that all mainstream religions do NOT preach the terrible shit some say they do. The rightwing Christians use a perverted interpretation of the christian bible to say God hates Gay people, and they hate Gay people and that is a good thing. Perverted and fucked up Muslims (small percentage) use the Quran to teach that all non believers are to die. I wish I could say that it is a SMALL percentage of American rightwing Christians who DEEPLY hate Gay people and want to teach that hating Gay people is good, but it is a majority of them... please note ALL the words I am using, not some of them...if you are a christian and not rightwing, please make sure you read all my words... |
Response to randys1 (Reply #33)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:13 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
62. I agree with you.
When all you hear is one side from the MSM, it is particularly important to teach about the varieties of POV's that are out there.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #6)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:49 PM
rug (82,333 posts)
14. I bet they'll throng to research Eucildean geometry on their own.
Response to rug (Reply #14)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:51 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
16. What does it matter?
Response to upaloopa (Reply #16)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:55 PM
rug (82,333 posts)
19. Schools at a minimum should teach about the world.
The beliefs of a fifth of the world and the applications of geometry are part of it.
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Response to rug (Reply #19)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:59 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
21. So we have elected school boards and we are
free to select the schools we want to send or kids to thus selecting the curriculum.
I feel the beliefs of one fifth of the world are superstition as are all religions. I don't feel they deserve the time and thought you do. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #21)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:16 PM
notrightatall (410 posts)
29. Only "time and thought" will end the scourge to humanity that is religion.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:26 PM
exboyfil (17,658 posts)
5. Then The Five Pillars should not be taught
I tend to agree and, while the father was wrong in making unspecified threats, his reason for complaining was sound.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:45 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
11. I disagree.
I think there is a large amount that people can learn by looking at religion. It's a major force in our world, like it or not, and I think it would be a failure on the part of our educational system to not teach at least about the major religions of the world. (Figure spending about equal time on the top 5-10 as part of a poly sci, international studies, or more general social studies class. At my high school, we covered the three main monotheistic religions and the basic differences between each, without having to know too many specifics, as well as a smaller amount about the polytheistic religions. It was a very helpful basic introductory course that gave a lot of people in the classes a new perspective. Admittedly, I think it's disappointing that we can't teach just straight science and why religion is a load of hooey, but I think we all know how that idea would go.
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Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #11)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:08 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
24. I don't see religion as a positive force in the world.
I don't have kids but if I did I would teach them how and why I feel as I do. I would also teach them the importance of learning and researching things on their own to form their opinion and their philosophy of life.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #24)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:14 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
27. This is exactly what I plan to teach my kids.
Though I will probably introduce them to religion and explain why I don't believe in it as well. I do intend to keep them from attending Sunday school or church during their younger years, unless it's going with a friend after a sleepover or something. I see no reason to sponsor the degradation of my child's brain, and the less they're exposed to it, the less likely they'll be to believe.
That said, the best way to teach a kid to be an atheist is to teach them to love science, discovery, and rational thought, and those will always be my primary focuses. Teaching against religion is a secondary, or even tertiary or further focus. Understanding the natural world/universe will always be the best vaccine against religion. |
Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #27)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:21 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
34. I think I like most of what you say
If I were hiking along the beach with my kid (which I don't have) and we discussed the surf and oceans and the beach etc. I sure as hell would not say that god made all this for our pleasure.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #34)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:27 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
37. Yes, that is a better way to put it.
I think that's more what I'm meaning to say
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Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #11)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:30 PM
peace13 (11,076 posts)
42. Pretty much sucked if your religion wasn't in the top three, huh? nt
Response to peace13 (Reply #42)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:39 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
44. Yup.
Which is why I like the idea of lumping them all in together. Christianity should get equal time with the Greek gods. Understandably, in a political science course or something more specific than a general required class, it would be necessary to focus on the more mainstream contemporary religions.
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 01:58 PM
Goblinmonger (22,340 posts)
20. How does one teach world history
without covering the major religions of the world?
How does one teach any significant American literature without having the kids understand the biblical references (and I'm talking about writers that are atheists, too, that are drawing from the symbolism pool)? |
Response to Goblinmonger (Reply #20)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:26 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
36. In context with other things it is relevant.
But teaching the beliefs of a religion in a vacuum as if there was some value to them is not what I would want for any kid of mine.
I was taught that some people worshiped trees. That was historic but with what we know now it seems idiotic. I feel the same about modern religion. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #36)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:29 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
39. Ah, that explains your objection better.
It's not that you're opposed to teaching religion, but opposed to teaching contemporary religion as if it's somehow different than any old mythological system or deity worship, correct?
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Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #39)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:34 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
43. I think so. I hate that our society places
importance of religion out there as if a person cannot be a good citizen or human being without a religious belief.
So many of our great leaders were non believers and we need to point that out too. And yes I equate modern religion with ancient beliefs. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #43)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:43 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
46. Yes, and I think we need to combat the anti-intellectualism to make headway.
We can't start demonstrating that we can be morally and ethically "good" people without good examples of atheist leaders and persons of importance (of which there are many). However, so many people in this country will simply reject anything you say because it doesn't match what they want to think. We need to re-establish (or perhaps simply establish) the scientific method as the primary driving force behind understanding our society. Without that, efforts will be in vain as people will rarely evaluate their own beliefs.
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Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #46)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:58 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
47. Emmanuel Kant says it well I think. I was in college at a Catholic school when they said we could
not be taught about Kant in philosophy class. The profs went out on strike for educational freedom. They won and I learned about Kant and have ever since made him one of my favorite philosophers.
What Is Enlightenment? Immanuel Kant 1 Enlightenment is man's emergence from his self-imposed nonage. Nonage is the inability to use one's own understanding without another's guidance. This nonage is self-imposed if its cause lies not in lack of understanding but in indecision and lack of courage to use one's own mind without another's guidance. Dare to know! (Sapere aude.) "Have the courage to use your own understanding," is therefore the motto of the enlightenment. Laziness and cowardice are the reasons why such a large part of mankind gladly remain minors all their lives, long after nature has freed them from external guidance. They are the reasons why it is so easy for others to set themselves up as guardians. It is so comfortable to be a minor. If I have a book that thinks for me, a pastor who acts as my conscience, a physician who prescribes my diet, and so on--then I have no need to exert myself. I have no need to think, if only I can pay; others will take care of that disagreeable business for me. Those guardians who have kindly taken supervision upon themselves see to it that the overwhelming majority of mankind--among them the entire fair sex--should consider the step to maturity, not only as hard, but as extremely dangerous. First, these guardians make their domestic cattle stupid and carefully prevent the docile creatures from taking a single step without the leading-strings to which they have fastened them. Then they show them the danger that would threaten them if they should try to walk by themselves. Now this danger is really not very great; after stumbling a few times they would, at last, learn to walk. However, examples of such failures intimidate and generally discourage all further attempts. much more http://www.columbia.edu/acis/ets/CCREAD/etscc/kant.html |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #47)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 03:00 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
48. That is quite interesting... Bookmarked for reading after class! Thanks nt
Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #48)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 03:18 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
51. He wrote that in 1784 as a reply to a contest
"What is Enlightenment" it is very relevant today
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Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:18 PM
elehhhhna (32,076 posts)
31. try teaching world history without it
Good luck when you get to the crusades for example
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Response to elehhhhna (Reply #31)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 03:13 PM
riqster (13,986 posts)
50. Yup. Religion has had an enormous impact on the world's history.
Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 03:53 PM
NutmegYankee (15,810 posts)
52. It's key to understanding culture.
Social studies can't teach about the world without studying religion.
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Response to NutmegYankee (Reply #52)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 04:19 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
53. I get that. As long as it is neutral and non believers
are also taught about.
I don't remember the discussions in school of the non believers who were signers of the Constitution. Our society teaches religion in such a way that an atheist can not run for President. How do you propose we teach that non belief has value too? |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #53)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 04:23 PM
NutmegYankee (15,810 posts)
54. In a public school, that's guaranteed.
The actual faith, or non, that the children practice is determined by the parents, which of course is a core facet of freedom of religion. But everyone should learn about other religions to understand the culture.
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Response to NutmegYankee (Reply #54)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 04:33 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
55. I disagree. You could teach that religion plays a roll
in some cases without teaching the belief system of the religion. That would be for an elective course called comparative religions. I would think that you would also have to teach about the harm religion has done such as the 500,000 Native Americans killed in the mission territories of California in just two years.
I just don't want religion raised on a pedestal like it is now. That is teaching only a part of history. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #55)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 04:35 PM
NutmegYankee (15,810 posts)
56. I guess we will disagree.
Response to upaloopa (Reply #2)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:07 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
60. Religion is a major factor both in history and current politics.
It's not being put on a pedestal, it is being including in curriculum appropriately. I also think it would be appropriate to include information about non-belief when it a part of a particular history or political event.
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Response to cbayer (Reply #60)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:24 PM
upaloopa (11,417 posts)
63. I think it is put on a pedestal.
We could not elect an atheist as President. In a country with a separation of church and state the President has a public prayer breakfast. We have in god we trust on our money and elsewhere.
We don't teach in school the brutality religious people brought on native peoples in this country and it's possessions. When that happens I might agree with you. |
Response to upaloopa (Reply #63)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:28 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
64. Oh I agree that there is religious privilege when it comes to christianity, but
not so much when it comes to Islam. I don't think we could elect a muslim President either. It will be interesting to see which happens first, hopefully in my lifetime.
Actually i think the brutality towards native people is taught, but probably not everywhere. Excluding religion from the curriculum is not the answer. Including it in a truthful way is the key, imo. |
Response to exboyfil (Original post)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:06 PM
Maedhros (10,007 posts)
23. Given the widespread misinformation about Islam coming from terrified, warmongering reactionaries,
teaching our children about Islam is important so that they have the opportunity to be less ignorant than most Americans.
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Response to Maedhros (Reply #23)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:18 PM
F4lconF16 (3,747 posts)
32. +1
There is far too much hate in many people to miss an opportunity to prevent some of it at a young age. It's amazing how the better educated you are, the (usually) less bigoted you are.
Though I can't stand religion, I am fully for the teaching and understanding of it's primary principles and ideals. There is no way my children are growing up with the meme "Muslim = terrorist" in their heads. |
Response to F4lconF16 (Reply #32)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 02:30 PM
Maedhros (10,007 posts)
41. There is a common misperception in this country that examining a subject
is the same as advocating it. One sees it a lot in reference to film and literature, and certainly in education.
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Response to Maedhros (Reply #41)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 03:12 PM
riqster (13,986 posts)
49. How very true.
Thanks for this post.
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Response to exboyfil (Original post)
Fri Oct 31, 2014, 05:01 PM
cbayer (146,218 posts)
58. The article says that they do teach about other religions when they are studying
the history of other regions of the world.
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