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trotsky

(49,533 posts)
Mon Sep 18, 2017, 09:54 AM Sep 2017

The Day Atheism Saved My Life

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2017/09/17/the-day-atheism-saved-my-life/

A woman shares the heartbreaking story of losing her son, and the moment when she briefly considered suicide wondering if she could be with him again:

...One evening on my way home from work I found myself in a situation that put all my beliefs, or lack thereof, in sharp focus.

...I wouldn’t get to be with Jordan. There was no afterlife. There was no happy, sunny, flower-filled meadow where we would be reunited. No eternity. There was my life, a life without my son, or there was death.

If death is truly the end, if there is nothing after this life, then life is to be embraced, pain and all. I could never have my child back, but I could honor his memory by living my life. In a split second all my beliefs crystallized.

My foot went to the brake pedal, the car slowing as the semi finished its turn, and I went home to live my life.
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The Day Atheism Saved My Life (Original Post) trotsky Sep 2017 OP
pale blue dot Heddi Sep 2017 #1
In a way, the realization that life is objectively meaningless... trotsky Sep 2017 #2
Embrace the void. Voltaire2 Sep 2017 #3
Here...here... NeoGreen Sep 2017 #4
I offer this... NeoGreen Sep 2017 #5
Good that she reconsidered. guillaumeb Sep 2017 #6
And you dismiss edhopper Sep 2017 #7
I do not dismiss that she reconsidered. guillaumeb Sep 2017 #8
He didn't say you dismissed her reconsideration. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2017 #10
Do you correct everyone Lordquinton Sep 2017 #9
If a person posted something like that here, I might. guillaumeb Sep 2017 #12
You can get started here: trotsky Sep 2017 #13
Do you like the song? guillaumeb Sep 2017 #14
I like pointing out hypocrisy. n/t trotsky Sep 2017 #15
Are you also a fan of self-examination? guillaumeb Sep 2017 #16
You first. n/t trotsky Sep 2017 #17
If you say so, g-man. trotsky Sep 2017 #11

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
1. pale blue dot
Mon Sep 18, 2017, 03:00 PM
Sep 2017
https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/1816628-pale-blue-dot-a-vision-of-the-human-future-in-space

“Look again at that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every "superstar," every "supreme leader," every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there-on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam."

i love carl sagan

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
2. In a way, the realization that life is objectively meaningless...
Mon Sep 18, 2017, 03:35 PM
Sep 2017

is the only thing that makes it truly priceless and worth living.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
10. He didn't say you dismissed her reconsideration.
Thu Sep 21, 2017, 08:45 AM
Sep 2017

He said you dismissed why she reconsidered. Which why he used the word why. Words mean things.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
11. If you say so, g-man.
Thu Sep 21, 2017, 09:15 AM
Sep 2017

You clearly know what atheism is about better than any atheist does - you've made sure to point that out.

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