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cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 05:57 PM Dec 2011

I would like to propose to remove a group host.

I feel that cbayer is no longer able to maintain a sense of neutrality in this group as a group host.

In the last couple of OP's by her father, she has staunchly defended his posts and responses, seemingly without regard to the validity of the charges laid out against the OP she is defending. While I can understand a family connection and a natural reaction to defend one's kin, the following remark she made should automatically disqualify her from a position of authority in the group.

"There is no doubt that he has offended some here and has not been particularly sensitive at times. However, he is a good man, an honest man and a man who has made a positive difference in this world. This group of relentless bullies who will attack him for syntax or just using the wrong word need to stop. Once they target someone, they are vicious. I know it, you know it, everyone knows it. "

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12183808#post88

For a group host to make such a biased statement AND personal attack against a wide range of members is unacceptable.


This is DEMOCRATIC Underground, and for those of us that participate in this group regularly, we should be able to choose and recall those we allow to moderate it. I move that cbayer is replaced immediately as a group host.

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I would like to propose to remove a group host. (Original Post) cleanhippie Dec 2011 OP
I rec'ed this post not because you are right Angry Dragon Dec 2011 #1
Recommending again! "This group of relentless bullies" MarkCharles Dec 2011 #2
Hosts can remove a host that is below them Angry Dragon Dec 2011 #3
I don't know. I mean, until/if she ever abuses her Hostess power and locks people's threads... LAGC Dec 2011 #4
Maybe we should just have 4 agnostics. PassingFair Dec 2011 #5
Yes, but it is hard to get decisions from people who can skepticscott Dec 2011 #6
I tend to agree skepticscott Dec 2011 #7
I disagree EvolveOrConvolve Dec 2011 #8
Agreed (nt) mr blur Dec 2011 #17
I think Dorian Gray Dec 2011 #9
+1 Meshuga Jan 2012 #43
The only bonafide thread lock I've seen was to shut up an anti atheist troll. rrneck Dec 2011 #10
I haven't seen an abuse of power yet. laconicsax Dec 2011 #11
I would like to see a list of the "vicious bullies that participate regularly in this group" beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #12
Speaking of bullies... life by carob Dec 2011 #22
Wtf does gender have to do with anything? beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #24
I have seen nothing to warrant a removal. Goblinmonger Dec 2011 #13
No. nt bananas Dec 2011 #14
No. Adsos Letter Dec 2011 #15
No. Jim__ Dec 2011 #16
No. cordelia Dec 2011 #18
I don't see any need, so long as there is a balance of views among the hosts LeftishBrit Dec 2011 #19
I'd be opposed to that action. MineralMan Dec 2011 #20
Maybe she should just copy her dad's ignore list. Iggo Dec 2011 #21
No. Starboard Tack Dec 2011 #23
After reading through that thread, I feel that cbayer was backed into a corner beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #25
Don't hosts need to be more reasonable, more accomodating than MarkCharles Dec 2011 #27
No, not really. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #39
BMUS the voice of reason Meshuga Jan 2012 #44
+1 LeftishBrit Dec 2011 #28
+1 tama Dec 2011 #29
There is no individual here or anywhere skepticscott Dec 2011 #30
Agreed. beam me up scottie Dec 2011 #40
You are wrong! Behind the Aegis Jan 2012 #41
"biased statement AND personal attack against a wide range of members is unacceptable." - so humblebum Dec 2011 #26
No, again, failure to understand on your part. No one is calling for MarkCharles Dec 2011 #31
We can read and it looks like, so far, we all disagree with you and CleanHippie Starboard Tack Dec 2011 #32
Which part of "to propose to remove a group host" do you.. MarkCharles Dec 2011 #35
What host powers has cbayer actually abused? rrneck Dec 2011 #36
Apparently, a wide range of members don't consider themselves bullies. Starboard Tack Dec 2011 #37
Point taken. But the same goes. Leave it alone. humblebum Dec 2011 #34
No, I don't agree. As long as she's not abusing her duties as a host I see no reason for her to be maddezmom Dec 2011 #33
No nt WolverineDG Dec 2011 #38
Nope. Behind the Aegis Jan 2012 #42
No. n/t GliderGuider Jan 2012 #45
Nonsense. rug Jan 2012 #46

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
1. I rec'ed this post not because you are right
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 06:11 PM
Dec 2011

but because I see a lot of hostility in this forum
and it needs to be talked about and discussed

Many axes to grind by some.

I do not know if removing a host is the answer
however as long as you have brought it out in the open
it has to be discussed.


 

MarkCharles

(2,261 posts)
2. Recommending again! "This group of relentless bullies"
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 06:18 PM
Dec 2011

" This group of relentless bullies "

What the HECK is that phrase all about, other than sheer paranoia?

Obviously too too immature to host or manage any kind of free discussion.

How do we go about doing this in a fair and just manner? Can we just ask the group host to resign?

Absent that, what procedures are in place?

I see we have juries for posters and their posts, what about for hosts?

LAGC

(5,330 posts)
4. I don't know. I mean, until/if she ever abuses her Hostess power and locks people's threads...
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 07:16 PM
Dec 2011

...for no good reason, I'm inclined to let her speak her mind.

I thought we agreed in the first place that we should have at least two believers and two non-believers as Hosts at any given time?

Unless you have someone in mind to replace her who you think would be better...

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
6. Yes, but it is hard to get decisions from people who can
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 08:50 PM
Dec 2011

never be sure of anything. Except that they can't be sure of anything.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
7. I tend to agree
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 08:54 PM
Dec 2011

There has been no abuse of authority that I've seen or heard of. This person is no longer in the position of a what used to be a moderator, and when they were formerly, my perception was that they carefully avoided familial conflicts of interest.

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
8. I disagree
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 09:31 PM
Dec 2011

Yes, CBayer is defensive of her father, but I haven't yet seen any abuse of the Host system. She has the right to defend him, even if I strongly disagree with her and her father. Hosts are not like moderators - they don't have to stay "above the fray" (so to speak) like they did on DU2.

So if this is a Democratic thing, I vote No to removing CBayer as a Host. (Dammit, I wish we had the poll functionality...) Should there be any action by CBayer that might be considered abuse of Host powers, I would be willing to revisit my vote.

Dorian Gray

(13,493 posts)
9. I think
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 09:36 PM
Dec 2011

she has the right to voice her opinion. If she abuses the group and starts locking threads that don't agree with her opinion, I will agree with the OP. But I don't see that happening.

Meshuga

(6,182 posts)
43. +1
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 01:19 PM
Jan 2012

Hosts are allowed to have an opinion. However, hosts should not be allowed to abuse their power. I don't think the op provides an example where the host is using the host position to single out people with different opinions.

On a side note... It kind of sucks that there is no private alerting system so people can evaluate hosts or complain about hosts. Creating threads to question hosts seem to be a loophole to call people out and break du rules.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
10. The only bonafide thread lock I've seen was to shut up an anti atheist troll.
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 09:40 PM
Dec 2011

I think cbayer is free to speak her mind and as someone who has given her dad a pretty hard time I don't find her defense of him out of line or inaccurate.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
11. I haven't seen an abuse of power yet.
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 09:41 PM
Dec 2011

While I had my reservations about cbayer as a host, I don't think her behavior is unacceptable for a host. Hosts aren't mods.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
12. I would like to see a list of the "vicious bullies that participate regularly in this group"
Fri Dec 30, 2011, 10:01 PM
Dec 2011
There are vicious bullies that participate regularly in this group. Pretty much everyone who has visited the Religion (or previous R/T) forum knows that. And people who have had to moderate it in the past know it particularly well.


I was ok with cbayer as a host and afaik she hasn't pulled rank, but if this is how she really feels I have to wonder if she is really a good choice to host this group.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
24. Wtf does gender have to do with anything?
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:19 PM
Dec 2011

If you're intimidated by intelligent women you're in the wrong place.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
13. I have seen nothing to warrant a removal.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 12:09 AM
Dec 2011

she and I have gone back and forth on several things, but I haven't seen an abuse of power at this point. Though I agree that the phrasing is a bit troublesome, it seems to me that cbayer has been fine as a host. Hosts aren't mods.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
15. No.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 02:31 AM
Dec 2011
As far as limiting or controlling discussion I haven't seen cbayer doing anything favoring her dad over anyone else. I don't see anything wrong with her taking up for her dad in discussion.

As far as bias goes, she is expressing a characterization about someone she knows personally. She may very well be right or wrong on the matter but it's still her characterization, and people are free to accept/reject as they so choose. I see no problem, as long as she isn't being vindictive in her exercise of authority. I haven't seen anything to suggest that she is that type of person.

As far as the "personal attack" goes, she didn't name any names or point to any posts so I suppose it is up to the readers to make the identification, or not. It's a close call, I admit.

For transparency's sake: I disagree with her dad's apparent willingness to skate too close to the Church/State line in his desire to bring religion into the debate over the direction of the nation, but as long as cbayer continues to operate as equitably as possible I have no objection to her hosting.







LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
19. I don't see any need, so long as there is a balance of views among the hosts
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:03 AM
Dec 2011

I haven't noticed that CBayer has been locking threads with which she disagrees; indeed I think there are fewer locked threads than under the DU2 system.

I don't think hosts are required to be neutral, or objective in all their posts. The main thing is to have both atheist and religious hosts.

The only thing I'd say is that if there is ever a *decision* to be made, as opposed to an opinion expressed, about one of TMO's posts, probably CBayer should be asked to recuse herself as a relative. But that sort of thing is usually a matter for juries rather than hosts.



MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
20. I'd be opposed to that action.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 11:50 AM
Dec 2011

While I'm not a frequent poster in this forum, I read it daily. I have not seen cbayer do anything as host that warrants her removal.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
21. Maybe she should just copy her dad's ignore list.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 12:09 PM
Dec 2011

But could she then be an effective host, with half the group on ignore?

EDIT: I'm not calling for her removal.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
25. After reading through that thread, I feel that cbayer was backed into a corner
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:31 PM
Dec 2011

and lashed out in frustration.

Haven't we all done that before?

 

MarkCharles

(2,261 posts)
27. Don't hosts need to be more reasonable, more accomodating than
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 02:03 PM
Dec 2011

others?

Why be a host if one cannot be objective?

Is there some control fantasy going on there?

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
39. No, not really.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 10:43 PM
Dec 2011

Hosts aren't mods, they are allowed to have and post opinions just like any other member.

cbayer has admitted she is not objective, but she has also given her word that she has done nothing that would make her unsuitable to host this group.

Until I see some evidence to the contrary I won't stand against her.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
30. There is no individual here or anywhere
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:35 PM
Dec 2011

who is without biases of some sort. One purpose of free and open debate is to cull out those statements and arguments that are inaccurate or invalid due to that bias, and when allowed to proceed relatively unimpeded, it does a very good job at it. As long as no restrictions beyond those placed on all groups and forums here have been imposed, the fact that someone has biases should not, by itself, disqualify them from hosting or participating.

Not that such a thing couldn't happen...after all, someone tried to have this entire group shut down in the old DU2. So..eternal vigilance.



Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
41. You are wrong!
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 04:31 AM
Jan 2012

Well, no you are not. I just wanted to say Happy New Year!!! I know it is off topic..but...I just adore you, even when I don't agree with you!

 

humblebum

(5,881 posts)
26. "biased statement AND personal attack against a wide range of members is unacceptable." - so
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:50 PM
Dec 2011

am I to understand that you are calling for the removal of those with whom you do not agree or who do not agree with you? Leave it alone.

 

MarkCharles

(2,261 posts)
31. No, again, failure to understand on your part. No one is calling for
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 04:46 PM
Dec 2011

"removal" of a poster.

Proposal for REMOVAL of a poster from the position of host.

That's the deal, re- read the first post in the thread.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
32. We can read and it looks like, so far, we all disagree with you and CleanHippie
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 05:22 PM
Dec 2011

It's nice to know he has a friend. We all need friends.
Happy New Year to both of you

 

MarkCharles

(2,261 posts)
35. Which part of "to propose to remove a group host" do you..
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:20 PM
Dec 2011

fail to comprehend?

I will quote:
"For a group host to make such a biased statement AND personal attack against a wide range of members is unacceptable. "

Try to think this out. What is being asked, what is the accusation? What are the facts you are asked to consider?

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
36. What host powers has cbayer actually abused?
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:38 PM
Dec 2011

For that matter, what host powers has cbayer even exercised? I don't know of any.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
37. Apparently, a wide range of members don't consider themselves bullies.
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:38 PM
Dec 2011

What part of NO do you not understand?
Happy New Year

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
33. No, I don't agree. As long as she's not abusing her duties as a host I see no reason for her to be
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 06:46 PM
Dec 2011

removed. There are no moderators anymore and here is a list of the hosts duties:

Host Super Powers
Group Hosts have the following abilities in their assigned groups:

Lock thread (Reason: Violates this forum's Statement of Purpose)
Locks a thread when the OP is not on-topic for the group. An automatic notification will be dropped into the OP explaining why the thread was locked. The thread can only be unlocked by the Host who locked it.

Lock thread (Reason not specified)
Locks a thread for an unspecified reason. An automatic notification will be dropped into the OP, but no reason for the lock will be provided. The thread can only be unlocked by the Host who locked it.

Pin & lock thread
Pins a thread to the top of the group and simultaneously locks it. An automatic notification will be dropped into the OP, but no reason for the lock will be provided. The thread can be unpinned by any Host, but can only be unlocked by the Host who locked it.

Pin thread
Pins a thread to the top of the group, where it will remain until it is unpinned. The thread can be unpinned by any Host.

Block a member from the group
Blocks a member from posting in the group. The member will be automatically notified by DU Mail. Members can be unblocked by any Host.

Make a member a Host of the group
Creates a new group Host. The selected member will be automatically notified by DU Mail. Members can only be removed as a Host by Hosts who are listed above them in the hierarchy.

Remove a Host of the group
Removes a Host. Hosts can only remove Hosts who are listed below them in the hierarchy


Which one has she violated?

If you have a problem with one of her posts or OP's you can always alert on them and see if a jury agrees. If you think it's a TOS violation and the jury doesn't hide the post, admin will be able to review it.

Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
42. Nope.
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 04:34 AM
Jan 2012

I don't post often, but I read this forum religiously. We are all biased and anyone who claims otherwise is an idiot/liar/stupid or just plain ignorant. If one's biases are interfering with the "moderation" of the group, then chuck'em. You haven't made you case.

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