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Staph

(6,253 posts)
Sat May 14, 2022, 10:13 PM May 2022

I could use a few prayers!

My pastor tested positive for COVID on Friday, after trying to quarantine for a week from the rest of his family (they caught it from the son's teacher, who didn't bother to notify the parents of her students that she was sick!).

So tomorrow morning, I'm running the entire church service on my own. I've been a lay reader/leader many times, I sing in the choir, I've given mission moments and other short speeches, but I've never had to lead the whole thing, write my own prayers and introductions and benediction.

Dear Lord, don't let me screw it up!


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I could use a few prayers! (Original Post) Staph May 2022 OP
You're prepared, you'll do fine, good luck Walleye May 2022 #1
I'll send ya some good karma... wcmagumba May 2022 #2
Make it a hymns sing MacKasey May 2022 #3
I was a UU lay leader for years Wicked Blue May 2022 #4
I'm sure you'll do just fine! And, it's a forgiving crowd :) woodsprite May 2022 #5
You will be fine. Enjoy it! Maraya1969 May 2022 #6
🤞🏽 blm May 2022 #7
we live by Grace deRien May 2022 #8
... sprinkleeninow May 2022 #9
I've been in your shoes PJMcK May 2022 #10
I have faith Tucker08087 May 2022 #11
Oh, you will be just fine Warpy May 2022 #12
You'll be 👍 Nululu May 2022 #13
How do you know if you're ready? Roy Rolling May 2022 #14
Take a deep breath... 2naSalit May 2022 #15

MacKasey

(994 posts)
3. Make it a hymns sing
Sat May 14, 2022, 10:27 PM
May 2022

Have people pick their favorite and do a short message, on your favorite hymn

A prayer for you
May the Lord surround you with his love and keep you safe in the palm of his hand

Wicked Blue

(5,858 posts)
4. I was a UU lay leader for years
Sat May 14, 2022, 10:32 PM
May 2022

Just keep in mind that the people in the congregation are your friends. And they will almost certainly be forgiving.

woodsprite

(11,930 posts)
5. I'm sure you'll do just fine! And, it's a forgiving crowd :)
Sat May 14, 2022, 10:35 PM
May 2022

That's the way I try to look at it when I get pressed into more service at church than I'm prepared for. I figure there have even been times that our regular minister has forgotten to say the Lord's Prayer, or ended up having to rearrange the order of the service because she forgot a hymn, etc. and everyone just goes with the flow.

Best of luck!

deRien

(166 posts)
8. we live by Grace
Sat May 14, 2022, 11:06 PM
May 2022

so if mistakes are made be honest about it and continue on... our pastor quite often has those little moments and we smile/laugh and continue on... I'm sure that your fellow parishioners are glad it's you and not them!

PJMcK

(22,056 posts)
10. I've been in your shoes
Sat May 14, 2022, 11:32 PM
May 2022

One Sunday, I got a call from the pastor’s son that his dad had appendicitis and wouldn’t be at church. As I was the Clerk of Session, I had to cover. Since I knew the order of service, the hymns and the congregation, I knew everyone would be concerned about our pastor and would be happy to congregate in his absence.

You’ve got this.

Express your faith and use a little humor. A positive expression will carry you through.

Tucker08087

(621 posts)
11. I have faith
Sat May 14, 2022, 11:49 PM
May 2022

and I know you will be great. It’s scary to stand before a large group to speak. When I was teaching, Back to School Night, where the parents come in and listen to you speak for 20 minutes gave me actual nightmares. Nothing ever went badly, but fear is quite a load to carry. Remember: They aren’t judging you. They are being taught by you. I told myself this year after year. It never fully helped, because the parents in that school were often anti-school and anti-teacher. But your group won’t be anti-anything and I’ll bet they will really proud you. You are going to be great!

Warpy

(111,373 posts)
12. Oh, you will be just fine
Sun May 15, 2022, 12:14 AM
May 2022

Keep the whole thing shorter than usual and people will remember you fondly, whether or not you stumble over a word or two.

Roy Rolling

(6,941 posts)
14. How do you know if you're ready?
Sun May 15, 2022, 12:52 AM
May 2022

Because the job was thrust upon you by the Lord. He/She/Unnamed Force thinks you’re ready, who are you to argue?

Do you believe this stuff or what? The answer is “yes”, so go do your part and share that with others.

2naSalit

(86,832 posts)
15. Take a deep breath...
Sun May 15, 2022, 01:36 AM
May 2022

You'll be fine. Like one of my professors would say before exams, "You'll be fine, you know this stuff."

I bet that once you get started, it will just flow like a peaceful stream.

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