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Related: About this forumTouch in Babies Provides a Foundation for Empathy
15 February 2020
by: Andrea Korte
Babies begin to relate to others through touch from their earliest days connections that have implications for their health and their social development well beyond infancy, particularly their ability to empathize with others, according to several scientists.
Very young babies can look out at other peoples bodies moving and can relate the same biological movement to their own felt movement, which is a bedrock for social development, said Andrew Meltzoff, co-director of the Institute for Learning and Brain Sciences at the University of Washington.
This connection between babies and their caregivers provides the foundation for the capacity of empathy, said Ruth Feldman, professor of developmental social neuroscience at the Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya in Israel. The more they experience this synchrony, the more they are able to develop empathy later on.
Meltzoff and Feldman shared results from their work at a Feb. 15 news briefing at the 2020 American Association for the Advancement of Science Annual Meeting in Seattle. They were joined at the presentation by Minoru Asada, professor at the Open and Transdisciplinary Research Institute at Osaka University, where he explores whether the sense of touch could serve as a basis for empathy in robots.
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PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)The advice to let a baby "cry it out", or to leave it alone in a bedroom to self comfort is appalling. Remind me again why not meeting a genuine human need is good?
bitterross
(4,066 posts)I don't think that advice is as black and white as you imply.
I agree that touch, holding a baby, holding and hugging one another is way under-rated by our US society. It is especially problematic that males are taught they are not allowed to touch, hug, and comfort one another.
As for babies, there is a fine balance. Yes, we should attend to their needs. We should not always attend to their wants. That is the fine balance. Understanding the difference between the need and the want.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)which basically involves putting the baby to bed and letting it cry itself to sleep. What the baby learns is that no matter how badly it needs a parent, the parent won't show up.
You are right about needs and wants. An infant really only has needs. Over time it acquires wants. I know that by being responsive to my two children, especially when they were infants, really paid off.
empedocles
(15,751 posts)Javaman
(62,504 posts)there seemed to be a mutual dislike between him and his mother. she has been described as being "distant" when raising the orange asshole. And she didn't have many good things to say about him as a kid.