Atheists & Agnostics
Related: About this forumDo you agree, or disagree, with this statement?
"Atheist men, who maintain the false belief in their superiority, do more harm to women then men, who are restricted by religious morals."I strongly disagree with this statement, (duh) as an Atheist man, although I would think that it's an asinine generalization to try to make no matter what I personally believed.
The trope about Atheists being less moral loves to pop its creepy head up all over the place, like some fucked up mushroom.
I think it's appalling that there are places on this website where this sort of anti-Atheist bigotry is allowed.
idwiyo
(5,113 posts)I'll bet £10 this statement was written by a religious person with a huge feeling of inferiority.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I think the sentence in the OP is deeply offensive, not to mention idiotic.
LeftishBrit
(41,450 posts)however it is not a product of atheism. Atheism just means not believing in a god; it doesn't mean believing you're superior.
Sigh.
As regards sexism: anyone can be sexist, but women's rights have been most often been squashed by believers in ultra-traditionalism - which is often, though not always, associated with conservative forms of religion - from Sharia law to the implication by Pat Robertson that feminists helped to bring 9-11 on the USA by provoking God.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I also think open-mindedness, resistance to dogma, questioning assumptions (particularly one's own) as well as accepting that other people are going to choose to live their lives in ways one may, personally, not approve of- all those things lead to an understanding, tolerant, equality-based approach to others.
oh, yeah, and a SENSE OF HUMOR. Can't forget that one, it's crucial.
idwiyo
(5,113 posts)Last edited Thu Aug 9, 2012, 07:20 PM - Edit history (1)
Where else would it come from?
Racism, homophobia, sexism, all together or in part are the very essence of every religion:
I am better then you because I belong to group x, and not all members of group x were created equal.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)Males are usually bigger and stronger. Religion is just used as one method of reinforcing this structure.
2ndAmForComputers
(3,527 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I agree.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)suffrage: male religious leaders. Look at the origins of the patriarchal system: male religious leaders. Look at the history of Mormonism.
Actually, just look up any facts.
malthaussen
(18,433 posts)Stipulating that atheists create their own ethical systems as the touchstone of their lives, it is quite possible that some atheists "do more harm to women" than those "restricted" (ha!) "by religious morals." But given the nature of those "restrictive" morals, I think it more reasonable to expect that the religious types would be apt to do the greater "harm to women," whatever, indeed, that means.
As for the bigotry, it doesn't bother me: having constructed my own moral code, what do I care what those idiots think?
But then, I have a "false belief" in my "superiority," eh?
-- Mal
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Last edited Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:37 AM - Edit history (1)
Like I said, it's been clear to me for some time that some folks seem to be trying to push 'stealth' religious right stuff through under various guises; this is a glaringly egregious example.
malthaussen
(18,433 posts)... I haven't run across anythng like that on DU. Obviously, it boggles the mind that anyone could be a real Democrat or Progressive and spout that... stuff, so I'd assume it was the product of another troll and roll on.
Religious beliefs have, historically, kept some nasty stuff in check -- which makes one shudder to think of what the world was like before religious beliefs -- but moral philosophy passed religion quite a few centuries ago. Alas, moral philosophers do not have collection plates.
-- Mal
Warpy
(114,442 posts)I'd expect to find this sort of idiocy in protected religious groups here. That's why I never go there.
Religious men are worse to women the more pious they are.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)But not one of the stated "religious" ones.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)ANY man who maintains belief in their superiority does harm to women....and I don't see why anyone would link "atheist men" with "false belief in their superiority" unless they are just being nasty.
Most atheists who I know are much more accepting of women as equals than the religious men. And if you look at the facts, that makes sense. They are told by their God that they are superior, so how can they argue with that.
EvolveOrConvolve
(6,452 posts)If so, it's sickening.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Rob H.
(5,788 posts)Exhibit A that flies in the face of the idea that atheist men do more harm to women than religious men: The Southern Baptist Convention. Women are to be subservient to men, can't be pastors, and are not to teach or hold positions of authority over men. Southern Baptist men's "religious morals" don't prevent them from treating women as their inferiors, and the SBC endorses that kind of behavior.
Edited to add: There was also a study done within the last few years that showed that divorce rates were highest among religious people in red states. The group with lowest rates of divorce? ATHEISTS!
mr blur
(7,753 posts)Belongs on Free Republic, maybe, but not here.
rexcat
(3,622 posts)AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)I disagree
I think they do more harm to MEN 1st..... then women. But they harm both, that's for sure.... or do they?
Who are these atheist men who still think they are superior? And do they think they are superior to women, or just people who are foolish enough to follow stone age "morals"?
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Maybe you're not hanging in the right crowds.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)One has to read carefully and not succumb to the kneejerking defensiveness that is so common, everywhere.
The writer is referring to men who think they are superior.
And whoever said 'I haven't seen it on DU', well DU isn't the world. Anyone who is aware of the shitstorm caused by Rebecca Watson's decision to confront the issue of sexism and misogyny at atheist conferences knows there are plenty of atheist men who consider themselves to be superior to women. They probably don't think so, but their actions and words betray them.
One caveat is the word "more"... defining how that damage is qualified, quantified, and measured means a lot.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Reisman, who has been similarly quoted, promoted, and lauded by certain members of this site.
Hmmm. Maybe we should just work on not being so defensive.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)I get that we disagree about this but let's try to stay on topic.
Unless the topic is now the association fallacy. Because yes, I do agree with some views which are also held by people who have other views with which I don't agree.
The world is a complicated place.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)the patterns that are readily apparent.
Like, say, if there is a pattern of promotion of religious right sources and memes.
Which, um, certainly IS on topic.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)Association fallacy.
And I am really not interested in engaging with you on the topic of your obsession.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Is a religious right meme.
When religious right memes, religious right groups, religious right arguments are continually produced and promoted, what conclusions would you expect a fair minded person to draw?
redqueen
(115,186 posts)I don't interpret it that way.
I infer she's saying that SEXIST men who aren't religious have no check on that sexism, whereas religious ones have the obviously insufficient but still existent restriction. Their sexism is codified, atheists' is freelance.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I do.
And i wonder why it doesn't trouble you when she promotes sources like Reisman, Hilton, etc.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Do you agree with that statement? That religious "morality" on the topic of sex is inherently superior?
Oh, link? Okay, here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12559060#post3
redqueen
(115,186 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)You want to discuss this in a DeMontague-free zone, You know where you can go!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)And some people are still mad about it.
I forgot.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)And your response shows quite well why I won't engage you further on this topic.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)redqueen
(115,186 posts)Not so well written, but you can get an idea of the context from the link.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)So folks can see not just the source material, but the way the source material was presented here on DU.
Anyway, merely claiming that someone is a member of a group does not entitle them to a free pass on bigoted or otherwise ignorant statements (i.e. "the person who wrote this claims to be an Atheist, so there"
any more than anyone else. The saw that somehow Atheists are somehow inherently less moral (oh, well, maybe just the Atheists who have y chromosomes) than religious people is one of the most noxious old turds in the canon.
2ndAmForComputers
(3,527 posts)Oldest lame trick in the dishonest debate handbook.
redqueen
(115,186 posts)As you could have in the OP.
Anyway, you seem to be attempting to have a discussion with someone else in another group by proxy, so I'm gonna bow out of this now.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)calling anyone out. I wanted to get a sense for how it sounded at face value.
It seems my impressions of it weren't too off base.
PassingFair
(22,446 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)That's why.
I'm glad you agree it's "shit", though. So take it up with the people who are promoting it.
PassingFair
(22,446 posts)Keep it in Meta, please.
As far as I know, no one here has a problem with her except you.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Maybe you should be the one keeping it in meta.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)To the other thread:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12559060
My opinion is, its not about "Atheist men who think they're superior to women", it's the noxious assertion that there is some inherently soul-bettering property inherent to religious belief, that Atheist men lack.
muriel_volestrangler
(105,668 posts)I think that claim is wrong - first, it's treating 'Christian' and 'religious' as the same thing, when clearly they're not - and the most extreme religions enforce the worst sexism and discrimination that any culture has seen (eg the Taliban). Secondly, there's plenty of misogyny and discrimination in many Christian sects (eg Catholicism). But I don't think it's talking about "some inherently soul-bettering property"; I think it's saying that the principles by which Christians are meant to live ought to put bounds on the harm that a sexist man could do to a woman. I would say that, in practice, these bounds hardly ever stop a sexist, however Christian he thinks he is.
But it is "about atheist men who think they're superior to women"; the closing sentence is "When a man frees himself from false beliefs, he has to get rid also of the false belief in male superiority." It is not about all atheist men.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)and the implication that religion acts as a 'civilizing' or 'moderating' influence on men who 'think they're superior' is only the start, along with the completely silly yet accepted-at-face-value notion that men who, for instance, like to have sex or like to look at naked women, somehow "think they're superior to women" because they like those things.
It's standard issue religious fundamentalist sexual puritanism, rebranded and repackaged. Rinse, repeat.
LiberalAndProud
(12,799 posts)"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man." (I Corinthians 11:8-9)
Yea, those religious morals don't harm women. Not even a little. I will refrain from profanity, but really really this is really stupid stuff.