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Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 04:21 PM Aug 2012

Do you agree, or disagree, with this statement?

"Atheist men, who maintain the false belief in their superiority, do more harm to women then men, who are restricted by religious morals."

I strongly disagree with this statement, (duh) as an Atheist man, although I would think that it's an asinine generalization to try to make no matter what I personally believed.

The trope about Atheists being less moral loves to pop its creepy head up all over the place, like some fucked up mushroom.

I think it's appalling that there are places on this website where this sort of anti-Atheist bigotry is allowed.
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Do you agree, or disagree, with this statement? (Original Post) Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 OP
How can one be an Atheist and maintain false sense of superiority? idwiyo Aug 2012 #1
I think there's a lot of stealth religious fundamentalism behind a lot of agendas. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #3
Anyone CAN have a false sense of superiority- LeftishBrit Aug 2012 #5
I would agree with everything there. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #44
When it comes to sexism it's always by-product of religion. idwiyo Aug 2012 #49
Primate groups are usually patriarchal. redqueen Aug 2012 #50
This. If the author is an Atheist, I'm Usain Bolt. 2ndAmForComputers Aug 2012 #23
Yah Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #31
Anyone who knows a little history knows that is not true. Look at the chief opponents of women's dimbear Aug 2012 #2
"Asinine" is not a bad word. "Ridiculous" would do, too. malthaussen Aug 2012 #4
It's the old saw about how Religious beliefs keep all that nasty stuff 'in check' Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #7
I'll have to go with response #9... malthaussen Aug 2012 #12
It's laughable! Warpy Aug 2012 #6
Protected Group, Yes. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #14
Oh, give me a break! Curmudgeoness Aug 2012 #8
Holy shit, was that actually posted here at DU? EvolveOrConvolve Aug 2012 #9
Yes. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #10
I think that statement, not to put too fine a point on it, is 100% horseshit Rob H. Aug 2012 #11
Insulting, ignorant bullshit. mr blur Aug 2012 #13
Nice to see such bigotry in DU... rexcat Aug 2012 #15
do more harm to women then men, AlbertCat Aug 2012 #16
Don't agree, but then, I don't know too many atheist men. n/t RebelOne Aug 2012 #17
You don't? Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #21
Agree. redqueen Aug 2012 #18
Yeah, sort of like the kneejerking defensiveness to the work of Judith "Gays caused the Holocaust" Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #22
This is the Atheists & Agnostics Group redqueen Aug 2012 #25
And sometimes complicated things are easier to understand if one is willing to spot Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #27
Religious right memes? redqueen Aug 2012 #29
"Atheists are less moral because they dont have religion to fix their souls" Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #30
You seriously think that's what she's saying? redqueen Aug 2012 #34
Yes. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #37
What about this statement? Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #33
Didn't I just say I wasn't interested in this game? nt redqueen Aug 2012 #35
Then why respond? Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #38
Oh, right. Someone hit on someone else in an elevator 5 years ago. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #32
No, that is (obviously) not my point. redqueen Aug 2012 #36
Yep. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #39
Here is the entire piece, for anyone who is interested. redqueen Aug 2012 #19
Why don't you give them the link to the HoF thread, while you're at it? Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #20
"I am a lifelong Democrat but" 2ndAmForComputers Aug 2012 #24
I'm sure you realize that you are free to add whatever context you see fit. redqueen Aug 2012 #26
I could have, but actually I was trying to get a read on the material without specifically Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #28
Why are you bringing this shit here? PassingFair Aug 2012 #42
Because it's relevant to Atheists. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #43
It's your hatred of RedQueen I'm talking about. PassingFair Aug 2012 #45
Huh? I haven't made anything about her. And yet you, here, are trying to make it about ME. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #46
Since i have been accused of not providing context, here is a link Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #40
No, I think it's claiming that religion puts a limit on how bad misogyny can get muriel_volestrangler Aug 2012 #47
It's got a whole host of assumptions that are, as they say, "problematic" Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #48
"restricted by their religious morals" LiberalAndProud Aug 2012 #41

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
1. How can one be an Atheist and maintain false sense of superiority?
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 04:32 PM
Aug 2012

I'll bet £10 this statement was written by a religious person with a huge feeling of inferiority.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
3. I think there's a lot of stealth religious fundamentalism behind a lot of agendas.
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 05:00 PM
Aug 2012

I think the sentence in the OP is deeply offensive, not to mention idiotic.

LeftishBrit

(41,450 posts)
5. Anyone CAN have a false sense of superiority-
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 05:44 PM
Aug 2012

however it is not a product of atheism. Atheism just means not believing in a god; it doesn't mean believing you're superior.

Sigh.

As regards sexism: anyone can be sexist, but women's rights have been most often been squashed by believers in ultra-traditionalism - which is often, though not always, associated with conservative forms of religion - from Sharia law to the implication by Pat Robertson that feminists helped to bring 9-11 on the USA by provoking God.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
44. I would agree with everything there.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 11:48 PM
Aug 2012

I also think open-mindedness, resistance to dogma, questioning assumptions (particularly one's own) as well as accepting that other people are going to choose to live their lives in ways one may, personally, not approve of- all those things lead to an understanding, tolerant, equality-based approach to others.

oh, yeah, and a SENSE OF HUMOR. Can't forget that one, it's crucial.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
49. When it comes to sexism it's always by-product of religion.
Thu Aug 9, 2012, 06:23 PM
Aug 2012

Last edited Thu Aug 9, 2012, 07:20 PM - Edit history (1)

Where else would it come from?

Racism, homophobia, sexism, all together or in part are the very essence of every religion:
I am better then you because I belong to group x, and not all members of group x were created equal.

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
50. Primate groups are usually patriarchal.
Thu Aug 9, 2012, 09:11 PM
Aug 2012

Males are usually bigger and stronger. Religion is just used as one method of reinforcing this structure.

dimbear

(6,271 posts)
2. Anyone who knows a little history knows that is not true. Look at the chief opponents of women's
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 04:54 PM
Aug 2012

suffrage: male religious leaders. Look at the origins of the patriarchal system: male religious leaders. Look at the history of Mormonism.

Actually, just look up any facts.

malthaussen

(18,433 posts)
4. "Asinine" is not a bad word. "Ridiculous" would do, too.
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 05:33 PM
Aug 2012

Stipulating that atheists create their own ethical systems as the touchstone of their lives, it is quite possible that some atheists "do more harm to women" than those "restricted" (ha!) "by religious morals." But given the nature of those "restrictive" morals, I think it more reasonable to expect that the religious types would be apt to do the greater "harm to women," whatever, indeed, that means.

As for the bigotry, it doesn't bother me: having constructed my own moral code, what do I care what those idiots think?

But then, I have a "false belief" in my "superiority," eh?

-- Mal

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
7. It's the old saw about how Religious beliefs keep all that nasty stuff 'in check'
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 06:09 PM
Aug 2012

Last edited Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:37 AM - Edit history (1)

Like I said, it's been clear to me for some time that some folks seem to be trying to push 'stealth' religious right stuff through under various guises; this is a glaringly egregious example.

malthaussen

(18,433 posts)
12. I'll have to go with response #9...
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 02:41 AM
Aug 2012

... I haven't run across anythng like that on DU. Obviously, it boggles the mind that anyone could be a real Democrat or Progressive and spout that... stuff, so I'd assume it was the product of another troll and roll on.

Religious beliefs have, historically, kept some nasty stuff in check -- which makes one shudder to think of what the world was like before religious beliefs -- but moral philosophy passed religion quite a few centuries ago. Alas, moral philosophers do not have collection plates.

-- Mal

Warpy

(114,442 posts)
6. It's laughable!
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 05:59 PM
Aug 2012

I'd expect to find this sort of idiocy in protected religious groups here. That's why I never go there.

Religious men are worse to women the more pious they are.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
8. Oh, give me a break!
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 07:02 PM
Aug 2012

ANY man who maintains belief in their superiority does harm to women....and I don't see why anyone would link "atheist men" with "false belief in their superiority" unless they are just being nasty.

Most atheists who I know are much more accepting of women as equals than the religious men. And if you look at the facts, that makes sense. They are told by their God that they are superior, so how can they argue with that.

Rob H.

(5,788 posts)
11. I think that statement, not to put too fine a point on it, is 100% horseshit
Sun Aug 5, 2012, 11:56 PM
Aug 2012

Exhibit A that flies in the face of the idea that atheist men do more harm to women than religious men: The Southern Baptist Convention. Women are to be subservient to men, can't be pastors, and are not to teach or hold positions of authority over men. Southern Baptist men's "religious morals" don't prevent them from treating women as their inferiors, and the SBC endorses that kind of behavior.

Edited to add: There was also a study done within the last few years that showed that divorce rates were highest among religious people in red states. The group with lowest rates of divorce? ATHEISTS!

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
16. do more harm to women then men,
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 10:23 AM
Aug 2012

I disagree

I think they do more harm to MEN 1st..... then women. But they harm both, that's for sure.... or do they?

Who are these atheist men who still think they are superior? And do they think they are superior to women, or just people who are foolish enough to follow stone age "morals"?

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
18. Agree.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 12:37 PM
Aug 2012

One has to read carefully and not succumb to the kneejerking defensiveness that is so common, everywhere.

The writer is referring to men who think they are superior.

And whoever said 'I haven't seen it on DU', well DU isn't the world. Anyone who is aware of the shitstorm caused by Rebecca Watson's decision to confront the issue of sexism and misogyny at atheist conferences knows there are plenty of atheist men who consider themselves to be superior to women. They probably don't think so, but their actions and words betray them.

One caveat is the word "more"... defining how that damage is qualified, quantified, and measured means a lot.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
22. Yeah, sort of like the kneejerking defensiveness to the work of Judith "Gays caused the Holocaust"
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:28 PM
Aug 2012

Reisman, who has been similarly quoted, promoted, and lauded by certain members of this site.

Hmmm. Maybe we should just work on not being so defensive.



redqueen

(115,186 posts)
25. This is the Atheists & Agnostics Group
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:42 PM
Aug 2012

I get that we disagree about this but let's try to stay on topic.

Unless the topic is now the association fallacy. Because yes, I do agree with some views which are also held by people who have other views with which I don't agree.

The world is a complicated place.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
27. And sometimes complicated things are easier to understand if one is willing to spot
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:51 PM
Aug 2012

the patterns that are readily apparent.

Like, say, if there is a pattern of promotion of religious right sources and memes.

Which, um, certainly IS on topic.

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
29. Religious right memes?
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:03 PM
Aug 2012

Association fallacy.

And I am really not interested in engaging with you on the topic of your obsession.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
30. "Atheists are less moral because they dont have religion to fix their souls"
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:10 PM
Aug 2012

Is a religious right meme.

When religious right memes, religious right groups, religious right arguments are continually produced and promoted, what conclusions would you expect a fair minded person to draw?

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
34. You seriously think that's what she's saying?
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:20 PM
Aug 2012

I don't interpret it that way.

I infer she's saying that SEXIST men who aren't religious have no check on that sexism, whereas religious ones have the obviously insufficient but still existent restriction. Their sexism is codified, atheists' is freelance.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
37. Yes.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:27 PM
Aug 2012

I do.

And i wonder why it doesn't trouble you when she promotes sources like Reisman, Hilton, etc.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
33. What about this statement?
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:18 PM
Aug 2012
at least in religion they are told "reducing women to be used as bodies as is done in domination, pornography, prostitution and promiscuity" is not ok.


Do you agree with that statement? That religious "morality" on the topic of sex is inherently superior?

Oh, link? Okay, here:


http://www.democraticunderground.com/12559060#post3


Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
38. Then why respond?
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:28 PM
Aug 2012

You want to discuss this in a DeMontague-free zone, You know where you can go!

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
32. Oh, right. Someone hit on someone else in an elevator 5 years ago.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:12 PM
Aug 2012

And some people are still mad about it.

I forgot.

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
36. No, that is (obviously) not my point.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:25 PM
Aug 2012

And your response shows quite well why I won't engage you further on this topic.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
20. Why don't you give them the link to the HoF thread, while you're at it?
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:16 PM
Aug 2012

So folks can see not just the source material, but the way the source material was presented here on DU.

Anyway, merely claiming that someone is a member of a group does not entitle them to a free pass on bigoted or otherwise ignorant statements (i.e. "the person who wrote this claims to be an Atheist, so there&quot any more than anyone else. The saw that somehow Atheists are somehow inherently less moral (oh, well, maybe just the Atheists who have y chromosomes) than religious people is one of the most noxious old turds in the canon.

redqueen

(115,186 posts)
26. I'm sure you realize that you are free to add whatever context you see fit.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:45 PM
Aug 2012

As you could have in the OP.

Anyway, you seem to be attempting to have a discussion with someone else in another group by proxy, so I'm gonna bow out of this now.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
28. I could have, but actually I was trying to get a read on the material without specifically
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 03:55 PM
Aug 2012

calling anyone out. I wanted to get a sense for how it sounded at face value.

It seems my impressions of it weren't too off base.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
43. Because it's relevant to Atheists.
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 06:35 PM
Aug 2012

That's why.

I'm glad you agree it's "shit", though. So take it up with the people who are promoting it.

PassingFair

(22,446 posts)
45. It's your hatred of RedQueen I'm talking about.
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 06:27 AM
Aug 2012

Keep it in Meta, please.

As far as I know, no one here has a problem with her except you.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
46. Huh? I haven't made anything about her. And yet you, here, are trying to make it about ME.
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 02:13 PM
Aug 2012

Maybe you should be the one keeping it in meta.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
40. Since i have been accused of not providing context, here is a link
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 05:01 PM
Aug 2012

To the other thread:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12559060

My opinion is, its not about "Atheist men who think they're superior to women", it's the noxious assertion that there is some inherently soul-bettering property inherent to religious belief, that Atheist men lack.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,668 posts)
47. No, I think it's claiming that religion puts a limit on how bad misogyny can get
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 06:47 PM
Aug 2012

I think that claim is wrong - first, it's treating 'Christian' and 'religious' as the same thing, when clearly they're not - and the most extreme religions enforce the worst sexism and discrimination that any culture has seen (eg the Taliban). Secondly, there's plenty of misogyny and discrimination in many Christian sects (eg Catholicism). But I don't think it's talking about "some inherently soul-bettering property"; I think it's saying that the principles by which Christians are meant to live ought to put bounds on the harm that a sexist man could do to a woman. I would say that, in practice, these bounds hardly ever stop a sexist, however Christian he thinks he is.

But it is "about atheist men who think they're superior to women"; the closing sentence is "When a man frees himself from false beliefs, he has to get rid also of the false belief in male superiority." It is not about all atheist men.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
48. It's got a whole host of assumptions that are, as they say, "problematic"
Tue Aug 7, 2012, 07:35 PM
Aug 2012

and the implication that religion acts as a 'civilizing' or 'moderating' influence on men who 'think they're superior' is only the start, along with the completely silly yet accepted-at-face-value notion that men who, for instance, like to have sex or like to look at naked women, somehow "think they're superior to women" because they like those things.

It's standard issue religious fundamentalist sexual puritanism, rebranded and repackaged. Rinse, repeat.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
41. "restricted by their religious morals"
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 05:14 PM
Aug 2012

"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man." (I Corinthians 11:8-9)

Yea, those religious morals don't harm women. Not even a little. I will refrain from profanity, but really really this is really stupid stuff.

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