I just found out my Daddy passed away at 2300.

[littlemissmartypants]

I was asked to write his obituary. I hope I can do him justice. Thankfully, he didn’t suffer many days and if anyone deserves to be in heaven, he does. Of, course I have been fighting tears every day since he became so sick as I am now. Thankfully he was only in Hospice Care for nine days. But now he's gone. As inevitable as death is there will never be anything that prepares you for that day.

Thank you everyone for the loving support you offered me on my End of Life Issues (Group) post. You comforted me and I will never forget it.

❤ lmsp

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1285768

[msongs]

1. cyber hug for you nt

[littlemissmartypants]

7. Thanks msongs. ❤ nt

[cayugafalls]

2. So sorry to hear this, I missed your other post...

Many hugs to you...

[littlemissmartypants]

8. Thanks, cayugafalls. ❤ nt

[CentralMass]

3. My condolences on your loss.

[littlemissmartypants]

9. Thanks, CentralMass. ❤ nt

[sheshe2]

4. I am so sorry I missed your thread.

My heart goes out to your and the daddy you lost. Trust me, your love will do him justice. You will be writing from your heart.

Love and respect to you and yours, lmsp.

[littlemissmartypants]

11. Thanks, she... ❤ n

[Karadeniz]

5. You know it's coming, then, bam! The loss hits you up side the head like you didn't know... You're

Right, nothing prepares you. Deepest sympathy to you and the family.

[littlemissmartypants]

12. Thanks, Karadeniz. ❤ nt

[pnwest]

6. I missed your original post as well, but

I went back and read it. He sounds like a wonderful, loving man. I’m so very sorry for your loss. There aren’t words to ease your sorrow, but I hope you find solace in your memories.

[littlemissmartypants]

13. Thanks, pnwest. He was a wonderful human. ❤ nt

[BigmanPigman]

10. Mine died out of the blue last year, in his sleep and he was healthy.

I am still in shock since we often saw each other in the same city and are a close family.

I hope you handle it better than I did.

[littlemissmartypants]

14. Thanks, BigmanPigman. ❤ nt

[yonder]

15. I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like a very fine man,

who loved ALL his girls and someone we would all be proud to know. May his memory give you comfort in the times ahead.

[littlemissmartypants]

16. Thanks, yonder. ❤ nt

[LittleGirl]

17. I'm so sorry.

My BFF lost her Dad today too.
My sincere condolences to you and yours.

[littlemissmartypants]

24. Thanks, LittleGirl. ❤ nt

[Dem2theMax]

18. I am profoundly sorry for your loss.

My dad passed away eight years ago this month, and a day doesn't go by that I don't think about him and miss him like crazy.

I truly feel for you. Hold on to the love you shared. It will get you through this. The one wonderful thing I learned through death is that the love never dies. It is always with us.

[littlemissmartypants]

19. Thanks, Dem2theMax. ❤ nt

[murielm99]

20. I am very sorry.

[littlemissmartypants]

22. Thanks murielm99. ❤ nt

[BComplex]

21. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family, Lmsp.

I know your obituary for him will be everything he would want for you to say.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I wish you a soft landing in the days to come. I've lost both of my parents, and I will tell you, it eventually gets easier, but it will take some time.

[littlemissmartypants]

23. Thanks BComplex. ❤ nt

[mr_lebowski]

25. So sorry for your loss LMSP ...

Dad

Take care of yourself

[littlemissmartypants]

27. Thanks, mr_lebowski. ❤ nt

[Granny M]

26. Deepest sympathy, my dear littlemisssmartypants.

Losing a Daddy is very hard. Love to you and yours.

[littlemissmartypants]

28. Thanks, Granny M. ❤ nt

[RestoreAmerica2020]

29. Sorry for your loss. Take care.

Paz

[littlemissmartypants]

32. Thanks, RestoreAmerica2020. ❤ nt

[UpInArms]

30. I am so sorry

My virtual arms are around you

[littlemissmartypants]

34. Thanks, UpInArms. ❤ nt

[LiberalLoner]

31. I'm so very sorry for your loss. 😭

[littlemissmartypants]

35. Thanks, LiberalLoner. ❤ nt

[IADEMO2004]

33. Peace and Love to you.

Read your story link. Many hugs for the passing of a wonderful man and father.

[littlemissmartypants]

36. Thanks, IADEMO2004. ❤ nt

[sinkingfeeling]

37. Deepest condolences.

[littlemissmartypants]

39. Thanks, sinkingfeeling. ❤ nt

[brer cat]

38. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Here's a virtual hug.

[littlemissmartypants]

40. Thanks brer cat. ❤ nt

[SheltieLover]

41. Deepest Condolences

So sorry for your loss.

Please talk to his hospice about bereavement counseling. Most offer 13 months of free coumseling tp support you through that year of "firsts."

Healimg enerfgy on the way to you. 💓💓💓

[littlemissmartypants]

43. Thanks SheltieLover. ❤ nt

[SheltieLover]

45. You are most welcome

Please be gentle with yourself. There is no timeline for grief resolution & the stages of grief is not a linear process.

It is hard work, physically as well as emotionally & psychologically.

Please feel free to pm if you wish to chat.

[littlemissmartypants]

46. ❤ nt

[SheltieLover]

47. 💓💓💓

[JudyM]

42. Lost my dad 2 years ago, I feel for you, LMSP.

After the most intense grieving passed, it feels like he accompanies me now, since he’s always present in my heart. I hope you find comfort soon ... but for now, the depth of grief honors your love for him.
Wishing that you somehow find moments of peace in the process.

[littlemissmartypants]

44. Thanks JudyM. ❤ nt

[Marthe48]

48. Sorry for your loss

Hope you find comfort in your memories

[littlemissmartypants]

49. Thanks, Marthe48. ❤ nt