My cousin died today.
Her mom died a few months back. I’m so sad for my uncle,(91) but I’m so sad for our family. My cousin had advanced kidney disease and had a recent transplant. Her brother gave his. So proud of him and so sad my friend, my cousin is gone.
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So here’s a hug
that always helps.Healing vibes on the way to you & yours, Cate.
It may sound cliche, but please remember to breathe deeply to stay grounded, eat to stay strong, and sleep to rejuvenate.
Grieving is very hard work, physically, as well as psychologically, and emotionally.
(mil) when I got the news. We finished dinner and I cleaned up and came to DU. I so appreciate the and vibes. Just a bit overwhelmed..
The last I heard she was about to be released from the hospital to go home. Long haul. I’ve been away, so not there for her. It makes me sadder still. Anyway thanks for your kindness, I’m leaning in. 
I needed that 
Sending my condolences and love.
Peace to you
Your comment really struck me. Yes, her memory is a blessing.
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