Bereavement
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(4,571 posts)Hugs to you and your family.
SoCalDavidS
(10,599 posts)brer cat
(27,506 posts)Take the time you need, and be good to yourself.
madaboutharry
(42,032 posts)May your brothers memory be a blessing.
littlemissmartypants
(32,806 posts)I hope you find comfort in the happy memories he left behind. Stay strong.
❤
redwitch
(15,253 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,770 posts)Ocelot II
(130,077 posts)lamp_shade
(15,438 posts)Maraya1969
(23,486 posts)JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)applegrove
(131,570 posts)LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)Atticus
(15,124 posts)UpInArms
(54,654 posts)And your heartache
GPV
(73,386 posts)lucca18
(1,462 posts)polmaven
(9,463 posts)and your entire family.
TygrBright
(21,342 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,657 posts)That's such a sad loss. My heart goes out to you and the circle of loved ones who grieve with you. My sincere condolences to you, Muriel.
Lonestarblue
(13,400 posts)Wishing peace for you and your family.
Omaha Steve
(108,904 posts)Dreampuff
(778 posts)Karadeniz
(24,738 posts)In crowds.
ancianita
(43,225 posts)KT2000
(22,073 posts)Don't know what i would do if I lost my brother so I am so sorry for your loss.
jmbar2
(7,892 posts)Your DU family will be here for you. Please take care of yourself.
pazzyanne
(6,755 posts)My heart goes out to you, and prayers are in the wind on thier way to you. Take care of you.
ybbor
(1,734 posts)barbtries
(31,267 posts)take all the time you need. If you want to share about him and your loss, there is a Bereavement topic in "support groups" - in case you didn't already know.
Gore1FL
(22,918 posts)Moebym
(1,033 posts)yardwork
(69,204 posts)Murphyb849
(613 posts)rebe303
(147 posts)Sorry for your loss.
rebe303
(147 posts)Sorry for your loss.
snowybirdie
(6,642 posts)We lost my sister last week. It hurts, I know. Peace!
Fla Dem
(27,543 posts)Paper Roses
(7,627 posts)They say things will get better. My thoughts: No they don't. Keep your good memories in your heart and remember the good times.
beveeheart
(1,525 posts)NNadir
(37,767 posts)irisblue
(37,265 posts)Piasladic
(1,171 posts)I am very sorry for your loss.
gademocrat7
(11,877 posts)on the loss of your brother. Take care.
louslobbs
(3,416 posts)Please take care of yourself ❤️
3catwoman3
(29,151 posts)...at 23 back in 1978 was that she found it comforting rather than distressing when people shared memories of him. It helped her some to know that he was not forgotten.
A hug from afar.
pnwmom
(110,237 posts)babylonsister
(172,699 posts)kairos12
(13,505 posts)MuseRider
(35,176 posts)Condolences to you. May your memories give you comfort, if not now then later. Get through this as best as you can then sort it out as you go along, just be easy on yourself and do what you can only when you can. Many warm hugs.
davsand
(13,445 posts)Deepest sympathies to you and your family in this time.
Laura
zeusdogmom
(1,136 posts)Brothers are special people.
peggysue2
(12,482 posts)Losing a sibling is very rough.
niyad
(131,390 posts)light. Here if you need us.
catbyte
(38,984 posts)c-rational
(3,174 posts)CaptainTruth
(8,147 posts)sinkingfeeling
(57,650 posts)turbinetree
(27,361 posts)DFW
(60,005 posts)I'm sorry the real world hit you with such a cruel reason for a leave of absence.
mzmolly
(52,750 posts)to you and your loved ones.
Pepsidog
(6,361 posts)nolabear
(43,850 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)rustysgurl
(1,097 posts)Please take the time to care for yourself during this difficult time.
mahina
(20,588 posts)Wishing you comfort. So sorry to read this.
lillypaddle
(9,606 posts)and that of your family. Take care of yourself.
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,773 posts)orleans
(36,810 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)FakeNoose
(41,132 posts)
May he rest in peace. May you find contentment in grieving with your loved ones.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,315 posts)Dave in VA
(2,278 posts)Hiawatha Pete
(2,076 posts)orangecrush
(29,791 posts)And hope to see you again when you are ready.
Sorry for your loss.
Moostache
(11,132 posts)These have been trying times for everyone and the loss of a loved one is a trauma all its own. May your grief be shortened by good memories long.
The Polack MSgt
(13,775 posts)eilen
(4,955 posts)My brother was the closest person who knew me the best, the longest of anyone that was alive-- which means I am the only one who carries the earliest memories of his life. He was my fellow traveler, the one who survived the 1970s and 1980s with me. We have a younger sister but she had a very different experience than we did. I love my sister, don't get me wrong but me and my brother... we were there before her. So him exiting without warning was very traumatic. I still am not over it. It helps in a way that he lived in a different state and I can imagine him still there but the not communicating is what makes me very sad still, years later. I help out his grandchild and that helps a little. So I get you.
SheltieLover
(79,382 posts)bdamomma
(69,471 posts)you and your family
Progressive Jones
(6,011 posts)sdfernando
(6,051 posts)Take all the time you need to grieve in time thoughts of your brother will bring a smile.
Alliepoo
(2,814 posts)Please accept my condolences. Its a very hard thing to lose your brother. Wishing you and your family peace.
BlueMTexpat
(15,671 posts)to you and your family!
MustLoveBeagles
(15,659 posts)Leith
(7,864 posts)cate94
(3,080 posts)susanr516
(1,512 posts)My condolences to his family and friends.
oasis
(53,518 posts)momta
(4,196 posts)betsuni
(28,958 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Losing a sibling is one of the hardest ones! Its just not supposed to happen!
majdrfrtim
(340 posts)Every new grief has the ability to reawaken any/every old grief.
Grief is not a mental illness even though it sure as hell can *feel* like one (probably for the above reason).
Blessings upon you and your family.
LetMyPeopleVote
(178,127 posts)LastLiberal in PalmSprings
(13,286 posts)Laurelin
(788 posts)Take care of yourself.
Granny M
(1,398 posts)So sorry for your loss, Murielm
malaise
(295,008 posts)PCIntern
(28,189 posts)May his memory always be for a blessing.
George II
(67,782 posts)MiHale
(12,883 posts)True Blue American
(18,579 posts)Our thoughts are with you in your loss.
seta1950
(966 posts)sheshe2
(96,983 posts)Mr. Scorpio
(73,766 posts)mountain grammy
(28,904 posts)My heart goes out to you.
pandr32
(14,127 posts)We are here whenever you feel like some DU love.
wryter2000
(47,940 posts)I love my brother dearly. I can only imagine how you're feeling.
area51
(12,631 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(14,257 posts)Losing a sib has to be hard. Hugs and prayers.
Cha
(318,207 posts)it is.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Unknown Beatle
(2,691 posts)All I can say is I'm so sorry.
No Vested Interest
(5,293 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,484 posts)May you find strength, healing, and eventually a return of joy.