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backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 05:43 PM Sep 2020

I'm extremely lonely today.

Living where I do, I have no one to talk to about my RAGE and DISGUST with the orange lying b3rstard.

I have the only Biden sign for at least 20 miles. Trump flags EVERYWHERE like shrines.

Most days I am perfectly content to be alone. Today, though, I feel sick and extremely lonely.

Thanks for letting me vent. I just want to crawl into my bed and wake up from this nightmare.

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I'm extremely lonely today. (Original Post) backtoblue Sep 2020 OP
I live in the deep south. Lunabell Sep 2020 #1
(((Hugs))) backtoblue Oct 2020 #18
Venting is useful. I always feel better when I do it, The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2020 #2
Spent a few days binge-watching Charmed backtoblue Oct 2020 #19
Totally empathetic with you, backtoblue! Strength. And virtual hugs. n/t Guilded Lilly Sep 2020 #3
Back at ya backtoblue Oct 2020 #20
Vent away SallyHemmings Sep 2020 #4
TY backtoblue Oct 2020 #21
... Aristus Sep 2020 #5
TY backtoblue Oct 2020 #22
The DU keeps me afloat. Freedomofspeech Sep 2020 #6
There are a few houses that are like shrines to MF45 backtoblue Oct 2020 #23
In this disgusting little town in SW PA where we live... Freedomofspeech Oct 2020 #25
I understand how you are feeling. Are you staying in touch with family? littlemissmartypants Sep 2020 #7
TY LMSP backtoblue Oct 2020 #24
Right next to you... N_E_1 for Tennis Sep 2020 #8
My sign still stands backtoblue Oct 2020 #26
I don't know what to say to comfort you, other than to say you are in good company. alwaysinasnit Sep 2020 #9
Indeed I am backtoblue Oct 2020 #27
I suggest speaking to someone, a pro to help guide you PirateRo Sep 2020 #10
You have DU.. that's what we are here for secondwind Sep 2020 #11
Rant and vent away backtoblue zeusdogmom Sep 2020 #12
I'm so sorry. We are here for you! LiberalLoner Sep 2020 #13
Watch My Cousin Vinny...it'll cheer you up! (((((❤)))) Karadeniz Sep 2020 #14
Can you do postcards to voters? Fresh_Start Sep 2020 #15
... ailsagirl Sep 2020 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author hurl Oct 2020 #17
hope things are better. peacebuzzard Oct 2020 #28
I hope Dreampuff Oct 2020 #29

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,613 posts)
2. Venting is useful. I always feel better when I do it,
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 05:46 PM
Sep 2020

and you have plenty of company here. And I'd also recommend getting away from the news for a bit and losing yourself in a good book or Netflix. We can hope that your (and my) rage and disgust is shared by enough people that he'll be ousted in November.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
19. Spent a few days binge-watching Charmed
Sun Oct 4, 2020, 07:47 AM
Oct 2020

We've had beautiful weather this last week. Got a few flower beds cleaned up.

Freedomofspeech

(4,223 posts)
6. The DU keeps me afloat.
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 05:52 PM
Sep 2020

I live in a red area and I am pissed off everytime we leave the house. It is so exhausting being surrounded by these hateful, stupid hillbillies.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
23. There are a few houses that are like shrines to MF45
Sun Oct 4, 2020, 07:53 AM
Oct 2020

Two on the way to the grocery store.

Flags and signs covering their entire front yards. It's creepy.

Freedomofspeech

(4,223 posts)
25. In this disgusting little town in SW PA where we live...
Sun Oct 4, 2020, 08:00 AM
Oct 2020

They cannot put out one sign...my neighbor has 3 trump flags on his house and 4 signs in the yard. People have cutouts of him on their shacks. Many signs that say...No more Bull Shit, trump 2020! Whomever the idiot is making those signs does not even realize that bullshit is one word.

littlemissmartypants

(22,594 posts)
7. I understand how you are feeling. Are you staying in touch with family?
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 05:56 PM
Sep 2020

Do you have a support system? The act of reaching out can make us feel better even if no one reaches back. Stay encouraged, backtoblue.



❤ lmsp

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
24. TY LMSP
Sun Oct 4, 2020, 07:59 AM
Oct 2020

I have a few family members that I talk to on the phone fairly regular.

There are a few art projects that I need to work on. My son is going to download music to an ipod so I can have some tunes.


backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
26. My sign still stands
Sun Oct 4, 2020, 08:02 AM
Oct 2020

I passed a house off the highway that has a huge homemade Biden sign out front. It made me happy.

PirateRo

(933 posts)
10. I suggest speaking to someone, a pro to help guide you
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 06:22 PM
Sep 2020

There is an entire world connected to the other end of your internet connections. It is a $19T economy, so there are piles of other people who feel like you. It can be a fun adventure to reach out to them. Google democratic chats, events or check sites like meetup.com. The net ensures you are not held hostage by your geography.

zeusdogmom

(987 posts)
12. Rant and vent away backtoblue
Wed Sep 9, 2020, 06:59 PM
Sep 2020

Sometimes just putting feelings into written words helps.

Amazing isn't it how feelings/emotions can blindside us. Hate it when it happens to me - feel all out of balance.

Hang in there. The nightmare will end.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
15. Can you do postcards to voters?
Thu Sep 10, 2020, 08:48 AM
Sep 2020

its something you can do where it feels like you are making a difference...and doing something productive can help you feel better.

Also check health resources near you. You may be able to get online counselling.

Response to backtoblue (Original post)

peacebuzzard

(5,148 posts)
28. hope things are better.
Sun Oct 11, 2020, 08:52 PM
Oct 2020

I live alone, and after so many failures in the relationship sector, I found it less traumatic to just entertain in a company of one. Well, I have always had several pets.
But I do understand your situation. I live in deep red country, but it's somewhat ok because of the colleges and universities and limited diversity within 5 miles of me.

I have given up over the years of placing voting signs in my yard because the deep red people are downright mean and I am in a fairly rural section of the surrounding neighborhood. My road leads to a boat dock, so all the fishermen, boaters, and many magats on their joyrides drag their huge boats and jeeps and powerful trucks up and down at breakneck speed all the time, and especially on holidays or beautiful days that encourage outside activity. Anyway, I do not like to engage or call attention to my homestead.

WE are almost at the final stretch of this nightmare, although it now has picked up speed and intensity. Hang in there, blue.
Take care of yourself!

Dreampuff

(778 posts)
29. I hope
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 07:33 PM
Oct 2020

You are feeling a bit better by now. I truly do feel your pain. I live in a Battleground state, but my area is still a bit too red for me. I can't even stand to watch his speeches or his commercials anymore. I am so perplexed as to how this nasty, evil man can have such an influence over so many people and how they will pull anything out of their butt to defend him. But I guess that's how the fascists took over.

Thankfully I am quite introverted, even though you would never know it. I love being alone or just with my spouse and our pets. I am feeling disappointment and stress because of having to totally back away and isolate myself from people I have known for years. Broken relationships are never fun and all because of this jackass and his henchmen.

Last night we noticed one of our neighbors has a bumper sticker on her car that says Trump 20/20 and stop the b*******. This person doesn't even watch the news or follow politics and is by no means the brightest crayon in the box so we were totally confused. Then we have the one who walks around with his Trump t-shirts. Ugh!

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