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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 07:52 AM Jan 2016

I'm "feeling the Bern" ... and don't like it. At all.

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Hassin Bin Sober (a host of the 2016 Postmortem forum).

My previous post expressing my honest opinion on this topic was locked, so I'm posting an edited version that will hopefully pass muster ...

I have been pretty undecided in this primary. I like both Hillary and Bernie, as well as Martin O'Malley. I've been leaning toward Hillary but haven't made up my mind for sure and would be just fine with - in fact, proud to have - any of them becoming President. They all have their strengths and weaknesses, but all three are good people, with strong qualifications, great experience, good hearts and solid platforms for moving this country in the right direction.

I'm a longtime DU member but stayed away because I know primaries are contentious and DU gets caught up in silly season until the general and I just wasn't interested in the drama. but I decided to venture back in recently, expecting to learn something from lively back and forths about the candidates

And I am apalled. So I am going to step back away from DU for awhile. I used to see DU as an place for stimulating, albeit sometimes frustrating, political dialogue. But I have no interest in participating in or even witnessing what is going on here now.

I'll check back in after the primaries, hoping that some sanity and civility has returned.

Bye y'all. Take care.

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I'm "feeling the Bern" ... and don't like it. At all. (Original Post) EffieBlack Jan 2016 OP
I do not blame you. I also have to step away from here on occasion. closeupready Jan 2016 #1
It would be nice to have more people like you - not only here at DU, but everywhere. This Cal33 Jan 2016 #2
I think EffieBlack is actually the majority of those on DU. randome Jan 2016 #15
The OP is a meta attack on her rivals which fails to consider the same faults within her own cohort Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #20
Oooh, I had forgotten about that 'contribution' of hers. Betty Karlson Jan 2016 #26
I'd actually love it if the OP was willing to stand up and explain how such a back stabbing racist Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #39
a-ha. thanks. I saw the OP from the other day. Meta meat for breakfast again. Hiraeth Jan 2016 #31
I agree. The majority here is reasonable and much quieter. n/t FSogol Jan 2016 #25
I do agree with you. Are you surprised? :) Cal33 Jan 2016 #34
Not sure how this is any less a meta thread than the prior one that was locked for being meta. m-lekktor Jan 2016 #3
The way that minorities are treated by Sanders' supporters is troubling to me. Ugly, ugly attacks.nt LexVegas Jan 2016 #4
thankfully admin banned one of the most racist and vile trolls. msanthrope Jan 2016 #5
I was very thankful that they banned that "Hillary Supporter" KellieKat44 who attacked LGBT and then Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #10
how interesting that you've chosen to respond in a msanthrope Jan 2016 #18
Huh. Your post said 'attacks on minorities on this forum were disgusting' so as a minority I Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #23
So what do you have to say? You spoke of how minorities are treated on DU but you meant 'not LGBT'? Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #35
Agree completely alcibiades_mystery Jan 2016 #41
Who was that? hootinholler Jan 2016 #37
Who you talking about? I am a "minority" Obama Mama and proud Woman For Bernie. Stop smearing and... Green Forest Jan 2016 #6
Obama is a centrist corporate sellout according to your fellow supporters. nt LexVegas Jan 2016 #7
The vast majority of 2007-2008 Obama supporters who donated back then are donating to Bernie now. You do not speak for us. Green Forest Jan 2016 #11
I think you dream a lot in your bubble--Welcome to DU riversedge Jan 2016 #24
And so is Mrs. Clinton. I fail to see how this is indicative of Doctor_J Jan 2016 #22
You are talking about.. cannabis_flower Jan 2016 #8
Yup. Agschmid Jan 2016 #9
And this simple truth will be denied by those seeking to make divisions. Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #13
The excellent Ari Rabin-Havt (XM radio host) made the point the other day bullwinkle428 Jan 2016 #19
+1 stonecutter357 Jan 2016 #16
I'm gay, we are a minority, Obama 2008 employed 'ex gay evangelists' and anti gay hate preachers to Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #17
You express yourself very well. Punkingal Jan 2016 #21
They did not have to. But they did and I dealt with that. I am bothered by those who had no problem Bluenorthwest Jan 2016 #28
I just post what I want and try my best to stay within the rules. DemocratSinceBirth Jan 2016 #12
Vetting candidates isn't for the thin-skinned. 99Forever Jan 2016 #14
It was like this in 2008 Rosa Luxemburg Jan 2016 #33
Don't worry tazkcmo Jan 2016 #27
So sorry. MuseRider Jan 2016 #29
You have to pick your threads judiciously during primary season. CrispyQ Jan 2016 #30
I also need a break from all the Hillary hate... Mike Nelson Jan 2016 #32
Buh bye. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2016 #36
You will continue to be appalled ... Trajan Jan 2016 #38
What we have is a sort of "embarassment of riches": two great candidates. MatthewStLouis Jan 2016 #40
 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
1. I do not blame you. I also have to step away from here on occasion.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 07:56 AM
Jan 2016

We have also seen many prolific posters step away in their own way, and I'm talking people on all parts of the spectrum.

I made a resolution in December that I was going to end my participation on social media, but, lol, I guess I just enjoy it too much. But I certainly don't participate here as I used to, in part because it is indeed sometimes like an elementary school playground.

Peace!

 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
2. It would be nice to have more people like you - not only here at DU, but everywhere. This
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 08:26 AM
Jan 2016

world of ours would be a much nicer place to live in.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
15. I think EffieBlack is actually the majority of those on DU.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:40 AM
Jan 2016

It's the loud and obnoxious minority who try to 'win' every conversation and who apparently can't post enough OPs.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Precision and concision. That's the game.[/center][/font][hr]

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
20. The OP is a meta attack on her rivals which fails to consider the same faults within her own cohort
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:59 AM
Jan 2016

That's fairly obnoxious. Here is the OP from 2008, sort of dismissing the anti gay aspects of Obama's campaign while telling us how racist Hillary and Bill are:
"For example, the inclusion of McClurkin in the Obama campaign event a few months back deeply upset a lot of people. I did not react that way, but I respect the fact that other people were genuinely unhappy about that and I empathize with their anger and hurt. But by the same token, some things have been done or said by Hillary and Bill Clinton and some of their surrogates that have been just as hurtful to some other people, especially regarding the issue of race. Many, many blacks - and white, for that matter - felt betrayed and stabbed in the back by the Clintons by what they felt were calculated attempts to "play the race card" in South Carolina. Whether you or I agree with that assessment is beside the point - the bottom line is that there are many, many Democrats who were just as deeply hurt by that as those who were hurt by the McClurkin situation."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=132x4347596


So Clinton was so racist that Obama's anti gay stuff took second place but now Clinton is wonderful and it's Bernie who is somehow not acceptable? I might buy that if the 08 rhetoric had not been so intense about Hillary and about Bill.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
26. Oooh, I had forgotten about that 'contribution' of hers.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:30 AM
Jan 2016

That brings back some nasty memories.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
39. I'd actually love it if the OP was willing to stand up and explain how such a back stabbing racist
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:09 AM
Jan 2016

became her super favorite.
I have no problem with people changing their minds. I do have a large problem with people who insist on absolute and certain language on both sides of the same issue from year to year. So many who now support Hillary have called her a compulsive liar, too stupid to be VP, a back stabber, a racist, in 08 there was an OP equating her campaign to a lynch mob. Now those who crafted those attacks say the same things about Bernie while saying Hillary has a lifelong bond with all minority groups. Obviously it is hard to take such nonsensical behavior seriously.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
31. a-ha. thanks. I saw the OP from the other day. Meta meat for breakfast again.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:47 AM
Jan 2016

FSogol

(47,665 posts)
25. I agree. The majority here is reasonable and much quieter. n/t
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:24 AM
Jan 2016
 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
34. I do agree with you. Are you surprised? :)
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:53 AM
Jan 2016

m-lekktor

(3,675 posts)
3. Not sure how this is any less a meta thread than the prior one that was locked for being meta.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 08:43 AM
Jan 2016

you are STILL complaining about DU. You are upset because your candidate is being criticized during primary season here on the DU so you start two threads to complain about this. Apparently length of time on DU has nothing to do with knowing the rules. I have only been here since 2014 and I can see right off the bat you are doing the same thing that got your other one locked.

LexVegas

(6,962 posts)
4. The way that minorities are treated by Sanders' supporters is troubling to me. Ugly, ugly attacks.nt
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 08:51 AM
Jan 2016
 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
5. thankfully admin banned one of the most racist and vile trolls.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:08 AM
Jan 2016

I seriously doubt he was an actual Bernie Sanders supporter... But his attacks on minorities on this forum were disgusting

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
10. I was very thankful that they banned that "Hillary Supporter" KellieKat44 who attacked LGBT and then
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:33 AM
Jan 2016

Bernie endlessly and ended with a burst of extremely antisemitic material after the Paris shootings. PPR'd over a year after she'd said the 2014 election was lost because of the 'brazenness' with which LGBT 'flaunted their rights'.

Her attacks were also disgusting. I also doubt she was an actual Hillary Supporter, I know she is not representative of Clinton's views in any way. But she did that stuff for months and she got no criticism from the community, I got posts hidden for quoting her bigotry. Yeah, her cohort sided with her. Repeatedly.
Here are two quotes from a 'Hillary Supporter' currently on time out:
"Bernie is anti-immigrant. Let's stop pretending he isn't."- son of immigrant Holocaust survivors.
and
" The Bernie people posting here are not Democrats"



I just think it is naff to deny such people in your ranks while they are in your ranks, they might be false flag rat fuckers, but they are standing with you and your cohort would look better when criticizing Bernie supporters if your cohort did not have so many nasty posters being nurtured, praised and lauded openly by all of you.

There are 'Bernie Supporters' on this board I think are shits and not Bernie supporters. I tell them so. I feel good about that.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
18. how interesting that you've chosen to respond in a
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:44 AM
Jan 2016

A sub thread discussing racism and people of color on this board in such a way.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
23. Huh. Your post said 'attacks on minorities on this forum were disgusting' so as a minority I
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:17 AM
Jan 2016

responded to you. I pointed out that both sides have bigoted, vile people. You seem to be continuing with the accusations while refusing to look to your own routine. KellieKat and those other posters who say those shitty, bigoted things while claiming to be 'Hillary supporters' exist on this board, but you only see fault among Bernie supporters.
Got anything to say about those 'Hillary supporters' who say Bernie voters are not Democrats or that LGBT cost us elections by flaunting our rights?

If you say you are talking about how minorities are treated on DU but you don't mean LGBT you need to say that openly and directly. You are, I think, a straight white person. Perhaps you are not aware that LGBT are a minority group?

So next time you do this say 'minorities except LGBT' and I'll stay out of it for you, mmmmkay?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
35. So what do you have to say? You spoke of how minorities are treated on DU but you meant 'not LGBT'?
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:55 AM
Jan 2016

We are now a majority? That's big news.

KellieKat44. Maybe she is in fact the definitive Hillary supporter. She also excluded LGBT and Jews from the notion of minorities and immigrants.

You accuse me of a great wrong for considering LGBT to be a minority. Explain that.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
41. Agree completely
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:25 AM
Jan 2016

hootinholler

(26,451 posts)
37. Who was that?
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:05 AM
Jan 2016

I don't recall, but I do have a faulty memory at times.

 

Green Forest

(232 posts)
6. Who you talking about? I am a "minority" Obama Mama and proud Woman For Bernie. Stop smearing and...
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:10 AM
Jan 2016

... meta attacks are the sign of a desperate losing campaign.

LexVegas

(6,962 posts)
7. Obama is a centrist corporate sellout according to your fellow supporters. nt
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:21 AM
Jan 2016
 

Green Forest

(232 posts)
11. The vast majority of 2007-2008 Obama supporters who donated back then are donating to Bernie now. You do not speak for us.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:33 AM
Jan 2016

SS Hillary has hit an iceBern and she is going down.

riversedge

(81,546 posts)
24. I think you dream a lot in your bubble--Welcome to DU
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:20 AM
Jan 2016
 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
22. And so is Mrs. Clinton. I fail to see how this is indicative of
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:06 AM
Jan 2016

"how Sanders supporters treat minorities" by which I guess you mean african americans.

cannabis_flower

(3,939 posts)
8. You are talking about..
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:27 AM
Jan 2016

A minority of Sanders supporters. There are also some very ugly Hillary supporters. I don't think either side is immune from having rude supporters and I also believe that not everyone is who they seem.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
9. Yup.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:29 AM
Jan 2016
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
13. And this simple truth will be denied by those seeking to make divisions.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:35 AM
Jan 2016

It's sad.

bullwinkle428

(20,663 posts)
19. The excellent Ari Rabin-Havt (XM radio host) made the point the other day
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:53 AM
Jan 2016

that sadly, a small percentage of both Hillary's and Bernie's supporters need to wake the hell up and start doing a better job trying to actually emulate the people that they're supposedly supporting. ITA.

stonecutter357

(13,060 posts)
16. +1
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:41 AM
Jan 2016
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
17. I'm gay, we are a minority, Obama 2008 employed 'ex gay evangelists' and anti gay hate preachers to
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:42 AM
Jan 2016

pander to conservative Democrats in the South. He and Hillary both went to Rick Warren's church to praise Warren endlessly and to speak against marriage equality in the name of Rick Warren's version of God. DU's Obama ardent committee supported all of that and castigated LGBT for objecting to the use of preachers who had called us vampire and child killers. Yeah, vampires and child killers.

So why was that acceptable? What is Bernie doing that is anything like that? Nothing, Bernie has never once spoken against the rights of any minority group as Hillary has and as Obama has. Both of them own that, they did those things to get what they wanted, for all time that is part of who each of them is. Neither have ever apologized. Their supporters have never apologized. 'You people just want a pony'. That's what DU said to us for objecting to being called murderers 'it's just poutrage'.

Hypocrites and makers of double standards are the people who create bigotry out of thin air and allow it to take hold.

Punkingal

(9,522 posts)
21. You express yourself very well.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:04 AM
Jan 2016

I do not like hypocrites, either. They did not have to go to Rick Warren's church. They chose to.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
28. They did not have to. But they did and I dealt with that. I am bothered by those who had no problem
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:37 AM
Jan 2016

with that open castigation of a minority group going on about Bernie who has not done any of those things.

DemocratSinceBirth

(102,011 posts)
12. I just post what I want and try my best to stay within the rules.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:35 AM
Jan 2016

I have long disabused myself of the notion that meaningful conversation is possible here. " I have become what I beheld and I am content that I have done right!"

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
14. Vetting candidates isn't for the thin-skinned.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 09:36 AM
Jan 2016

What you may see as a lack of civility, I see as a tough audition for an even tougher upcoming General Election. Like it or not, if a candidate is weak or has a real downfall problem, NOW is the time to get it out in the open. Sorry the REAL, NECESSARY political process offends and "appals" you so much.

Rosa Luxemburg

(28,627 posts)
33. It was like this in 2008
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:49 AM
Jan 2016

tazkcmo

(7,419 posts)
27. Don't worry
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:30 AM
Jan 2016

Butt hurt heals over time.

MuseRider

(35,176 posts)
29. So sorry.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:39 AM
Jan 2016

It is what it is but this year has been pretty bad already and it will get worse in the months to come.

If you want to come back in now please do. Many of us on all sides have used the ignore feature for the first time ever. If you want to talk to your particular "side" it makes that possible. While I have hidden quite a few I still have people from the other team posting many good arguments and items that are of interest and not just sniping. It makes DU a tiny bit more than just a screaming eyesore. While there are a few that will remain on my ignore list because of things I have read that make them just not the kind of people I want to ever hear from again most will come back when I "un ignore" when we can focus on other things. I just don't care for baseless and made up attacks and was tired of even reading them.

Really, I NEVER thought I would ever use ignore but at least now I can read and discuss with less aggravation. I do not know if you have a particular side yet and I don't care what side you are on, you should be able to post here if you want to. Try it or not, it is always sad to lose voices of others here.

CrispyQ

(41,100 posts)
30. You have to pick your threads judiciously during primary season.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:47 AM
Jan 2016

I don't like all the infighting either, & face it, both HRC & Bernie supporters do it. MOM supporters, not so much. When I see a thread that is just monkey's flinging poo, I leave.

Mike Nelson

(10,943 posts)
32. I also need a break from all the Hillary hate...
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 10:48 AM
Jan 2016

...it's worse than FOX "News" here, sometimes!

And, yes, either Bernie or Hillary would be a fine President. Some of the Bernie supporters are going to be lost, I think, if he doesn't win. They will believe Hillary "won" (IF she wins) illegally and probably not vote for the Democrat. This is worse than eight years ago...

I trust Hillary and Bernie will lead the healing.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
36. Buh bye.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:02 AM
Jan 2016
 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
38. You will continue to be appalled ...
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:08 AM
Jan 2016

But I wouldn't know it, because I will never see you again ....

Before you go - What do I find appalling? ... America's working families getting screwed once more by phony corporate toadies pretending to be Democrats ...

Now THAT is appalling ... Have a good life ...

MatthewStLouis

(921 posts)
40. What we have is a sort of "embarassment of riches": two great candidates.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 11:25 AM
Jan 2016

I knew it was going to be painful when I saw Sanders was running. He is an awesome candidate. And I was "all in" for Hillary. I will be proud to vote for either democratic candidate, when the time comes. For me, it's not in my DNA to disparage someone who I know is on our side. Criticize? Maybe a little. But to take things out of context and start twisting words? No. The candidates and their politicos may sling a little mud, but me, well, I choose to remain cool and collected, or at least try to. Really, we should be thankful both our main candidates have such enthusiastic supporters.

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