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Thrill

(19,342 posts)
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:52 PM Oct 2012

Word going around Mitt banged the CEO of Staples wife

Shame on You Mitt.

Apparently the wife is going public with Gloria. He ruined her marriage.

Shame on You Mitt. Homewrecker

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Word going around Mitt banged the CEO of Staples wife (Original Post) Thrill Oct 2012 OP
Source? northoftheborder Oct 2012 #1
Here's story from TMZ SoCalNative Oct 2012 #31
TMZ is a television and online gossip rag, but I must say they do get some authentic scoops. avaistheone1 Oct 2012 #44
Yep TMZ is low brow but also has a rep for accuracy. ClusterFreak Oct 2012 #68
The story doesn't make it sound like he slept with her. It makes it sound like he helped cheat her Orangepeel Oct 2012 #102
And that is called Fraud. avaistheone1 Oct 2012 #112
why not both? uncle ray Oct 2012 #116
He may have, but then probably her husband wouldn't be speaking at the republican convention Orangepeel Oct 2012 #120
Love your thinking...Got a chuckle before my first cup of coffee. Thanks. n/t onecent Oct 2012 #121
I'm not planning on this being true, but I can hope. russspeakeasy Oct 2012 #2
I have never heard him deny it. Hmmm. bluerum Oct 2012 #3
Do people really care about that? Remember the Kennedys. Remember Bill Clinton. We have real issues. mucifer Oct 2012 #4
This close to an election MSMITH33156 Oct 2012 #6
Not even close.... Jeff In Milwaukee Oct 2012 #13
But women care. Remember them? Maximumnegro Oct 2012 #69
Please don't make unsupported assumptions about women as a group. Most supported Bill Clinton and spooky3 Oct 2012 #98
Most likely, this is about Romney testifying under oath about Staples RomneyLies Oct 2012 #109
If he in fact engaged in financial wrongdoing/fraud, etc., I think people of both genders spooky3 Oct 2012 #111
Not Republican women. Jeff In Milwaukee Oct 2012 #117
I won't matter, they just want Obama out of office. demosincebirth Oct 2012 #87
Exactly. That was my point Jeff In Milwaukee Oct 2012 #118
Indeed we do but this does go to family values leftofcool Oct 2012 #8
It matters when you portray yourself as above moral ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #12
It doesn't matter at all to people who hold to a double standard Tansy_Gold Oct 2012 #42
All true ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #48
It also matters if you're someone that people are NOT enthused about. progressivebydesign Oct 2012 #52
I'll be honest ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #60
I agree. I know with some of my friends who were leaning toward Rmoney, this just might be the Booster Oct 2012 #91
Yes, but their whole image wasn't based on being... regnaD kciN Oct 2012 #19
The other rumor is involved Mitt pushing for an abortion RomneyLies Oct 2012 #25
The real issue is Mitt getting any closer to the presidency. morningfog Oct 2012 #45
Did he use the "Easy' button? ClusterFreak Oct 2012 #5
rotflmao!!! TDale313 Oct 2012 #21
LMAO BraKez2 Oct 2012 #32
+! nt hockeynut57 Oct 2012 #97
For the win! RedSpartan Oct 2012 #37
You win the thread. Lone_Star_Dem Oct 2012 #43
"That was easy!" StrictlyRockers Oct 2012 #50
With binders fearnobush Oct 2012 #94
+1 ProudProgressiveNow Oct 2012 #95
my ...... madrchsod Oct 2012 #103
Are U serious! sheshe2 Oct 2012 #7
Yes Thats what their going to court to get Thrill Oct 2012 #14
Love it! The Mormon moron. sheshe2 Oct 2012 #28
Did he laugh as he banged her? TheDebbieDee Oct 2012 #9
If true, evangelical women would just hate that. Zen Democrat Oct 2012 #10
Some tidbits here. Historic NY Oct 2012 #11
LAME tarheelsunc Oct 2012 #15
She got pregnant by Mitt Thrill Oct 2012 #30
I bet he didn't nail her -- he merely stapled her... Blue Owl Oct 2012 #16
Not the most reliable source... LP2K12 Oct 2012 #17
Say what you want, but TMZ is good with gossip ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #40
They're very seldom wrong. Lone_Star_Dem Oct 2012 #51
Its hard to be wrong when you don't really say anything. onenote Oct 2012 #78
They didn't day sex. Lone_Star_Dem Oct 2012 #90
She didn't want to be a second wife? Downwinder Oct 2012 #18
Why oh why couldn't he have waited until he got to his own planet, that is what I want to know. avaistheone1 Oct 2012 #49
you know what lafde Oct 2012 #20
Good point, and welcome to DU. hrmjustin Oct 2012 #67
Related to this? elleng Oct 2012 #22
Sounds good to me! n/t sheshe2 Oct 2012 #33
But..But...But.... Big Blue Marble Oct 2012 #23
Please I don't want to see them! sheshe2 Oct 2012 #35
I'd rather see his taxes neverforget Oct 2012 #24
This would be priceless. Is she a Mormon too? Oh, but think about Anne Romney, poor brewens Oct 2012 #26
Please let it be true. JohnnyRingo Oct 2012 #27
I used to call evangelical Republicans "Pastor Ted Republicans" That's too old now. brewens Oct 2012 #34
Throw in a sex tape, abortion and meth and then maybe, just maybe, LuckyStrykes Oct 2012 #29
According to TMZ her husband is Romney's biggest supporter. LisaL Oct 2012 #36
If this happened in Europe... Fred Bastiat Oct 2012 #38
If true, this would be the third time sealed divorce filings factored into an Obama election RomneyLies Oct 2012 #39
If that is the tactics by this administration... Fred Bastiat Oct 2012 #46
Fuck that shit, this is fucking WAR RomneyLies Oct 2012 #47
I'm sure you were never "counted in" ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #53
By any means necessary. nt Comrade_McKenzie Oct 2012 #63
Wow. Gone so fast? Lone_Star_Dem Oct 2012 #65
5 posts isn't long, is it? RomneyLies Oct 2012 #72
He couldn't make it to the sacred 11th post. Lone_Star_Dem Oct 2012 #92
I rarely make it to 10 posts... Johnny Fobus Oct 2012 #110
Hey, "5 posts"....the Administration doesn't have anything to do with this.... OldDem2012 Oct 2012 #84
Said the guy from the party of Swiftboaters. Lex Oct 2012 #107
No. I think it's someone that KNOWs the real Mitt, and is worried he'll win. progressivebydesign Oct 2012 #62
By any legal means necessary! That's why they call it dirt LuckyStrykes Oct 2012 #81
If he pushed the easy button more than once, he was just playing with it n/t lexx21 Oct 2012 #41
first of all BelieveMe3 Oct 2012 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author BraKez2 Oct 2012 #64
The obama story sounds sad Doctor Jack Oct 2012 #55
the Freepers have yet to pick up on this RomneyLies Oct 2012 #56
Any lawyers here? LisaL Oct 2012 #57
Highly likely RomneyLies Oct 2012 #66
Why not the husband instead of the wife? nt chowder66 Oct 2012 #58
Exactly what I was thinking dny121 Oct 2012 #74
Hello Lurker. : ) chowder66 Oct 2012 #75
I had that thought too, and welcome to DU. hrmjustin Oct 2012 #77
but that would not be in family court. Family court involves underthematrix Oct 2012 #96
That might help explain this photo from last night. Bigleaf Oct 2012 #93
Unless the depositions are released, this could backfire... smorkingapple Oct 2012 #59
LOL ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #71
Lame juice alert!! smorkingapple Oct 2012 #99
WTF is right ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #101
Yeah, right. Next! nt. OldDem2012 Oct 2012 #89
Ok let's assume depositions are not released. What impact does this have then? smorkingapple Oct 2012 #100
please don't throw us in the briar patch, brair apple! MjolnirTime Oct 2012 #108
guess what!!! lafde Oct 2012 #61
For What It's Worth... Pilotguy Oct 2012 #70
If they were taxed more they would manage their finances better. LiberalFighter Oct 2012 #86
So she gets a book deal and some revenge out of it? Uh, she ruined her marriage too, if true. libdem4life Oct 2012 #73
This message was self-deleted by its author dny121 Oct 2012 #76
What happens to the magic underwear in this situation? Do you take it off to commit adultery? Iris Oct 2012 #79
y'all banging the CEO's wife in and of itself underthematrix Oct 2012 #80
Going around where? onenote Oct 2012 #82
Yea, I don't think its about an affair. LisaL Oct 2012 #88
Let's not forget the Staples button is 'RED'... GetTheRightVote Oct 2012 #83
I dunno... GoCubsGo Oct 2012 #85
What if KatyAnn Oct 2012 #104
It's not changing my vote Retrograde Oct 2012 #105
Mitt & Tom sitting in a tree... kerouac2 Oct 2012 #106
Yeah but Trump has an ace up his............ ErikJ Oct 2012 #113
I Just Want to Hear Him Deny It - LBJ Brother Buzz Oct 2012 #114
The Obama campaign isn't going to do a thing about this.... Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2012 #115
That may not be it.... Jeff In Milwaukee Oct 2012 #119
Dat Headline TalkingDog Oct 2012 #122
 

avaistheone1

(14,626 posts)
44. TMZ is a television and online gossip rag, but I must say they do get some authentic scoops.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:08 PM
Oct 2012

Wonder if this one is true or false.

ClusterFreak

(3,112 posts)
68. Yep TMZ is low brow but also has a rep for accuracy.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:15 PM
Oct 2012

They know their dirt and rarely if ever mess it up.

Let's see how this plays out.

Orangepeel

(13,980 posts)
102. The story doesn't make it sound like he slept with her. It makes it sound like he helped cheat her
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:49 PM
Oct 2012

out of money she was owed by her ex-husband. The husband is a big Romney supporter.

Orangepeel

(13,980 posts)
120. He may have, but then probably her husband wouldn't be speaking at the republican convention
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 08:36 AM
Oct 2012

I understand that people want it to be a sex scandal rather than a financial scandal because a sex scandal would get press and might have some effect, whereas people are probably going to yawn about one more financial scandal on top of all the other shady dealings mitt has had.

But you never know, I guess. The guy whose wife senator ensign had an affair with continued to support him, I think.

mucifer

(25,667 posts)
4. Do people really care about that? Remember the Kennedys. Remember Bill Clinton. We have real issues.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:55 PM
Oct 2012

MSMITH33156

(879 posts)
6. This close to an election
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:56 PM
Oct 2012

when he is running as head of a very conservative party, absolutely.

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
13. Not even close....
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:58 PM
Oct 2012

Mitt Romney could announce that he is the Child of Satan, and it would not even slightly dent his support. They don't care.

Edit: That's why whatever Ms. Allred has up her sleeve is likely to be an unwanted distraction.

spooky3

(38,634 posts)
98. Please don't make unsupported assumptions about women as a group. Most supported Bill Clinton and
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:42 PM
Oct 2012

saw his personal issues as being irrelevant to his competence for office. I seem to recall lots of men who were upset about them, enough to bring impeachment proceedings.

Besides, women in general do not support Mitt Romney to the extent that men do. Any scandals will likely have more impact on his supporters.

Individuals of both genders will have differing views of these matters.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
109. Most likely, this is about Romney testifying under oath about Staples
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:04 AM
Oct 2012

If so, he told the court one thing and investors another.

And that comes down to a choice. Either he committed perjury when testifying as to the value of Staples in open court or he committed perjury when declaring the value of Staples in SEC filings.

Given the stock history of Staples, it is most likely he lied in court to benefit the husband at the expense of the wife in court proceedings.

Either way, he committed a crime. Women will not forgive him committing a crime to insure his buddy paid less to his ex-wife in a divorce settlement.

spooky3

(38,634 posts)
111. If he in fact engaged in financial wrongdoing/fraud, etc., I think people of both genders
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:45 AM
Oct 2012

will find that somewhat more relevant to the office than the affairs people are speculating about.

However, my guess is that anyone who would find that objectionable already finds a lot of other things objectionable about Romney, that have previously been confirmed.

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
118. Exactly. That was my point
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 08:09 AM
Oct 2012

Republican simply don't give a damn about anything except Mitt is white and he's a Republican. He could be caught red-handed eating the flesh of unborn children and they simply wouldn't care. There is no level of corruption or disturbing personal behavior that could cause them to vote otherwise.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
12. It matters when you portray yourself as above moral
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:57 PM
Oct 2012

And while ultimately people don't care after awhile....two weeks out, it will be a bombshell.

IF true.

Tansy_Gold

(18,167 posts)
42. It doesn't matter at all to people who hold to a double standard
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:08 PM
Oct 2012

And traditionally, the right wing does that quite comfortably. "The Rich Are Different" and all that. No matter what values the 99% are expected to adhere to, the 1% are, well, different.

A double standard of morality goes hand in hand with a belief system that holds economic and social inequality as fair and normal.

Where was the outrage over Ensign and Vitter and Schwarzeneggar? Over Bristol Palin and Track Palin? Over Larry Craig and Paul Babeu?

The right wing holds the little people to those family values, but the 1% are exempted.


progressivebydesign

(19,458 posts)
52. It also matters if you're someone that people are NOT enthused about.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:12 PM
Oct 2012

He's getting some mercy votes, for sure. Something like this could cause many many voters to say "screw it," I KNEW there was something icky about him. For a candidate that is well liked, there is a level of human nature that goes "oh well, no one is perfect," but Mitt doesn't really have that going for him.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
60. I'll be honest
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:14 PM
Oct 2012

I think he's a sociopath, but I didn't see him as an adulterer. Came off to me more like the preacher from "There Will Be Blood", if you ever saw that.

Booster

(10,021 posts)
91. I agree. I know with some of my friends who were leaning toward Rmoney, this just might be the
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:31 PM
Oct 2012

straw that broke the camel's back. They don't really understand what he stands for and they really just don't like him or his wife.

regnaD kciN

(27,640 posts)
19. Yes, but their whole image wasn't based on being...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:58 PM
Oct 2012

...a "wholesome, religious family man." Nor does our base demand it.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
25. The other rumor is involved Mitt pushing for an abortion
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:59 PM
Oct 2012

If both are true, he's toast.

And yes, it demonstrates that we are a vapid, idiotic nation if his lying about important issues is unimportant while banging the wife of a CEO of Staples and pushing for her to abort the resulting pregnancy decides the election.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
45. The real issue is Mitt getting any closer to the presidency.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:09 PM
Oct 2012

Anything like this that can bring him down should be run with.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
51. They're very seldom wrong.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:12 PM
Oct 2012

Very seldom. When they are they admit it and apologize.

They've a heavily connected network of informants.

onenote

(46,142 posts)
78. Its hard to be wrong when you don't really say anything.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:23 PM
Oct 2012

Something "juicy." Well, that covers a hell of a lot, doesn't it. If its anything related to sex I'll eat my hat. People are jumping to conclusions.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
90. They didn't day sex.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:31 PM
Oct 2012

People here assumed that.

The buzz is he lied for his buddy who owns Staples in a divorce. He claimed it was worth less than it was to screw her over.

http://sync.democraticunderground.com/1251170395

Downwinder

(12,869 posts)
18. She didn't want to be a second wife?
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:58 PM
Oct 2012

Each wife gets a place of her own. How many houses does Mitt have?

 

avaistheone1

(14,626 posts)
49. Why oh why couldn't he have waited until he got to his own planet, that is what I want to know.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:11 PM
Oct 2012
 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
26. This would be priceless. Is she a Mormon too? Oh, but think about Anne Romney, poor
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:59 PM
Oct 2012

lady! Gosh, it would be shame if it was true. I mean really a shame!

JohnnyRingo

(20,870 posts)
27. Please let it be true.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:01 PM
Oct 2012

It certainly doesn't sound incredible. After all, he's devoutly religious.

Hahaha

 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
34. I used to call evangelical Republicans "Pastor Ted Republicans" That's too old now.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:04 PM
Oct 2012

The fun of calling my Idaho Republican friends, "Larry Craig Republicans" has lost it's zing. I really need new material and this may be it!

LuckyStrykes

(115 posts)
29. Throw in a sex tape, abortion and meth and then maybe, just maybe,
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:01 PM
Oct 2012

Andrea Mitchell will concede that Willard has issues. Or she just might blame it on Obama.

LisaL

(47,423 posts)
36. According to TMZ her husband is Romney's biggest supporter.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:05 PM
Oct 2012

So, got to be something else connected to the divorce.

 

Fred Bastiat

(5 posts)
38. If this happened in Europe...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:06 PM
Oct 2012

it would be a non issue. But in Puritanical America it is a big deal. Although, if you are JFK or Bill Clinton, you get a pass on banging chicks while you are IN the whitehouse.

It will be fun to see how this plays out considering Gloria's practice is more based on sensationalism than facts and actually getting courts to act on her filings.

Stocking up on popcorn to watch the show play out in the last two weeks!

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
39. If true, this would be the third time sealed divorce filings factored into an Obama election
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:06 PM
Oct 2012

1) Blair Hull's divorce records in the 2004 Democratic Primary for the US Senate Seat.

2) Jack Ryan's divorce records in the 2004 US Senate General Election.

Fucking David Axelrod is a motherfucking genius at this shit.

 

Fred Bastiat

(5 posts)
46. If that is the tactics by this administration...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:09 PM
Oct 2012

to win an election: count me out. That is just pure sleazy.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
72. 5 posts isn't long, is it?
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:20 PM
Oct 2012

And again, I reiterate.

This is fucking WAR. There are no rules of civility in this shit.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
92. He couldn't make it to the sacred 11th post.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:34 PM
Oct 2012

Bet they already have one that high they're having to rest for a bit because their first post was too hot. Typical.

 

Johnny Fobus

(2 posts)
110. I rarely make it to 10 posts...
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 12:20 AM
Oct 2012

but most of my posts are not spammed or deleted. Admin just shuts me down. It is probably because I am overseas using a weird internet connection where my IP address bounces around, I work for the US Dept of State and stationed overseas and we are required to use this connection method. We are not supposed to go on sites like this with this connection, but really fuck it. I am losing my $200k/yr job soon when Romney is elected and I lose my job as my position is not cadre but more politically appointed.

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
84. Hey, "5 posts"....the Administration doesn't have anything to do with this....
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:29 PM
Oct 2012

....but go ahead and count yourself out anyway.

progressivebydesign

(19,458 posts)
62. No. I think it's someone that KNOWs the real Mitt, and is worried he'll win.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:15 PM
Oct 2012

That sounds more plausible. I think we've just skimmed the surface of what's wrong with Mitt. usually these things pop up when someone goes "oh, shit... he should NOT be president" or whatever the office is.

LuckyStrykes

(115 posts)
81. By any legal means necessary! That's why they call it dirt
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:25 PM
Oct 2012

...and in politics, dirt will be dug.

No wonder Trump is coming out with his non-story tomorrow.

BelieveMe3

(134 posts)
54. first of all
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:13 PM
Oct 2012

this assumes anyone other than Ann would have sex with Romney.

But also if he banged his wife, would the guy still be tight with Romney? I think not.

Response to BelieveMe3 (Reply #54)

Doctor Jack

(3,072 posts)
55. The obama story sounds sad
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:13 PM
Oct 2012

It makes you feel bad for the president. The Romney story sounds sleazy as shit. If the Romney campaign thinks that a story about rough times in the Obama marriage due to finical hardship will cancel out a story about Romney having an affair with a friend's wife, they are sorely mistaken.

Then again, who knows if either of those are our "bombshells" tomorrow. I wouldn't be suprised if the Obama story is actually that he first tried a cigarette when he was 14 and the Romney story is that he was delinquent on paying inheritance taxes or something. Time will tell

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
56. the Freepers have yet to pick up on this
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:13 PM
Oct 2012

I wonder how they'll pretzel themselves when it's revealed by Mitt's own mouth that he did the nasty with somebody and it resulted i a nasty divorce.

It will definitely be entertaining.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
66. Highly likely
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:15 PM
Oct 2012

Axelrod has succeeded twice before in these things. Nobody would be making any sort of a deal about it if there was no chance.

dny121

(8 posts)
74. Exactly what I was thinking
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:20 PM
Oct 2012

Why does an affair have to be with the wife? just saying. The gag order could pertain to Romney and the CEO, and that could have caused the divorce.

Hello Everbody, been lurking for a bit.

smorkingapple

(827 posts)
59. Unless the depositions are released, this could backfire...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:14 PM
Oct 2012

We know how Republicans will turn anything negative into a positive. They'll use this to rally around Romney.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
71. LOL
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:19 PM
Oct 2012

.......aaaaaaand like clockwork.

If the depositions aren't released, the story dies quickly.....

....and if they are, you'll be here to cry about that too.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
101. WTF is right
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:47 PM
Oct 2012

I didn't say exactly what you said. You said if the depositions aren't released "They'll rally around Mitt, oh woe...we're screwed...". I say the subject will never be broached by any of them nor the lamestream media.

smorkingapple

(827 posts)
100. Ok let's assume depositions are not released. What impact does this have then?
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:43 PM
Oct 2012

Let's see your analysis...

lafde

(31 posts)
61. guess what!!!
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:14 PM
Oct 2012

He outsource his easy button to china. I think there is something mitt is hiding that why he looked so fucked up last night during the
debate.

Pilotguy

(438 posts)
70. For What It's Worth...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:18 PM
Oct 2012

The link to the Boston Herald article is now dead. Maureen sounds like a wack job.

Staples founder’s ex-wife: I’ll be out on the street
By Margery Eagan
Boston Herald Columnist

Sunday, September 3, 2006

Maureen Sullivan Stemberg, ex-wife of Staples founder, sits in her $5,200 a month, 14th-floor, concierge-at-the-door, elegantly furnished Back Bay apartment and tells you she’s broke. She can’t work. She can’t afford a car, her medications, her rent, even the family springer spaniel, J.J., who she just gave away.

She produces doctors notes detailing medical woes: possible lupus, bouts of pneumonia requiring hospitalizations, a history of cancer, petit mal seizures, plus recommendations for thrice weekly psychotherapy and psychiatry. She says her insurance won’t cover mental health care.

“I’m going to be out on the street,” says Sullivan Stemberg, a tiny, 50-ish woman who alternates between an overanxious recitation of worries, and tears. “I’ve had a change of circumstances.”

And now she wants her ex-husband, Tom Stemberg, whose worth has been estimated at upwards of $150 million, to dramatically increase his support, guarantee health insurance forever and buy her another home in a concierge building. “I’m sicker and thinner every day,” she says. “I’m not asking for anything more than he did for his other wife and girlfriend.”

Tom Stemberg, meanwhile, hailed as an entrepreneurial genius, has just gone through a second divorce and is now living with the mother of his newest child. His paternal shortcomings are evident in a letter he wrote to his then-12-year-old son with Sullivan Stemberg. “It will not be possible for you to be part of our family in the foreseeable future” because of the child’s supposed misbehavior during their divorce, he wrote, blaming the child for taking sides between parents and creating unbearable hassles, such as monthly court appearances.
Enter a political angle: That same child, the same year - 1996 - approached Mitt Romney, an early Staples money man, during a chance vacation meeting. The Wall Street Journal and Sullivan Stemberg herself say her son asked Romney for an appointment to speak about his mother’s problems, financial and otherwise.

Apparently this did not cause Mitt Romney alarm. In April, our would-be president began an op-ed article, also for the Journal, this way: “Only weeks after I was elected governor, Tom Stemberg told me that if you really want to help people, find a way to get everyone health insurance,” Romney wrote. When Romney expressed doubts, he said, Stemberg insisted, “You can find a way.”

One hopes Romney was unaware at press time of the first Mrs. Stemberg’s cries for help.

Now those of you who follow mega-rich divorces may recognize the nasty, sad Stemberg saga. For two decades it’s been detailed in the Herald, the Journal, Forbes magazine, everywhere. Soon after their 1987 divorce, Sullivan Stemberg was worth $5 million, but she spent $4 million contesting her settlement and defending a defamation suit brought by Stemberg and his second wife. At one point Sullivan Stemberg’s lawyer is quoted as saying, “These people acted like adolescents. You want to pick them both up by the ear . . .”

Spokesman George Regan insisted Friday that Tom Stemberg is “a very generous man,” that their son has a “hefty trust fund,” that Stemberg has paid and will continuing paying her insurance - though no word on the house or increased support. He also said Sullivan Stemberg’s characterization of her ex-husband is unfair. “She’s shopped this story all over town,” Regan said. “There’s no story.”

But there is. The story is what a rich, local superstar has done, or not done, for the mother of his son who can’t support herself anymore. It’s hard for mere mortals to relate to this, I know. Still, despite the awfulness on both sides, he should give her the money.

Until then, here’s hoping Romney and other local luminaries skip the Stemberg accolades. The personal is political here, and the personal reeks.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
73. So she gets a book deal and some revenge out of it? Uh, she ruined her marriage too, if true.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:20 PM
Oct 2012

Response to libdem4life (Reply #73)

Iris

(16,872 posts)
79. What happens to the magic underwear in this situation? Do you take it off to commit adultery?
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:24 PM
Oct 2012

underthematrix

(5,811 posts)
80. y'all banging the CEO's wife in and of itself
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:24 PM
Oct 2012

is not a gamechanger. However banging her in front of a group of peeps might make some folks change their vote but it is definitely not a gamechanger. Family court tells me the issue is one of PATERNITY, CUSTODY, or CONSENT. The former two would be a minor game change but the last one would be seismic.

onenote

(46,142 posts)
82. Going around where?
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:28 PM
Oct 2012

All I see is a bunch of DUers jumping to assume that the "juicy" information that is under seal relates to a Romney affair, even though logically that seems rather unlikely since the woman's husband was and continues to be a close Romney friend and big supporter.

LisaL

(47,423 posts)
88. Yea, I don't think its about an affair.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:30 PM
Oct 2012

Gotta be something else connected to that divorce.

GoCubsGo

(34,914 posts)
85. I dunno...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:29 PM
Oct 2012

Mr. Staples CEO was on Chris Hayes' show this past Sunday (or was it the previous Sunday?). It seemed to me like he had no problem with Romney, or his presidential run. If Willard helped ruin his marriage, I don't think he would have been that friendly toward him.

KatyAnn

(66 posts)
104. What if
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:50 PM
Oct 2012

the husband is Mitt's gay lover? That would explain why he is still a Mitt supporter.

Retrograde

(11,419 posts)
105. It's not changing my vote
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:55 PM
Oct 2012

I sent in my vote for Obama last week. I doubt it's going to change anyone else's either at this point.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
115. The Obama campaign isn't going to do a thing about this....
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 02:00 AM
Oct 2012

Colbert's superpac however....

Also, this is just too much for the late night comedians to pass up and you can bet Jon Stewart is thanking the comedy gods.

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
119. That may not be it....
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 08:29 AM
Oct 2012

Romney testified at their divorce, apparently as to the value of Staples stock the the spouse was receiving as part of the settlement. Remember that the Staples "success" story is one of the cornerstones of Mitt's "CEO as President" personna. It could be that there is some embarrassing statements that Mitt made under oath about the management of the company.

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