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LWolf

(46,179 posts)
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:04 AM Apr 2016

Let me be clear: I am not grieving.

The repeated posting of an article suggesting that I am? More bullshit propaganda.

I don't give up, so if there were to be any grieving, it would happen after the convention. At that point, I wouldn't be grieving about Sanders, but about the party and the nation. Sanders has done an incredible job, win or lose, and I won't be grieving.

Denial? I don't think so. But then, I see all those who think Hillary Clinton as somehow liberal or somehow a good idea for the nation as in denial.

Isolation? Sure. I'm a Lone Wolf, and have never pretended any differently, since long before I'd ever heard of Bernie Sanders. That's nothing new, and I gave up grieving and accepted it decades ago.

Anger? You bet. I've been politically angry since the 80s. My anger is not about Sanders, but about the way power brokers manipulate and use the 99% to make sure they remain in power, and about the way some of that 99% allows fear to keep them complicit.

Bargaining? With Hillary Clinton and the Democratic Party? NO FUCKING WAY. This was the opportunity to do so. If and when HRC takes the nomination, I'm done, I'm gone, and y'all can play party politics without me. There are other ways to add my efforts to effect needed change.

Depression? Sure. Politics in the U.S. is mostly depressing. Sanders has brought hope back into the process for the first time in a very long time. Happily, hope will abide. It doesn't just rest with the WH.

Acceptance? of HRC...just no. Of our corrupt system...no. No acceptance here. I'll be adding to all of that young energy that has been fueling political revolution, and helping them where I can.

I "get" that the article refers to the usual process of working through a primary loss. The author of the article doesn't "get" that this isn't a typical primary season, but a turning point, with more on the line than which candidate is nominated. HRC supporters who keep posting this article? I think you, and they, "get" it, but are desperate not to acknowledge it, and are determinedly attempting to shove the election and the voters back in their assigned, approved boxes in the hopes that your candidate can pull off a win in November.

I don't see that happening, but you do what you have to.





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Let me be clear: I am not grieving. (Original Post) LWolf Apr 2016 OP
" I'm done, I'm gone" LexVegas Apr 2016 #1
Bullshit yourself. LWolf Apr 2016 #4
Well said! Katashi_itto Apr 2016 #6
They have eight hidden posts. Always consider the source. IdaBriggs Apr 2016 #49
And you have two hidden posts ... so what does that say about you? n/t SFnomad Apr 2016 #75
.... LexVegas Apr 2016 #5
Another Vichy Dem post Katashi_itto Apr 2016 #9
... LexVegas Apr 2016 #12
You are funny i agree Katashi_itto Apr 2016 #14
Welcome to "full ignore." n/t Admiral Loinpresser Apr 2016 #30
.... LexVegas Apr 2016 #34
Self-indulgent ... salinsky Apr 2016 #2
Bullshit yourself. LWolf Apr 2016 #8
Tell us more about how .... salinsky Apr 2016 #20
If you aren't interested, don't read it. LWolf Apr 2016 #32
Yep. nt LexVegas Apr 2016 #13
Here's a little music for you hobbit709 Apr 2016 #22
That one you replied to isn't worth Aerows Apr 2016 #53
That's why the sentiment of the song fits them perfectly. hobbit709 Apr 2016 #54
I did it anyway - felt good. 840high Apr 2016 #83
Exactly, I mean who cares? brush Apr 2016 #55
K&R down with 3rd way Katashi_itto Apr 2016 #3
They view progressives as weak so they think they can bully us into giving up. Skwmom Apr 2016 #7
Yep. LWolf Apr 2016 #10
I like your attitude Lone Wolf. floppyboo Apr 2016 #71
I get why. LWolf Apr 2016 #73
Sounds like Anger Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #11
As I said, LWolf Apr 2016 #17
Ok Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #18
sure it will but, YOU may not be happy with the way it works out. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #63
I'll take that bet Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #64
snicker snicker now. but, he who laughs last, Laughs LOUDEST Hiraeth Apr 2016 #68
M'kay Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #69
you kill hope and take that away leave only desperation and see what happens. it will not be pretty. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #70
Someone needs a ... salinsky Apr 2016 #24
Fuck it, they'll keep flinging shit and feigning illiteracy and ignorance nc4bo Apr 2016 #31
You are right. And it is a process that goes in stages. The OP will get over losing. nt LexVegas Apr 2016 #25
We've all been there Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #27
De nile DrDan Apr 2016 #15
Yeah, I'll vote down ticket... TCJ70 Apr 2016 #16
tRump thanks you for your support n/t SFnomad Apr 2016 #19
And there it is. LWolf Apr 2016 #26
You can delude yourself all you want, but tRump still thanks you for your support n/t SFnomad Apr 2016 #36
All that matters in an election is the margin between the top two candidates. Zynx Apr 2016 #40
Yep. Everything else is empty posturing Codeine Apr 2016 #47
He does? I didn't get a card or anything... TCJ70 Apr 2016 #41
It's a lazy throwaway line, it doesn't even cross into argument territory. Autumn Apr 2016 #51
Please tll him "u'll welcome" from me. 840high Apr 2016 #84
Down ticket is the way to go if that's all you can, in good conscious nc4bo Apr 2016 #35
Agreed! I've already done my research... TCJ70 Apr 2016 #43
Just about done with being a Democrat Joob Apr 2016 #21
True. nt LWolf Apr 2016 #23
Same here. Been a registered Democrat for 40 years NorthCarolina Apr 2016 #50
Excellent post! Bjornsdotter Apr 2016 #28
Some people truly have difficulty moving through the stages. NCTraveler Apr 2016 #29
Stage 1 - Denial Alfresco Apr 2016 #33
Reading comprehension, honesty, and integrity. nt LWolf Apr 2016 #38
The more y'all try and trivialize Bernie's supporters by crowing that we are in the various djean111 Apr 2016 #45
You mad bro? Eom rjsquirrel Apr 2016 #37
I understand your screen name. LWolf Apr 2016 #42
I will be here for you every step of the way. DemocratSinceBirth Apr 2016 #39
Well, this has been fun, LWolf Apr 2016 #44
Wipe this shit off your shoes and have a great day! nc4bo Apr 2016 #46
I can imagine! Lizzie Poppet Apr 2016 #67
lol LWolf Apr 2016 #72
Kickin' Faux pas Apr 2016 #48
^What he said. Betty Karlson Apr 2016 #52
The stages of grief meme showed up all over the internet, at pretty much the same time. djean111 Apr 2016 #56
KnR HughLefty1 Apr 2016 #57
So vain. nt procon Apr 2016 #58
Just so you know... hootinholler Apr 2016 #59
Yes. LWolf Apr 2016 #62
He will get out before the convention Demsrule86 Apr 2016 #60
I'm grateful to Senator Sanders for the voice, organization & informing so many people. Sunlei Apr 2016 #61
Expect Maddow to do a 30 minute lesson soon on Bernie Bros and the stages of grieving Cheese Sandwich Apr 2016 #65
They don't seem to understand LWolf Apr 2016 #66
Yep, squarely on the "Anger" step Tarc Apr 2016 #74
Blinders LWolf Apr 2016 #76
"My anger is real" Tarc Apr 2016 #77
George Harrison: ++ LWolf Apr 2016 #78
Seems to me that Bernie supporters could form their own party. Lodestar Apr 2016 #79
We could. LWolf Apr 2016 #80
I thought that first but I'm leaning toward denial now Stuckinthebush Apr 2016 #85
Thanks for that, LWolf. I feel the same. The responses bbgrunt Apr 2016 #81
Shameful, but not unexpected. nt LWolf Apr 2016 #82

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
4. Bullshit yourself.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:12 AM
Apr 2016

What, you think you're going to show up and physically enforce my compliance?

You don't have what it takes to verbally bully me into compliance, that's for damned sure.

And you're sure as hell not the god of determining truth.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
49. They have eight hidden posts. Always consider the source.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 09:15 AM
Apr 2016

Some people bring joy everywhere they go. Some people bring joy WHEN they go.

Ignore is your friend - it drives them crazy!

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
8. Bullshit yourself.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:14 AM
Apr 2016

There's nothing "self-indulgent" about making informed choices; choosing what path is worth going down, what path is worth time and energy, and what is worth fighting for.

And arrogant attempts at verbal bullying doesn't change that.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
32. If you aren't interested, don't read it.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:24 AM
Apr 2016

If Clinton supporters didn't want to hear it, perhaps they shouldn't be posting numerous OPs about it. If I weren't reading, ad nauseum, their/your repeated condescending pontifications about my "grief," I wouldn't feel the need to respond.

But please...keep making my point.

floppyboo

(2,461 posts)
71. I like your attitude Lone Wolf.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 12:28 PM
Apr 2016

Thing is, its not 'time' to start looking forward to 2020. For me, the Sanders campaign is all about looking forward and not letting the torch touch the ground. Will the movement be able to radically change the 3rd way that the Democratic Party has become, or will there be a legitimate 3rd party in 2020?

I really don't get why 3rd Wayers aren't tossed from this board for not supporting democrats. They are the real subversives.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
73. I get why.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 06:30 PM
Apr 2016

One only has to look at a site owner's connection to the Clintons.

And you've nailed the choice: will the party move forward with us, or not?

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
17. As I said,
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:16 AM
Apr 2016

for those who have a bit of reading comprehension and intellectual honesty, I sure as hell am angry. I've been politically angry my entire adult life, long before I ever heard of Sanders OR Hillary Clinton, and long before this primary.

That fact isn't a stage of grief about the year 2016 or about Sanders.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
70. you kill hope and take that away leave only desperation and see what happens. it will not be pretty.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 12:22 PM
Apr 2016

so glad I live in the country.

nc4bo

(17,651 posts)
31. Fuck it, they'll keep flinging shit and feigning illiteracy and ignorance
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:24 AM
Apr 2016

No matter how honestly you try to lay it down for them.

Sometimes taking a stand is all you have. If enough people have the courage to do the same......foundations crumble.

It takes courage though and I'm not sure if the spine-gene still exists in our Democratic DNA. It's been slowly but surely bred out.

Stuckinthebush

(10,844 posts)
27. We've all been there
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:23 AM
Apr 2016

Seriously. It's a bitch watching your candidate lose. My gods we have all been there! It works out in the end usually.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
26. And there it is.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:22 AM
Apr 2016

The dishonesty that pushes people right into the arms of 3rd parties. The refusal to acknowledge that:

1. Votes and supports are earned, and if your candidate does not earn votes, those voters are not supporting the opponent.

2. Those Democrats, independents, and 3rd party members who choose not to vote for Clinton in November aren't voting for nor supporting the R; they're voting for a 3rd party or not at all. It's not the same thing, and the dishonesty and disrespect meted out to those who don't fall into the party line suppresses the vote, rather than getting out the vote.

Zynx

(21,328 posts)
40. All that matters in an election is the margin between the top two candidates.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:30 AM
Apr 2016

Sorry, but that's the truth.

Autumn

(45,056 posts)
51. It's a lazy throwaway line, it doesn't even cross into argument territory.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 09:26 AM
Apr 2016

It's like premature...blame

nc4bo

(17,651 posts)
35. Down ticket is the way to go if that's all you can, in good conscious
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:26 AM
Apr 2016

do.

Down ticket is where the REAL action is. Look for, donate to and support Bernie Dems!

Joob

(1,065 posts)
21. Just about done with being a Democrat
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:18 AM
Apr 2016

Just waiting to see if Bernie wins at this point. Feels like this is a cesspool of corruption and because laws made it legal "It's okay" Fuck that, this isn't Democracy and fuck everyone who ignores it because it has Hillary's name written all over it.

Yes, that's my opinion, and you bet it's the same damn opinion of everyone else who's tired of this shit.

Keep denying it, and Watch the Democratic party fall. Keep suppressing it. And watch the Democratic Party fall.
This is supposed to be the party for the people, doesn't work when you ignore them.

 

NorthCarolina

(11,197 posts)
50. Same here. Been a registered Democrat for 40 years
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 09:18 AM
Apr 2016

but will be changing my registration to Independent if Hillary prevails. The corporate interests can continue to own both parties, but I won't be part of it any longer. Democracy in America is a complete sham...it doesn't exist.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
29. Some people truly have difficulty moving through the stages.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:23 AM
Apr 2016

It one of the things many need help with. I have in the past. It seems you have been stuck in the anger stage for decades. Anger is an extremely unhealthy and debilitating emotion.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
45. The more y'all try and trivialize Bernie's supporters by crowing that we are in the various
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:40 AM
Apr 2016

stages of grief - the funnier y'all get. It looks like just what it really is - facile and cheap theater.

And - bye, no actual discussion of issues from you, just silly and boring and monotonous shots. As if no one would really abhor war and fracking and the Third Way assault on Social Security and crushing student debt.

Psst - those are GOP values, not the values of a Democrat. Pass it on!

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
42. I understand your screen name.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 08:32 AM
Apr 2016


It's hard to stay focused enough to not put a message in the box when it says "eom" in the title, to know whether or not a person you've ever met is a "bro," or to actually see/hear what that person said about anger.
 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
67. I can imagine!
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 12:13 PM
Apr 2016

Imagining is what I'll have to do, though: 65 replies as I write this...and I can see 21 of them.

Princess Weathervane's Ostrich Army demands that you haz a sad!

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
56. The stages of grief meme showed up all over the internet, at pretty much the same time.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 09:47 AM
Apr 2016

Bullshit (or brockshit) - paid for by Brock.

This crap, IMO, is the only transparent thing about Hillary's campaign.

HughLefty1

(231 posts)
57. KnR
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 09:49 AM
Apr 2016

Sadly it appears the establishment is likely winning this round which is how they rigged it. They have the power and they really don't like us.

I have no doubt the 99% will have their day and it might be sooner than we all think. I have great confidence in our next generation to not blindly follow the cabal's directives via their bought and paid for MSM like many in our generation were fooled into doing.

hootinholler

(26,449 posts)
59. Just so you know...
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 10:02 AM
Apr 2016

You're not so alone, and this is about where I'm at.

Win lose or draw we need to keep the coalition together.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
62. Yes.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 11:03 AM
Apr 2016

The energy, the bringing people together, the work, it needs to continue.

There is some irony in the fact that, while Sanders encourages us to bring people together, we're not coming together to work for Clinton or her vision or the Democratic Party, but for people. Clinton isn't going to be leading that effort, so if she wins, as is probable (BUT NOT A DONE DEAL), much of the work will happen outside her power structure.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
60. He will get out before the convention
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 10:23 AM
Apr 2016

He can't win...he has lost. Now he just hurts the country by risking a GOP president with his attacks and delegate shenanigans.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
61. I'm grateful to Senator Sanders for the voice, organization & informing so many people.
Fri Apr 22, 2016, 10:51 AM
Apr 2016

Win or lose, people aren't going to shut-up and 'take it' anymore.

 

Cheese Sandwich

(9,086 posts)
65. Expect Maddow to do a 30 minute lesson soon on Bernie Bros and the stages of grieving
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 12:06 PM
Apr 2016

Of course it's condescending claptrap.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
76. Blinders
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 06:37 PM
Apr 2016

Are they intentional, or not?

Are you really so limited that you don't know that all of those "stages" exist outside of the grieving process? Or are you just disingenuous?

Truly, are you trying to suggest that only those who are grieving get angry?

Because, I pointed out in the OP that you are responding to, I've been politically angry a hell of a lot longer than the Sanders campaign; since long before I'd ever heard the man's name.

My anger is real. It's just the source that you and other Clinton supporters can't, or don't want to, acknowledge.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
78. George Harrison: ++
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 06:43 PM
Apr 2016

Which is, of course, beside the point.

The source of the anger hasn't been resolved; that's why it hasn't "passed." And, as mentioned, the 2016 primary race is not that source.

Lodestar

(2,388 posts)
79. Seems to me that Bernie supporters could form their own party.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 06:55 PM
Apr 2016

It would certainly be more reflective of the diversity of people who
share the common knowledge that our system is corrupt, unrepresentative of
the populace, and angry with the status quo.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
80. We could.
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 06:57 PM
Apr 2016

Party or other, if the establishment succeeds in defeating our efforts from within the party, we'll definitely be taking those efforts elsewhere.

Stuckinthebush

(10,844 posts)
85. I thought that first but I'm leaning toward denial now
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 08:41 PM
Apr 2016

Lots of denial and anger. What does Kubler Ross say about moving back and forth? I think that's part of the model. Interesting to observe, no?

bbgrunt

(5,281 posts)
81. Thanks for that, LWolf. I feel the same. The responses
Sat Apr 23, 2016, 07:16 PM
Apr 2016

here from the H crowd are shameful, but they get their marching orders directly from their leader. It's clear that the "big tent" third-way doesn't have any room for true progressives

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