2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumWhile Sanders has some highly questionalbe writings and comments with respect to women.
He isn't out there playing grab ass. Just stop it. Don't use a cause so dear to me in this manner. It is offensive and no different than how many Sanders supporters have been using POC to score political points.
Sexism, misogyny, and overall oppression are serious issues. Don't minimize it. Dear God, the Big Dog is famous for playing grab ass.
Clinton has won the primary. If you want to take issue with Sanders and women please stick to his quotes and rape fantasies. Don't use a perfectly fine picture with Sanders and a model where nothing wrong is happening to score cheap political points. I think it also paints a situation showing where the model tolerated the grab ass. She did not as Sanders clearly wasn't playing grab ass.
Here are some excerpts from Sanders writings in his thirties.
"A man goes home and masturbates his typical fantasy. A woman on her knees, a woman tied up, a woman abused." Bernie Sanders
"A woman enjoys intercourse with her man as she fantasizes being raped by 3 men simultaneously." Bernie Sanders
"Have you ever looked at the Stag, Man, Hero, Tough magazines on the shelf of your local bookstore? Do you know why the newspaper with the articles like 'Girl 12 raped by 14 men' sell so well? To what in us are they appealing?" Bernie Sanders
Please back down from scoring cheap political points with something that did not happen. Sanders supporters have been doing it from the start. We have no need to, it hurts our cause, we won, and it paints the model out to have tolerated being groped by a seventy year old man. She did no such thing.
LexVegas
(6,041 posts)RandySF
(58,661 posts)https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=hillay+clinton+born&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8#q=bernie+sanders+born
And yet they counter with Hillary supporting Goldwater when she was all of 17.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)JudyM
(29,225 posts)context and he has been a strong feminist his whole life. Take any feminists' writings and you will see the same type of characterizations of men's proclivities. It was bold for sanders to step into that and question it.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Even Sanders himself states that. He does not back his own writings here.
Please post the whole article if you think it is taken that far out of context.
JudyM
(29,225 posts)rhetorically. It wasn't a great thing for him to write as it is now being twisted like this, but it was a satirical piece in an alternative publication and that is all.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Post the whole thing if you want to make the case.
JudyM
(29,225 posts)fest with you.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)he sees men and womens role. Yes, he was questioning it. But it is still how he sees the role. Allow us to decide whether we see that as a strength in feminism or not. I personally see a huge ass fail.
JudyM
(29,225 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)JudyM
(29,225 posts)issues. And we'd do well not to get into that.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)gollygee
(22,336 posts)Last edited Tue May 3, 2016, 07:37 PM - Edit history (1)
These quotes have IMO been taken wildly out of context. He wasn't advocating for that - he was pointing it out as a problem caused by our society.
Although I will say that his writing was awkward and weird and hard to interpret so I do understand why people are reading it the way they are. I just feel strongly that they are misreading it.
TheBlackAdder
(28,179 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)He isn't advocating and even calling out, but this is his shared experience. And that gives us an insight how he interprets the roles. It is not the end of the world, nor a huge deal, just a little insight that really affirms perceptions many of us have had over these last 8 months and have had many conversation. Why he does not get the older women votes, the blacks vote, the gay vote. Because he is seeing the world from his male white privileged eyes and is unwilling to listen to us.
zazen
(2,978 posts)And Nikki Craft . . . and so forth. They're calling out the how dominance and submission are reified into what seems like biologically determined "sex" and "sex roles." Are they misogynists too?
gollygee
(22,336 posts)You can comment on something without agreeing with it. You can comment on something and specifically disagree with it, which is what I think is happening here. Commenting on something does not mean that you think it's a good thing.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Why the need for now three other threads?
The original was so stupid it should have ignored or locked.
Matt_in_STL
(1,446 posts)Have someone sit down and read that thread to you because either you didn't read it or are outright lying.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)Quit the crap.
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)The future Mrs. Clinton, then a 24-year-old law student, was working for Marian Wright Edelman, the civil rights activist and prominent advocate for children. Mrs. Edelman had sent her to Alabama to help prove that the Nixon administration was not enforcing the legal ban on granting tax-exempt status to so-called segregation academies, the estimated 200 private academies that sprang up in the South to cater to white families after a 1969 Supreme Court decision forced public schools to integrate.
Her mission was simple: Establish whether the Dothan school was discriminating based on race.
shireen
(8,333 posts)Sanders supporters have been doing it from the start.
They are a disruptive vocal minority. Just as there is a disruptive vocal minority of Clinton supporters doing the same. Both types of people are simply doing it to stir up petty arguments for their entertainment. I've started adding them to my ignore list to filter out the garbage.
Your post is a thoughtful one, and I appreciate it. And for the record, I like and respect Hillary Clinton and if she is the nominee, I will vote for her. I believe the majority of Sanders supporters share those sentiments. But you don't hear them because they're not responding to the garbage posts.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)"They are a disruptive vocal minority. Just as there is a disruptive vocal minority of Clinton supporters doing the same. " Fully agree.
I actually just ended a conversation with one of my favorite Sanders supporters because I think we were getting too personal. They are a poster I have great respect for and want to make sure we have a good relationship after the primaries.
"Just as there is a disruptive vocal minority of Clinton supporters doing the same. " I also understand that I have personally been guilty of this on occasion. Self reflection is extremely important.
Thank you for the thoughtful post.
aikoaiko
(34,165 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)tells us what we think. Not much different from the 30 something self.
KingFlorez
(12,689 posts)Clinton has been attacked relentlessly for month with all sorts of crazy logic, so it's not surprising that the tables have turned.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)at the table. That would be men, cigar, brandy and naked women entertaining them while they talk the serious stuff.
BootinUp
(47,135 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)I just don't get how such a thing could turn anybody on.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)definition of rape is no control. Yet, when a man fantasizes about rape, he is the one with control, and it is the definition of rape. So he is literally fantasizing abusing, hurting and getting off on it. That is what Sanders shared with us. I wonder if he still only sees it from his eyes, or if women have been allowed to be a part of the conversation. We certainly are not allowed in this primary.
We are merely the establishment, or we need to listen and allow Sanders, our Feminist hero, to do our talking for us.
Blue_Adept
(6,397 posts)Then again, having seen some of the amusing sex threads at DU, I wouldn't be surprised if 99% of folks here are for the plain vanilla stuff.
My significant other likes to bring this particular fantasy in from time to time among other fantasies. It changes things up a bit and it works for her completely because she's in an utterly safe environment and retains control because she gives it over.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)On Tue May 3, 2016, 01:19 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
While Sanders has some highly questionalbe writings and comments with respect to women.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511888835
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Taking quotes out of context and claiming Sen Sanders has "rape fantasies" in order to label him as a misogynist or a pervert: "his quotes and rape fantasies"
Also a broad brush attack on other members: "Sanders supporters have been doing it from the start."
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