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YouDig

(2,280 posts)
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:40 AM May 2016

Learn to lose gracefully.

It's kinda sad watching the Bernie supporters lashing out as his campaign comes to a close.

So much of what Bernie campaigned on was worth talking about and preserving. But instead of that, all we hear about is gutter anti-Hillary smears, email conspiracy theories, threats to vote for Trump or third party, and so on. How about ending on a positive note, talking about Bernie's ideas, how to keep them going.

Here's a hint: the way to keep the Bernie revolution going is not by electing Trump.

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Learn to lose gracefully. (Original Post) YouDig May 2016 OP
They haven't had a positive note to sing since February Trenzalore May 2016 #1
It ain't over till it's over Skink May 2016 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel May 2016 #11
Haha griffi94 May 2016 #31
Yeah. RoccoR5955 May 2016 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel May 2016 #52
No one is making you stay and wait. aikoaiko May 2016 #67
Are you suggesting that pouting like a juvenile isn't the most productive use of a person's time? Dem2 May 2016 #3
Problem is, in a Clinton v Trump matchup NorthCarolina May 2016 #4
Oh please! hrmjustin May 2016 #5
That's an easy one. Clinton is a much better than Trump. Just ask Bernie if you're confused. YouDig May 2016 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel May 2016 #9
I did, but they told me they NorthCarolina May 2016 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel May 2016 #16
Some did in the primary, but they still want Hillary to defeat Trump in the general. YouDig May 2016 #20
This is ridiculous. N/t gollygee May 2016 #26
Yeah, Ralph Nader said the same thing about Bush and Gore. Look how that turned out. kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #65
The purists screwed the world Stuckinthebush May 2016 #86
300000 registered florida democrats voted for bush SwampG8r May 2016 #88
Such a privileged though uponit7771 May 2016 #73
Thanks for the hint. Long live the oligarchy. Broward May 2016 #6
the most negative thing about the sanders inchhigh May 2016 #8
The sports analogy is flawed. This is more like chess, where resigning when there are YouDig May 2016 #14
then at best you're hoping for a draw inchhigh May 2016 #53
There's no grace in rolling over AgerolanAmerican May 2016 #12
The caucuses are much worse. It disenfranchises voters and they are a mess. kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #66
Tortise and the hare. JonathanRackham May 2016 #13
Do you know frustrated_lefty May 2016 #15
For example, the term "Hillary-bot". What is that but being a sore loser? YouDig May 2016 #17
Locally, frustrated_lefty May 2016 #22
I'm sure that's true but that's not representative. You think it is appropriate to YouDig May 2016 #23
Because frustrated_lefty May 2016 #29
Hillary has an overwhelming number of delegates griffi94 May 2016 #35
"Rationalizing people who are divorced from reality?" Now who might that describe? kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #68
Probably frustrated_lefty May 2016 #98
Perhaps that term is inappropriate inchhigh May 2016 #59
True and I remind myself to win gracefully. hrmjustin May 2016 #18
Post removed Post removed May 2016 #19
Fascist, really? YouDig May 2016 #21
A neo-con/neo-lib at the very least. frustrated_lefty May 2016 #24
get yourself a calendar GreatGazoo May 2016 #25
Lol. Learn to win gracefully and with some compassion. cali May 2016 #27
Never anything like it? Haven't seen much then. Who's threatening voting third party? YouDig May 2016 #28
I've been here a long time. Just curious, did you support Hillary in 2008? cali May 2016 #30
Obama in 2008. YouDig May 2016 #34
You've been posting that all week CorkySt.Clair May 2016 #82
:::sigh::: I remember the good old days....... Amaril May 2016 #32
Bernie supporters won't elect Trump pinebox May 2016 #33
Those are the only choices: Hillary and Trump. YouDig May 2016 #36
No they actually aren't pinebox May 2016 #37
They will be in a month or so. YouDig May 2016 #38
Nope pinebox May 2016 #39
What, Libertarian? Green? Those people can't win, all they can do is spoil. YouDig May 2016 #40
See you don't get it pinebox May 2016 #41
Then explain. What use is throwing a vote away? YouDig May 2016 #42
You say I'd throw my vote away pinebox May 2016 #49
A vote for anyone but H or T is a throwaway. YouDig May 2016 #51
No it actually isn't pinebox May 2016 #53
Do you think a Green or Libertarian or write-in can possibly win? YouDig May 2016 #55
Do you not care about the Supreme Court? kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #69
Then du will be saying bye bye to you soon realmirage May 2016 #45
Yes the guy with a Smurf account who JUST joined pinebox May 2016 #48
Go ahead and advocate for a non democrat realmirage May 2016 #50
In fact you could be banned for it now realmirage May 2016 #56
Says the guy with 1 post for 3 1/2 years and then 4,358 in the last 6 months. zappaman May 2016 #71
And yet I'll still be here and your pal will be banned for realmirage May 2016 #96
!!!! Contrary1 May 2016 #95
Yucch. RoccoR5955 May 2016 #44
Hillary and her merry band of Third Wayers want cuts to Social Security. SMC22307 May 2016 #94
Hint: The way to keep the revolution going is to vote for progressives. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2016 #46
And what happened to the Nader revolution, the McGovern revolution, the Mondale revolution? kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #72
Electing more centrists/conservatives just because of the label isn't working. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2016 #84
Bwahahahahaha!!! chervilant May 2016 #47
No thanks for the etiquette lesson. nt ladjf May 2016 #57
Will they take the "hint"...? Surya Gayatri May 2016 #58
Yeppers...... kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #74
YouDig—For every war that a President Hillary Clinton would start … will you fight in any of them? CobaltBlue May 2016 #60
Compared to Trump she's a pacifist. YouDig May 2016 #61
Learn to win without fraud whatchamacallit May 2016 #62
Learn to win in primary states as opposed to just caucus states. Caucuses are a joke....... kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #75
Also the Supreme Court - we need to turn that blue. No more Scalias! kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #63
Why doesn't Bernie help get some good Dems in congress? He can lead that way. kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #64
How about modeling what you are talking about, LWolf May 2016 #70
The Sanders supporters can make a difference too. They can help change this country by being kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #81
I believe that we will make a difference, LWolf May 2016 #97
It's kinda sad to see Hillary supporters biting at the bit for it to be over...Not over yet! bkkyosemite May 2016 #76
It is screwing up the race! Making Hillary fight two races (against Sanders and Trump) and weakening kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #85
How about learning to win gracefully? The Velveteen Ocelot May 2016 #77
Most of us are worried and not gloating. We need Bernies help and his supporters help. kerry-is-my-prez May 2016 #87
No reason to quit at beginning of 4th quarter. HooptieWagon May 2016 #78
Pot calling the kettle black... RazBerryBeret May 2016 #79
You're already getting more grace than you deserve. dchill May 2016 #80
Pretty Easy to Understand RazBerryBeret May 2016 #83
WTF!? Phlem May 2016 #89
No, that's not all you hear about. SMC22307 May 2016 #90
Become the change you seek. n/t QC May 2016 #91
Ermaherd!!! Brngrzhi!!!! Codeine May 2016 #92
Hillary's campaign was too dirty to deserve respect now. Vattel May 2016 #93

Trenzalore

(2,331 posts)
1. They haven't had a positive note to sing since February
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:41 AM
May 2016

When Bernie took the campaign negative. Why are they going to sing that tune now.

Response to Skink (Reply #2)

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
43. Yeah.
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:38 AM
May 2016

Facing Manny Rivera after pitching in the first game of a double-header, down by 10 runs nobody out, with bases loaded.
Like Yogi said, "It ain't over till it's over."

Response to RoccoR5955 (Reply #43)

 

NorthCarolina

(11,197 posts)
4. Problem is, in a Clinton v Trump matchup
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:44 AM
May 2016

it's damn near impossible, if not completely impossible, to determine which is the official lesser of two evils.

Response to NorthCarolina (Reply #4)

Response to NorthCarolina (Reply #10)

SwampG8r

(10,287 posts)
88. 300000 registered florida democrats voted for bush
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:51 PM
May 2016

Think about that
No nader needed because the conservative democrats of florida were not ready to continue with what they saw as the clinton legacy candidate
Think about that
Florida.democrats will.either not show.up.or.vote gop to dump a clinton
I am a lifetime.floridian and she will lose florida.in a ge.

inchhigh

(384 posts)
8. the most negative thing about the sanders
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:49 AM
May 2016

campaign is the Hillbots characterization of it. I think he readily admits that winning is a tough sled from here but nobody is conceding because nobody has lost yet. If he was ever going to win it was going to be improbably and at the very end. The game plan has been to keep it close and hope for a hail mary at the end. When the clock expires you can start talking about concession. Before that, it's just poor sportsmanship.

inchhigh

(384 posts)
53. then at best you're hoping for a draw
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:52 AM
May 2016

Because she doesnt have any winning moves left either. Nobody is going to win on pledged delegates alone. By the end of July it will be clear that she is the weaker candidate and super delegates will reassess whether they want to stand behind a choice they made before Bernie even announced he was running or whether they want to back the stronger candidate and actually win in November. There are winning moves left. You know they are out there and you just cant see them.

 

AgerolanAmerican

(1,000 posts)
12. There's no grace in rolling over
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:52 AM
May 2016

This rigged, fraud-ridden primary was an absolute disgrace from top to bottom.

frustrated_lefty

(2,774 posts)
15. Do you know
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:53 AM
May 2016

that the Hillary-bots of today sound just like the idiots who insisted on Kerry in '04? Twenty years of hearing the same things from the same stupid people gets tiresome.

YouDig

(2,280 posts)
23. I'm sure that's true but that's not representative. You think it is appropriate to
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:04 AM
May 2016

call Hillary supporters "bots"? Why is that?

frustrated_lefty

(2,774 posts)
29. Because
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:11 AM
May 2016

entirely too many of them come off as mindless, rationalizing automatons divorced from reality? Not to be a jerk , but you asked.

griffi94

(3,733 posts)
35. Hillary has an overwhelming number of delegates
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:25 AM
May 2016

so much so that Bernie can win the rest of the primaries and caucuses
and still not catch up.

Hillary also has millions more votes than Bernie.

And yet in your view those voters should get Bernie no matter what.

Bernies more robust supporters are fantasizing about a brokered convention
and superdelegates flipping, and as a last ditch effort to keep
the dream alive, a Hillary indictment.

But it's Hillarys supporters who are divorced from reality.

inchhigh

(384 posts)
59. Perhaps that term is inappropriate
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:04 AM
May 2016

Im trying to differentiate between the honest ans sincere Hillary supporters who truly align with her policies and the obvious knee-jerk supporters who want to keep playing the same old "talking points/winning the news cycle" game. That as much as anything is what the American peopke are rejecting in huge numbers. Trump is a moron and dangerous but people support him because they perceive that he doesnt play that game. He just says what he says. What he says is abhorrent but people dont hear the insanity behind his rhetoric, they just hear someone who doesnt sound like a polished and practiced salesman.

They support Bernie for that same sense of honest, straight talk. This election isn't a lefty/righty election. Its an innie/outie election and outie is going to win. I just want that to be our outie, not theirs.

Response to YouDig (Original post)

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
27. Lol. Learn to win gracefully and with some compassion.
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:09 AM
May 2016

I have never seen anything like the sore Hillary winners here. We Obama supporters in 2008, were far more gracious than Hillary supporters.are. Hillary supporter ugly as losers in 2008. They're even worse as winners this year.

Tacky then. Tacky now.

 

CorkySt.Clair

(1,507 posts)
82. You've been posting that all week
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:30 PM
May 2016

It was bullshit on Monday and it's still bullshit on Saturday. Do try and find some new material. Your meme is stale.

Amaril

(1,267 posts)
32. :::sigh::: I remember the good old days.......
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:18 AM
May 2016

......when "democrat" wasn't synonymous with "authoritarian".

When the nominee is officially selected -- you know, after everybody gets to vote like in a real democracy -- then you can put on your nanny hat & police the ranks to make sure everyone falls in line. Until then, free speech.

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
33. Bernie supporters won't elect Trump
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:22 AM
May 2016

and they won't elect Hillary.

Our votes are our own and you want us to fall in line and vote for someone who fundamentally disagrees with us and what many of Bernie supporters stand for? Good luck with that. Millions won't. They will pencil Bernie in or vote Third Party.
What you don't understand is that many Bernie supporters see Hillary as a Republican from a bygone era....Bob Dole, Richard Lugar, whereas they see Trump from the modern age of Ted Cruz and Steve King.

A big bottle of NOPE.

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
39. Nope
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:29 AM
May 2016

My ballot has several people on it Most peoples will, too.
My vote is my own. I will vote who best represents me.

YouDig

(2,280 posts)
40. What, Libertarian? Green? Those people can't win, all they can do is spoil.
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:30 AM
May 2016

It's a wasted vote, same as a non-vote.

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
41. See you don't get it
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:32 AM
May 2016

I will vote who best represents ME and what I stand for and believe. It really is that simple.
I'm an indy liberal and I won't vote against my self interests.
Good day.

YouDig

(2,280 posts)
42. Then explain. What use is throwing a vote away?
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:33 AM
May 2016

Do you disagree that Greens/Libertarians have no hope of winning? Then what's the point? Is there any room for reality in this ideology you have?

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
49. You say I'd throw my vote away
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:45 AM
May 2016

but I wouldn't, I'd be voting for someone who best represents me. Will I go that way, who knows.
You can't expect people to vote for someone who they disagree with. Would you vote for Steve King if he ran? Of course you wouldn't. For many, it's the same exact scenario.

YouDig

(2,280 posts)
51. A vote for anyone but H or T is a throwaway.
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:46 AM
May 2016

Do you really think anyone else can win? What's the point?

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
48. Yes the guy with a Smurf account who JUST joined
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:42 AM
May 2016

is telling me DU will be saying bye bye to me while not realizing that DU has a socialist progressives group. http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1024
Now what?

 

realmirage

(2,117 posts)
96. And yet I'll still be here and your pal will be banned for
Sat May 7, 2016, 05:50 PM
May 2016

Abandoning the Democratic Party.

See you in July, or actually, not

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
94. Hillary and her merry band of Third Wayers want cuts to Social Security.
Sat May 7, 2016, 02:20 PM
May 2016

Hillary won't come out and say it, of course, she'll let surrogates like Mark Warner do it. I don't trust her with the social safety net, the social safety net that helps millions of Americans of ALL stripes. That distrust will factor into my vote. That distrust will factor into whether some even vote at all -- they might be just *that* disgusted by both candidates.

Wag your finger at me, and others, all you want... it has ZERO impact. Trust me (us) on that one.

kerry-is-my-prez

(8,133 posts)
72. And what happened to the Nader revolution, the McGovern revolution, the Mondale revolution?
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:09 PM
May 2016

Or from the right "The Perot revolution?" That's right, they all slipped into oblivion, never to be heard from again. I worked on the McGovern campaign btw.

If Bernie wants to lead a revolution then do it where it can really make a difference. Help get good progressive congress people in. Push Hillary to adopt a more progressive platform. He could really make a difference. I was very much into his message that he had about the 1% - he was a great speaker. I have to admit now that he has turned into "just another politician" who is out to win instead of the brilliant spokesperson that he used to be.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
84. Electing more centrists/conservatives just because of the label isn't working.
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:42 PM
May 2016

Dismissing their collaboration with the Republicans as "just politics" isn't working.

Will the revolution sink into oblivion? Maybe. But, if we don't resist the capitalists, America will.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
47. Bwahahahahaha!!!
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:41 AM
May 2016


Bernie has already "won" on so many levels -- not the least of which is earning the deep regard of millions of people worldwide.

Hi11ary will never have that.

(It ain't over til it's over, but you're going on my IL, so don't bother to reply.)
 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
58. Will they take the "hint"...?
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:03 AM
May 2016
Here's a hint: the way to keep the Bernie revolution going is not by electing Trump.
 

CobaltBlue

(1,122 posts)
60. YouDig—For every war that a President Hillary Clinton would start … will you fight in any of them?
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:20 AM
May 2016

kerry-is-my-prez

(8,133 posts)
64. Why doesn't Bernie help get some good Dems in congress? He can lead that way.
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:33 AM
May 2016

He has a good message. He will either slip into oblivion or become a caricature. He needs to put his energy into things he can accomplish and not look like poor loser.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
70. How about modeling what you are talking about,
Sat May 7, 2016, 12:33 PM
May 2016

and not starting OPs about supporters, rather than candidates?

Hypocrisy abounds.

kerry-is-my-prez

(8,133 posts)
81. The Sanders supporters can make a difference too. They can help change this country by being
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:30 PM
May 2016

strategic. They can either go into to oblivion (like the Mcgovernites - of which I was one) and perhaps even caricatures and not make a difference or put their energy into something that is going to last and be taken seriously.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
97. I believe that we will make a difference,
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:29 PM
May 2016

and it will be a positive difference.

It may not be the difference you are hoping for; we happen to hope for something bigger and better.

kerry-is-my-prez

(8,133 posts)
85. It is screwing up the race! Making Hillary fight two races (against Sanders and Trump) and weakening
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:44 PM
May 2016

The Dem party. Bernie (and his supporters) could raise money for progressive candidates instead of wasting it on a fight he can never win. Right now he (and his supporters) have a choice: fight a fight you can win and really make a difference or keep putting energy into something that cannot be won and slip into oblivion, or worse, be relegated to the political graveyard like Mondale, McGovern, and Dukakis.

That is what made the Dem party go from being liberal to becoming centrist, by the way. This whole Sanders situation could be used for good or for naught. Bernie can become a hero or a zero.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,686 posts)
77. How about learning to win gracefully?
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:19 PM
May 2016

Sore winners who enjoy gloating are a whole lot more annoying than sore losers.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
78. No reason to quit at beginning of 4th quarter.
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:20 PM
May 2016

You Hillarians will just have to accept that Sanders is going to fight until the convention, give everybody the opportunity to vote, and earn as many delegates as he can.

dchill

(38,489 posts)
80. You're already getting more grace than you deserve.
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:27 PM
May 2016

And no one has lost yet. If Hillary were to drop out now, we could smoothly move on to the general.

RazBerryBeret

(3,075 posts)
83. Pretty Easy to Understand
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:31 PM
May 2016

Bernie said, from the beginning that he's taking it all the way to the convention.
All. The. Way. To. The. Convention.

that hasn't changed, he hasn't changed his view. what's the deal ?

Phlem

(6,323 posts)
89. WTF!?
Sat May 7, 2016, 01:54 PM
May 2016

Rolling over for the Thirdway is sooooooooo NOT losing gracefully.

Voting them in for the Third time is losing epically!



SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
90. No, that's not all you hear about.
Sat May 7, 2016, 02:07 PM
May 2016

Or maybe you do -- selective listening on your part.

And since we're lecturing DUers... stop lumping all supporters together as the same. Whether Sanders, Clinton or that fucking asshole Trump, supporters can be peaceful or frothing. Anyone who thinks supporters are all the same-- or believes the spin -- looks pretty damn dumb.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
92. Ermaherd!!! Brngrzhi!!!!
Sat May 7, 2016, 02:13 PM
May 2016

They're reduced to reporting graphics lifted from Free Republic at this point.

It is to laugh.

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