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AzDar

(14,023 posts)
Sat May 7, 2016, 07:53 PM May 2016

Hillary Clinton Email About Gay Parents Should Seriously Trouble Her LGBT Supporters...

From The Link:

In late 2010, the State Department made an exceedingly innocuous change to U.S. passport application forms. Instead of listing “Mother” and “Father,” these forms would now list “Parent 1” and “Parent 2.” The change, the department declared, was “in recognition of different types of families”—namely, families with same-sex parents.

Then-Secretary of State Hillary Clinton was furious. In a recently released email, Clinton proclaimed that she would not defend the decision, “which I disagree w and knew nothing about, in front of this Congress.” She then wrote that she “could live w letting people in nontraditional families choose another descriptor so long as we retained the presumption of mother and father.” Failure to act immediately, she fretted, would lead to “a huge Fox-generated media storm led by Palin et al.” (The department quickly reversed the decision, apparently appeasing the secretary.)

It’s easy to sympathize with Clinton’s concern about a conservative media maelstrom and insist that, at most, Clinton displayed cowardice, not animus. Four years ago, defending LGBT rights was still a somewhat risky proposition; even President Barack Obama was still too timorous to say that gay Americans should be afforded their constitutional right to marry. But if Clinton was only nervous about political blowback, her choice of words is curious. Why note that she “disagree[d]” with the decision? Why say—hesitantly, almost begrudgingly—that she “could live” with letting gay parents use a gender-neutral form?

Clinton’s decidedly non-inclusive language might be forgivable if she had a sterling track record on LGBT rights. She doesn’t. Clinton only came out for marriage equality in 2013, in what the Economist dubbed a “farcically late conversion.” Even then, she seemed to endorse the Dick Cheney position that states should be allowed to decide whether or not to deprive gay people of their fundamental right to wed. A painful interview with NPR’s Terry Gross only aggravated matters, as Clinton tried to claim that a federal gay marriage ban somehow granted states the right to recognize same-sex unions. (The act, signed into law by her husband, actually impeded states’ efforts to legalize gay marriage, which the Supreme Court recognized when striking it down)

She's A Real LEADER, Ain't She?



Full Story @ Link

http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2015/10/01/hillary_clinton_on_gay_rights_a_new_email_is_troubling.html?wpsrc=sh_all_dt_tw_top
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Hillary Clinton Email About Gay Parents Should Seriously Trouble Her LGBT Supporters... (Original Post) AzDar May 2016 OP
Not troubled. nolawarlock May 2016 #1
Of course you're not. You're not troubled by ANY of ... dchill May 2016 #3
You are SO right! If there was video of Hillary strangling a person Chasstev365 May 2016 #27
She could cut the throat of a cuddly kitten on live TV noiretextatique May 2016 #39
Post removed Post removed May 2016 #46
Also a disgusting post. Agschmid May 2016 #54
Sadder...it is true! Eom noiretextatique May 2016 #69
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2016 #45
Somebody will be having a bad afternoon. cloudbase May 2016 #49
The alerter should be banned. Agschmid May 2016 #55
What a disgusting post. Agschmid May 2016 #53
actually, not true. i just find the crap people make up to be repulsive MariaThinks May 2016 #56
Wow you actually determine your vote for nomination off of TimPlo May 2016 #63
i'm the shallowist person on here. MariaThinks May 2016 #68
Well you may not be troubled... ljm2002 May 2016 #43
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2016 #47
AANNNDDDDD... ljm2002 May 2016 #50
As the parent of a Trans Child, you're fucking RIGHT I'm troubled. cherokeeprogressive May 2016 #60
Everything is viewed through the lens of "What's in it for Hillary". BillZBubb May 2016 #2
I'm a lesbian and I'm not troubled. OhZone May 2016 #4
I too am a lesbian and am not troubled justiceischeap May 2016 #66
Ohyeah! Exactly! OhZone May 2016 #67
Her fanclub isn't bothered by her being a neocon. HooptieWagon May 2016 #5
They really don't care what she has done or what she stands for. One day she is against same sex rhett o rick May 2016 #12
Wouldn't it be nice if she could take a principled, moral stand on anything? senz May 2016 #6
Right?! And she never has. She's no LEADER. AzDar May 2016 #8
In a way she is a leader... Fairgo May 2016 #16
True. AzDar May 2016 #22
Sanders never worried about being politically unpopular as long as Vermont kept mikehiggins May 2016 #10
Are you a Bernie supporter? senz May 2016 #13
Of course. Isn't everyone? nt mikehiggins May 2016 #17
Like his principled stand that we didn't need DOMA based on state's rights not equality? mythology May 2016 #18
From The Story: UGH- the cowardice... AzDar May 2016 #7
She didn't "evolve", she triangulated. According to her, she has "evolved" on a lot of issues rhett o rick May 2016 #14
Clinton is worse than Trump KingFlorez May 2016 #9
How can anyone dare to report what Hillary does? senz May 2016 #11
She isn't as bad as Trump or Cruz but she still will continue the distruction of the 99%. rhett o rick May 2016 #15
What is sad is that some love her because she supports social justice. She does not. rhett o rick May 2016 #19
Hillary Clinton is a Born Again Christian Silver_Witch May 2016 #20
nothin' says Christianity like Pol Pot! MisterP May 2016 #36
Hillary slander squad working overtime Dem2 May 2016 #21
Hilarious. Slander= Things she said/did... I guess that makes it easier to lie to yourself. AzDar May 2016 #24
Hey, if it makes u happy Dem2 May 2016 #25
Wouldn't it work ever-so-much better if Dems didn't support such a shifty candidate? AzDar May 2016 #28
Serious case of "Who you going to believe, me or your lying eyes?" libdem4life May 2016 #37
Since when are FACTS slander? senz May 2016 #29
Pivot, triangulate, evolve, rinse, repeat... XemaSab May 2016 #23
Cue the apologists with some lame excuse in 3...2...1... nt silvershadow May 2016 #26
Look No Further... Here they are- defending the indefensible. What's the going price on a 'soul'? AzDar May 2016 #31
Recycling this "controversy" from last fall? LuvLoogie May 2016 #30
Yes, this was debunked last fall but some people don't care SharonClark May 2016 #57
I really don't need anybody straight-'splaining to me what should be "troubling" n/t SFnomad May 2016 #32
None blinder than those who refuse to see... I've heard that somewhere. AzDar May 2016 #33
The BS cheerleaders here at DU are an example of it n/t SFnomad May 2016 #34
You do not speak for all LGBT people noiretextatique May 2016 #40
I never claimed to speak for all LGBT people or any other LGBT people for that matter SFnomad May 2016 #42
She's more afraid of what Palin might say than what actual Democrats who might vote for her would tularetom May 2016 #35
Palin? Yes, I'm sure they are best buds. SharonClark May 2016 #58
Kind of like when Bernie Sanders opposed same-sex marriage in Vermont in 2006. Nye Bevan May 2016 #38
Dishonest...he supported civil unions noiretextatique May 2016 #41
Right, because there was less political blowback from civil unions (nt) Nye Bevan May 2016 #44
Tell me again...how, precisely, is a fundamental right a matter of states rights? msanthrope May 2016 #48
She easily won the Village and Chelsea areas of NY in the primary. Nuff said. Metric System May 2016 #51
Nope not troubled. She's entitled to her beliefs and hasn't any plans puffy socks May 2016 #52
Doesn't bother me anigbrowl May 2016 #59
I don't know, a lot of them, like Ellen, seem to have ignored her whole record and jumped pdsimdars May 2016 #61
I'm more troubled about Bernie voting against to the Amber Alert system n/t Onlooker May 2016 #62
Fear of "backlash" -- the perennial rationalizaion... pat_k May 2016 #64
She's no LEADER... AzDar May 2016 #65

dchill

(38,490 posts)
3. Of course you're not. You're not troubled by ANY of ...
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:01 PM
May 2016

Hillary's blowbackable cornucopia of ethical missteps. Nor will you ever be. It's the way you've chosen.

Chasstev365

(5,191 posts)
27. You are SO right! If there was video of Hillary strangling a person
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:37 PM
May 2016

her supporters would insist that she was just giving the hymlic maneuver. It's a cult for some of these brainwashed fools.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
39. She could cut the throat of a cuddly kitten on live TV
Sun May 8, 2016, 07:30 AM
May 2016

And most of her supporters would not be troubled. Cuddly kitten deserved it!

Response to noiretextatique (Reply #39)

Response to Chasstev365 (Reply #27)

cloudbase

(5,514 posts)
49. Somebody will be having a bad afternoon.
Sun May 8, 2016, 04:56 PM
May 2016

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

That this and the cutting the throat of a kitten posts were allowed to stay by the suckers of Bernie's cock on this site while the response of an animal rights supporter (me), was deleted is bullshit. Anyone who lets either of those stay is also a real fucking cunt.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun May 8, 2016, 03:53 PM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I'm voting to hide this but the alerter needs to be PPR'd.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I was going to vote to hide the post until I saw the alerter's comments, which were incredibly vile, as well as more than a bit resentful over having a previous post hidden.

Boys and girls, never alert in anger.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Well, I guess this makes me a "real fucking c**t" - your words, not mine.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: HRC supporters have written cult and brainwashed comments about Bernie supporters, so let it stand.

But the alerter's comments...you deserve a pizza.
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Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I'm a veterinary technician and an animal rights supporter. Hillary is dangerous for the planet.
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MariaThinks

(2,495 posts)
56. actually, not true. i just find the crap people make up to be repulsive
Sun May 8, 2016, 05:30 PM
May 2016

and when Bernie supporters starting attacking her voice and the way she spoke - I think that lost my support for Bernie permanently.

I actually was 50/50 at one point. good job making me 100 percent hillary

 

TimPlo

(443 posts)
63. Wow you actually determine your vote for nomination off of
Sun May 8, 2016, 06:36 PM
May 2016

What people say? Man I base my vote on position I feel candidate represents. I really think you should also letting random people say stuff effect your vote(when not the people you are voting on) effect your vote is kinda shallow and shows a lack of caring about how someone would run the country.

Response to ljm2002 (Reply #43)

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
50. AANNNDDDDD...
Sun May 8, 2016, 04:59 PM
May 2016

...another short-timer who is wasting no time to post snarky one-liners in support of Hillary, or more accurately, against Bernie.

Enjoy DU, it sure ain't what it used to be.

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
2. Everything is viewed through the lens of "What's in it for Hillary".
Sat May 7, 2016, 07:59 PM
May 2016

That certainly does not a leader make. At least not the type of leader anyone should trust.

OhZone

(3,212 posts)
4. I'm a lesbian and I'm not troubled.
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:01 PM
May 2016

I understand the politics back just a few years. Luckily, she can evolve. She supports us.

I'm more troubled about my personal life and failings in love.

But that's not your problem.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
66. I too am a lesbian and am not troubled
Sun May 8, 2016, 06:47 PM
May 2016

It seems to me she was more concerned about how republicans would spin the change than the actual change itself.

Besides, I think Dan Savage did a pretty good job on explaining how the LGBTQ community should behave towards politicians that were late to "evolve."

He noted: “A lot of progressives are slamming Hillary for her past position on marriage equality and the rather noxious comments she made back then.”

Noting that equal rights champion Barack Obama had a very similar historic record to Clinton before his own evolution, Savage continued: “Here’s what I have to say to those who can’t understand why any gay person could possibly support Hillary over Bernie – or, like me, support Hillary and/or Bernie – when Bernie Always Had the Right Position On Marriage Equality and Hillary Used To Have the Wrong Position on Marriage Equality.

“We’re taking motherf**king yes for a motherf**king answer.”


http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/02/23/dan-savage-slams-fking-moronic-complaints-that-clinton-didnt-back-gay-rights-fast-enough/
 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
5. Her fanclub isn't bothered by her being a neocon.
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:08 PM
May 2016

I doubt her history of homophobia bothers them either.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
12. They really don't care what she has done or what she stands for. One day she is against same sex
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:22 PM
May 2016

marriage and the next day she favors it and they cheer. Their attachment is Authoritarian Adulation. They want a tough authoritarian leader. What's ironic is that she is only tough on the 99% as she supports tough drug laws and strong sentences. She wasn't tough on Bush when we needed her to be.

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
6. Wouldn't it be nice if she could take a principled, moral stand on anything?
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:08 PM
May 2016

If she could stick her neck out for those who need support and protection -- even when she fears it may be politically unpopular?

Bernie has done it his entire life.

mikehiggins

(5,614 posts)
10. Sanders never worried about being politically unpopular as long as Vermont kept
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:15 PM
May 2016

sending him back to Washington.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
18. Like his principled stand that we didn't need DOMA based on state's rights not equality?
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:46 PM
May 2016

Or his principled stand that same sex marriage wasn't worth the fight in Vermont when Democratic leaders were calling for same sex marriage?

Very few political leaders have displayed much courage or principled stands on same sex marriage. It's sad, but true. We've come a very long way in a short time from when putting a ban on same sex marriage up for vote was considered a great way to drive Republican/conservative turnout to now where virtually every Democratic/progressive official and even a few Republicans have come out for same sex marriage.

 

AzDar

(14,023 posts)
7. From The Story: UGH- the cowardice...
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:09 PM
May 2016
It’s easy to sympathize with Clinton’s concern about a conservative media maelstrom and insist that, at most, Clinton displayed cowardice, not animus. Four years ago, defending LGBT rights was still a somewhat risky proposition; even President Barack Obama was still too timorous to say that gay Americans should be afforded their constitutional right to marry. But if Clinton was only nervous about political blowback, her choice of words is curious. Why note that she “disagree” with the decision? Why say—hesitantly, almost begrudgingly—that she “could live” with letting gay parents use a gender-neutral form?


Personally, I've never believed she "evolved" on an issue she declared 'sacred' and a 'fundamental, bedrock principal'... this just furthers that belief. Like Obama has said, she'll say anything to anyone to get elected... will stand for NOTHING.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
14. She didn't "evolve", she triangulated. According to her, she has "evolved" on a lot of issues
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:25 PM
May 2016

this campaign season. She knows her followers don't care what her position is so she has "evolved" to the Left. And she will quickly "evolve" back to the right if elected.

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
11. How can anyone dare to report what Hillary does?
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:18 PM
May 2016

Last edited Sat May 7, 2016, 09:45 PM - Edit history (1)

We don't talk about those things.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
15. She isn't as bad as Trump or Cruz but she still will continue the distruction of the 99%.
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:26 PM
May 2016

She will tax the 99% and cut regulations for Goldman-Sachs.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
19. What is sad is that some love her because she supports social justice. She does not.
Sat May 7, 2016, 08:48 PM
May 2016

She pretends to.

 

Silver_Witch

(1,820 posts)
20. Hillary Clinton is a Born Again Christian
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:17 PM
May 2016

Her real belief will never be known. I fear her just as I fear any Devote Christian who will "love me to death". I trust her no further than I can any other rabid christian that believes they are special cause Jesus loves them.

Through all of her years in Washington, Clinton has been an active participant in conservative Bible study and prayer circles that are part of a secretive Capitol Hill group known as the Fellowship. Her collaborations with right-wingers such as Senator Sam Brownback (R-Kan.) and former Senator Rick Santorum (R-Pa.) grow in part from that connection. "A lot of evangelicals would see that as just cynical exploitation," says the Reverend Rob Schenck, a former leader of the militant anti-abortion group Operation Rescue who now ministers to decision makers in Washington. "I don't....there is a real good that is infected in people when they are around Jesus talk, and open Bibles, and prayer."

http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2007/09/hillarys-prayer-hillary-clintons-religion-and-politics

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
36. nothin' says Christianity like Pol Pot!
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:28 PM
May 2016

or that Moonie Alvarez Martinez, or Vides "cassocks don't stop bullets" Casanova

 

AzDar

(14,023 posts)
24. Hilarious. Slander= Things she said/did... I guess that makes it easier to lie to yourself.
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:28 PM
May 2016



Others KNOW better, though...
 

AzDar

(14,023 posts)
28. Wouldn't it work ever-so-much better if Dems didn't support such a shifty candidate?
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:38 PM
May 2016



'Cause I'm at a loss as to how y'all CAN...
 

senz

(11,945 posts)
29. Since when are FACTS slander?
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:43 PM
May 2016

You think we should all cover up for her?

Is that how to install someone in the presidency? Hide what they do?

 

AzDar

(14,023 posts)
31. Look No Further... Here they are- defending the indefensible. What's the going price on a 'soul'?
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:10 PM
May 2016

LuvLoogie

(7,003 posts)
30. Recycling this "controversy" from last fall?
Sat May 7, 2016, 09:51 PM
May 2016

Didn't work then, and won't work now. She offered alternative wording that included gender neutral options but also allowed for those who wished to identify as mother or father.

An examination of the forms, and the transitions, they took, illustrates this very point. But rather than feed the anti-Hillary trolls, I'll be happy that she is focused and on a winning tack toward the nomination

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
40. You do not speak for all LGBT people
Sun May 8, 2016, 07:34 AM
May 2016

I find this another troubling issue about her. And why do you assume the poster is not gay?

 

SFnomad

(3,473 posts)
42. I never claimed to speak for all LGBT people or any other LGBT people for that matter
Sun May 8, 2016, 10:18 AM
May 2016

You either need some better reading comprehension skills or need to slow down before you post. You'll notice I said "I" and "to me" in my post ... I didn't say "we" and "to us". You do understand the difference, don't you?

As to my assuming the poster wasn't gay ... I don't have to explain myself to you, but I just didn't believe the poster was. And since the poster replied to me and didn't say anything about it (and I'm sure the poster would have), I believe I was correct.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
35. She's more afraid of what Palin might say than what actual Democrats who might vote for her would
Sat May 7, 2016, 10:43 PM
May 2016

That should give you some hint as to who she listens to.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
38. Kind of like when Bernie Sanders opposed same-sex marriage in Vermont in 2006.
Sat May 7, 2016, 11:33 PM
May 2016
http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2015/10/05/bernie_sanders_on_marriage_equality_he_s_no_longtime_champion.html

We all know that he supported same-sex marriage in reality, and was only opposing it at this time because he was worried about the political blowback. And as political conditions have changed, he has, of course, evolved from this position.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
41. Dishonest...he supported civil unions
Sun May 8, 2016, 07:39 AM
May 2016

And considered marriage a state issue. He never said marriage is between a man and a woman, like Clinton. She supported civil unions as well, to be fair, but she loves to pander to conservatives, her natural affinity group.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
48. Tell me again...how, precisely, is a fundamental right a matter of states rights?
Sun May 8, 2016, 04:40 PM
May 2016

I'm asking because I can't wait to hear how the Loving decision is wrong. Lawrence too, for that matter.y

 

puffy socks

(1,473 posts)
52. Nope not troubled. She's entitled to her beliefs and hasn't any plans
Sun May 8, 2016, 05:08 PM
May 2016

to try and undo any rights for the LGBT community.

 

anigbrowl

(13,889 posts)
59. Doesn't bother me
Sun May 8, 2016, 06:29 PM
May 2016

The existence of other family structures doesn't alter the fact that mother & father are by far the most common pairing and I have no trouble with that being the default as long as there's provision for alternatives.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
61. I don't know, a lot of them, like Ellen, seem to have ignored her whole record and jumped
Sun May 8, 2016, 06:31 PM
May 2016

hook, line and sinker onto her parade.

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
64. Fear of "backlash" -- the perennial rationalizaion...
Sun May 8, 2016, 06:40 PM
May 2016

... for refusing to demonstrate the courage of their convictions.

Her objection to a necessary, and right, change in the rules is depressing, but it's par for the course for a candidate who's unofficial slogan is "No We Can't."

The Democratic "strategy" of pre-emptive surrender has done more to damage our party than anything the Republican noise machine could do to us. Their repeated demonstrations of weakness sows hopelessness and cynicism. It's the reason Democrats have been losing ground. The injuries are self-inflicted.

When will they realize that standing up for principle, win or lose, is the only way they can redeem themselves and inspire voters to come out and vote for them?

Even Bill Clinton "got it" once upon a time when he said: "When people feel uncertain, they'd rather have somebody who's strong and wrong than somebody, who's weak and right."

When will they realize that "strong and right" is the only way to win the day over "strong and wrong"?

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