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Skwmom

(12,685 posts)
Fri May 13, 2016, 10:04 PM May 2016

The use of Lolita/Orgy to describe what occurred on that island is wrong and extremely offensive.

Last edited Sat May 14, 2016, 02:36 AM - Edit history (1)

When old men sexually exploit an young underage girl it is wrong to refer to the girl as a Lolita (it inappropriately tries to shift the blame to the underage victim).

Definition of Lolita : a precociously seductive girl

It is also wrong to refer to what occurred as an orgy because when most people hear the word orgy they think of consenting adults, not old men sexually exploiting underage girls.

If that was your daughter, granddaughter or sister would you want her referred to as a Lolita who engaged in island orgies?

Note: I mentioned no names here. This is not about who was or was not there, it is about not using this terminology. And words used to describe a fact CAN change a person's view of those facts. Words matter!


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The use of Lolita/Orgy to describe what occurred on that island is wrong and extremely offensive. (Original Post) Skwmom May 2016 OP
The same thing happened to Lewinski, she became the seducer, the equal to a President, her name even braddy May 2016 #1
Bill Clinton was MUCH older and had all the power. It was wrong to attack her in such a manner. Skwmom May 2016 #2
Yep and to this day she is seen as almost the cause, and the media calls it an affair, when braddy May 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author TM99 May 2016 #3
The acts are wrong but it is ALSO wrong to try to paint the victims as equally responsible of even Skwmom May 2016 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author TM99 May 2016 #8
oddly enough you ignore the context and the charges against certain people that are false nt msongs May 2016 #5
I didn't mention any parties. Are you saying Epstein is innocent? Skwmom May 2016 #7
I don't think you are correct egalitegirl May 2016 #9
A lot of people don't get that. It was not her actions but how he interpreted them and then Luminous Animal May 2016 #11
There is no denying that Clinton travelled on that plane with underaged women who Luminous Animal May 2016 #10
I don't doubt it. 840high May 2016 #12
It depends on what your definition of "Lolita/Orgy" is, mhatrw May 2016 #13
All I know is this is the kind of sordid business we knew we would have to deal with nominating one One Black Sheep May 2016 #14
Heres da t'ing as they say on st thomas SwampG8r May 2016 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author cyberpj May 2016 #16
Words matter. Skwmom May 2016 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author cyberpj May 2016 #19
How is this about the Democratic primaries? MineralMan May 2016 #17
 

braddy

(3,585 posts)
1. The same thing happened to Lewinski, she became the seducer, the equal to a President, her name even
Fri May 13, 2016, 10:11 PM
May 2016

became the sex act, this time it is "Lolitas" and orgies, almost like a party of some sort.

If this was some pervert ring down by the border, it would sure not be given this treatment.

Skwmom

(12,685 posts)
2. Bill Clinton was MUCH older and had all the power. It was wrong to attack her in such a manner.
Fri May 13, 2016, 10:15 PM
May 2016
 

braddy

(3,585 posts)
4. Yep and to this day she is seen as almost the cause, and the media calls it an affair, when
Fri May 13, 2016, 10:29 PM
May 2016

in reality she never even saw him naked, she was just used to service him.

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Skwmom

(12,685 posts)
6. The acts are wrong but it is ALSO wrong to try to paint the victims as equally responsible of even
Fri May 13, 2016, 10:36 PM
May 2016

the ones who were seductive and promiscuous and the aggressors.

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egalitegirl

(362 posts)
9. I don't think you are correct
Fri May 13, 2016, 11:34 PM
May 2016

Lolita refers to the attitude towards the girls in the minds of the criminals. The origin of the term is the title of Nabokov's book. When the plane is called Lolita Express, the object of your sentence happen to be the perpetrators, not the victim.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
11. A lot of people don't get that. It was not her actions but how he interpreted them and then
Fri May 13, 2016, 11:48 PM
May 2016

preyed on her vulnerability. The entire book belies her culpability and exposes him for the predator that he is.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
10. There is no denying that Clinton travelled on that plane with underaged women who
Fri May 13, 2016, 11:43 PM
May 2016

were there sole-y for sexual exploitation by a pedophile.

One Black Sheep

(458 posts)
14. All I know is this is the kind of sordid business we knew we would have to deal with nominating one
Sat May 14, 2016, 02:55 AM
May 2016

of the Clintons, Bill's history of womanizing is well known, and yet another reason this nominee is a huge mistake, because of all the baggage. Jesus Christ, it probably can get worse too.

SwampG8r

(10,287 posts)
15. Heres da t'ing as they say on st thomas
Sat May 14, 2016, 08:34 AM
May 2016

Every adult i talked to while.living on st thomas knew what was going on on little st james island
It aint no secret there
They just look the other way because of the wealth involved

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