2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumHelpful Critiques of Hillary Clinton’s Mouth Shape From Men Watching the Debate
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One would think that people would be pleased to see Clintons good-natured smileshes weathered a constant battering of smile, sweeties from the likes of Reince Priebus, Joe Scarborough, and millions of Twitter randos since the start of this campaign cycle. And yet, Clinton did not satisfy all! Some pundits were repulsed by the pleasant, relaxed shape she made with her mouth on Monday nightnot a good sign for an aspiring president. (Trump sniffled through the entire thing and kept his mouth in a stiff duck lip, but whos counting?) Heres some much-needed advice for Clinton from people who know what presidential mouths and shoulders and faces should do.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2016/09/27/hillary_clinton_s_mouth_shape_at_debate_on_trial_from_men_with_opinions.html
DetlefK
(16,423 posts)Sunlei
(22,651 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)yardwork
(61,622 posts)No matter what we do, we will be criticized. Too dressed up or not dressed up enough. "Was something bothering you during the meeting? You looked upset." (Translation - smile more when men are talking.)
Male managers often speak of professional women in demeaning terms - "She's so sweet" is praise for women who smile a lot and seem traditionally feminine. Eye rolls and less complimentary comments about others who are "too harsh." Meanwhile, men are not held to these ridiculous standards.
It's better than it used to be. And Michelle Obama created a powerful reminder - When they go low, we go high.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)for being black on top of that. Sucks big time!
hlthe2b
(102,283 posts)I've ceased talking about what I experienced at the hands of supposed "professional" male colleagues, supervisors, managers. It is just too painful and blood pressure raising. That is why I feel a bit of catharsis via Hillary and Michelle.
alcibiades_mystery
(36,437 posts)I can't imagine how any grown ass man still doesn't know that commenting on the smile or lack thereof of a grown ass woman is a third rail operation. These are journalists and pundits that feel it's OK to critique Clinton's smiles? Did they ever mention fuck all about John McCain's facial expressions?
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)I mean, if they're only "meaningful" commentary is direction on how to smile--that says a lot about her performance and their lack of confidence when it comes t grading a strong performance by, *gasp*, a female.
Sanity Claws
(21,849 posts)I looked through the linked article and see it was men making all those "helpful" comments.
I am so sick of cavemen telling women how we should look, behave, etc.
SamKnause
(13,107 posts)It looks like a turkey's asshole turned inside out.
He has gained weight.
His suits never fit and look cheap and tacky !!!
His hair is a joke.
His skin color is a joke.
His vocabulary is extremely limited.
If his lips are moving he is lying.
sinkingfeeling
(51,457 posts)turnoff to me. His orange skin, with white eye mask and Bobby pinned hair just completes the 'ugh' factor.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)nolabear
(41,984 posts)mercuryblues
(14,532 posts)I am so glad I was not taking a sip of coffee when I read that.