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AllTooEasy

(1,261 posts)
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:18 AM Oct 2016

I'm not happy with Hillary's speeches again


I'm voting for Clinton and straight ticket Dems. My vote has always been a Pro-Hillary vote, regardless of Trump's sickening behavior. Please take everything I say as an attempt to help.

Hillary, her campaign surrogates, and DUers keep harping on how the Access Hollywood tapes are so disturbing to women. OK, I get it, but what about married men?! She polling lower with men overall, probably married men too. She needs to emphasize how Donald went behind another man's back and tried to aggressively seduce(sexually assault) his wife. Hillary has an opportunity to reverse her deficit with a large demographic, and her campaign is too clueless to take advantage of it.

Men of all demographics abide by something called "The Guy Rules". Violation of these unwritten rules could result in penalties that range from "being ostracized from one's group of male friends" to "Instant Death". The penalty for moving on someone's wife "like a bitch" can be found in the Royal Beat Down Or Worse chapter of the Guy Rules manual. Trump even bragged apathetically about violating this rule with other married women. Hillary and her campaign could simply say "How can you trust a man with your country, if you can't trust him around your wife?". I'm sure her 6 and 7 figure speech writers can word-smith that statement better.

in addition, can they also start talking about the Howard Stern tapes...which are WORSE?! He called his daughter a piece of ass! DAMN!

C'mon Clinton campaign, screw the knife in him!!!
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I'm not happy with Hillary's speeches again (Original Post) AllTooEasy Oct 2016 OP
Your concern is noted. stopbush Oct 2016 #1
This is all she needs to say: "my opponent has made it very clear who he is and what he's about" Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #2
+ 1,000,000 ... the high road (n/t) Auggie Oct 2016 #4
Decent men don't need an explanation. CentralMass Oct 2016 #3
As the kids say, "Yeah, A-Schwarzenegger Oct 2016 #5
no ibegurpard Oct 2016 #6
I don't know any men that think what he said is okay jberryhill Oct 2016 #7
Same here! Not even in actual locker rooms! Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2016 #43
Decent men should already be on board. bravenak Oct 2016 #8
Thanks for joining DU to tell us you don't like Clinton Democat Oct 2016 #9
S/he has been a member since 2008 lillypaddle Oct 2016 #18
We support Democrats on DU... Demsrule86 Oct 2016 #29
Correct. lillypaddle Oct 2016 #34
"The Guy Rules"? Hillary isn't a guy. She's already doing everything exactly right... Hekate Oct 2016 #10
+1000 sarae Oct 2016 #23
He really seemed like the seething alcoholic abusive stepdad from central casting Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #31
You have a good idea here UCmeNdc Oct 2016 #11
Post removed Post removed Oct 2016 #12
My level 7 elven magic user has him beaten. Codeine Oct 2016 #13
Apparently his protective spell wasn't all that, anyway pinboy3niner Oct 2016 #14
whatever happened to him wanting to blink his own spawn? pansypoo53219 Oct 2016 #15
So you want her to emphasize Trump's violation of men's property. BainsBane Oct 2016 #16
Where did the OP say that how he treated women wasn't a problem? Stubborn Oct 2016 #24
"You people" mcar Oct 2016 #53
Everyone that disagrees with the OP. Stubborn Oct 2016 #55
I agree. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #30
It's ALL bad. It's not that it's the "first or primary thing". It's that it's one of many things. Stubborn Oct 2016 #42
Hillary is doing just fine. Warren DeMontague Oct 2016 #46
Exactly. Nt. BainsBane Oct 2016 #47
I agree. I don't think the OP's strategy is a good one. Stubborn Oct 2016 #56
you seem very concerned. stonecutter357 Oct 2016 #17
lolz obamanut2012 Oct 2016 #19
This doesn't concern me at all. She'd doing fine. Also ... NurseJackie Oct 2016 #20
Such concern for a candidate that now has above a 90% chance of winning. Demsrule86 Oct 2016 #21
This is just sexist jcgoldie Oct 2016 #22
What? Stubborn Oct 2016 #25
It can be frustrating when our narratives are revealed. LanternWaste Oct 2016 #65
yup obamanut2012 Oct 2016 #26
Here let me mansplain it to ya...... JTFrog Oct 2016 #44
I sorta agree metroins Oct 2016 #28
Joe Biden is certainly a voice for the "predominantly white male vote." Always has been. Hekate Oct 2016 #61
Giving you... Mike Nelson Oct 2016 #32
They go low, we go high. emulatorloo Oct 2016 #33
As a man Soxfan58 Oct 2016 #35
I don't agree with that assessment. Adrahil Oct 2016 #36
"her campaign is too clueless to take advantage of it. " NCTraveler Oct 2016 #37
I think there's a better argument targeted at men democrattotheend Oct 2016 #39
When you grab the key points, Clinton surrogates "harping", "Guy Rules", JTFrog Oct 2016 #45
Yes indeed Hekate Oct 2016 #63
Women make up 53% of the electorate.... cynatnite Oct 2016 #40
It would be idiotic to "screw the knife in him" with a month to go before the election. GoCubsGo Oct 2016 #48
Nope, she doesn't need to get into details of his need to make cucks of business partners... bettyellen Oct 2016 #49
You seem concerned. Please feel free to air more of your concerns and enjoy your stay. nt msanthrope Oct 2016 #50
Any man stupid enough to need a presidential candidate to explain why Trump was wrong whatthehey Oct 2016 #51
No reason to pile-on your opponent when they are busy going down in flames. n/t Lil Missy Oct 2016 #52
Maybe you should appoint yourself the campaign's Bro Code expert. Seeing as how her people are "too Squinch Oct 2016 #54
Well you've proved one thing... Blue Idaho Oct 2016 #57
HARPING? They keep HARPING? "Guy rules?" Are you kidding me? MADem Oct 2016 #58
So concerned. So very concerned. "The Guy Rules" do not apply to women. HRC is a woman. Hekate Oct 2016 #59
The bro code is asinine, frat-boy espoused bullshit VulgarPoet Oct 2016 #60
Hillary is talking about issues, not some silly "The Guy Rules." cwydro Oct 2016 #62
Contact HRC's campaign HQ immediately and alert those clueless dolts about this concern. VOX Oct 2016 #64
Dec 1969 #

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
2. This is all she needs to say: "my opponent has made it very clear who he is and what he's about"
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:21 AM
Oct 2016

"However, at least one candidate in this race should remain focused on the things that matter, namely leadership and policy in 21st century America. So that's what I'm going to talk about"

ibegurpard

(17,081 posts)
6. no
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:28 AM
Oct 2016

Decent men will be horrified at his cavalier attitude towards violating another human being. Women are not property.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,539 posts)
43. Same here! Not even in actual locker rooms!
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 10:32 AM
Oct 2016

I recall boys after gym class making remarks about girls supposedly exposing themselves while wearing loose-fitting shorts and underwear, but nothing about groping them uninvited!

lillypaddle

(9,606 posts)
34. Correct.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 08:33 AM
Oct 2016

Maybe I read the post wrong. Didn't seem that the poster did not support Hillary. Expressed concern, which a number of people do. The comment to the post was that s/he had joined to criticize Hillary - I pointed out that s/he joined in 2008.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
10. "The Guy Rules"? Hillary isn't a guy. She's already doing everything exactly right...
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 04:03 AM
Oct 2016

The oaf was literally stalking her around the stage -- and she ignored his behavior. She ignored him. All he could do was snort and sniff and grunt and interrupt and lurch around looking enraged. I thought he might actually take a swing at her -- and the body-language message he was trying so pathetically to send was exactly that.

She ignored him.

All along Trump has tried to do to Hillary exactly what he did to his nearly 20 GOP opponents: get inside her head and invite her down into the gutter with him. With Hillary, he has 100% failed.

He opened the evening with the single filthiest move I have ever seen in my life -- and she ignored him. She told him to run his campaign however he wants to, period full stop no further comment on that ever.

Does it look like Trump has gotten inside her head? Does it look like she joined him in the gutter?

No.

So your concern is duly noted, and I suggest you take a break from worrying and GOTV.

PS: Her rally Monday had 18,500 people according to the Secret Service. All genders. Lotta men.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
31. He really seemed like the seething alcoholic abusive stepdad from central casting
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:47 AM
Oct 2016

Clenched teeth, Barely contained raaaaaaaaage, Like the fucking dude from "Dolores Claiborne". He was creepy as all get-out.

And you're right, it just rolled right off her. Half that stage was cheap circus tobacco juice and sawdust, the other half full-on presidential.

UCmeNdc

(9,655 posts)
11. You have a good idea here
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 04:12 AM
Oct 2016

Many men do not appriciate the “other guy“ hitting on their wife or girlfriend。 If Hillary's campaign can label Donald Trump as that “other guy“ they may switch some of the white male vote。 Clinton's campaign will have to come up with some marketing concepts that says “Donald Trump will screw your wife if you do not pay attention”。

Response to AllTooEasy (Original post)

BainsBane

(57,780 posts)
16. So you want her to emphasize Trump's violation of men's property.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 04:50 AM
Oct 2016

The problem isn't how he treats women but that he doesn't respect other men's territory, i.e. guy rules.

Hillary will never do that. She doesn't think like that, thank God.

 

Stubborn

(116 posts)
24. Where did the OP say that how he treated women wasn't a problem?
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:31 AM
Oct 2016

You people are really reaching.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
30. I agree.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:41 AM
Oct 2016

I think it's offensive to men, too, to assume the first or primary thing we're gonna hear or care about in those comments is some violation of some "bro code".

It's the assaulting he acknowledges that jumps out at me, and the fact that he believes it's something to brag about.

 

Stubborn

(116 posts)
42. It's ALL bad. It's not that it's the "first or primary thing". It's that it's one of many things.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 10:25 AM
Oct 2016

FFS.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
46. Hillary is doing just fine.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 11:23 AM
Oct 2016

She doesn't need to dissect those remarks endlessly. The people can savor their exquisite stench all by themselves.

 

Stubborn

(116 posts)
56. I agree. I don't think the OP's strategy is a good one.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 04:39 PM
Oct 2016

But, there are many reasons that everyone should be disgusted by Trump's comments and actions from that video.

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
20. This doesn't concern me at all. She'd doing fine. Also ...
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 06:13 AM
Oct 2016

... I'm voting for Clinton and straight ticket Dems, too.


Demsrule86

(71,555 posts)
21. Such concern for a candidate that now has above a 90% chance of winning.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 06:58 AM
Oct 2016

Democrats have not won the white male vote in many years.

jcgoldie

(12,046 posts)
22. This is just sexist
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:03 AM
Oct 2016

Trump talks about assaulting women and you are concerned about how it affects their husbands? "Guy rules"...

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
65. It can be frustrating when our narratives are revealed.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 02:42 PM
Oct 2016

It can be frustrating when our narratives are revealed. We must explain it otherwise by telling everyone they're simply "not getting it."

metroins

(2,550 posts)
28. I sorta agree
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:40 AM
Oct 2016

I'm not perfectly on-board with your entire post and I think Clinton herself is OK with men.

But I agree that the party largely ignores the male, predominately white male, vote. Her surrogates and the party as a whole could be reaching out a heck of a lot better.

I was speaking to my wife last night explaining how I'm not happy to be a part of the current democratic party which ignores the male vote and constantly attacks it.

I'm a huge fan of Hillary right now, but not a fan of the direction the party is headed. I see it spelling disaster in 2020 or 2024.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
61. Joe Biden is certainly a voice for the "predominantly white male vote." Always has been.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:58 PM
Oct 2016

We all love Joe, and he's totally on board with Hillary Clinton and is out there being her surrogate and ambassador, if you will, to the "predominantly white male vote."

Or have you not noticed? The Democratic Party is reaching out to everyone in the country, including you.

Mike Nelson

(10,943 posts)
32. Giving you...
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:48 AM
Oct 2016

...the benefit of the doubt. I think it's wise for Hillary to play it safe in this area. The tape touched a nerve, so keep mentioning that and move on to the issues she's been covering.

Soxfan58

(3,537 posts)
35. As a man
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 09:01 AM
Oct 2016

Who was cheated on, I know how she felt. And I know what strength It must have taken for her to pick herself up, possibly all the way to the Oval office. So go ahead Mr. Trump keep reminding us why we all should admire Hillary.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
36. I don't agree with that assessment.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 09:07 AM
Oct 2016

HRC does NOT need to address men on this issue. Men who have women in their lives they love and respect are already outraged. Most reasonable men reject the idea of "Guy Rules." My wife does not belong to me, and neither does my daughter. My sense to protect them from this animal does not come from from other guy violating my "guy space," It comes because I love them, and absolutely will defend them, as they would do for me.

democrattotheend

(12,011 posts)
39. I think there's a better argument targeted at men
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 10:10 AM
Oct 2016

Which is that most men don't talk that way and Trump makes all men look bad when he tries to pass it off as typical male behavior.

I believe that you are coming from the right place though, and don't understand why people are jumping all over you. Constructive criticism is perfectly within the rules here.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
45. When you grab the key points, Clinton surrogates "harping", "Guy Rules",
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 10:37 AM
Oct 2016

"her campaign is too clueless", but what about the menz....

Some of that jumps right out at those of us who have been battling sexism for decades.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
40. Women make up 53% of the electorate....
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 10:12 AM
Oct 2016

She's winning college educated men by huge margins.

She's got this.

GoCubsGo

(35,000 posts)
48. It would be idiotic to "screw the knife in him" with a month to go before the election.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:04 PM
Oct 2016

Much better to let him die the "death by a thousand cuts" that they are inflicting on him now. They are dragging it out so he can keep hanging himself on an hourly basis, while taking his party out along with him.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
49. Nope, she doesn't need to get into details of his need to make cucks of business partners...
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:17 PM
Oct 2016

Any men that need that to cross over? They don't deserve to be Democrats, fuck them.

They've already lost anyway and we're moving beyond them. Let a surrogate address it if they feel like it. Hillary is too smart to wrestle in his gutter. Stupid idea.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
50. You seem concerned. Please feel free to air more of your concerns and enjoy your stay. nt
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:40 PM
Oct 2016

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
51. Any man stupid enough to need a presidential candidate to explain why Trump was wrong
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 02:48 PM
Oct 2016

Is too stupid to listen to one.

And yes that includes why he was wrong based not just on the norms of decent society but on the norms of frat-boy exaggerated masculinity in-groups too.

You're basically saying that men need Hillary Clinton to tell them to imagine their nearest and dearest being Trump's victims and what they would think of that. I think 99.9% of them got the idea within 10 seconds of hearing the quote.

Squinch

(60,071 posts)
54. Maybe you should appoint yourself the campaign's Bro Code expert. Seeing as how her people are "too
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 03:57 PM
Oct 2016

clueless" to do things as well as you would on this score.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
58. HARPING? They keep HARPING? "Guy rules?" Are you kidding me?
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:46 PM
Oct 2016

Screw the knife in him???

Good grief, this reads like a horrible attempt at parody. UGH.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
59. So concerned. So very concerned. "The Guy Rules" do not apply to women. HRC is a woman.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:50 PM
Oct 2016

Didn't we already have this conversation about The Guy Rules?

just checked: yes, we did

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
60. The bro code is asinine, frat-boy espoused bullshit
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:57 PM
Oct 2016

better to suited to fat-ass louts with beer bongs and triple-Greek pins; any decent man has a lot more to be disgusted by here.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
62. Hillary is talking about issues, not some silly "The Guy Rules."
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 01:59 PM
Oct 2016

This is truly one of the silliest things I've ever heard.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
64. Contact HRC's campaign HQ immediately and alert those clueless dolts about this concern.
Mon Oct 17, 2016, 02:30 PM
Oct 2016

It'll be a game-changer, a deal-breaker, a screwing-in of the knife that will blindside Trump & Pence. They'll be screaming for mercy. Hell, they'll probably just suspend all operations in the face of such withering tactical wizardry.

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