The punter (sex buyer): Let's talk about his choices.

[redqueen]

Each day for one month, The Invisible Men Project will show the words used by the men who buy sex to describe their experiences.

Warning: Graphic content.

http://the-invisible-men.tumblr.com/

[ismnotwasm]

1. Am I surprised?

Hell no. You'll notice that the women are total purchases, pain is purchased, (pubic bone on pubic bone?) unsafe sex is purchased, (OWO) the sex is that is purchased sounds like it is--paid rape. The men don't have to care about technique or being a good lover or even a decent human being. And how many of these women are slaves? How many owe the house more than they can recoup in a night?

And as far as a desultory blow job, it might have the fifth one that day. Or tenth, or twentieth. Hard to keep enthusiasm up with that kind of repetition with what is of itself--at best--a boring act when 'performed' on multiple strangers.


These guys sound like total wankers, but again nothing that I find surprising. I wish I could even be shocked.

[Warpy]

4. "Wankers" is just what they are

but they're using another human being's body to wank into, completely dehumanizing her in the process.

They go to women who are being kept as slaves and expect the services they might reasonably expect by high priced, independent call girls.

None of this was surprising.

[ismnotwasm]

5. They aren't going to pay for independents though

This is an classic example of male sexual entitlement. In a situation where a sex worker is completely autonomous--rare enough-- she/he is usually able to control her clientele and her environment, although there is always a chance for violence for a sex worker.

These women have no such autonomy, and autonomy of thier purchases is exactly what these men DON'T want, they want control, a compliant product. Honestly I don't understand why they don't just involve themselves in creative masturbation with toys that aren't, you know actually alive.

Greek Tragedy is right these men are pigs.

[redqueen]

6. Did you notice how many said stuff like 'time for a career change'.

Because the woman wasn't as good at pretending she enjoyed her rent a rape job?

Such incredibly self-centered, pig-ignorant pieces of shit.

[ismnotwasm]

7. Oh my God yes

Then, I think-- I bet I've shared air with one of these despicable assholes at a conference or something--a nausea inducing thought.

[geek tragedy]

9. at a conference, certainly.

These assholes come from every walk of life-can't avoid them.

[Victoria E]

15. Yes

Many of them hide under a "perfect man" and "great guy" image. They are highly deceptive and masters of manipulation. It can be very hard to spot them, because they blend in as normal.

Underneath though, is extreme narcissism, zero empathy, and usually no conscience.

They are severely emotionally immature and very delusional.

Most of them actually would describe themselves as "respecting" women.

[redqueen]

10. I just hope they don't have wives or girlfriends.

There are STDs you can get despite using a condom, and as you saw some of these pigs didn't even want to use them.

[Victoria E]

14. Most of them do

I discovered my partner of 9 years was a sex addict and living a secret double life. Thank god I didn't catch anything in the decade he put my life at risk. However, I know many other wives and girlfriends who have got STD's from their sex addict husbands.

These men do NOT even care or think once about their wife's health when they do this sickening behavior. Sad and tragic truth. They truly are pigs.

[Sheldon Cooper]

2. They all sound like such great guys!

[geek tragedy]

3. men who buy sex are pigs

they're the ones who keep the sex traffickers in business.

loathsome creatures

[Sheldon Cooper]

8. Absolute pigs.

Not concerned with anything except what they can shove their dick into. Filthy disgusting pigs.

[Whisp]

11. I can't look. But I know what pigs are like.

Why why why do some men hate women so much?

[GeoWilliam750]

12. Sickening

[CrispyQ]

13. Well that was disgusting.

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I was surprised & angry at how many were upset because the woman wasn't showing enthusiasm.

Fucking assholes, every damned one.

I'm going to go puke now.



on edit: I just want to add that pigs are delightful creatures & comparing loathsome humans to pigs does pigs a huge dishonor.

[Squinch]

16. I am more shocked at the ones who believe the women who DO feign enthusiasm are enjoying the acts.

How self deluded do you have to be to think that ANYONE would enjoy the violent degradation they are inflicting?

And these are the same guys who then decide that women who won't allow this to be perpetrated upon them are just inhibited prudes.

[Arcanetrance]

17. Disgusting I actually had tears reading the few I did

It really got to me. None of these described Sex they described rape plain and simple. The women were reduced to mere objects.

[Texasgal]

18. disgusted and sad..

These men are not even human. Bleh.