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As most of you know, there is a thread in Meta discussing how our group is run.1) It doesn't matter, we don't need to care if people like the way our group is run or not.
Shit Stirring to Shit Stir trouble for this group using the Help and Meta Forum
2) May have consequences
What happened last time, will not happen again here, no matter how hard some will try
3) Just resolve yourself to that fact
To respond or not
4) Totally up to you. No one likes being pushed around. Sometimes silence makes it stop, sometimes it doesn't. Do what you want.
No personal issues are to be brought in here, it is not healthy for the group. We need to keep it our safe haven.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)innocence. we are not dumb. and we are not passive, timid or quiet. dont expect it. and dont expect to be welcome in HOP. if you dont like us, leave us alone.
that simple for me.
boston bean
(36,218 posts)if someone is trying to shit stir this group.
Personal squabbles are not in our purview. Just wanted to clarify that.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)personal. i hear ya.
boston bean
(36,218 posts)as to not have any words or thoughts or actions twisted.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)bottom line. and no apologies.
ok
i think i am done.
i need a break and then i need to come back in here and replyng to a couple really interesting posts.
iverglas
(38,549 posts)Last edited Mon May 21, 2012, 01:34 PM - Edit history (1)
because I've been working late into the night for the last week and getting up late, and today is a public holiday in Canada so I avoided the keyboard until just now. So I suppose I should go look. Yech.
But off the top of my head and just at a guess: I would say "lying to lie".
Lies and liars and lying. It's what political discourse in the US consists of: the most foul lies told by one side that the other side has to spend its time dealing with. And along with guns, it crosses my border and pollutes my country's political discourse and it makes me puke. Only in the last very few years have lies about adversaries become standard operating procedure in Canada, and without the noise coming from south of the border it would simply never have been possible here.
Google "Taliban Jack" for a quick idea of what I mean. It's the Canadian politics version of "Dworkinite".
There's no difference between this place and any other free-for-all on the internet. Harassment, intimidation, lies. And who are the targets? Duh.
A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is tying its shoelaces.
And lies can be told at Democratic Underground and get standing ovations from people wilfully stamping the truth into submission.
Dragonbreathp9d
(2,542 posts)I keep up with what is going on (albeit im somewhat confused by some of it, and annoyed by other parts).
But some of the terminology and insults (perceived or intentional [if you recall the "clutch the pearls" discussion, another instance where I had never heard of the term]) I have never heard of.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)to be especially ugly cause after all, us women place all our worth in our looks and sexuality. so that is where they attack. she isnt attractive, so they are letting us know we are ugly.... lol, put our head down in shame. and i have found she has said some odd things about sex so we are against sex again, head down in humilitation.
silly men
BlueIris
(29,135 posts)by non-feminists.
I'm feeling happy and optimistic about the future.
and many other people do too. Simply take a look at the number of posts in our forum in the last 30 days - 1620 and compare that with the old group which had 173 posts in the last 30 days. Nearly 10 to 1.
laconicsax
(14,860 posts)I may have miscounted, but I think you're understating things.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)isnt that so.
geez us fuckin goodness. isnt that the truth. i took a day break. i am back. not two weeks. a day. ok, not a whole day, but almost. it was at least dark outside